I'm in my mid-thirties and am pretty happy with life except for women. I'm good-looking and have successes with women from time to time. It's actually gotten easier for me with age. The post-college girls are my bread and butter, and they tend to respond very well to me. However, I can't for the life of me find a decent girlfriend. It's easier to f**k a 23 year old girl within three hours of meeting her than it is to go out on a dinner date. So I guess the feedback I get from American women is extremely schizophrenic and contradictory. There was a time when I thought this was my fault, but I am over that.
I tried dating a few older (29-33) women and they were absolutely horrible human beings, like real full-blown sociopathy. It seems like past 25, the more years a woman goes unmarried the more delusional and evil she becomes.
My experience in relationships is that American women expect men to be 100% servile and obedient, and the minute you show any sign of disobedience you get tossed out. There's no discussion and no compromise, it's already too late the moment you are not 100% in agreement with everything she wants, at all times. I'm at the point now where I kind of don't even want to deal with them, because I know it will lead to nothing good. Of course the younger ones have an endless sea of options and are very difficult to pin down, so I just f**k them with no expectations.
Strangely, I've always found foreign women in America to be much nicer. I never sought them out, but I have dated a lot just because they were the only women around who had any personality and intelligence.
I thought for a long time the horrible behavior I experienced was an indication of my own personal defects, but I started looking at other guys and saw them going through the same thing, and that really changed my views. I think the whole PUA culture is still caught up in the idea that there's something wrong with you if an AW treats you like shit.
Winston's blog about the quadruple whammy is probably one of the most hilarious, accurate, and honest things I have ever read in my life. That man deserves a Nobel prize, or something.
I would add a fifth whammy to the list: Even if you are able to meet a girl, AND she turns out to be single, AND you meet her lofty expectations, AND she turns out to have a good personality...even if the stars align, you luck out, and you find that unicorn...even then, the state is still incentivizing the destruction of your marriage through onerous divorce laws that incentivize women to financially ruin you, for any reason at any time. I myself have only made it through the first three whammies, and got stuck on the fourth. I don't have another ten years to wait for another chance.
I'm seriously at the point where I think going abroad permanently is the only solution. Even rich famous celebrities like Robin Williams are killing themselves because the divorce laws in this country are so punitive for men.
So thank you for creating this site, and I look forward to learning from you guys as I fine-tune my next destination.
It may be convenient now, but certainly not later.
