Filipinos are subhuman scum and they are all liars

[Ghost]

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[Yohan]

So I am married to a Filipina. According to some people on here, that makes her subhuman scum and basically a liar by default. We have a daughter, too. That kind of makes her subhuman, untrustworthy and a future whore. Right? Because all Filipino’s are horrible and the country sucks so much...

It's not only about Filipinas. I am married to a Japanese woman and I got similar remarks, of course also abusive remarks about my 2 daughters.

I have a friend married with a Thai woman since many years, with children, similar remarks.

There are just some people out on the internet, both men and women, mostly from US and UK, who cannot understand that some Western men do not find or do not want to be married with a Western woman and choose an Asian woman instead.

There is nothing you can do about it, ignore such people, any explanation is time-waste.

I take care of a Filipina child from Mindanao since about 10 years, and I am visiting Philippines since maybe 25 years or longer, and we have also Filipina staff with us here in Tokyo. I know many Filipinos in Cebu and in Tokyo.

Many are good, but we had also troubles with some of them. Like everywhere else, in Philippines many men and women are good, but some are truly garbage.

Same can be said also about Western foreigners in Philippines or Thailand and other developing countries in Asia. - Many Western foreigners who decide to become expats are good and have honest intentions, but a certain number of them are idiots, and often even criminals, violent alcoholics, into drugs, sex with minors, liars and abusers...

For sure, it is not only from the bad Filipina to the good Western man...
and for sure not only in Philippines are slums, I have seen slums also in USA.

About Philippines, it's really not a place for everybody coming in from Western countries. If you cannot accept to live with a certain level of poverty, criminality, mismanagement, corruption etc. next to your door, then better stay where you are living now.

[starchild5]

Its not only in Philippines. I'm from a third world country India. A place far worse than Philippines.

The thing is every country on earth has these drops of good people around, that makes the job of other good guys even harder. It seems, the darkness has deliberately put these good people in all bad countries to suffer at the same time, suck in good guys and then exploit them.

India is far worse and you will hate India, however, you will also comes across wonderful Indians and will have nice things to say, same in Thailand, China etc etc...

We should stop blaming each other. I truly believe what the OP said is 100% correct, at the same time, I cannot deny what ghost has experienced because I went through the same emotional state.

When I was scammed, I generalized everything and put everyone in same box to keep my sanity. It made me cautious of another human being itself and then I remembered the good people in Philippines and wonderful time I had with them and the balance was restored in my mind.

Even after six trips and living for years in Philippines in and out. I'm still not able to arrive at a conclusion either way.

[Ghost]

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[b.idohrama]

That's why man... That's why these third world countries never get anywhere... Vietnam, Senegal, Thailand, Philippines, Nigeria. First the truths are shamefully hidden and then people start with sob stories crying lies... Who f*cked you and didn't pay you Marcos... that's what would be worth seeing.

[Lorenzo]

There is no way to finance a life in the provinces for a foreigner, aside from already having the money. There are no jobs to speak of, even in Manila. Eventually you will realize being dirt poor (by choice) is not pleasant in the long run and look for a way out. And your wife won't still care for you if you don't work and do something to provide. You're still in adventure mode. Look at Taco. He lived like a Filipino for, what, two years or so. Then he eventually realized he couldn't keep doing it.

There actually are a multitude of ways, my pessimistic friend. I am a journalist by trade, and the place my wife and I will live in with our family has a decent internet connection. As a result I will be able to continue writing, sending and selling my articles to make a few hundred bucks a month. Ideally I'd have about a thousand a month (life's cheap in the province but not THAT cheap), so I would need additional sources of income which I will make from farm lands I intend on purchasing with help of my in-laws. Together the two sources of income will be enough for me and my family to live quite comfortably, provided we don't get too crazy with the expenses. You don't need a job and a boss to make a living, there's other ways. I have it all figured out

Young Hemingway, we are cheering for you, but Ghostman also speaks words of wisdom

[davewe]

Regarding Manila (which it is well known I do not like): I went to school in the early 70s in New York City. It was just as bad as Manila: crime, pollution, traffic, buildings crumbling, infrastructure, etc. NYC is much better now but at the time it was a pit, albeit a pit that had some excitement too. But I knew scores of New Yorkers that thought it was the greatest place in the world.

As to the attitude of some regarding the Philippines, there's a reason many of us are called Ugly Americans. Most Westerners do not do well in the 3rd world and have an arrogant, superior attitude to the residents. A quick story: My ex-wife and I went to Trinidad and Tobago for our honeymoon 20 years ago. We stayed for a few days at her cousin's house in Trinidad. The ex and cousin were talking and I was bored. I began to flip through her CD collection. The week before we were in NYC and a friend gave us tickets to Phantom, which at the time was the toast of Broadway. The cousin had a CD of the Phantom soundtrack. I bragged, "We just saw Phantom on Broadway." Her cousin replied in her clipped almost British accent, "Yes,we liked the Broadway production, but preferred the Toronto production. Of course the London production was the best of them all." I just sat there with my mouth open.

Yes the Philippines is a poor country. But don't make negative assumptions about its people. Like everywhere there are good and bad but in PI they are mostly good.

[Jonny Law]

Filipinas are awesome!

Why do you think that military men. The most in shape American Men, with a job. These military men travel the world but keep marrying Filipinas. This is because after sampling p***y from around the world Filipinas are the best.

Thanks and Cheers

[Lorenzo]

Why do you think that military men. The most in shape American Men, with a job. These military men travel the world but keep marrying Filipinas. This is because after sampling p***y from around the world Filipinas are the best.

There ya go, let's all follow the lead of a bunch of undersexed 19 yo enlisted guys arriving in a Phillipines port...fresh off the boat not having seen a woman in 4 months. Oh ya, the same military guys that will shag an old shoe LOL. The finest connoisseurs of p***y in the world, regular international playboys.

By the way, the astronomical divorce rate of military men married to filipina and thai wives have left a city full of them in Miramar, CA.

No knock on filipinas, other than some having standards so low they end up married with military men in 2 weeks...Meanwhile, Chinese, Korean, Taiwanese and Japanese women won't touch these guys with a 10 ft pole unless they are the kind dancing with it

[Anonymous1]

Why do you think that military men. The most in shape American Men, with a job. These military men travel the world but keep marrying Filipinas. This is because after sampling p***y from around the world Filipinas are the best.

There ya go, let's all follow the lead of a bunch of undersexed 19 yo enlisted guys arriving in a Phillipines port...fresh off the boat not having seen a woman in 4 months. Oh ya, the same military guys that will shag an old shoe LOL. The finest connoisseurs of p***y in the world, regular international playboys.

By the way, the astronomical divorce rate of military men married to filipina and thai wives have left a city full of them in Miramar, CA.

No knock on filipinas, other than some having standards so low they end up married with military men in 2 weeks...Meanwhile, Chinese, Korean, Taiwanese and Japanese women won't touch these guys with a 10 ft pole unless they are the kind dancing with it

no knock on foreigners but majority of filipinas wouldnt touch military men with a 10 ft pole...
the ones who do get involved are usually from the slums and are desperate as f**k...and probably ugly

[Cornfed]

Why do you think that military men. The most in shape American Men, with a job.

Eh, did I just fall through some portal into a surreal parallel universe where members of the US military are not the scum of the earth? Next you will be claiming the pigs are some kind of social elite.

[Jonny Law]

Why do you think that military men. The most in shape American Men, with a job.

Eh, did I just fall through some portal into a surreal parallel universe where members of the US military are not the scum of the earth? Next you will be claiming the pigs are some kind of social elite.

Unlike scum-
1. Military men have a job and income.
2. Military men travel.

[Ghost]

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[Jonny Law]

Why do you think that military men. The most in shape American Men, with a job.

Eh, did I just fall through some portal into a surreal parallel universe where members of the US military are not the scum of the earth? Next you will be claiming the pigs are some kind of social elite.

Unlike scum-
1. Military men have a job and income.
2. Military men travel.

Which has f**k-all to do with morality, which is what Cornfed was talking about.

Where or not military men are moral scum or not is a non sequitur.
-Non Sequitur-
noun: non sequitur, plural noun: non sequiturs
1. a conclusion or statement that does not logically follow from the previous argument or statement
Women care about morality less than men care about fashion. This is why women are more attracted to criminals and bad boys.

[Cornfed]

Unlike scum-
1. Military men have a job and income.
2. Military men travel.

Most people in the US military are just welfare queens leaching off Uncle Sucker with the stated goal of qualifying for a lifetime of welfare sponging above the norm. The rest are traitors employed to murder people or foreign interests such as Israel. The fact that they are handed money in a way people choose to narratize as not being the welfare handouts that it is has nothing to do with anything. Like their de-facto boss, Kissinger, famously said, they are dumb stupid animals to be used as pawns in foreign policy. If the goverment emptied the prisons and paid the inmates a generous salary to microwave kittens or whatever, would that make them good people because they had a job?