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Why Do Women Excommunicate You Due to Sexual Dialogue?
Why Do Women Excommunicate You Due to Sexual Dialogue?
I've been holding back long enough. I must know. We all know women want to get dickeddown bad, so why do they always put up this facade that they cannot tolerate any sexual comments about them. Even if a guy and girl like each other, the guy can just say something like, "You have a beautiful body, I want to have sex with you." The majority of the time the girl will act really weirded out or offended and excommunicate the guy, because of the comment.
I feel that is just such stupid behavior. Every woman draws this little imaginary line for the sort of comments about herself that she will tolerate. For most women it is OK to call her, "beautiful, attractive, cute" but not "sexy." Who are these women kidding??!? Obviously the guy wants to dick her down in all cases. Can't she see through the Romeo facade and realize that another cock is just trying to penetrate her? Why does she require the "proper compliments?" Women say they want the truth, but they can't handle the truth. Otherwise men would just tell her, "Wow nice honkers and great ass! I'd love to grab it all night while I bang your brains out!"
I feel that is just such stupid behavior. Every woman draws this little imaginary line for the sort of comments about herself that she will tolerate. For most women it is OK to call her, "beautiful, attractive, cute" but not "sexy." Who are these women kidding??!? Obviously the guy wants to dick her down in all cases. Can't she see through the Romeo facade and realize that another cock is just trying to penetrate her? Why does she require the "proper compliments?" Women say they want the truth, but they can't handle the truth. Otherwise men would just tell her, "Wow nice honkers and great ass! I'd love to grab it all night while I bang your brains out!"
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It is generally a good idea to TACTFULLY indicate your sexual interest soon after meeting a woman to prevent being friendzoned.
Some women hate this because they lose their ability to manipulate anything of value (dinners, favors, gifts, etc) out of you when you come right out and they have to decide right away. While many simply capitulate, others will try to shame you but hold your ground.
If they don't lighten up on it, toss them aside.
Some women hate this because they lose their ability to manipulate anything of value (dinners, favors, gifts, etc) out of you when you come right out and they have to decide right away. While many simply capitulate, others will try to shame you but hold your ground.
If they don't lighten up on it, toss them aside.
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Specifically, are we talking about courting women in Western countries or primarily just the Anglosphere? I never had this problem in Brazil as far as it has come. In Brazil, as long as she didn't have a man at that moment, she was open for the killing.Contrarian Expatriate wrote:It is generally a good idea to TACTFULLY indicate your sexual interest soon after meeting a woman to prevent being friendzoned.
Some women hate this because they lose their ability to manipulate anything of value (dinners, favors, gifts, etc) out of you when you come right out and they have to decide right away. While many simply capitulate, others will try to shame you but hold your ground.
If they don't lighten up on it, toss them aside.
The Philippines....no such thing as friendzone - so - just court her whenever I want to.
Colombia *ditto marks*
Chile *ditto marks*
Ecuador - it kind of happened (the friendzoning that is)
Thailand No such thing as friendzone.......
Quite clearly...lolRenata wrote:Decent women like Romance you fool lol but if you think it's better to dickdown girls go ahead, you'll get what you attract.
You mean women are not just men with boobs? The very few men who actually know how to
talk with women...well shall we say...they seem to have magical powers. Women may seem to
melt in their hands because they know...that this man's hands are a very good place to be.
When a woman feels very very comfortable with a man and very very safe...in an all encompassing way...everything changes.
Very few men know this...and that is what keeps whores and mongers in business...
The world was supposed to be a better place...
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Re: Why Do Women Excommunicate You Due to Sexual Dialogue
Right now I'm reading some books on this very subject. First off, men and women communicate very differently. Men communicate very direct with each other, where as women have a indirect communication style.rudder wrote:I've been holding back long enough. I must know. We all know women want to get dickeddown bad, so why do they always put up this facade that they cannot tolerate any sexual comments about them. Even if a guy and girl like each other, the guy can just say something like, "You have a beautiful body, I want to have sex with you." The majority of the time the girl will act really weirded out or offended and excommunicate the guy, because of the comment.
I feel that is just such stupid behavior. Every woman draws this little imaginary line for the sort of comments about herself that she will tolerate. For most women it is OK to call her, "beautiful, attractive, cute" but not "sexy." Who are these women kidding??!? Obviously the guy wants to dick her down in all cases. Can't she see through the Romeo facade and realize that another cock is just trying to penetrate her? Why does she require the "proper compliments?" Women say they want the truth, but they can't handle the truth. Otherwise men would just tell her, "Wow nice honkers and great a**! I'd love to grab it all night while I bang your brains out!"
So for example, a man wants to say to a good looking woman, "Good God look at that a**, God you're sexy!". But the better way to communicate that to a woman is to say, "So, I bet you make all the heads turn." This is why men and women have communication issues because women always imply what they want, but have a hard time just telling men what they want because women communicate indirectly and they're hoping men will pick up on what they're trying to say.
A mans frustration of having to hold back what he really wants to say is comparable to a woman making the difficult effort to say what she really wants to say to her man.
And why do women communicate indirectly? Because in the past women were powerless to be vocal about what they wanted or needed so they developed the skill to manipulate a man emotionally, and/or communicate indirectly to get what they want.
Secondly, many women find it offensive when men make comments about their bodies, especially from strangers. Women want men to get to know them for who they are as a person.
Re: Why Do Women Excommunicate You Due to Sexual Dialogue
Best answer out of the bunch. I've noticed this with women both foreign and domestic. Your last two sentences are probably the most accurate.NorthAmericanguy wrote:Right now I'm reading some books on this very subject. First off, men and women communicate very differently. Men communicate very direct with each other, where as women have a indirect communication style.rudder wrote:I've been holding back long enough. I must know. We all know women want to get dickeddown bad, so why do they always put up this facade that they cannot tolerate any sexual comments about them. Even if a guy and girl like each other, the guy can just say something like, "You have a beautiful body, I want to have sex with you." The majority of the time the girl will act really weirded out or offended and excommunicate the guy, because of the comment.
I feel that is just such stupid behavior. Every woman draws this little imaginary line for the sort of comments about herself that she will tolerate. For most women it is OK to call her, "beautiful, attractive, cute" but not "sexy." Who are these women kidding??!? Obviously the guy wants to dick her down in all cases. Can't she see through the Romeo facade and realize that another cock is just trying to penetrate her? Why does she require the "proper compliments?" Women say they want the truth, but they can't handle the truth. Otherwise men would just tell her, "Wow nice honkers and great a**! I'd love to grab it all night while I bang your brains out!"
So for example, a man wants to say to a good looking woman, "Good God look at that a**, God you're sexy!". But the better way to communicate that to a woman is to say, "So, I bet you make all the heads turn." This is why men and women have communication issues because women always imply what they want, but have a hard time just telling men what they want because women communicate indirectly and they're hoping men will pick up on what they're trying to say.
A mans frustration of having to hold back what he really wants to say is comparable to a woman making the difficult effort to say what she really wants to say to her man.
And why do women communicate indirectly? Because in the past women were powerless to be vocal about what they wanted or needed so they developed the skill to manipulate a man emotionally, and/or communicate indirectly to get what they want.
Secondly, many women find it offensive when men make comments about their bodies, especially from strangers. Women want men to get to know them for who they are as a person.
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I've said those things and had them work and they've also not worked.
What never works for me is talking about work and school so I don't do that. Endlessly jawboning with a woman over mundane topics is a dead end.
A female friend was complaining that she couldn't sleep and I said "have you tried excessive masturbation"- she laughed a very full genuine laugh. Of course I'm pretty sure she wants sex with me but that's the point here. When she thinks about me she thinks about sex, that's what I want.
I've seen guys grap women's asses and get offended and slap the guy and 10 minutes later they are making out. Why? He didn't give up and slink off. The typical guy will go "oh better not do that again" when it could have worked out for him.
I had a woman in a bar with a boyfriend approach me because I gave her dirty looks and stuck my tongue out at her. She left just as fast when I tried to talk to her politely.
Most of the time the being offended it's a show to save face that you knowingly smile and continue nonchalantly, either that or she doesn't want sex with you. It's a shit test to weed out the betas.
I would say if you are not speaking sexually to a woman you are wasting your time.
What never works for me is talking about work and school so I don't do that. Endlessly jawboning with a woman over mundane topics is a dead end.
A female friend was complaining that she couldn't sleep and I said "have you tried excessive masturbation"- she laughed a very full genuine laugh. Of course I'm pretty sure she wants sex with me but that's the point here. When she thinks about me she thinks about sex, that's what I want.
I've seen guys grap women's asses and get offended and slap the guy and 10 minutes later they are making out. Why? He didn't give up and slink off. The typical guy will go "oh better not do that again" when it could have worked out for him.
I had a woman in a bar with a boyfriend approach me because I gave her dirty looks and stuck my tongue out at her. She left just as fast when I tried to talk to her politely.
Most of the time the being offended it's a show to save face that you knowingly smile and continue nonchalantly, either that or she doesn't want sex with you. It's a shit test to weed out the betas.
I would say if you are not speaking sexually to a woman you are wasting your time.
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