Why do American women behave like lesbians at clubs and bars

[steve55]

Tonight , I went out to a country bar/dance club here in Dallas called Red River. It was the first time in a long time that I've been out. One thing that really stood out to me was how common it was for American women to huddle together in order to avoid having men approach them. They love to rub their bodies on each other and simulate sex acts on one another.

As best I can recall, there really wasn't much of that type of thing going on back in the late 80's and 90's back when I used to go out a lot. I believe it is related to the increase in narcissism amongst young American women that social psychologist Jean Twenge talks so much about in her books. I believe it's also due to the ever growing influence of feminism in American culture.

To me, this lesbian behavior reeks of feminism's principle message of "we don't need a man, we only need each other". And also the lesbian routine boosts their ego. They like the way it communicates to men "you wish you could have us" . It's pure narcissism. Scientists say that most communication is non verbal. As I was out tonight, I couldn't help but feel this non verbal communication that so strongly communicated the fact that American women don't need men. They really reveled in celebrating their sexuality with their girl friends, not with other men.

I've been to other countries and seen their bar/club scenes and I never saw that type of behavior abroad. Abroad, one can feel that women very much need men. Overseas, women go out because unlike American women, they actually WANT to meet men. Overseas, there are no lesbian acts that communicates PRIDE and EGO by women celebrating how they don't need man. I can clearly see now why the USA has the lowest marriage rate in its history with only 51% of the population being married. Women have changed. They are happy to be by themselves. It's really sad how feminism has changed women in this country.

[Voice of Reason]

They have been socially engineered by Hollywood and the music industry. They think that performing lesbian acts on one another (and putting the photos up on Facebook) is a classy thing to do.

The best thing is to just ignore them and concentrate on building up personal wealth, so you can go overseas. I am completely indifferent to these types of women now, and I deleted dozens of my female friends on Facebook because I got sick of them posting photos of themselves acting like whores.

I believe it is related to the increase in narcissism amongst young American women that social psychologist Jean Twenge talks so much about in her books. I believe it's also due to the ever growing influence of feminism in American culture. To me, this lesbian behavior reeks of feminism's principle message of "we don't need a man, we only need each other". And also the lesbian routine boosts their ego. They like the way it communicates to men "you wish you could have us" . It's pure narcissism.

Spot on, I believe. Female narcissism is out of control in the west, and dating is just a game for them, and one they must win.

At the end of the day, what type of women would you rather meet?

This:



Or This:



Do you really think the latter is worth worrying about?

[Attorney at Large]

I think there are several reasons for this:
1) Women are a kind of social club where men are excluded or kept at a distance until needed.
2) Dancing is inherently a female desire. Men dance because they are trying to connect with a women by and large. You'll never see men huddled dancing together except at gay tryouts.
3) Women don't trust men until they have been vetted by the collective.

[Attorney at Large]

13) Women don't trust men until they have been vetted by the collective.

By the way, if you enter with 2 or more hot girls, the rest will considered you "Vetted" and they will want you too.

[S_Parc]

Ppl, at today's college, esp Seven Sisters and such, anywhere from 15% to 40% of women experiment with bi-sexuality. And thus, this behavior shouldn't be surprising anymore.

[Mr.Darcy]

Google female narcissism and it described 95% of the girls at my university. All bars are now is women slutting it out on the dance floor with their girl friends, very few guys trying to get with them, and guys just sitting on the sidelines away from all that.

[marklambo]

Girls don't go to night clubs to meet guys. They go there to dance with their girlfriends which is why you always see them so close to each other. This is why you notice that when there is a group of girls dancing and you see a guy trying to dance with one, they either all move away or tell the guy to f**k off. I've even seen guys who are considered very attractive still get turned down by the girls. When girls grind up on each other, they are creating an anti-man shield around them.

Girls also go to night clubs and use guys to buy them drinks. They will pretend to be nice to a guy in order to make him a sucker into buying them drinks. And many times, they will sucker the guy into buying drinks for the whole group. It happens all the time and then after the girls leave to go dance again, the mangina stands there like a fool wondering what just happened.

When guys go to clubs, they go there to meet girls and 98% of the time they end up failing. Guys and girls have a different perspective when it comes to going out to the clubs.

You may wonder....women dress so provocative and slutty....aren't they trying to attract guys?
The answer is no, they dress this way not to impress or attract guys. They dress this way as a competition between other girls. It's a very childish action but this is what they do. There are exceptions and some girls do go to clubs to get a guy but these are mostly the ugly, old, desperate, and fat chics. The good looking ones don't go to clubs to find a guy.

[Repatriate]

Girls don't go to night clubs to meet guys. They go there to dance with their girlfriends which is why you always see them so close to each other. This is why you notice that when there is a group of girls dancing and you see a guy trying to dance with one, they either all move away or tell the guy to f**k off. I've even seen guys who are considered very attractive still get turned down by the girls. When girls grind up on each other, they are creating an anti-man shield around them.

They are doing it to entertain each other and also attention whore simultaneously. When they can reject every man that comes up on them it gives them an ego boost. That's why these types of girls love clubbing so much it's the ego boost and ADD party atmosphere where they feel they are getting all the attention they need and "deserve."

Girls also go to night clubs and use guys to buy them drinks. They will pretend to be nice to a guy in order to make him a sucker into buying them drinks. And many times, they will sucker the guy into buying drinks for the whole group. It happens all the time and then after the girls leave to go dance again, the mangina stands there like a fool wondering what just happened.

The "how about I buy a drink" American male response is the worst and it's popularized in media as standard behavior. American women drain men not just for small shit like this but for dinners and dates too. There was that woman on match? or some online service who was a serial freeloader. She would date men just to go out on fancy restaurant dates. What a lot of American men don't realize is that they waste a tremendous amount of money on the process of trying to get laid and even more money when they're with women like this. It's simply not worth the effort or money. It's a terrible trade off.

When guys go to clubs, they go there to meet girls and 98% of the time they end up failing. Guys and girls have a different perspective when it comes to going out to the clubs.

You're absolutely correct. I haven't met any guys who really like clubs. Most guys will admit they hate the atmosphere but most go there to hit on girls or watch girls. Most guys couldn't give a flying f**k about dancing either unless they are gay, a professional dancer, or using it expressly as a means to pick up girls.

[green1976]

I have quit the discos in Western world for a long time already.
Not set a foot inside for more than 10 years in Paris.

I don't know if this rule apply in the US in general,but here if you are a group of males or even by yourself,they won't let you in.
Only females groups,female alone or male accompanied with females are accepted.

The main thing it's that they know how desesperate guys are here to f**k some p***y,and they will end up with a dick party if they let all the males in.
Beside the fact that most of the times ladies don't have to pay for entry or have one free drink.

In these condition i don't see the point to go to discos to be humuliated permanently.
I prefer to keep my money and spend this on hookers in Pattaya for sure.

That's true i've remarked and for a long time,that women who goes to disco will always say that they go for dancing but not for meeting men.
Men are horny f***ing only wanting to f**k women without respecting them..haha heard this bullsthit many times..

They will play slutty,do the lesbian stuff but they don't accept losers as they call to approach them.

I remember all this disgusting ambiance where you feel that females are totally teasing guys in the club and the guys just get frustated with it and those who have a partner,are just showing off to other suckers that they have a partner.

What a miserable sight and some wonders why some guys just start to feel the hate against women and all of that when they see there is no solution here.

It get for me some few witnessing of this and i stopped to go to discos.

Discos is quite similar to Western world dating websites where ladies are innundated by request.
They complain of pathetic losers making weird advances but they do everything for this to happen and play the victims.

All these places are ego boost so their sentiment of superiority in front of the male sex is affirmated.
By going there or trying to play to score or wathewer,you directly makes your own demise by humiliating yourself and your gender.

What's the reality is that discos are always full..always full of females showing off...always full of desesperate guys who are willing to be monkeys for p***y and always the free ladies night are running.

I agree that they are no solution for this in the Western world and similar beside the fact to go abroad and live your own life finding a way to stand out of the crowd.

Yes i agree with those guys here who understand that many American women have lost any respect for men and when you feel something is not even worth a shit,you lost the attraction to them as a result.

They are not sexually aroused by males,men are only a way to have something but their value is near zero in their mind and the society where they live tell them this.

[Jeremy]

I've never actually met a guy who managed to pick up a girl from a club. Talk about a scam.

[Teal Lantern]

Meh. Attention whores, dinner whores, whatever.
The web has plenty of articles on each subject.

They can't waste your time or cash without your consent.

[SilverEnergy]

Ppl, at today's college, esp Seven Sisters and such, anywhere from 15% to 40% of women experiment with bi-sexuality. And thus, this behavior shouldn't be surprising anymore.

True, young women are turning bisexual in droves.

It's mainly younger women who are bisexual.

Whenever you see women engaging in any kind of lesbianic behavior, they are not straight, they're at least bisexual.

Whenever you see girls making out, grinding on each other, playing with each other's breasts or regularly watching lesbian porn, they are not straight.

The media advertises lesbianism to the masses of young women.

It's only going to get worse.

http://lgbtweekly.com/2011/10/20/60-per ... her-women/

The above link is mainly talking about younger women as older women are mainly straight.

American women, along with Swedish women are the most bisexual women on the planet.

[Winston]

Or This:



Do you really think the latter is worth worrying about?

That image is the epitome of the typical shallow narcissistic American woman, especially in Las Vegas. Great find. I ought to use it in my ebook and articles as examples. It speaks volumes. As you can see, it's impossible to connect with a woman like that. She's the farthest thing from down-to-earth. But in America, it's either that or nothing, sadly. Most American guys think you have to either connect with an impossible-to-connect with woman like that, or you are out of luck. They don't know that they have overseas options that are far better. So sad.

[TruthOrConsequences]

Oh give me a break! She's just drunk and she prolly doesn't know any better.

[marklambo]

I've never actually met a guy who managed to pick up a girl from a club. Talk about a scam.

It happens all the time but usually when the girl is super drunk and ugly. Rarely it will happen if she's hot because she will have her bitch bodyguards with her. Bars are usually easier places to pick up girls than night clubs.