nomadphilippines wrote:so a woman wants to date someone her own age and that makes for warped standards?
Yes.
I cannot see her photo because I am not registered on match, I will surmise she is 5'5" and 220 pounds.
She apparently thinks there is a male prospect, aged 30-40 who can afford to give her kids who is either:
A. never married prospect. That's a golden unicorn, because guys that age with money are usually married or divorced. Any rich guy still single at that age probably had a vasectomy. Thus she seeks the golden unicorn: rich, handsome, never married, doesn't shoot blanks, and willing to ignore her obesity. Because, baby, she'd worth it. Sorry honey, the golden unicorn wants single women with no kids, aged 21-29, who are half her weight. And the golden unicorn will be banging such women for the rest of his live. Probably not settling down until he's a senior citizen like Hef did.
B. a divorced prospect. That's another unicorn, a silver unicorn. She wants a silver unicorn who can afford to give her kids, even while he is paying tremendous alimony and child support. And again, she expects the siver unicorn to overlook her 220 pound classic 15th century look. And she would be insulted by the idea of signing a pre-nup agreement, which the rational silver unicorn would reasonably expect.
This woman needs to ask herself why she still unmarried and childless. It has to do with her appearance and attitude.
nomadphilippines wrote:
yet 50 year old guys want to bang 20 year old girls and think nothing of it
Because we can.