The new human resources girl at work is the ultimate average

[GoingAwol]

So a few months ago we got a new human resources girl at work. She's 24 (My age), fresh out of college, and the average American girl in every sense of the word. This morning was the first time I saw her because I haven't been into the branch office in months, but I have heard all about her through guys that have. Guys at work have been ranting and raving about how hot the new human resources girl is, so I went in there this morning expecting to see a girl with supermodel looks, but this girl wasn't even close to that! She the epitome of plain looking! Completely average!  She certainly wasn't ugly, but she damn sure wasn't a hottie either. She is thin, but doesn't have a particularly nice figure (nice boobs or ass) and has brown hair and brown eyes and wears glasses. There is literally nothing particularly attractive about her. Again, this girl is the epitome of average/plain, I can't stress that enough! Yet she acted and carried herself as if she is hot stuff and had a big diamond ring on her finger, and I bet you anything the guy she is married to is significantly more attractive than she is.  And don't forget my male co-workers were foaming at the mouth over her and acting as if she was a Victoria's Secret model.  If that doesn't tell you how hopeless the American dating scene is I dont know what does.  Even average and plain looking women are completely unobtainable for guys like me. So its either settle for a landwhale,  go overseas, or accept being alone for life. I'm glad I decided to explore the foreign route.

[Hero]

Yep, I can relate. These days, any thin woman looks good to me.

[Ghost]

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[droid]

but I have heard all about her through guys that have. Guys at work have been ranting and raving about how hot the new human resources girl is, ...
..And don't forget my male co-workers were foaming at the mouth over her and..

I didn't know travelsouth had already made his move back to the states

[jamesbond]

Again, this girl is the epitome of average/plain, I can't stress that enough! Yet she acted and carried herself as if she is hot stuff and had a big diamond ring on her finger, and I bet you anything the guy she is married to is significantly more attractive than she is.

And don't forget my male co-workers were foaming at the mouth over her and acting as if she was a Victoria's Secret model.  If that doesn't tell you how hopeless the American dating scene is I dont know what does.  Even average and plain looking women are completely unobtainable for guys like me. So its either settle for a landwhale,  go overseas, or accept being alone for life. I'm glad I decided to explore the foreign route.

When women who are plain Janes think that they are hot stuff, you know the dating scene for men in America is completely f***ed up!

[PrettyChoices]

I'm sorry, I'm new here. What seems to be the problem? She's average and engaged to somebody, what does that matter?
Should people who are not models carry themselves in a depressed unattractive fashion? Most people are average. Should they not have self confidence?
I'm missing something here I'm sure?

[Hero]

I'm sorry, I'm new here. What seems to be the problem? She's average and engaged to somebody, what does that matter?
Should people who are not models carry themselves in a depressed unattractive fashion? Most people are average. Should they not have self confidence?
I'm missing something here I'm sure?

Self-confidence, yes. Arrogance, no.

You see, PrettyChoices, the abundance of average or below-average women in the USA who think that they're hot stuff is symptomatic of a bigger problem: the gross imbalance of power that favors women in this country. One way that this imbalance manifests itself is that women are under no pressure at all to make themselves appealing to men. On the contrary, women in the USA are constantly told that they're beautiful just the way they are, even if they're morbidly obese and badly groomed. Men, for their part, have been brainwashed into believing that they should feel guilty for taking a woman's physical appearance into account when choosing wives and girlfriends. Consequently, there are practically NO good-looking women left in the USA, and that's why "average" has become the new "gorgeous".

[GoingAwol]

I'm sorry, I'm new here. What seems to be the problem? She's average and engaged to somebody, what does that matter?
Should people who are not models carry themselves in a depressed unattractive fashion? Most people are average. Should they not have self confidence?
I'm missing something here I'm sure?

Self-confidence, yes. Arrogance, no.

You see, PrettyChoices, the abundance of average or below-average women in the USA who think that they're hot stuff is symptomatic of a bigger problem: the gross imbalance of power that favors women in this country. One way that this imbalance manifests itself is that women are under no pressure at all to make themselves appealing to men. On the contrary, women in the USA are constantly told that they're beautiful just the way they are, even if they're morbidly obese and badly groomed. Men, for their part, have been brainwashed into believing that they should feel guilty for taking a woman's physical appearance into account when choosing wives and girlfriends. Consequently, there are practically NO good-looking women left in the USA, and that's why "average" has become the new "gorgeous".

Nailed it!!!! I have yet to go on a date with an American woman who made an effort to look nice for me. Heck! I went out with one that had just rolled out of bed and put on sweatpants before our date! I showed up to get her freshly shaven and showered and was dressed nice. I had also washed my car inside and out so it was nice and clean too when I picked her up. And I get a girl who comes out on the driveway in sweatpants???? And then I paid for everything and didn't even get a hug, a kiss on the cheek, or even a thank you! American women suck.

[GoingAwol]

I'm sorry, I'm new here. What seems to be the problem? She's average and engaged to somebody, what does that matter?
Should people who are not models carry themselves in a depressed unattractive fashion? Most people are average. Should they not have self confidence?
I'm missing something here I'm sure?

Welcome back Black Knight! See Hero's post below yours.

[Cornfed]

I showed up to get her freshly shaven and showered and was dressed nice. I had also washed my car inside and out so it was nice and clean too when I picked her up. And I get a girl who comes out on the driveway in sweatpants???? And then I paid for everything and didn't even get a hug, a kiss on the cheek, or even a thank you!

There's a message there somewhere if you look hard enough for it.

[GoingAwol]

I showed up to get her freshly shaven and showered and was dressed nice. I had also washed my car inside and out so it was nice and clean too when I picked her up. And I get a girl who comes out on the driveway in sweatpants???? And then I paid for everything and didn't even get a hug, a kiss on the cheek, or even a thank you!

There's a message there somewhere if you look hard enough for it.

What is that?

[Voice of Reason]

This sounds typical of western men - they will go crazy over any woman, even if she is (below) average looking and a little bit obese. Western men have no standards at all when it comes to women, and they are desperate for any female attention at all.

[Hero]

This sounds typical of western men - they will go crazy over any woman, even if she is (below) average looking and a little bit obese. Western men have no standards at all when it comes to women, and they are desperate for any female attention at all.

I have a rich friend who's so handsome that he could have stepped out of GQ magazine... yet he's married to a woman who's 4 years his senior and has health problems. Un-freakin-believable.

[jamesbond]

This sounds typical of western men - they will go crazy over any woman, even if she is (below) average looking and a little bit obese. Western men have no standards at all when it comes to women, and they are desperate for any female attention at all.

Men in America have absolutely NO standards when it comes to women. Men in the US so desperate for female companionship and sex that they will take any woman who has a pulse, even if she is as ugly as sin or as fat as a cow!

I can't believe some of the women that my friends have dated and married. I am talking about good looking guys who are physically fit and make good money. It's unbelievable how low American men's standards are when it comes to women.

[MrMan]

I think we are all curious about what this girl looks like. I wonder if she is attractive, but just not jamesbond's type. She's not the woman in the 'You Can't Afford Me' T-shirt is she?