The Delusion of Black Women

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RedMenace
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The Delusion of Black Women

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I have been watching quite a lot of videos of youtube lately about asian men and black women. It's amazing how delusional the black women that go to Japan or Korea are. Hahaha It's so ridiculous to the point that it becomes funny.

To start this I will talk about competition a bit. We all know white women are the standard of beauty all around the globe. Asian women come second to that. Black women on the other hand are at the bottom of this structure. With this in mind, they believe they can go to these asian countries and find a cute asian male that will marry then and have twin with them. Hahahaha this is funny. I always shake my head laughing when i watch videos of them talking about dating in Korea, Japan e.t.c. This is delusion to a whole nother level. The other fact that asian men worship white women and tend to marry white women if they don't marry an asian women also adds to the misery of black women. With all this stacked against them, you still find some fat unattractive black woman on youtube talking about dating asian men. Really??? lol. :lol: The competition is so intense that its more likely for them to be hit by a bus than be married by an asian man. When i say asian man am not talking about the asian guys that try to emulate your typical dysfunctional gangster wannabe black male.

The asian men that do seem to gravitate towards black women in their country are there for one thing. I think we can all guess what that is. Yep its to get their dicks wet. In fact it's the quickest way to get their dicks wet. The women are already desperate so all they have to do is say "hello" for them to be balls deep in only a few hours. These woman actually think these guys are going to marry them. One of these women made a video telling other black women how they are viewed in asia. Not as wives but as something to f**k and ditch. Black women need to rethink their strategy. A lot of them are broken instruments. I am certain most of them regret they were black.

I think its not always about skin color but rather about personality and cultural values. The first time i interacted with an asian woman she was a bit hesitant and most likely scared. Gradually she learnt about me and discovered i don't fit the stereotypes. She went from being a bit scared to sleeping in my presence. I also learnt a lot about her and chinese people in general. Before i thought chinese people were more civilised and morally adept. Now i know most are far from that. They are just like any other race of people. In fact their culture is morally barren. But i still like them because of their hard working ethics and emphasis on the family unit. When they go to a new country rather than cry racism and demand equality, they work their way to equality and respect. That's why they are the highest achieving minority. African Americans should learn from this.

Lets face it black women make the worst mothers. This statement can be proven countless times with just a simple search on youtube or worldstarhiphop to find videos of black women making their kids twirk or fight e.t.c. With this fact how can any "man" in his right mind trust these woman to raise his kids into functioning citizens. I certainly do not trust them and life is too short for me to try and change anything. Asian parents with their practicality would reject black women in a heartbeat. Black women need to fix their appalling parenting skills, stop emulating certain features of white women such as long straight hair. Who wants to have to deal with their wife looking like a guy when she takes of her wig? Also when you have a daughter with them, she will develop self hate because she sees her mum wearing something that clearly is looks out of place. And so the circle of dysfunctional black women continues.

I am actually a supporter of interracial dating because i believe its a good way to exchange culture and learn about other races. The kids also tend to inherit the best genes from both races so its also good for humanity.


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Idk...as a Black woman who's interested in going to East Asia, I'm well aware of how things are stacked, but I don't really care. That's not where I'm going to snatch a man lol.

Also, about Black women being bad mothers, I think it's a largely unfair assessment and lacks perspective. I think one should control for class (as immigration policies do for those crossing oceans) and also factor in context. As a middle-class Nigerian American, I was a bit shocked to hear multiple young Black men from ghettos genuinely believe that they weren't sure if they'd make it past 18 or 21. Also, you'd have to factor in economic factors, as low-wage workers need to put in as many hours as possible. So many things go into it, so I think it's best to ultimately judge individuals and hope others would approach me with the same mind.
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Really the only thing a black women needs to do is far as Asia is to go places the emulate black culture. Speaking from personal experience Japan would be the best place to go. Many Japanese actually enjoy African-American culture particularly Hip-Hop. Okinawa, Yokohama, Gaum, and Shibuya actually have quite a few hip-hop clubs. I've even found Japanese Rastafarians.
I haven't heard of any dating experience for women but generally black people there were embraced. I'm not going to pretend though that AA don't have negative stigmas attached to them and that a lot of places we go we aren't marginalized. That's usually how it is though, we're wanted for sex because were seen as exotic. Dating is actually harder than getting laid. I feel though that any black women who want's to be happier abroad should look into Southern France and Italy. From what I've seen Italians love black women, there families though might not be too keen.
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abg98 wrote:Idk...as a Black woman who's interested in going to East Asia, I'm well aware of how things are stacked, but I don't really care. That's not where I'm going to snatch a man lol.

Also, about Black women being bad mothers, I think it's a largely unfair assessment and lacks perspective. I think one should control for class (as immigration policies do for those crossing oceans) and also factor in context. As a middle-class Nigerian American, I was a bit shocked to hear multiple young Black men from ghettos genuinely believe that they weren't sure if they'd make it past 18 or 21. Also, you'd have to factor in economic factors, as low-wage workers need to put in as many hours as possible. So many things go into it, so I think it's best to ultimately judge individuals and hope others would approach me with the same mind.
Don't listen to the naysayers, abg98; most of the people posting on HA nowadays, haven't even left their mothers basements, let alone been outside the country (reflecting the poor quality of the forum currently).

There are Asian men interested in Black women all over Asia, and I've seen Black women, Asian male couples around, so don't let people tell you otherwise. Yes, there not that common, but they do exist here...
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Nightngale: I've seen videos of those kinds of communities and found them kind of funny lol. They seem cool though. I'd like to visit those places as well as other environments. Like I said, I'd never really travel anywhere with dating as a point of duty. Culture (both popular and traditional) is what really draws me. I'm not a very sexual/romantic (I'm content with really genuine friends ^^) person, so that may factor in. I'd like to visit the Mediterranean, but I'm not sure if I really want to find out how some men might react to me being Nigerian. Italy's become a well-known destination for prostitutes/human trafficking victims...lol

zboy1: I'm of the belief that people can generalize all they want but there can and will always be exceptions. ^_^

I'm generally just not looking to find someone as I'm painfully shy and more of a follower, so it'd be a futile effort. lol
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I know a black American woman here in my city in Eastern China. She gets treated like a walking freak-show. People follow her around taking videos of her with their phones, some people just come right up to her and stare at her as if she were an alien. She did also mention that she gets bombarded with offers of sex from Chinese males on QQ and I don't doubt she could easily get a boyfriend if she wanted one. Anyone who thinks that black or other foreign women are "desperate" needs to be smacked very hard upside the head. There are far more desperate men than desperate women in China.
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Re: The Delusion of Black Women

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Redmenace, why are you so concerned with what black women are doing, who they fancy and are with? Men like you are why many black women (who are unaware) have not pursued a lot of their desires, dreams, and full potential. You are psychological abusers. You take what ever you perceive to be a weakness and distort their reality of themselves so much that it clouds whatever true goodness they have as beings and imprisons them so that they do not go beyond the bars you have created for them. Everything you depict about them is a LIE because you have every motive to keep them down to make yourself in a more privileged situation. You design their warped image to exploit, isolate, and keep them exactly where you want them - going no where. Black women are wonderful from my experiences. They can be some of the smartest, beautiful, most creative, warmest, and interesting individuals walking. It doesn't matter if whether they are the prettiest or least attractive to you or anyone else. There are plenty of people on the planet who are disadvantaged in one capacity or another and who have COMPLETELY changed the world regardless of their "limitations." What sets them apart is that they don't believe those who strive to do nothing but tear them down. They know who they are and what they are capable of. Black women can and will get whatever they want if they can manage to keep men like you away. Men such as yourself Jealous, insecure losers who have nothing going for themselves, so they have to cut someone town to feel significant.

There are so many other redeeming qualities people have besides their looks. If all you think makes a black woman or any woman is her looks, then you will live a long cold lonely life. Because all women lose them past a certain age. I assume you will leave each victim in your life when she does as that is all she is worth in your eyes. This is typical of a black male. Limited in his mind and soul, domineering and abusive. The qualities reflect the state of countries run by them as well. Nothing much comes out of them, because he does nothing but destroy anything with potential that's in them.

In terms of black women being mothers. I can say wholeheartedly I would damn you to hell 3000 times for saying that about my mother and the women I've know who have cared and raised me in my life. They are truly cream of the crop in terms of women. I have yet to meet any women that could take their place. I would choose my own mother over and over and over again. However, I cannot say the same about my father, he is a black MAN.
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Re: The Delusion of Black Women

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Lots of racism in this post. I think most black women still go for black men. And in asia if a black women decides to go there to look for an asian boy friend she maybe better off going to japan and if she attractive looking some cities in china and maybe south korea but only in the hip hop area.

Not sure why the hate on black women...i seen some attractive black women and some decent character ones.
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Re: The Delusion of Black Women

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Seeker

back in the 90s i knew an asian girl that lived in brooklyn and white and black guys would come up to her and want sex or cat call her. She started to carry a mace for safety.

The same can be said about american men being desparate.
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TotoFive wrote: In terms of black women being mothers. I can say wholeheartedly I would damn you to hell 3000 times for saying that about my mother and the women I've know who have cared and raised me in my life. They are truly cream of the crop in terms of women. I have yet to meet any women that could take their place. I would choose my own mother over and over and over again. However, I cannot say the same about my father, he is a black MAN.
That's a very interesting response. Well not really, but I can sense the anger in it. Nice first post. I guess you registered just to post this.
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