Are american women harsher when it comes to rejection?

[QuestionMark]

Depending on the female, american women are harsh when it comes to rejection. How they say no is one thing, but some of them go so far as to ridicule you, gossip about it with friends, and ruin your reputation and make you look bad just for talking to them. Rejection is hard enough as is. That's understandable if someone doesn't like you, for both men and women there's going to be people that are attracted to you that you're not attracted to, and vice versa. But being harsh to the person about it is unnecessary.

Are women like this in other countries, everywhere (outside of the english speaking world), or is this mostly an american thing?

[Contrarian Expatriate]

This is a feminism thing, so it effects American women the most.

American women are conditioned to believe that a man's sexual attraction to a woman is creepy or perverted. In less devolved countries/cultures, men being attracted to women is celebrated and encouraged.

America is culturally and socially sick beyond recovery. Get out while you can.

[Hero]

American women can't reject a guy with kindness and appreciation. Quite a few of them actually enjoy dumping guys. It's good for their egos.

[jamesbond]

This is a feminism thing, so it effects American women the most.

American women are conditioned to believe that a man's sexual attraction to a woman is creepy or perverted. In less devolved countries/cultures, men being attracted to women is celebrated and encouraged.

America is culturally and socially sick beyond recovery. Get out while you can.

Your absolutely correct, women in America are conditioned to believe that a man's sexual attraction to her means the guy is a creep or a pervert (unless the guy is good looking or rich, then his attraction to her is ok).

In most countries of the world, women actually ENJOY men approaching them and showing interest in them. It's just that in feminized countries (like the US, UK and Canada), women are taught from an early age that men's sexuality is perverted and evil and any man who shows interest in them (unless he is rich or handsome) is a creep and a pervert!

America is culturally f***ed up, the best medicine is to get the hell out as soon as humanly possible.

[Novem]

I am probably an outlier as most of the women that turned me down weren't god-tier bitches about it. Then again, I tend to go after the types of girls who don't display colossal amounts of narcissism. However, a lot of other people I know have had terrible experiences with this sort of thing so I believe it comes down to the personality of the girl and what kind of family she comes from. No doubt that in some of the larger metro areas females probably get off on shutting guys down and telling their friends about it after the fact.

[Bao3niang]

From my experience, yes. American women / Americanized women often won't even give you a chance to be rejected by ignoring you or just saying a bunch of shit. On the other hand, my experiences of being rejected by native Chinese females shows that they are a lot more nicer and compassionate when they see how you feel about being rejected. They will first affirm how good of a guy you are, then clearly state the reason for their decision. Of course it is hard to avoid feelings of being mistreated and possibly even anger, but eventually you will feel better by realizing that these situations could be a lot worse when its femi-Nazis doing the rejecting.

[ringspun]

Same in UK, most of the women if they don't like you they would really scorn you or snub you.

[matthewcoury]

haha i love this song....my friend Sandro from bosnia sent it to me.....they talk about how america is disconnected from the rest of the world and they want to shoot like a rocket back to bosnia...."there is no place like the motherland!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0a5BJxrarL0

[lozoman]

While Ive never been outside of the US, I'd imagine that American women are the harshest in terms of rejection. This is why I stopped approaching them not too long ago. I can no longer stand the hurt and humiliation.

[Ghost]

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[suprmon]

Yeah, but when the shoe's on the other foot, then here comes everybody to her rescue talking about how she's needs to be acknowledged because after all she is human isn't she? Like guys should be ignored and are not human? Talk about double standards!

[Taco]

In less devolved countries/cultures, men being attracted to women is celebrated and encouraged.

Very true. All you have to do is tell someone in the Philippines your looking for a girlfriend and they'll have all the girls they know stand in a line for you.

The only time I saw my American girlfriend's father smile is when I told him I was going home.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

America is so sick that when I used to go over to girls home's when in early 20s, the father of the house always made sure the door was flung wide-open. ...especially in Black American homes which a stepdad or daddy were present. :-/

Furthermore and inversely, I heard that some White American guy had gone to Peru and ended up having a threesome with a mom and her daughter in the Andes somewhere there.