MrBlueLight's love diary in Manila

[newlifeinphilippines]

The beauty queen actually has an interesting personality, ignoring the fact that she's full of drama. For me personality, I would not want to be with any of these girls long-term because I would prefer my long-term gf to have a wealthy background in supporting my business ventures, this is a quality that no Filipinas possess

I wouldn't want a woman with money in the relationship. I love to be the power player in the relationship. Money and educatio is of no requirement for me. Although a girl who may have a job or at least be eager to please me by working hard for me is an attribute I do want.

[MrBlueLight]

I am a youngish broke guy, so dating a woman who is willing to financially invest in me is a big plus for me.

My game is really slipping, got 2 girls into my place for heavy make out, but couldn't close the deal, one of them might be the third 8 I've met here. Well, a solid 7 who would become an 8 with some make up.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I am a youngish broke guy, so dating a woman who is willing to financially invest in me is a big plus for me.

My game is really slipping, got 2 girls into my place for heavy make out, but couldn't close the deal, one of them might be the third 8 I've met here. Well, a solid 7 who would become an 8 with some make up.

what was their excuse for leaving?

Are you planing to leave phil? Isn't this lifestyle getting unfulfilling? Im staying MGTOW for now in america cause i dont have the money to travel anymore really now that i quit my work. I dont want a wife right now anyways cause what i want is too difficult to find. If you're having trouble finding many women to stick around Id imagine id have even more trouble cause i have specific requirements that are higher than yours (not just based on looks alone). Especially in a country like philippines where most girls are ugly finding a girl that is a great lover and good looking AND the same religion and is passionate is like 1 out 500 LOL Id have better odds in korea or something but those girls have high standards.

[MrBlueLight]

I am on the halfway mark of my trip here. The girls usually give me specific time where they have to be at such and such, and I couldn't get them to stay pass it. I don't find this lifestyle unfulfilling because I am a horndog, lol. I am only worried about the financial aspect of it.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I am on the halfway mark of my trip here. The girls usually give me specific time where they have to be at such and such, and I couldn't get them to stay pass it. I don't find this lifestyle unfulfilling because I am a horndog, lol. I am only worried about the financial aspect of it.

I thought you were moving there permanently cause of cost and ease of women. Where you going back to america?

Im a horndog too but its unfulfilling in the sense there is no purpose. Morally id like to have a wife but i doubt ill find one young and hot enough for me and who has the right personality.

[MrBlueLight]

As much as I want to, I can't be here permanently. The online work isn't making the ends meet. I need to go back and work a real job, save up some money, and come back out again.

[newlifeinphilippines]

As much as I want to, I can't be here permanently. The online work isn't making the ends meet. I need to go back and work a real job, save up some money, and come back out again.

I was wondering how you had the time to do online work and pay for all your expenses seems like you were spending all your time chasing women without a viable online business which was poor planning on your part.

[MrBlueLight]

No, I had an online job and savings which would support me for the duration of my stay but not beyond that.

My mini dry spell just ended with a Big Bang. Today is the second time during my stay that I banged 3 chicks in one day, with 2 of them being new. Morning bang, afternoon bang, and night bang. All different chicks.
The morning bang being with a regular who stayed overnight. The afternoon bang is second date with the solid 7 (8 with make up) girl mentioned in the post above. The night bang being by far the easiest lay I had yet. The girl crossed two cities to come to mine, and she basically gamed me instead of me gaming her, like she kissed me before I even made any moves. Pretty sure she's a major slut though as her p***y feels like the Grand Canyon. I was positive that she's scammer and was about to ask me major dough for taxi money, so I purposely left my wallet in my room as I escorted her out, but she never brought it up. I am still expecting her to pull the "can you help me with my medical bill" shenanigan in the future though.

[newlifeinphilippines]

what percent of these girls are asking you for taxi money? All of them? I wonder what would happen if you didn't pay for anything for these girls.

[MrBlueLight]

Only two of them ever asked for taxi money. The rest I just paid for the food like how a gentleman would. Today one of the girls who borrowed money from me just paid me back. There were a few who texted me about needing to borrow medical bills after we have met, those get the silent treatment.

For the most part, the only money I am spending is 300 Pesos dinner for two people or 100 Pesos dessert.

Today, the supposed slut from last night texted me that she spent her day in church. Still expect this one to eventually ask for "medical bill" given past experience with super easy lays. I hope I am wrong though.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Only two of them ever asked for taxi money. The rest I just paid for the food like how a gentleman would. Today one of the girls who borrowed money from me just paid me back. There were a few who texted me about needing to borrow medical bills after we have met, those get the silent treatment.

For the most part, the only money I am spending is 300 Pesos dinner for two people or 100 Pesos dessert.

Today, the supposed slut from last night texted me that she spent her day in church. Still expect this one to eventually ask for "medical bill" given past experience with super easy lays. I hope I am wrong though.

so after sex they just split without asking you for money? If thats true then that is just more evidence that most of these girls dont really give a crap about us foreigners or they wouldn't be doing that to us. I know they dont do it to pinoy. Thats why i dont really feel sorry anymore for any of them. If they really cared they would be more modest.


That church stuff is a big con game. Even my bargirl tried to play the role for me in tat regard to get brownie points. Never understimate how far these girls will go to play the act IN THE BED or out of the bed. Im not gonna search for a wife until im like 20 years older than said woman. So if she is a scammer and i later found out after we married or something at least she will be a hot one and I wont care. Nothing worse than marrying a woman who is a scammer and she isn't even hot or much younger than you at least to make up for the risk. And with some of these girls you wont know till after the marriage even if your cautious. I wouldn't want to marry at 35 to a 25 year old cause in 5 years she will already be washed up. Id rather marry a 20 year old at 40.

[MrBlueLight]

Or it could be that most of the girls I've dated are college educated and have real jobs. After sex, I usually just cuddle with them, then they either spend the night or if they have to leave, I would escort them to the gate of my place, give them a kiss and tell them "see you soon". When they get home they would text me that they just got home. I would flirt with them through a few texts before telling them I am going to bed. That's generally how most of the interactions go.

In the two instances where I gave taxi money. One is with a girl who said that she is too short on money to come see, so I agree to pay for her return cabfare ahead of time. The other time is a first meeting with a girl who brought her aunt. I let the aunt pay for the meal because I abide by the rule that the most senior person should pay for the date (lol). They later told me that they spent all their money on that meal, so I gave them the money to take the bus but not taxi, cuz I am a cheap-ass like that.

Most girls don't ride taxi tho. They just ride buses, jeepny, or FX to go home. Which are all quite cheap.

I don't bang hoes. When you are banging hoes, you are expected to pay up. A normal girl would never mention needing money after sex. Unless you are actively offering her cab money, which you should never do.

Here's my exact routine. I follow this for every single one of my date.
1. Meet her at a mall within walking distance from my place.
2. Upon meeting her, immediately suggest we go to another mall (that is closer to my place) for food.
3. After finish eating, I tell her that we should go to a quieter place, and that there is a nice garden nearby that we can chat better.
4. Take her to the garden of my place, spend about 20 minutes there chitchatting before telling her I am thirst that we should go inside and I can show her some pictures.
5. Go to my place. Show her pictures by using my arm to pull her into me to gauge her reaction.
6. After I finish showing my pics, I pull her really close to almost cuddle mode, gauge her reaction, if positive...
7. Go for the kiss, gauge her reaction, if positive...
8. Heavy make-out and fondling mode, gauge her reaction, if positive...
9. Carry her into my room
10. Sex
11. Cuddle mode and damage control through sweet talk

Usually when I am not successful, it would be because she insists on leaving between step 5 and 8.

When I follow this routine, no girl ever asks for money.

[newlifeinphilippines]

well milf girl wanted cab money to show up. and after that each time. I got tired of that but i figured id enjoy the sex for a few days she was so pretty but i hated her personality. she had never been with a foreigner before and i wouldn't classify her as a hoe but tehn again i guess she was especially when she thought of going to korea to sell her body she told me in an email.

I thought you slept with any dating slut off the dating site. Most of those girls are not educated or even have a job or if they are college educated they dont have a quality job. Ive never met a girl off the dating site who had a job and was educated except my gf's sister who was sort of hot but she is 30 and from what my gf told me she is very picky and and bitchy.

[MrBlueLight]

Just from the top of my head, some of the jobs the girls had were office worker, teacher, call center agent, waitress, nurse, mall lady, model, manager. Others were current college students who get allowance from their parents. There were a few who owned their own business. Another few who had their own cars and own condo units. One girl I even had to go through her secretary to schedule a date with her, lol.

Perhaps those online girls who are willing to date an Asian guy are different from ones looking for white guys. My appearnce could be passed for some local Filipino Chinese, which is associated with the upper class here, so there might be a bit of self-selection going on. I don't know where you've been looking, but almost all the girls I met are college educated and have jobs. There are quite a bit of middle class girls on dating sites, you just need to know where to look. For example, Okcupid are full of middle and even upper class girls, and they are picky as hell. Every single one of the girls I met off there was affluent.

Or it could be that I date almost exclusively lighter skinned Pinays, which are associated with upper/middle class.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Just from the top of my head, some of the jobs the girls had were office worker, teacher, call center agent, waitress, nurse, mall lady, model, manager. Others were current college students who get allowance from their parents. There were a few who owned their own business. Another few who had their own cars and own condo units. One girl I even had to go through her secretary to schedule a date with her, lol.

Perhaps those online girls who are willing to date an Asian guy are different from ones looking for white guys. My appearnce could be passed for some local Filipino Chinese, which is associated with the upper class here, so there might be a bit of self-selection going on. I don't know where you've been looking, but almost all the girls I met are college educated and have jobs. There are quite a bit of middle class girls on dating sites, you just need to know where to look. For example, Okcupid are full of middle and even upper class girls, and they are picky as hell. Every single one of the girls I met off there was affluent.

Or it could be that I date almost exclusively lighter skinned Pinays, which are associated with upper/middle class.

So your using mostly okcupid? Ive never checked out that site or hear much of anyone use it. Yes there is picky girls online anywhere and usually I dont deal with them cause they come and go and you usually are lucky to even get them on cam let alone ever meet them. I find online dating a huge hassle that leads to nowhere all the girls are totally flaky and none are serious about meeting right away. most are there just to build up their ego.

this is dateinasia in cebu which i know is garbage but ive heard the other dating sites aren't great either and most use multiple ones anyways. I know in manila the girls tend to be more educated cause they go there for work.