American Women are VERY Difficult to Communicate With

[lostinthe80s]

I have been noticing that American Women are extremely difficult to communicate with. It's like any speaking up to them and they will strip you of the ability to talk to them.

[Eric]

Americans in general are hard to communicate with. I don't think the dynamics are healthy/natural to begin with. I've had so many falling outs with people over trivial stuff - what would be trivial stuff - but what would be just a normal conversation anywhere else, between two people; is grounds for moral outrage and de friend-zoning, here. Americans are outraged at everything!
And every American is different, so you're always pandering to whatever, whoever it is you are talking to!! You're always dancing around someone. ...Americans get pissed at literally everything! You can't have disagreements - everything has to be perfect. For example, a friend of mine and I were texting each other, as we do a lot. Now, the last few weeks, I've tried to call him on a couple of occasions, he didn't pick up or answer. I finally got frustrated and, half-jokingly remarked, "why don't you ever pick up the phone when I call?". I could tell he got butt hurt by this kind of thing...and it really got to him...Like he'll use it against me, or it lodged in him somewhere. I've noticed Americans do this - where they'll always try and rack stuff up against you, like as if - you are neck and neck in a competition in eachother or something. I think PC has infected the grounds of relationships - It's really destructive...it adds distrust & sows feelings of resentment and contempt; makes it more like a business partnership/ one upping each other. American relationships feel they exclusively must always ALWAYS be based on competition - which is not healthy. People are too sensitive about everything, now also. That's how I feel and just being open and outgoing has cost me a lot. I also don't like being open or honest a lot, as people see that as a weakness, here; sadly, and I feel It puts me in the open, and vulnerable ...because no one else is putting themselves forward - they can manipulate you. I"ve seen it, lived it and felt it.
American females are really good for only one thing, sex...but even then you have to be willing to sink to that level. If you live here long enough - you might.
If you look at them in comparison to other cultured females, they look soulless and devoid of any humanity. I know that sounds harsh and rough, but it's the truth. They also just look trashy and disgusting.
There's nothing there to connect with - only fight with. They are great at once again, trying to 'compete' with you, the American male. ...
I don't think anything could be more 'messed up' than it is in America.
What's even more messed up is that, people will defend it. They'll attack you for drawing criticism or attention to it.

In order to play with females here - you must play to the basest male & female instincts. You must be a dominant male and send out that signal - flipping females in line so they'll respond to you. It's not about being macho, just about being thoroughly, purely male. You will notice tons of beta males everywhere around you; there are literally a sea of beta males and, once you put out this vibration...it will become really apparent. They just look like a bunch of scared dogs with their tails tucked between their legs - you'll also get that very pathetic, Chihuahua looking-male, like angry and bruised that he's a beta...so he'll walk around looking at you with eyes of lowered, pathetic hate. like Just trust me. Females will really pay attention to you standing out.
You don't play with the conditioning on the surface, which is what's messed everything up.
The only way is to go deeper and short circuit it with a baser drive - archetypal man/woman "drive"...which underlays it all. We have to "reconnect", don't count on them to do it, don't you respond to them. This is all you...
You must "be", then they'll naturally 'flip' in line - it just happens, trust me.
That's what I've figured out, at least. It's the ONLY f***ing way that I've figured out, and it works every time, but you can't waiver. Try it out.

My friendships suck here, are practically non-existant. I used to have tons of friends and had long lasting friendships overseas, made friends very easily overseas. I tried explaining this to family/ friends and just got blank looks of confused nonchalance like, "maybe you have to be a friend" or some bullshit like that. Americans are completely brainwashed and think differently than anyone else on the globe.
It's the place.

[droid]

I have been noticing that American Women are extremely difficult to communicate with. It's like any speaking up to them and they will strip you of the ability to talk to them.

What are you talking about? they're real nice, i love these in particular:

-How they eagerly make eye contact and engage in an authentic way, they don't have steely eyes staring into space or a phone.
-They communicate with you without assuming doing that is some sexual opening or a waste of time.
-How they address you by your name instead of just blurting a dull "hey", or just throwing a question without any greeting.
-The more times you talk to the same girl, she starts opening up, by the fourth or fifth interaction, she has built some trust.
-They're curious about your background, your interests, and your plans
-They don't say "omg", "omfg", "like", "are you seeerious", "f*k" and "sh*t" all the time
-They will try to give hints and flirt with a guy they like, instead of cowarding like a mouse waiting for things to happen,
since they don't have hordes of thirsty gym-going chumps hitting on them all the time.
-They say "i wish i had a boyfriend", instead of "i require my men to be this or that way" like those evil foreign women.


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[Ghost]

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[GoingAwol]

Yep!
If you'll notice.... Anytime you try to communicate with them they won't put forth any effort to maintain the conversation. Any questions you ask them will be met with one word or short sentences. If you ask them how they are doing they'll say "Fine" and won't even bother asking how you are most of the time. In short, they take and don't give anything back. People often say guys who can't get women need to learn game and/or improve their social skills, but how is it a guys fault when women are the ones who act anti-social? I've notice that you can find foreign women (Not all of them, but some) who will actually engage you in a meaningful dialogue. You just can't find that with American women. Ok, maybe you can find a rare American woman who is a unicorn, but I haven't found one yet.

[Adama]

The thing you have to remember is that not everyone is compatible with the other. 999 women out of 1000 women may not be attracted to you. Those women are not to encourage you to hit on them if they already know they are not interested. It is the 1 in 1000 women that you should look for.

[Yohan]

I have been noticing that American Women are extremely difficult to communicate with. It's like any speaking up to them and they will strip you of the ability to talk to them.

Well, to be honest, many girls living in some parts of Europe are not much better. Multiple boyfriends, highly materialistic, early teen pregnancy...

There are only some aspects better between men and women, as they are considered to be outdated and out of discussion and are not a hot topic like in USA.

One of them is to bring a foreign wife into Europe, it's easy and most Europeans have passports and have been out of Europe for jobs or vacation.

Another topic is about abortion, men usually do not object as they are happy to get away without future payments over decades, especially in case of marriage/divorce and it is legal and almost everywhere available.

All in all, men and women still talk to each other, the situation is less hateful, but otherwise?

[Eric]

You know, when I first came here; I thought this was all my problem. I thought it was inside my head that I was seeing this, feeling all of this. All of these feelings these guys share about western women I naturally felt, and didn't know why, couldn't explain it. I wondered what was wrong. I thought it was me. I didn't mention a word about it...just tried to adapt to the environment - like everyone says you should, to get along. I knew -deep inside, it wouldn't make me happy.
Instincts never lie. They never do and always they tell the truth.
Western American women turn me off in really tragic ways (unless I'm really horny, and feel like just scoring some ass and then I change my mind, maybe)... because they are just so ratchet. The whole society is ratchet, but we are dealing with the women. They also have this extremely unattractive quality of ...I cant explain, hating themselves and this really hostile independent aura that basically just says 'f you' and; it's like they also expect you to look at them and admire them at the same time, which is actually infuriating and just incredible. Most of them seem bitter inside although it can be hard to see - but it's there, and they are masculine. All turn offs.
Most of them put me off as well as turn me off... a bad and sad combination.
They also get mad when you pass them and don't pay them attention or like them, even if you're polite or nice about it... they'll still get mad and hurt, and they become even more unattractive, if you can imagine that.


I think some weird paradox is happening where I go up into my shell just because of the ratchetness of our society, these women... and because sex is so freely promoted and promiscuous behavior is pushed by all of society, in order to maintain balance - you push back away from it.

In normal societies, it is wanted simply because the rest of society is decent, fine and natural on the whole, so guys will naturally want to spill out into the edges and have sex with lots of women. When it's in your face constantly, it short circuits yourself - where you don't want it, but run from it. At least, this is my experience - sort of.

I think that's the real reason guys here go sexless for sure. They've like found a way to short-circuit our sex systems and drives with ratchet horrible women and constant promotion of depravity.
Girls here are literally like sex- kittens. They don't even realize but they've been conditioned to just slut themselves out. But they're also dirty and mean and expect guys to bow down before them - which won't happen, if a guy wants to have sex.
That's why you have this epidemic of guys lying and deceiving; lowering themselves, to get laid.

[Winston]

Check out this hot blonde talking on YouTube. Notice how she puts on airs with her voice. Most American girls talk like this. The question is: How are you supposed to vibe with them or connect with them? They don't make you feel relaxed or comfortable at all. How can you have a relationship with them? How do their boyfriends connect or vibe with them? I've never understood that.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBZZJ0gYGqo[/youtube]

[Eric]

It's really frustrating today - I'm having a really frustrated time because, sometimes you just want a break. It seems that whenever I'm in a good mood, ready to feel good - looking for girls, all that pops out are the primadona masculine, narcissistic cunt AW, which just puts me in a sour mood....and spoils me for everything else.
After a while - you start viewing all AW as the same...because it gets too hard to view them as individuals anymore; you get tired of being let down. It's right then that it seems the nice/decent ones appear in your radar - when you're pissed off, sullen, depressed... etc., etc.
I really hate this. Does this seem to happen to anyone else? It feels like I can't win. I just want to get laid. I mean, what more does a guy have to do to get laid here - just to even, be with a woman.
This sucks.

[Jonny Law]

I have been noticing that American Women are extremely difficult to communicate with. It's like any speaking up to them and they will strip you of the ability to talk to them.

A Black Widow Spider is also difficult to deal with. And that is a good thing. American women should be avoided like the plague.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOjI2f0lc98

[bostero]

There's a also a tendency these days for Americans to mumble a lot or speak in some hybrid speech that requires constantly learning new slang. They also can't describe things well, and have a small pool of words and ideas to use. It's very bare communication. Think of how the people of 2505 spoke in the movie Idiocracy. For example, if you asked a typical American what a movie they just saw was like, you're likely to hear a response such as "I liked it. It was good. It was awesome." They can express opinions but can't tell you why. No wonder that most millenials are liberal morons who can't argue a point, being capable only of crying "racism! sexism!" whenever someone expresses contrary opinions.

I've noticed it, too. I thought that it was just my imagination or something. They've turned almost totally incoherent in recent years. The drawling slang is bad enough ("Seriously" somehow morphs into "surslaaaaaay", for example); throw in the new "vocal fry" horror, and it's a lost cause trying to decipher half of what they say. I don't have my own TV; but the last time that I watched one elsewhere- and I am not joking or exaggerating whatsoever- I couldn't understand what they were saying in the commercials, let alone on the "reality" ( ) shows themselves. I remember thinking that their speech has gotten so messed up, that I would need actual subtitles just to understand them. Native speakers of English-and they sounded harder to understand than most immigrants.

[USA_luxury_prison]

Check out this hot blonde talking on YouTube. Notice how she puts on airs with her voice. Most American girls talk like this. The question is: How are you supposed to vibe with them or connect with them? They don't make you feel relaxed or comfortable at all. How can you have a relationship with them? How do their boyfriends connect or vibe with them? I've never understood that.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBZZJ0gYGqo[/youtube]

She looks like she has some sort of brain damage. Almost like shes broken and fragmented.lol

[droid]

I've always been skeptical about cell phone microwaves allegedly killing brain neurons, but this kind of stuff is really strong evidence...

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

There's a also a tendency these days for Americans to mumble a lot or speak in some hybrid speech that requires constantly learning new slang. They also can't describe things well, and have a small pool of words and ideas to use. It's very bare communication. Think of how the people of 2505 spoke in the movie Idiocracy. For example, if you asked a typical American what a movie they just saw was like, you're likely to hear a response such as "I liked it. It was good. It was awesome." They can express opinions but can't tell you why. No wonder that most millenials are liberal morons who can't argue a point, being capable only of crying "racism! sexism!" whenever someone expresses contrary opinions.

That formal TEFL curriculum is making you mature as of late. It's too bad your narcissism doesn't realize that we aren't that much different from each other when it comes to being anti-feminist and pro-expatriation.