Why it is hypocritical for PUA sites to ban racial topics

Mr.Darcy · Post by **Mr.Darcy** » December 13th, 2013, 1:27 pm

Well this goes for racism in general. Whites are the ones responsible for the racism in the world. If you are sick of minorities ******** about it than stop implementing it. White guys like to tell their daughters that they will disown them for bringing home a black guy. White guys like to stigmatize women that have dated a black guy. Yet, they get pissed when we bitch about it.

tre · Post by **tre** » December 13th, 2013, 1:43 pm

My sister married a Mexican and I am dating a Filipina. Both of my brothers and I have dated black girls. My parents are fine with it and mostly because we made them see that race didn't matter. What two people feel for each other is what matters...regardless of their skin color.

The question is: Would your parents be OK with their daughter dated a white man? Would you hold it against a black girl if she dated white men? Racism exists today because ALL races keep it in existence. No one wants to let it go and government and it's media are very effective in keeping it at the forefront of everyone's mind...

Mr.Darcy · Post by **Mr.Darcy** » December 13th, 2013, 1:45 pm

No, as long as the guy is not trash tier than I'm fine with any guy she marries.

tre · Post by **tre** » December 13th, 2013, 1:53 pm

Mr.Darcy wrote:No, as long as the guy is not trash tier than I'm fine with any guy she marries.

I feel exactly the same way...skin color is no issue for me. Racism bugs the hell out of me and I want it to stop. However, unrealistic views, brainwashing and government intervention keep f***ing it up IMO. If men would make an effort to see men as men PERIOD, that would cause some change for the better IMO.

Hackenfall Backslash · December 13th, 2013, 10:02 pm

I'd hate to be the bearer of logical news, but sometimes, SOMETIMES, racists have understandable reasons for being so. With blacks, a lot of them are . . . a certain way. I don't want to see "we're not all like that!", because there simply isn't enough "good ones" to negate the stereotype.

Blacks get their own grants, their own month, their own channel, and yet they carry on. I agree with the general consensus that no one should have time for racism, but on the other hand, each race has issues it needs to correct. Stop blaming white men for this and that and start changing yourselves. If blacks start to change and THEN receive backlash, you can complain.

Mr.Darcy · Post by **Mr.Darcy** » December 14th, 2013, 12:08 am

Hackenfall Backslash wrote:I'd hate to be the bearer of logical news, but sometimes, SOMETIMES, racists have understandable reasons for being so. With blacks, a lot of them are . . . a certain way. I don't want to see "we're not all like that!", because there simply isn't enough "good ones" to negate the stereotype.

Blacks get their own grants, their own month, their own channel, and yet they carry on. I agree with the general consensus that no one should have time for racism, but on the other hand, each race has issues it needs to correct. Stop blaming white men for this and that and start changing yourselves. If blacks start to change and THEN receive backlash, you can complain.

I'm a hateful person in general and people think I'm the most racist person they know, but I blame the person not the population. Yes, I do generalize a lot, but I'm not going to put a whole group of people down.

mguy · Post by **mguy** » December 16th, 2013, 6:21 am

This is the premise behind my site

raceanddating.com

I got banned on some PUA forums for speaking about race. I meant well but it seems America is not ready for these types of talk. I wasn't even trolling. And some forums just capture the niche but it is still out of place. It is an ugly truth that needed to be out there and deserves its own space. It affects many men and the only way to talk about it is in forums which is why I made the forum section.

Race and dating is still a taboo topic US topic. I however find it interesting and empowering. Actually Mr. Darcy one of your post when you first entered this forum contributed to me making it. Check the site out!