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The girl in the AT&T ads is from Kazakhstan. That's a very good look, imo.pete98146 wrote:Winston. How much is a round trip ticket from China to Kazakhstan? Hint Hint Hint! I've seen a few Kazakhstani ladies around Seattle and they have such a beautiful mixed look about them. Go check it out!
Seriously? This is amazing. Your life is full of surprises!I'm supposed to go to Ganzi at some point, because a psychic we met in Taiwan, who is a friend of my cousin, told me in a reading that I had to go there and repent for sins in a past life at a local Tibetan temple. According to his reading, I was a Tibetan spiritual priest or lama in Ganzi 4 or 5 lifetimes ago who had advanced to a high spiritual level and consciousness. But I fell in love with a woman there and violated my oath of celibacy. As a result, both of our karma was damaged heavily. The thing is, I had a lot of good karma and merit from my spiritual work in that lifetime, so I had enough good karma to earn a rebirth into the next life. However, the woman I had the affair with was ordinary and did not have enough karma from the damage to be reborn. So she became stuck "between worlds" in a hellish condition, and cursed me for it and haunted me for it to this day. That's the reason, the psychic said, I have bad luck and bad karma in this life when it came to relationships. Perhaps her lost soul repels every woman I get involved with?
Yes, I agree it's BPD. What Winston described was completely Borderline Personality Disorder. This is different from depression or lack of impulse control.droid wrote:Winston,
I just dumped a Colombian girl that had this disorder. I'll write a thread on this with all the details, so you could perhaps sticky it on the dating forum section for everyone's benefit. It's unbelievable that nobody talks about this openly in the mainstream or that fathers don't instruct their sons about it early on in life. It would save men a lot of suffering.
I've usually nexted girls at the first sign of problems or red flags, but this time around I (un)fortunately decided to stick to my guns to the ultimate consequences, for the sake of learning and "discovery", thinking I hadn't been open minded enough in the past. But this almost ends up costing me my sanity and life, very dangerous stuff to play with.
I've done my research, and the disorder is not Bipolar Disorder but actually called Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Ususally bipolar's mood fluctuations take days or weeks, while BPD's can happen in a matter of minutes or hours, as you described.
There's a whole other bunch of symptoms that go with this and they usually match to the letter. I was scared shitless when i read this towards the end of the two month ordeal, it was so deeply disturbing i couldn't research anymore.
Right now I'm trying to put this in the past but it's tough, I'm sure you're going through the same f*cking cognitive dissonance Winston. Just remember you're not the insane person and let time do the healing, be happy in the sense that you dodged a bullet. Make sure to seek some company too, go see some of the other forum members over there.
Dianne accepts your relationship with Lisa?Dianne read about what happened with lisa above.
Because I was lonely and desperate, and love is not logical.MarcosZeitola wrote:So why did you insist on fathering a child by one of these "racially inferior" women?Winston wrote:Yeah Dianne is easier to get along with. But Chinese girls fulfill me and make me feel complete in a way that Filipinas can't. Hard to explain in words. There is more a feeling of equality and accomplishment with a Chinese woman. And the skin of Chinese women turns me on more because it's smoother and more refined and higher quality and feels racially superior (sorry to sound racist) as well. So a relationship with a Chinese feels more fulfilling.
As for higher quality - subjective much? You consider Chinese women to be of a higher quality because they are harder for you to obtain. The same way one would consider a Hollywood actress "high quality", when for all you know she may be spoiled, unfaithful and a horrible housewife without any housekeeping skills or passion in the bedroom. All of it is entirely subjective.
As a general rule, when I take a girl out on a date, I pay everything during the date. I do that here, I did that in Taiwan, and I also do it wherever else I go. I do not go Dutch on meals and other stuff unless she's a purely platonic friend. And even then, I may pay if I feel it might be a burden to the girl. Like when your Dianne visited Makati during last Pacquiao fight, I paid for her meal and drink.Winston wrote: Also, when I saw Rock go out with his middle class Filipina dates in Manila, I noticed that they also made him pay for 100 percent of everything. They didn't contribute to any of the restaurant or food bills, like Chinese women usually do. Maybe I'm wrong and they did when I wasn't around, but I don't remember them contributing to anything when I was around.
Yeah but Rock, do your middle class Filipina dates even offer to pay? The point is, many Chinese women do not even give you the choice to pay for them. They will aggressively rush to the counter to pay for your meal before you even know it. Do Filipinas ever do that? No way. How do you explain that? Filipinas don't have shame when it comes to always receiving and never paying. Chinese do. That's the difference.Rock wrote:As a general rule, when I take a girl out on a date, I pay everything during the date. I do that here, I did that in Taiwan, and I also do it wherever else I go. I do not go Dutch on meals and other stuff unless she's a purely platonic friend. And even then, I may pay if I feel it might be a burden to the girl. Like when your Dianne visited Makati during last Pacquiao fight, I paid for her meal and drink.Winston wrote: Also, when I saw Rock go out with his middle class Filipina dates in Manila, I noticed that they also made him pay for 100 percent of everything. They didn't contribute to any of the restaurant or food bills, like Chinese women usually do. Maybe I'm wrong and they did when I wasn't around, but I don't remember them contributing to anything when I was around.
With middle class Filipinas, I think if they date a guy who has same or less money than they do and is of similar age, they may split bill or even pay sometimes. It depends on circumstances.
But it's still, I think here in Philippines it's traditionally considered a man's role to pay for dates and to be the one doing the pursuing and courting. That goes for middle class as well.
In my case, I still have a better financial position than most of the middle class Pinays I know or go out with plus I'm older than them. I wouldn't feel comfortable with them splitting the bill or paying for the date. Some do however give me gifts or treats from time to time.
Japanese consider themselves to be the most racially superior in Asia, yeah. The IQ's of Japanese, Koreans and Chinese are all very close. But the point is, they are higher on the racial hierarchy than Filipinos are. But yeah, all of Asia considers Filipinos to be the lowest class. It's common knowledge in Asia.Banano wrote: Are Japanese and Koreans considered super-race race by other Asians?
Filipinos are shit race, anyone can see that. They go to other countries to become maids and hookers. What brain power is needed to do that?
I would put Aborigines/Sudanese bellow Filipinos as they are closest to animal human being can get
I guess you inspire more generosity than I do with Chinese anyway. The Taiwanese and Chinese I dated generally were ok with me leading the date and paying. I was usually the one to make the decisions, choose the venue, and they generally did not rush to counter to beat me to paying. I've not faced much resistance when paying meals.Winston wrote:Yeah but Rock, do your middle class Filipina dates even offer to pay? The point is, many Chinese women do not even give you the choice to pay for them. They will aggressively rush to the counter to pay for your meal before you even know it. Do Filipinas ever do that? No way. How do you explain that? Filipinas don't have shame when it comes to always receiving and never paying. Chinese do. That's the difference.Rock wrote:As a general rule, when I take a girl out on a date, I pay everything during the date. I do that here, I did that in Taiwan, and I also do it wherever else I go. I do not go Dutch on meals and other stuff unless she's a purely platonic friend. And even then, I may pay if I feel it might be a burden to the girl. Like when your Dianne visited Makati during last Pacquiao fight, I paid for her meal and drink.Winston wrote: Also, when I saw Rock go out with his middle class Filipina dates in Manila, I noticed that they also made him pay for 100 percent of everything. They didn't contribute to any of the restaurant or food bills, like Chinese women usually do. Maybe I'm wrong and they did when I wasn't around, but I don't remember them contributing to anything when I was around.
With middle class Filipinas, I think if they date a guy who has same or less money than they do and is of similar age, they may split bill or even pay sometimes. It depends on circumstances.
But it's still, I think here in Philippines it's traditionally considered a man's role to pay for dates and to be the one doing the pursuing and courting. That goes for middle class as well.
In my case, I still have a better financial position than most of the middle class Pinays I know or go out with plus I'm older than them. I wouldn't feel comfortable with them splitting the bill or paying for the date. Some do however give me gifts or treats from time to time.
Japanese consider themselves to be the most racially superior in Asia, yeah. The IQ's of Japanese, Koreans and Chinese are all very close. But the point is, they are higher on the racial hierarchy than Filipinos are. But yeah, all of Asia considers Filipinos to be the lowest class. It's common knowledge in Asia.Banano wrote: Are Japanese and Koreans considered super-race race by other Asians?
Filipinos are shit race, anyone can see that. They go to other countries to become maids and hookers. What brain power is needed to do that?
I would put Aborigines/Sudanese bellow Filipinos as they are closest to animal human being can get
Is it so? I never heard something like that. About lowest class the reputation of people from Bangladesh is very poor, these rural men and women are really impoverished people who will accept any kind of work even under slave-like condition.Winston wrote:..... all of Asia considers Filipinos to be the lowest class. It's common knowledge in Asia.
I remember the first time I visited my wife Cathy in Cebu. We went to a decent place for lunch and she asked if she could pay for my lunch. Her rationale is that she had a job and wanted to treat me. I politely declined and paid for everything because I wanted to and as Rock says, I'm older and made substantially more money then she did.Rock wrote:As a general rule, when I take a girl out on a date, I pay everything during the date. I do that here, I did that in Taiwan, and I also do it wherever else I go. I do not go Dutch on meals and other stuff unless she's a purely platonic friend. And even then, I may pay if I feel it might be a burden to the girl. Like when your Dianne visited Makati during last Pacquiao fight, I paid for her meal and drink.Winston wrote: Also, when I saw Rock go out with his middle class Filipina dates in Manila, I noticed that they also made him pay for 100 percent of everything. They didn't contribute to any of the restaurant or food bills, like Chinese women usually do. Maybe I'm wrong and they did when I wasn't around, but I don't remember them contributing to anything when I was around.
With middle class Filipinas, I think if they date a guy who has same or less money than they do and is of similar age, they may split bill or even pay sometimes. It depends on circumstances.
But it's still, I think here in Philippines it's traditionally considered a man's role to pay for dates and to be the one doing the pursuing and courting. That goes for middle class as well.
In my case, I still have a better financial position than most of the middle class Pinays I know or go out with plus I'm older than them. I wouldn't feel comfortable with them splitting the bill or paying for the date. Some do however give me gifts or treats from time to time.
