A roosh Manosphere idiot finally ACCEPTS REALITY!

[Yohan]

Damn, man, your post really made a lot of good points.

Villages in the 3rd world are not safe. Village men are dumb stupid illiterate morons who will see you as an outsider and thus would see nothing wrong with trying to make a false criminal accusation or extortion from you.

If you want to marry a village girl then you have to live with her in one of the large cities in that country, in a secure gated apartment complex.....

Opinions might be divided about that, just my opinion - for your own safety, you should consider it....

I am living since 1972 away from Europe and in Asia. I never came back.

Not all Asian countries are unsafe, I am since 1976 in Tokyo, but I have a second home in Thailand, I have been in remote areas (plantages for coconuts, palmoil, rubber etc.) in Malaysia and still visit Chinese friends there, I have a good relationship with Philippines (fosterdaughter is a Filipina), I have also been in other places like Taiwan, Cambodia, also USA/Canada etc.

I don't know really about a case of false criminal accusation personally in rural areas in Asia, but I know about some cases of extortion, theft and serious threats after the relationship was broken down and the foreign husband/boyfriend refused to vacant the property.

A foreign man (Norway) was asked to 'go home immediately' (I forgot the place somewhere out in Isaan near Kalasin, a forgettable area) and to leave behind all what was bought with his money - but it did not really legally belong to him... 'my bargirl is different' and all was in her name - what shall police do in such a situation?

In another case outside of Bangkok, (Netherland) not so far away from the city, the girlfriend left him and he was visited and asked 'politely but clearly' by her boyfriends (gang-members) to move out of 'her property'... as a warning the entrance next morning was filled up with smelling garbage and a can of gasoline nearby..

In another case near Rayong the wife was a good woman over many years. He was from USA - but she died in a non-related car accident. The next day after her funeral all her relatives were showing up, demanding he moves out claiming all land and house as their inheritance.

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You have to be aware, that in Asian countries LAND in general does not belong to you as a foreigner, and even if you have legal rights on it with contracts like company ltd. ownership, you cannot carry it away and in any rural area it will be 'occupied', you will be kicked out and there is nothing you can do about.

This is totally different with guarded condominium units in Asian cities - I know you will have to live somehow with other foreigners next door - but ownership will be in your foreigner's name only, which is confirmed in the landtitle - and it is the girlfriend, and even the ex-wife including HER children, who will be forced to move out in case of a dispute - but only IF the condominium unit was bought by you and fully paid BEFORE marriage.
Asian countries do not accept co-habitation, as long as you are not legally married nothing to worry about...your home is yours forever.

I was warning many foreign men about such legal tricky issues, but nobody was listening to me until it was too late. 'I made a mistake in my life - going home'... Don't ask me how much money such 'yellow fever guys' lost in Asia for creating a palast in a no-where place, for buying cars and even ships...

Some foreigners think about living in 'rent only' apartments - but openly said, many foreign men do not like that idea, especially after retirement, me too. I want to live in my own rooms, and in most Asian countries the only way to do this as a foreigner is by buying your condominium unit, preferable within a secure compound.

[MrLee4u]

Geez, learn how to do basic math and drop off the manoshphere shit! The top 20% of men ALREADY have all the women they COULD WANT. ONLY top tier men prefer TOP tier women! That leaves all the basic bitches with basic dudes. Only a total mentally ill loser can't find a basic bitch. In the manoshphere, you have a lot of basic dudes who feel entitled to top tier women without being top tier and mentally ill losers who can get anything at all. So they want to enslave women, legalize rape, etc so they can have a chance

But in a society that accepts and practices polygamy, the top 20% would ALSO marry the bottom 80% too. So your first statements are accurate only according to the modern society's unnatural emphasis on monogamy.

You also seem to push the whole "mental illness" point a lot in your posts. Here is an 15 part essay written by medical doctors that explains why psychiatry/psychology is a bogus science. "Mental illness" does not exist and it certainly has no biological/chemical basis.

http://antipsychiatry.org/

LOL @ using the red pill messiah Morpheous as your avatar but still believing in totally bluepill false doctrines.

Here's another couple of TRUE redpills, if you can handle it:

http://www.atlanteanconspiracy.com/2015 ... d.html?m=1

http://www.atlanteanconspiracy.com/2015 ... exist.html

As I said before: learn how to do basic math and drop off the manoshphere shit! The top 20% of men ALREADY have all the women they COULD WANT. I have at least 10 girls I can call up right now. ONLY top tier men prefer TOP tier women!. She becomes the girl whose beauty you are reminded of when you see another girl and YOU don’t want to have sex with any other girl. Sex is not intercourse without communication patterns that stimulate the mind — the brain is the largest sex organ by mass, not to mention sensory perception and feedback, creativity and desire and planning etc. That leaves all the basic bitches to basic dudes. Seriously, how many men/women are in the top 20% in America? Maybe 2%-3% giving you what, something like 5 million top tier men out of 330 million? Right

Funny how someone mental ill would say mental illness doesn't exist. Before Psychiatry was invented, doctors used to treat people like you for gut health issues http://culturewhiz.org/forum/topic/summ ... l-research

Red pill what? Sorry, I don't know what that means. Some goofy role playing game?

[Zambales]

Mindanao is the poorest part of the Philippines so not everyone's going to own a smartphone. Internet connection is not available to all either.

You seem to assume that lack of fast and reliable Internet connection is somehow sheltering at least some of these girls from the corrupting powers of modernity. I am sorry but this is a myth. Considering there are "workable" smartphones with dual-core processors and reasonably large screen selling for as little as 2,000 pesos, I doubt a girl older than 18 will be found in rural Mindanao, who doesn't own one. The only people who still own "dumb phones" are some of the elderly.

And even if these girls had little or no access whatsoever to mobile technology and its satellite applications (including social media and online dating), I believe it's their lack of education and opportunities that will have turned them into lazy, dumb and (often) outright vicious people. Most of the horror stories you hear, about foreign men being scammed or even murdered by the Filipina and/or her friends and family, invariably involve girls from the deep province. Straight from the province or freshly moved from the province to the large(r) city.

The main reason why westerners get murdered in the Philippines is down to stupidity/naivety. Usually it's the ones who waltz into the country thinking they can swiftly prize any woman away by buying them and are too impatient to get to know them properly, those who disrespect the natives by treading on the wrong toes, or those who display their wealth openly.

Of course there will be "vicious" people in the Philippines but obviously these types are in every country and come from every social class so lets not adopt the right wing mentality of picking on the kid in the school yard because he's the smallest, shall we?

I have the utmost confidence in myself that if I had the time and inclination I could find a woman in the province that would meet my criteria. It's very unlikely to happen overnight but over the course of a year which may include basing myself in different locations, I don't see much of a problem.

Whether she has a smartphone or not doesn't really matter because the one that needs to be smart is yourself. But then again, I'm not looking for a woman that can recite Shakespeare while giving me a blowjob. I'd be happy with an attractive, typical, simplistic, homely Filipina. The sort that gets rave reviews the world over. They are out there for sure and not all of them will be heavily influenced by outside sources. They may already have ingrained influences from their parents or religion for example.

[Zambales]

Anyhow, it doesn't matter which country in the world it is, I'll think you'll find people as a whole from the more rural area's aren't consumed by the headless chicken rituals of the rat race where money takes centre stage and everything else comes a distant second. There's more of a community spirit rurally where folk are more likely to help each other, and yes, they are innocent to an extent because their lives haven't been affected by the competitive nature of suburbia.

True to an extent, but the same people - at least in the Philippines - will be consumed by far inferior and nastier behaviours...laziness, lack of ambition, the kind of stupid actions that can only stem from lack of basic world/life knowledge, superstition, greed, etc.
I know it's totally counter-intuitive but see: if a girl had any combination of brains and heart, she will have fled her native deep countryside at her first occasion. Usually high school, college or whenever she will feel that she needs a job to support herself, her family or her kids. Those who are not underage children and remain, do so for a reason. And, believe me, you're not gonna like that reason.

I am not sure, Zambales, if this is still the case nowadays.
What publicduende says, makes a lot of sense and I made similar observations in Philippines and some other Asian countries.

Take for example Thailand, which has wide rural areas, but girls from there often move away to the cities and tourist spots and other girls who stay behind have all internet, computers and mobile phones and are informed what is going on outside their village. Thailand also has a cheap and very efficient long-distance inland bus network. Thai girls from rural areas are nothing better than girls from the cities.

That might be just Thailand though. I've travelled extensively within the Philippines (around a quarter of the eighty provinces) and I've come across plenty of desirable ladies. Just because they own a smartphone doesn't automatically make them into a feminist monster.

[GuyAbroad8293]

Damn, man, your post really made a lot of good points.

Villages in the 3rd world are not safe. Village men are dumb stupid illiterate morons who will see you as an outsider and thus would see nothing wrong with trying to make a false criminal accusation or extortion from you.

If you want to marry a village girl then you have to live with her in one of the large cities in that country, in a secure gated apartment complex.....

Opinions might be divided about that, just my opinion - for your own safety, you should consider it....

I am living since 1972 away from Europe and in Asia. I never came back.

Not all Asian countries are unsafe, I am since 1976 in Tokyo, but I have a second home in Thailand, I have been in remote areas (plantages for coconuts, palmoil, rubber etc.) in Malaysia and still visit Chinese friends there, I have a good relationship with Philippines (fosterdaughter is a Filipina), I have also been in other places like Taiwan, Cambodia, also USA/Canada etc.

I don't know really about a case of false criminal accusation personally in rural areas in Asia, but I know about some cases of extortion, theft and serious threats after the relationship was broken down and the foreign husband/boyfriend refused to vacant the property.

A foreign man (Norway) was asked to 'go home immediately' (I forgot the place somewhere out in Isaan near Kalasin, a forgettable area) and to leave behind all what was bought with his money - but it did not really legally belong to him... 'my bargirl is different' and all was in her name - what shall police do in such a situation?

In another case outside of Bangkok, (Netherland) not so far away from the city, the girlfriend left him and he was visited and asked 'politely but clearly' by her boyfriends (gang-members) to move out of 'her property'... as a warning the entrance next morning was filled up with smelling garbage and a can of gasoline nearby..

In another case near Rayong the wife was a good woman over many years. He was from USA - but she died in a non-related car accident. The next day after her funeral all her relatives were showing up, demanding he moves out claiming all land and house as their inheritance.

-----

You have to be aware, that in Asian countries LAND in general does not belong to you as a foreigner, and even if you have legal rights on it with contracts like company ltd. ownership, you cannot carry it away and in any rural area it will be 'occupied', you will be kicked out and there is nothing you can do about.

This is totally different with guarded condominium units in Asian cities - I know you will have to live somehow with other foreigners next door - but ownership will be in your foreigner's name only, which is confirmed in the landtitle - and it is the girlfriend, and even the ex-wife including HER children, who will be forced to move out in case of a dispute - but only IF the condominium unit was bought by you and fully paid BEFORE marriage.
Asian countries do not accept co-habitation, as long as you are not legally married nothing to worry about...your home is yours forever.

I was warning many foreign men about such legal tricky issues, but nobody was listening to me until it was too late. 'I made a mistake in my life - going home'... Don't ask me how much money such 'yellow fever guys' lost in Asia for creating a palast in a no-where place, for buying cars and even ships...

Some foreigners think about living in 'rent only' apartments - but openly said, many foreign men do not like that idea, especially after retirement, me too. I want to live in my own rooms, and in most Asian countries the only way to do this as a foreigner is by buying your condominium unit, preferable within a secure compound.

I am simply describing the mindset of the average village male in these 3rd world countries. The men are most certainly not "pure". They are disgusting subhumans who are literally one or two steps above a primate. And you most certainly can never trust such primates as the behavior of primates shows. Primates are extremely conscious of "insider/outsider" status. Hell, in the monkey world, a male will kill an alpha male monkey and thus become the alpha of the group. The first thing he does is kill the babies of the females of the group, which then puts the female monkeys back into heat so he can reproduce with them and create his own genetic offspring.

Village men see you as an outsider. They have no qualms about kidnapping you, trying to extort money from you, or even worse.

Men are meant to be educated. Women are meant to be uneducated. The modern society is based on the exact opposite principle. That is why there is so much chaos in the modern society. Societies where men are educated/civilized and women are uneducated/simple and stable, peaceful, happy societies.

Thankfully, society operates in cycles and we are in the midst of a cycle of men and women returning to a traditional role, with Generation Z's rejection of feminism. I do not know a single person, male or female, under the age of 20, who actually supports feminism.

[GuyAbroad8293]

Geez, learn how to do basic math and drop off the manoshphere shit! The top 20% of men ALREADY have all the women they COULD WANT. ONLY top tier men prefer TOP tier women! That leaves all the basic bitches with basic dudes. Only a total mentally ill loser can't find a basic bitch. In the manoshphere, you have a lot of basic dudes who feel entitled to top tier women without being top tier and mentally ill losers who can get anything at all. So they want to enslave women, legalize rape, etc so they can have a chance

But in a society that accepts and practices polygamy, the top 20% would ALSO marry the bottom 80% too. So your first statements are accurate only according to the modern society's unnatural emphasis on monogamy.

You also seem to push the whole "mental illness" point a lot in your posts. Here is an 15 part essay written by medical doctors that explains why psychiatry/psychology is a bogus science. "Mental illness" does not exist and it certainly has no biological/chemical basis.

http://antipsychiatry.org/

LOL @ using the red pill messiah Morpheous as your avatar but still believing in totally bluepill false doctrines.

Here's another couple of TRUE redpills, if you can handle it:

http://www.atlanteanconspiracy.com/2015 ... d.html?m=1

http://www.atlanteanconspiracy.com/2015 ... exist.html

As I said before: learn how to do basic math and drop off the manoshphere shit! The top 20% of men ALREADY have all the women they COULD WANT. I have at least 10 girls I can call up right now. ONLY top tier men prefer TOP tier women!. She becomes the girl whose beauty you are reminded of when you see another girl and YOU don’t want to have sex with any other girl. Sex is not intercourse without communication patterns that stimulate the mind — the brain is the largest sex organ by mass, not to mention sensory perception and feedback, creativity and desire and planning etc. That leaves all the basic bitches to basic dudes. Seriously, how many men/women are in the top 20% in America? Maybe 2%-3% giving you what, something like 5 million top tier men out of 330 million? Right

Funny how someone mental ill would say mental illness doesn't exist. Before Psychiatry was invented, doctors used to treat people like you for gut health issues http://culturewhiz.org/forum/topic/summ ... l-research

Red pill what? Sorry, I don't know what that means. Some goofy role playing game?

Okay Mr Blue Pill. Sorry to have disturbed your slumber. Back to sleep.

[GuyAbroad8293]

Mindanao is the poorest part of the Philippines so not everyone's going to own a smartphone. Internet connection is not available to all either.

You seem to assume that lack of fast and reliable Internet connection is somehow sheltering at least some of these girls from the corrupting powers of modernity. I am sorry but this is a myth. Considering there are "workable" smartphones with dual-core processors and reasonably large screen selling for as little as 2,000 pesos, I doubt a girl older than 18 will be found in rural Mindanao, who doesn't own one. The only people who still own "dumb phones" are some of the elderly.

And even if these girls had little or no access whatsoever to mobile technology and its satellite applications (including social media and online dating), I believe it's their lack of education and opportunities that will have turned them into lazy, dumb and (often) outright vicious people. Most of the horror stories you hear, about foreign men being scammed or even murdered by the Filipina and/or her friends and family, invariably involve girls from the deep province. Straight from the province or freshly moved from the province to the large(r) city.

The main reason why westerners get murdered in the Philippines is down to stupidity/naivety. Usually it's the ones who waltz into the country thinking they can swiftly prize any woman away by buying them and are too impatient to get to know them properly, those who disrespect the natives by treading on the wrong toes, or those who display their wealth openly.

Of course there will be "vicious" people in the Philippines but obviously these types are in every country and come from every social class so lets not adopt the right wing mentality of picking on the kid in the school yard because he's the smallest, shall we?

I have the utmost confidence in myself that if I had the time and inclination I could find a woman in the province that would meet my criteria. It's very unlikely to happen overnight but over the course of a year which may include basing myself in different locations, I don't see much of a problem.

Whether she has a smartphone or not doesn't really matter because the one that needs to be smart is yourself. But then again, I'm not looking for a woman that can recite Shakespeare while giving me a blowjob. I'd be happy with an attractive, typical, simplistic, homely Filipina. The sort that gets rave reviews the world over. They are out there for sure and not all of them will be heavily influenced by outside sources. They may already have ingrained influences from their parents or religion for example.

The reason westerners get murdered in Asia is because they were stupid enough to put themselves in a position where they could be exploited and taken advantage of by greedy, racist, uncivilized Asians, who primarily come from the rural village areas. Thankfully, the city people are far more civilized, aside from the criminal element, which is there in every society, yes. Then again, the criminal element primarily consists of men from the rural village areas who come to the big city and see the opportunity to make huge amounts of money thru illegal activities. Educated urban men are the least likely to engage in criminal activity.

[MrLee4u]

Geez, learn how to do basic math and drop off the manoshphere shit! The top 20% of men ALREADY have all the women they COULD WANT. ONLY top tier men prefer TOP tier women! That leaves all the basic bitches with basic dudes. Only a total mentally ill loser can't find a basic bitch. In the manoshphere, you have a lot of basic dudes who feel entitled to top tier women without being top tier and mentally ill losers who can get anything at all. So they want to enslave women, legalize rape, etc so they can have a chance

But in a society that accepts and practices polygamy, the top 20% would ALSO marry the bottom 80% too. So your first statements are accurate only according to the modern society's unnatural emphasis on monogamy.

You also seem to push the whole "mental illness" point a lot in your posts. Here is an 15 part essay written by medical doctors that explains why psychiatry/psychology is a bogus science. "Mental illness" does not exist and it certainly has no biological/chemical basis.

http://antipsychiatry.org/

LOL @ using the red pill messiah Morpheous as your avatar but still believing in totally bluepill false doctrines.

Here's another couple of TRUE redpills, if you can handle it:

http://www.atlanteanconspiracy.com/2015 ... d.html?m=1

http://www.atlanteanconspiracy.com/2015 ... exist.html

As I said before: learn how to do basic math and drop off the manoshphere shit! The top 20% of men ALREADY have all the women they COULD WANT. I have at least 10 girls I can call up right now. ONLY top tier men prefer TOP tier women!. She becomes the girl whose beauty you are reminded of when you see another girl and YOU don’t want to have sex with any other girl. Sex is not intercourse without communication patterns that stimulate the mind — the brain is the largest sex organ by mass, not to mention sensory perception and feedback, creativity and desire and planning etc. That leaves all the basic bitches to basic dudes. Seriously, how many men/women are in the top 20% in America? Maybe 2%-3% giving you what, something like 5 million top tier men out of 330 million? Right

Funny how someone mental ill would say mental illness doesn't exist. Before Psychiatry was invented, doctors used to treat people like you for gut health issues http://culturewhiz.org/forum/topic/summ ... l-research

Red pill what? Sorry, I don't know what that means. Some goofy role playing game?

Okay Mr Blue Pill. Sorry to have disturbed your slumber. Back to sleep.

viewtopic.php?f=1&t=37285 I'm glad someone took the time to write this

[suprmon]

Zambales, you can continue to believe the lies you wish we're true, but don't push them on others!

[suprmon]

Zambales, you say you were misunderstood about go backpacking to certain parts of the Philippines. You knew exactly what you were saying! Backpacking to any to any unfamiliar country is dangerous and foolhardy to say the least and to send a naive young person into uncharted territory shows a complete lack of that young person's safety and welfare! Oh, also do you usually insult someone's marital status when they challenge your opinions? Maybe you're the one whose a loser and lonely! Not everyone can be a "hotdogger" like you!

[Zambales]

Mindanao is the poorest part of the Philippines so not everyone's going to own a smartphone. Internet connection is not available to all either.

You seem to assume that lack of fast and reliable Internet connection is somehow sheltering at least some of these girls from the corrupting powers of modernity. I am sorry but this is a myth. Considering there are "workable" smartphones with dual-core processors and reasonably large screen selling for as little as 2,000 pesos, I doubt a girl older than 18 will be found in rural Mindanao, who doesn't own one. The only people who still own "dumb phones" are some of the elderly.

And even if these girls had little or no access whatsoever to mobile technology and its satellite applications (including social media and online dating), I believe it's their lack of education and opportunities that will have turned them into lazy, dumb and (often) outright vicious people. Most of the horror stories you hear, about foreign men being scammed or even murdered by the Filipina and/or her friends and family, invariably involve girls from the deep province. Straight from the province or freshly moved from the province to the large(r) city.

The main reason why westerners get murdered in the Philippines is down to stupidity/naivety. Usually it's the ones who waltz into the country thinking they can swiftly prize any woman away by buying them and are too impatient to get to know them properly, those who disrespect the natives by treading on the wrong toes, or those who display their wealth openly.

Of course there will be "vicious" people in the Philippines but obviously these types are in every country and come from every social class so lets not adopt the right wing mentality of picking on the kid in the school yard because he's the smallest, shall we?

I have the utmost confidence in myself that if I had the time and inclination I could find a woman in the province that would meet my criteria. It's very unlikely to happen overnight but over the course of a year which may include basing myself in different locations, I don't see much of a problem.

Whether she has a smartphone or not doesn't really matter because the one that needs to be smart is yourself. But then again, I'm not looking for a woman that can recite Shakespeare while giving me a blowjob. I'd be happy with an attractive, typical, simplistic, homely Filipina. The sort that gets rave reviews the world over. They are out there for sure and not all of them will be heavily influenced by outside sources. They may already have ingrained influences from their parents or religion for example.

The reason westerners get murdered in Asia is because they were stupid enough to put themselves in a position where they could be exploited and taken advantage of by greedy, racist, uncivilized Asians, who primarily come from the rural village areas.

Rather a big generalisation isn't it? I can't speak for the whole of Asia but whenever I've been to the rural area's in the Philippines I' normally get treated with kindness and respect but then again I don't strut about with an entitled chip on my shoulder like some westerners do. I'm beginning to understand more to why some guys exploits overseas don't prove fruitful. It boils down to attitude.

I'll leave you gentlemen with a video about an American guy in the Philippines who approaches Filipino's pretending to be broke. It may have been filmed in the city but they can be as kind in the provinces too. Seriously, they can!

Don't forget the popcorn, duende!

[Zambales]

Zambales, you say you were misunderstood about go backpacking to certain parts of the Philippines. You knew exactly what you were saying! Backpacking to any to any unfamiliar country is dangerous and foolhardy to say the least and to send a naive young person into uncharted territory shows a complete lack of that young person's safety and welfare! Oh, also do you usually insult someone's marital status when they challenge your opinions? Maybe you're the one whose a loser and lonely! Not everyone can be a "hotdogger" like you!

If you're going to make wild accusations at least back it up with evidence.

And no I'm not Brad Pitt but you don't need to be in the Philippines. All I'm doing is trying to add some positivity to the forum amidst all the doom and gloom that's associated with this place usually. Apologies for hitting a raw nerve.

[publicduende]

Zambales, you say you were misunderstood about go backpacking to certain parts of the Philippines. You knew exactly what you were saying! Backpacking to any to any unfamiliar country is dangerous and foolhardy to say the least and to send a naive young person into uncharted territory shows a complete lack of that young person's safety and welfare! Oh, also do you usually insult someone's marital status when they challenge your opinions? Maybe you're the one whose a loser and lonely! Not everyone can be a "hotdogger" like you!

If you're going to make wild accusations at least back it up with evidence.

And no I'm not Brad Pitt but you don't need to be in the Philippines. All I'm doing is trying to add some positivity to the forum amidst all the doom and gloom that's associated with this place usually. Apologies for hitting a raw nerve.

Please do not feel like I am attacking you, Zambales. You're one of the better members both in terms of contributions and tones. I do appreciate you trying to inject some positivity into the discussion about finding a worthy companion in the Philippines. It's just that, after almost 3 years living here continuously, I have kind of grown cynical about some of the usual "nice" stereotypes about Filipino people.

I haven't travelled in the province as extensively as you did, I simply never had the time. I have direct experience of a lot of province people who moved to Davao, though, and I have obviously spent some time in some rural areas around Davao and even far away in Mindanao, Surigao for example.

Life outside a town is very, very simple indeed. There isn't much to do at all, apart from working for the local government or for the few micro-businesses available, usually small grocery shops, laundries, car shops and other small utilities. Most of those girls are not just simple, but simple-minded.

They might appear innocent and kind on the surface but, as the other poster says, their behaviour is overly naive and prone to the kind of impulsive and consequence-free thinking typical of a child. I might enjoy some fun time with one or two of those girls but would never entrust them with, say, my house keys, let alone the keys to my heart so to speak I have tried a few times and had nothing but disappointments.

It might be just my own bias, but I am not looking for a "home pet" of a girl who will just follow her man's instructions, never complain - in fact never express an opinion - and be contented with being finally drawn out of an existence of misery and struggle. If that was the case, I would have taken my pick in Davao mere weeks into moving there. There are plenty of options even in a large city - no need to go deep in the province!

It's when you're looking for a girl who is not just attractive, but also holds her own intellectually, holds dreams beyond being supported by a man of (financial) means and isn't looking to "upgrade" at the first available chance, that's a much taller call. Not just in the Philippines, everywhere in the world.

My personal conclusion is: finding a quality girl is hard everywhere. Going to rural Mindanao hoping to find a "kind savage" that ticks all those boxes is a Robinson Crusoe kind of myth.

[GuyAbroad8293]

It's not about attitude or whatever. It's about the fact that these villagers are living in extreme poverty and would do anything to try to escape it, even kidnapping or extorting a western tourist. But hey if you want to put your welfare at risk by being around a bunch of desperate animals, then that's your choice.

Most urban people of those asian countries would never travel to the rural village areas. The native born urban asians see villages as extremely dangerous places and that law and order only exists in the big cities.

It's the racist western romanticism notion that village life is somehow pure. If it's so pure then why is everyone leaving to come to the big cities? Problem is they bring their uncivilized village culture to the big city too. Hence your only REAL option as a westerner is to live in a gated secure community or apartment complex.

Native born asians who live in the big cities think westerners are insane for wanting to travel to the smaller villages and rural areas.

[GuyAbroad8293]

Zambales, you say you were misunderstood about go backpacking to certain parts of the Philippines. You knew exactly what you were saying! Backpacking to any to any unfamiliar country is dangerous and foolhardy to say the least and to send a naive young person into uncharted territory shows a complete lack of that young person's safety and welfare! Oh, also do you usually insult someone's marital status when they challenge your opinions? Maybe you're the one whose a loser and lonely! Not everyone can be a "hotdogger" like you!

If you're going to make wild accusations at least back it up with evidence.

And no I'm not Brad Pitt but you don't need to be in the Philippines. All I'm doing is trying to add some positivity to the forum amidst all the doom and gloom that's associated with this place usually. Apologies for hitting a raw nerve.

Please do not feel like I am attacking you, Zambales. You're one of the better members both in terms of contributions and tones. I do appreciate you trying to inject some positivity into the discussion about finding a worthy companion in the Philippines. It's just that, after almost 3 years living here continuously, I have kind of grown cynical about some of the usual "nice" stereotypes about Filipino people.

I haven't travelled in the province as extensively as you did, I simply never had the time. I have direct experience of a lot of province people who moved to Davao, though, and I have obviously spent some time in some rural areas around Davao and even far away in Mindanao, Surigao for example.

Life outside a town is very, very simple indeed. There isn't much to do at all, apart from working for the local government or for the few micro-businesses available, usually small grocery shops, laundries, car shops and other small utilities. Most of those girls are not just simple, but simple-minded.

They might appear innocent and kind on the surface but, as the other poster says, their behaviour is overly naive and prone to the kind of impulsive and consequence-free thinking typical of a child. I might enjoy some fun time with one or two of those girls but would never entrust them with, say, my house keys, let alone the keys to my heart so to speak I have tried a few times and had nothing but disappointments.

It might be just my own bias, but I am not looking for a "home pet" of a girl who will just follow her man's instructions, never complain - in fact never express an opinion - and be contented with being finally drawn out of an existence of misery and struggle. If that was the case, I would have taken my pick in Davao mere weeks into moving there. There are plenty of options even in a large city - no need to go deep in the province!

It's when you're looking for a girl who is not just attractive, but also holds her own intellectually, holds dreams beyond being supported by a man of (financial) means and isn't looking to "upgrade" at the first available chance, that's a much taller call. Not just in the Philippines, everywhere in the world.

My personal conclusion is: finding a quality girl is hard everywhere. Going to rural Mindanao hoping to find a "kind savage" that ticks all those boxes is a Robinson Crusoe kind of myth.

Well now you are going to the other extreme, saying you want an intellectual girl who is your equal. No offense but how new are you to the red pill? That was one of the first true redpills to swallow, that this stupid idea "I want a smart girl who is my equal" is utterly false. Why not just marry a "smart" feminist western woman then?

And you've already said you're not interested in the other option, "having a female house pet" as you put it.

This is why I had asked, "Are we moving into a post-marriage society?" Men and women have become incompatible on fundamental levels, in the modern age, to put it lightly.