An interesting section of an article about men who chase foreign gals

[MatureDJ]

http://www.returnofkings.com/186056/4-r ... good-woman

How many guys travel to Southeast Asia for a wife while knowing nothing about the culture there? Western men think that Laos (or wherever) is filled with beautiful virgin-sex slave-maid servants eager to worship a Western cock. Guess again. Those women are flawed too. The more shortcuts you take the more you feel the burn. How many American men have been divorce raped by Filipina women?

It’s the same in Eastern Europe and South America. The good women there don’t want you any more than the good women of your own country. They can smell that you’re not worthy and that you’re trying to take a shortcut. The bad women there will gladly take advantage of you. They’ll fool you into thinking they’re good women because you don’t know any better and you have already put them on a pedestal in your mind.

[GuyAbroad8293]

Men are still buying into the idea of marriage, even to a foreign chick, in 2018?

[Zambales]

http://www.returnofkings.com/186056/4-r ... good-woman

How many guys travel to Southeast Asia for a wife while knowing nothing about the culture there?

How many critics like to comment on guys who travel to Southeast Asia looking for a wife while knowing nothing about what it entails?

They can smell that you’re not worthy and that you’re trying to take a shortcut.

Typical western mentality right there!

A smart, genuine Filipina for example will not marry a foreigner if she deems him not to be worthy.

As for shortcuts. Traveling thousands of miles and paying for airfares multiple times, coping with the pressure of an LDR, and then having to deal with the red tape should you decide on bringing her back to your own country........yeah, that sure is a shortcut!

[Darrell_Johnston]

A smart, genuine Filipina for example will not marry a foreigner if she deems him not to be worthy.

That was his point.

How many men in this group are married to smart genuine filipinas? none. How many guys marry some poor starving girls and end up going through all sorts of hell? many.

This is the kind of thing winston will never talk about because he wants followers, he wants you all to think its all roses and candy

[Zambales]

A smart, genuine Filipina for example will not marry a foreigner if she deems him not to be worthy.

That was his point.

How many men in this group are married to smart genuine filipinas? none. How many guys marry some poor starving girls and end up going through all sorts of hell? many.

This is the kind of thing winston will never talk about because he wants followers, he wants you all to think its all roses and candy

What group are you referring to? This forum? If so, I don't know.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Men are still buying into the idea of marriage, even to a foreign chick, in 2018?

Old habits die hard when parents, family, mass media converge to brainwash young men that marriage is the "right thing to do."

Most men are of average intelligence which means they are unable to think critically about things spoon fed to them via custom and culture.

Also, men are born seeking to please females in their lives. Mothers, teachers, girlfriends, etc all know they have power over men by withholding or giving out their approval. Marriage is the ultimate means for men to gain female approval when all the women clap and praise men for choosing to do so.

Female approval creates a dopamine release that few men can overcome. For that reason, most men will continue to marry and do other stupid things.

[Darrell_Johnston]

Men are still buying into the idea of marriage, even to a foreign chick, in 2018?

Old habits die hard when parents, family, mass media converge to brainwash young men that marriage is the "right thing to do."

Most men are of average intelligence which means they are unable to think critically about things spoon fed to them via custom and culture.

Also, men are born seeking to please females in their lives. Mothers, teachers, girlfriends, etc all know they have power over men by withholding or giving out their approval. Marriage is the ultimate means for men to gain female approval when all the women clap and praise men for choosing to do so.

Female approval creates a dopamine release that few men can overcome. For that reason, most men will continue to marry and do other stupid things.

Finally some one with some good ideas. I agree totally. Though I am not ant-marriage.....I am anti-marriage for the reasons above. I may or may not ever marry, and I know I will love my life either way, and I will stay single if the marriage isn't for my own reasons, not for any reason you mentioned I think it not only gives men female approval, but approval from everyone. Doing anything for approval makes you subservient and easy to manipulate.

Most men think its hard to meet a decent woman.....they dont realise that it would be a hell of a lot easier if they were not approval seeking from women and gained their own approval from them selves instead, then women wont feel like you are a parasitic leech when they interact with you.

Decent women look for men who come self approved to inspire them and lead them

Indecent women look for men who are seeking approval.....so they can give that approval to them and use them