30-something Chunky American woman easily finds good man via

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Kai No. 1 is right; if a man were to tell the woman to finally wears skirts, there will be a disagreement and a half...especially if she's a BBW or "greater".
Back in 2007 in Chicago, a stateside-raised Puerto Rican woman and I were supposed to date but fell out over that because I wanted for the first date to have her in a dress or skirt looking
dynamite like a J.J. Evans exclamation!

My fat ex-wife and I used to fight about that all the damn time. She would refuse because she said it wouldn't look right or other women might stare at her. It never mattered what I thought. If I asked her to wear a long one, she would reply, "Oh and look like a Grandma?"

You can NEVER win with those types. They are fun to f**k for sure, but past that, they are walking around as broken women.

How does a woman expect a man to become aroused if she is wearing pants? Then it becomes elusive to them that the man is trying to crack for their a.ss because they couldn't view the a.ss. while in public doing legal public things to and fro' where they had to go....so now he wants to see the a.ss in private. The hungry, hungry hippocrisy I tell ya.

[kai1275]

Kai No. 1 is right; if a man were to tell the woman to finally wears skirts, there will be a disagreement and a half...especially if she's a BBW or "greater".
Back in 2007 in Chicago, a stateside-raised Puerto Rican woman and I were supposed to date but fell out over that because I wanted for the first date to have her in a dress or skirt looking
dynamite like a J.J. Evans exclamation!

My fat ex-wife and I used to fight about that all the damn time. She would refuse because she said it wouldn't look right or other women might stare at her. It never mattered what I thought. If I asked her to wear a long one, she would reply, "Oh and look like a Grandma?"

You can NEVER win with those types. They are fun to f**k for sure, but past that, they are walking around as broken women.

How does a woman expect a man to become aroused if she is wearing pants? Then it becomes elusive to them that the man is trying to crack for their a.ss because they couldn't view the a.ss. while in public doing legal public things to and fro' where they had to go....so now he wants to see the a.ss in private. The hungry, hungry hippocrisy I tell ya.

Female pants should be burned in a big ass fire. Who's with me!?

[The Professor]

I would like to know why this was considered worthy of getting a speaking slot at a TED conference. Most speakers at TED conferences are experts in some field and are trying to offer a new idea or are working on some project. Of course most of these projects never pan out, but at least they're experts who are trying something new. Most of them have already established a small level of reputation at least within a niche.

This woman is just some random over the hill, unattractive, picky, narcissistic woman who dated up like nearly all unattractive women everywhere do. I guess they feel they need to have a certain number of female speakers and don't really care what they use their soapbox for.

[djfourmoney]

Did you guys even watch the entire thing?

Of course shes ridiculous, she's a typical upper middle class Jewish woman, looking for something that isn't obviously Jewish but is still Jewish. Good luck with that. She used science to help her, most women like her depend on luck.

Of course she's not going to compete well with outgoing women without the help of science and computers.

Anyway, women over 30 are not gross if they have taken care of themselves. But remember we're in America and that's not likely the case with the majority, she's typical - Not in shape, never has been...

But you aren't suppose to judge what she looks like, you're suppose to listen to what she has to say because she accomplished her goal. She got what she wanted. This is what I don't understand about this forum at times, its engages in the ridiculous nonsense, the same shit women pull of being superficial and judging based on physical appearances.

The point she made is that you shouldn't compromise for anybody and to know exactly what you want.

I know exactly what I want -

Under 30, White Skin/Light Brown, In-Shape, Childless, Wants Children, Open Minded, Adventurous & Feminine.

Did I say anything about hair color, tits, ass or anything else like that?

I know what attracts my eye, no need to spell it out. I'm also a man I keep it short and too the point, even if I can be wordy and explain things in long form.

I don't even waste my time with so-so, fat, ugly, with children women.

No haggle

[The Professor]

Correction: It looks like this woman, Amy Webb, apparently does have some level of fame. Her claim to fame is writing a book ("Data, a love story") about this experience and encourages women to have even higher standards and be more picky. The book seems to have gotten positive reviews and a lot of praise. Society has given her fame and praise for exploiting her sexual power, dating someone much more attractive than herself and bragging about it.

[djfourmoney]

Correction: It looks like this woman, Amy Webb, apparently does have some level of fame. Her claim to fame is writing a book ("Data, a love story") about this experience and encourages women to have even higher standards and be more picky. The book seems to have gotten positive reviews and a lot of praise. Society has given her fame and praise for exploiting her sexual power, dating someone much more attractive than herself and bragging about it.

Again this is a personal attack, saying that she is famous for the wrong reasons. No, she is famous for making technology work for her and knowing java scrip.

Exploiting her sexual power? She did the math! Did you even watch the entire video or are you just agreeing with the peanut gallery?

She understood that she needed to change how she looked to compete. You her too much credit, the credit to understand that a normal, balding, Jewish guy is likely not to be as ridiculous as many men are chasing the 20% of the 20/80 rule.

This is the problem around here.

98% of the men on this forum believe they deserve the 20% of the hottest women in America. Based on what? Because your a man? What man are you? Half are whiny college students, the other half are pushing 50, complain loudly about American women, White women especially.

Yet -

1) Still wasting time with experiments by creating fake profiles. At least Amy didn't create fake profiles to prove some useless point to a bunch of yahoos online (peanut gallery) she used it as a data point because she was using the internet to gather information.

2) Harping on and on about the fact she's 20lbs overweight, was well aware it and wanted to make sure like MEN often times do, make sure her mate was to understand she was not going to go on some crash diet, she was comfortable which how she was.

Now what? Mmmmm yadda, yadda, yadda. "She's a fat entitled, Jewish chick" discussing. Get real already...

[The Professor]

Correction: It looks like this woman, Amy Webb, apparently does have some level of fame. Her claim to fame is writing a book ("Data, a love story") about this experience and encourages women to have even higher standards and be more picky. The book seems to have gotten positive reviews and a lot of praise. Society has given her fame and praise for exploiting her sexual power, dating someone much more attractive than herself and bragging about it.

Again this is a personal attack, saying that she is famous for the wrong reasons. No, she is famous for making technology work for her and knowing java scrip.

Exploiting her sexual power? She did the math! Did you even watch the entire video or are you just agreeing with the peanut gallery?

She understood that she needed to change how she looked to compete. You her too much credit, the credit to understand that a normal, balding, Jewish guy is likely not to be as ridiculous as many men are chasing the 20% of the 20/80 rule.

This is the problem around here.

98% of the men on this forum believe they deserve the 20% of the hottest women in America. Based on what? Because your a man? What man are you? Half are whiny college students, the other half are pushing 50, complain loudly about American women, White women especially.

Yet -

1) Still wasting time with experiments by creating fake profiles. At least Amy didn't create fake profiles to prove some useless point to a bunch of yahoos online (peanut gallery) she used it as a data point because she was using the internet to gather information.

2) Harping on and on about the fact she's 20lbs overweight, was well aware it and wanted to make sure like MEN often times do, make sure her mate was to understand she was not going to go on some crash diet, she was comfortable which how she was.

Now what? Mmmmm yadda, yadda, yadda. "She's a fat entitled, Jewish chick" discussing. Get real already...

Ok so she used math in order to optimize her sexual power. You really think this deserves fame, praise, a book deal with good reviews and a speaking slot at a TED conference where she goes on about her standards and itemizes them? I suppose you're entitled to your opinion...

Just where did you get the idea that most of the guys on here go for the top 20% though? The truth is the exact opposite. Most guys have low standards, and that includes guys on this forum. Most men are happy just any woman, within reason. Look at all the men on here that have dated fat women and guys on here that can't even get unattractive women. I can't get unattractive women and I have tried to get women much less attractive than Ms Webb.

From what I have seen most guys don't seem to bother going for the top 20% of women. Even some very handsome and financially well off young guys have told me they don't bother going for 9s and 10s because they either admit they can't get them or they say they're not worth the trouble. So many guys are willing to date down that it creates a lot of competition for every single woman on the market.

[PeterAndrewNolan]

Whats wrong with me I can't understand how this keeps happening?

She has obviously never asked a man this question...and this is worth a TED talk? Really?

[PeterAndrewNolan]

LOL! So funny...steve the IT guy stood her up for the bill! LOL!!

I feel so sorry for her husband.

[PeterAndrewNolan]

Correction: It looks like this woman, Amy Webb, apparently does have some level of fame. Her claim to fame is writing a book ("Data, a love story") about this experience and encourages women to have even higher standards and be more picky. The book seems to have gotten positive reviews and a lot of praise. Society has given her fame and praise for exploiting her sexual power, dating someone much more attractive than herself and bragging about it.

The funny thing is that when I was looking for wife 2.0 I wrote out 4 pages of checkpoints that she had to meet and I would see how the next woman would go against those checkpoints. If course, in those days I was also christian so I asked God if he would point out the next woman I was supposed to be with. Inside 3 days He put the wheels in motion as it was later reported to me. About 2 weeks later an email pops into my mail box from a woman who says my profile matches where she is looking for.

So we talk a bit on the phone.....I was in Germany and she was in melbourne. She wanted to move to Europe so obviously I was part of her plan to get someone to pay for her to move to europe.

After a few weeks we decided to swap lists....she too had a 3 or 4 page list......when we swapped lists it was spooky.....they were almost exactly complementary. We were both a little put off by this in fact.

Anyway...the point I wanted to make was that pretty much EVERY western woman I have told I made a 4 page list for wife 2.0 has criticised me...the shaming language like "you are not buying a car", "you should be more spontaneous", "you can't find love in lists" etc.

So when a MAN does something similar to what this woman did? He is hated on. When a woman does it? She writes a book, gets a modicum of fame, gets to do a TED talk about "how to find a date" where as men who write books on how humanity can free themselves does not.

Anyone see what is wrong with this picture?! LOL!!

By the way? Prospective wife 2.0 went very well for about 5 months in 2007/08. And as soon as I said the "C" word....meaning "C-ommitment" she turned in a feminist who acted like she owned me. No joke. She even used some of the exact same phrases my ex used to use.

This was Gods little joke....He wanted me to realise that even if a woman ticked the boxes on a 4 page check list....if she was born and raised in the west? She would be a feminist and there was no "saving" her from that fate.

It was in the time I was thinking about what to do with her that I met fav#1 for the second time......we talked about this woman because I wanted to date from my own cultural background and not an EEW.

I am so glad she talked me in to dating her. I really am. If I had remained closed minded about not dating women a long way from my cultural background I would never have found out just how wonderful eastern european women are.....it pays to have an open mind...it really does.

[djfourmoney]

Correction: It looks like this woman, Amy Webb, apparently does have some level of fame. Her claim to fame is writing a book ("Data, a love story") about this experience and encourages women to have even higher standards and be more picky. The book seems to have gotten positive reviews and a lot of praise. Society has given her fame and praise for exploiting her sexual power, dating someone much more attractive than herself and bragging about it.

Again this is a personal attack, saying that she is famous for the wrong reasons. No, she is famous for making technology work for her and knowing java scrip.

Exploiting her sexual power? She did the math! Did you even watch the entire video or are you just agreeing with the peanut gallery?

She understood that she needed to change how she looked to compete. You her too much credit, the credit to understand that a normal, balding, Jewish guy is likely not to be as ridiculous as many men are chasing the 20% of the 20/80 rule.

This is the problem around here.

98% of the men on this forum believe they deserve the 20% of the hottest women in America. Based on what? Because your a man? What man are you? Half are whiny college students, the other half are pushing 50, complain loudly about American women, White women especially.

Yet -

1) Still wasting time with experiments by creating fake profiles. At least Amy didn't create fake profiles to prove some useless point to a bunch of yahoos online (peanut gallery) she used it as a data point because she was using the internet to gather information.

2) Harping on and on about the fact she's 20lbs overweight, was well aware it and wanted to make sure like MEN often times do, make sure her mate was to understand she was not going to go on some crash diet, she was comfortable which how she was.

Now what? Mmmmm yadda, yadda, yadda. "She's a fat entitled, Jewish chick" discussing. Get real already...

Ok so she used math in order to optimize her sexual power. You really think this deserves fame, praise, a book deal with good reviews and a speaking slot at a TED conference where she goes on about her standards and itemizes them? I suppose you're entitled to your opinion...

Just where did you get the idea that most of the guys on here go for the top 20% though? The truth is the exact opposite. Most guys have low standards, and that includes guys on this forum. Most men are happy just any woman, within reason. Look at all the men on here that have dated fat women and guys on here that can't even get unattractive women. I can't get unattractive women and I have tried to get women much less attractive than Ms Webb.

From what I have seen most guys don't seem to bother going for the top 20% of women. Even some very handsome and financially well off young guys have told me they don't bother going for 9s and 10s because they either admit they can't get them or they say they're not worth the trouble. So many guys are willing to date down that it creates a lot of competition for every single woman on the market.

You keep saying Sexual Power; are you serious? A 20-30 lbs overweight Jewish women, the most entitled of entitled White women used some data points and some intelligence to get what she wanted. The truth is and you just said it, thirsty men will date almost ANYBODY.

So what power did she use other than intelligence? She's a woman, men want to f**k, seems pretty obvious to me. She did what Lori Gottlieb who is also Jewish said most women in America do. There some quirky list of requirements men have to meet in order to even get a second date and clearly with most of the men she dated didn't get one, until she met her future husband.

A man could use science to optimize his power. Its not always about money. Too many men, especially White men use money as a crutch for the lack of social skills. I know plenty of White guys, some dorky and corny and others smooth as glass and they married attractive women.

In fact quite a few of my high school friends are married, I'm the one that isn't... I never wondered why, I knew why. It took a while for me to figure it out but its all about economics.

If Amy Webb had to find a man that would accept her slightly overweight status, then I need to find a woman who accepts that it might be a year or two before I earn serious cheese? No woman in America will accept that. Wait, some will, but they are either loaded down with children or fat; sometimes both.

Again I don't have a problem with her writing a book about her experiences and being asked to speak a TED. She wouldn't have needed to go through any of this if she took her dating life seriously during her final year of college and lost that 20-30 lbs.

[djfourmoney]

Correction: It looks like this woman, Amy Webb, apparently does have some level of fame. Her claim to fame is writing a book ("Data, a love story") about this experience and encourages women to have even higher standards and be more picky. The book seems to have gotten positive reviews and a lot of praise. Society has given her fame and praise for exploiting her sexual power, dating someone much more attractive than herself and bragging about it.

The funny thing is that when I was looking for wife 2.0 I wrote out 4 pages of checkpoints that she had to meet and I would see how the next woman would go against those checkpoints. If course, in those days I was also christian so I asked God if he would point out the next woman I was supposed to be with. Inside 3 days He put the wheels in motion as it was later reported to me. About 2 weeks later an email pops into my mail box from a woman who says my profile matches where she is looking for.

So we talk a bit on the phone.....I was in Germany and she was in melbourne. She wanted to move to Europe so obviously I was part of her plan to get someone to pay for her to move to europe.

After a few weeks we decided to swap lists....she too had a 3 or 4 page list......when we swapped lists it was spooky.....they were almost exactly complementary. We were both a little put off by this in fact.

Anyway...the point I wanted to make was that pretty much EVERY western woman I have told I made a 4 page list for wife 2.0 has criticised me...the shaming language like "you are not buying a car", "you should be more spontaneous", "you can't find love in lists" etc.

So when a MAN does something similar to what this woman did? He is hated on. When a woman does it? She writes a book, gets a modicum of fame, gets to do a TED talk about "how to find a date" where as men who write books on how humanity can free themselves does not.

Anyone see what is wrong with this picture?! LOL!!

By the way? Prospective wife 2.0 went very well for about 5 months in 2007/08. And as soon as I said the "C" word....meaning "C-ommitment" she turned in a feminist who acted like she owned me. No joke. She even used some of the exact same phrases my ex used to use.

This was Gods little joke....He wanted me to realise that even if a woman ticked the boxes on a 4 page check list....if she was born and raised in the west? She would be a feminist and there was no "saving" her from that fate.

It was in the time I was thinking about what to do with her that I met fav#1 for the second time......we talked about this woman because I wanted to date from my own cultural background and not an EEW.

I am so glad she talked me in to dating her. I really am. If I had remained closed minded about not dating women a long way from my cultural background I would never have found out just how wonderful eastern european women are.....it pays to have an open mind...it really does.

It just proves Western society is not supportive of men.

There are plenty of non-feminist women in the world, you just have to find one. You avoiding Eastern Europe for some reason Peter????

[Robert77]

She's chunky (would be fat anywhere else but in the good ole USA)

you're right, in other countries she'd be told that she needs to go easy on those scones!!!

plus WTF a whole list of requirements a man should have in order for her to be with him??? that bitch is so ugly in a place like Colombia or Hungary she'd be lucky if a man gives her the time of the day

GOD AMERICA IS MESSED UP!!!

[Rock]

Steve the IT guy got it right. Dine to the tune of $1,000+ and then dash, lol!