publicduende wrote: ↑July 30th, 2018, 8:10 am
For sure, if a 40-something divorcee with a semi-broken business plan was eventually able to land a young. pretty, smart Ateneo de Manila graduate from an excellent family, then a younger,
unmarried Asian-american like Horahngee here should be able to hit not so far away.
As someone said, it's never about how many time we fails, but how many time we try again.
Ah, hahahahaha!!!
I usually tend to not read other people's posting, but read yours as your advice to me about breaking up with my Filipina GF Grace sounds very similar to what my cranky ass mom told me.
I did not see that you were addressing me in your post.
I disagree with what you're saying about me being able to relocate to the Philippiines. You say that you're a divorced guy from the UK, and had a not-too-difficult time of finding a Filipina GF.
However, the part I differ with you about, is that you work in some kind of business field, and you owned your own businses while you previously lived in the UK.
I unfortunately do not work in the field of business. I got laid off 9 years ago, and have switched to a totally different career.
That career, unfortunately, pays LESS if I were to work in the Philippines, or heck, anywhere else outside of the US (or even Canada).
Therefore, I have no desire to move/relocate to the Philippines to find a GF, and eventually marry her. I just want to hook up with someone and get to know her, and then, get married to her.
I still want to be with Grace. However, with her older sister who argued with me, I do not feel like going back to the Philippines to visit her. It will also seem awkward to marry her, after all of these troubles that we have been through. I do not even know if Grace's older sister talked stink/gossiped about me to her neighbors. hence, I will eventually be just friends with her, but no marriage will take place with her.