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Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

Latin America
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North East Asia (China, Korea, Japan)
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South East Asia (Philippines, etc)
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Eastern Europe
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Middle East
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Africa
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India
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drealm
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Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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Let's suppose a guy is ugly and the only thing he has going for himself is that he's American, white and moderately well off financially. Where can this ugly guy get the most bang for the buck in attractive women? Of course attractive is relative. The most attractive African woman certainly doesn't look like the most attractive blondie in Sweden. So to make things simple I'll say the most attractive woman by local standards. In other words, the women all local guys chase after. The top 10% of women.

In Latin America everyone is a wannabe white. So being white isn't special here. There's no sense of trying to imitate western culture, because everyone is already western. The creme of the crop are inbred whites that separate themselves from the rest of the population. A white man's main advantage is in trading down to a Mestiza or Indian. Bolivia is where a man would have the most status using this logic. A white man can forget places like Argentina or Uruguay in which the countries are more or less white nationalist in appearance but operate under latin stupidity.

I have no clue about Eastern Europe. The men there seem to be natural born weight lifters.

I know nothing about Africa. But I would guess a white guy would be a god here. Has anyone been?

I've been to northern Asia but haven't tried dating anyone here. Specifically I've been to China for business and I work in a Chinese company. My sense is that Chinese women can basically be bought like something in a 7-11. I have no idea what goes on in their little heads. Love or happiness or whatever they call it, seems to be a straightforward business transaction. Japanese and Korean women seem to be a little more nationalistic. They don't welcome an army of white men to rape and breed them like Chinese women do.

The majority of posters on this forum go to southeast asia, specifically the Philippines. Of course a place like the Philippines hits all the checkmarks. The women are short, brown and poor. So any average white guy can walk in feeling like a tall handsome white king.

No experience in India. From what I understand stupid white hippie chicks are regularly raped there when they walk down the wrong road. This indicates a liking towards white women, but I'm not sure if it indicates any status for white men. I know Indians have strong family pressures so even if they see a white guy they fancy most won't make the move.

My only experience with middle easterners is going to a Mosque. The top arabs look more or less white. Sort of of like jews. If I see them in public I'd probably mistake them for Mexican mestizos.

Remember this question is specifically about where an UGLY white guy can get the most bang for the buck. Not average or handsome.

I'll make a poll.
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Ghost
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drealm
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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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Ghost wrote:How ugly is the man?
Let's a say below a 5/10.
Ghost wrote:What is considered hottest?
By hottest I don't mean X country vs Y country. I mean just whatever the local guys hit on most. I assume this is what foreigners will like too.
Ghost wrote:Does race matter in this?
The guy's preference doesn't matter.
Ghost wrote:Is this about wife-hunting or just dating?
This is about exploiting women for casual fun and treating them like shit with the least amount of commitment possible. Of course a guy's intentions probably won't match the girl's intentions. Some guys will probably be upfront about their intentions and other's wont.
Ghost wrote:How willing are you to make sacrifices and get into a living situation abroad where you can actually have a real chance to find and date these hot women?
I'm asking this as a hypothetical situation for all ugly white guys. Most men aren't willing to do anything. Me, personally, if I pursued this path I would only do this as an extended vacation or for job relocation within my current company or for retirement. I wouldn't be willing to sacrifice my current income stream.
Ghost wrote:I know you said you'd simplify it to attractive women by local standards, but I don't get that part. Why does what local men find attractive matter? Depending on where you go there's a good chance that won't coincide with your preferences anyway.
Assuming a foreigners preference matches local preference this increases competition.
Ghost wrote:I'm willing to try to help even though you're not in my tribe.
I'm asking this as a hypothetical question for all white guys. But if you are considering me in particular I would only consider this question with a flagrantly asshole goal, similiar to WillNDowd. I don't think you want to help with this goal.

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Devon
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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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When you say you are "moderately well off financially", what does that mean? Can you give a round about figure e.g. a networth of between 250k to 500K USD(or whatever). I would have thought if you were doing ok with money that even if you are "ugly" you'd still do ok. Most people have no money, if you have money you have a huge advantage.

zboy1
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Why not Russia or Eastern Europe? I don't understand why you don't consider women from that region, drealm? Why don't you check it out instead of making assumptions about Eastern Europe?

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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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The truth is for very good reasons is that attractive women are bias against ugly men because they know they don't have to go there.

Why is that hard to understand and why is it the right for some guy to say that unfair and that the rules should be changed?

If you really consider yourself a 5 out of 10, you not only have low self-esteem but bought into whatever nonsense a woman has told you.

As I've said before around here, you must minimize the negatives. Do you have a personality? No? You better develop one. Are you fat/too skinny? Find a nutritionist and figure out how to gain/lose weight and start pumping iron. If you have the money side of it solved, start hanging out in more stimulating social circles like art exhibits, classical music, etc.

You also must date as many women as humanly possible. Eventually you will find an attractive women who puts less a value on the looks of a man vs/ how she's treated by that man.

Like I said you have money, so the security a woman needs to bare children is already present.

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drealm
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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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Ghost wrote:It won't matter if you're not going to live abroad anyway. You'll be limited to p4p for the hottest. OK, then I don't want to help. Suit yourself. But sure is funny you spurn those "outside your tribe," and then ask those same outsiders for advice.
I also ask my mechanic, dentist, doctor, plumber and electrician for advice. Do you think these people are in my tribe?

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MarcosZeitola wrote:As for the question in OP: an ugly white guy can get a beautiful woman wherever he goes, as long as he is wealthier then the local men.
My data doesn't support your hypothesis.

drealm
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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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MarcosZeitola wrote:Then who are in your tribe, if not Ghost? I wonder.
3 other people.

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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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This is very easy to find out. Just make an online dating profile and see what kind of response you get. Try the Cupid sites: LatinAmericanCupid, ColombianCupid, FilipinoCupid, etc.

drealm
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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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MarcosZeitola wrote:But I think having a good income, being well-dressed and well-spoken, may just be bigger selling points then a pretty face alone.
The problem with you Christians is you don't give a shit about reality. You come up with an idea and you just assume it's real as long as you feel it's real. I wish I could become a Christian by just taking a pill. That way I could imagine the world any way I want it to be.
MarcosZeitola wrote:Are these people you know in real life, or people you stay in contact with.
Yes, yes.
MarcosZeitola wrote:Either way, I am curious about your data and the facts. From what I gather, your facial features are the reason women do not find you attractive, and you are otherwise in a normal shape physically?
I have no idea what my problem is. I know that based on photos of me women think I'm a disgusting freak that deserves to be stabbed to death. There's no point in trying to figure out the exact puzzle pieces inside a woman's head. I just want to go some place where women roll out a carpet to suck my cock instead of wanting to stab me to death.

So far I see three votes, two are for south east asia.

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Eightfold Path
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Re: Where can an ugly white guy date the hottest women?

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Ghost wrote:
drealm wrote:
Ghost wrote:It won't matter if you're not going to live abroad anyway. You'll be limited to p4p for the hottest. OK, then I don't want to help. Suit yourself. But sure is funny you spurn those "outside your tribe," and then ask those same outsiders for advice.
I also ask my mechanic, dentist, doctor, plumber and electrician for advice. Do you think these people are in my tribe?
They should be if at all possible, or at least you want to be on good terms with them.

I wouldn't go to my doctor and say, "you're not in my tribe, so I don't care about you at all. By the way, can you give me some medical advice?"

You apparently don't have a problem with that.
Not to mention those are professionals who are paid to give advice in their fields. No one here is a professional forum-poster, thus all advice is voluntary, so Ghost's logic holds.

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