@E Irizarry R&B Singer, I have read a few of your past posts. Yes you are single but...are you really enjoying your lifestyle and the kind of ladies you can find? You don't sound like you had too much fun in Latin America and even in Africa. Are you even open to the possibility of showing some commitment to a woman, if she is worth it? If not, you will have to be a pretty hot stud to get a good looking girl to have s*x with you as a reward for just turning up.
What I am trying to say here is: with the ladies like with everything else in life it's
garbage in, garbage out. Very, very few of us can get some of the finest things in life without putting some effort to earn them. We often need to put 10 to get 5, but very rarely we can put 5 and get 6.
Contrarian Expatriate wrote: ↑December 17th, 2019, 12:47 pm
In the case of @hypermak specifically, I just think he, like a lot of men, was brainwashed over the years with the blue pill fantasy of married life. When I think about it, most guys like him are utter powerless to think straight about it when all your life your parents, your relatives, your female friends, television, films, popular music, government, and your religious faith bangs you over the head with the advise that marriage is good and you should get married. Guys who are just not bright enough to logically and rationally think these social dupe games thru will fall for it each and every time. That's why I encourage him to actually get married so when he is financially and emotionally ass-raped, it will finally sink in for him.
@Contrarian Expatriate You still haven't answered my question. Have you been married before? I assume not, at this point. I could also assume that you haven't had a lot of fulfilling relationships. I read some of your old posts and all I could find was an Eastern European girl living in the US whom you basically paid regularly so she could have s*x with you once every few days. Hardly a win, in my book. Hardly something that screams quality in the kinds of women and the kinds of relationships you are looking for.
How old are you? You might have been burned in the past, in which case I might understand your reluctance with looking for good women who don't need/want to get paid to be with you.
But if you haven't and your experience, as it sounds more and more at every post, is solely based on a bunch of YT videos about Japanese men being duped and dumped, or horror stories about "divorce rape in court", then it's just as good as those of the people you routinely mock on this forum.
For one last time, I am not saying I will marry in a breeze. I am saying that women worth their salt will want some form of commitment. If they believe in marriage they will ask for it, if they don't they might be fine with living together under the same roof, with kids and all. The key element here is
love and commitment, not marriage, which might or might not be there, as an expression of that commitment.
In the end, we are what we believe in. If you don't believe any beauty can be found in a relationship with a woman, even in a remote place like Philippines here, then trust me, you'll never find it and continue to be biased.