Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
Typical nonsense that one has to deal with when engaging irrational Christian nutjobs.
I promise you, based on my long past experience debating in various forums, that you have to deal with such kind of nonsense no matter if you are engaging a Christian or a non Christian and no matter what's the subject of the debate.
But, I think, it's more like a female trait that one to make long way inferences on someone opinions or assumptions based on previous statements.
For example, it's happened to me quite often that when criticizing a theory that assumes that "the Jews" are the main responsible for some "evil" event (let's say the 9/11 tragedy) I then got replied with "so you are saying that the Israeli government is always innocent?".
That said, I want to share my take on the "answered prayers" argument because CE objection not only deserve an answer that is "rational" in terms of "morality" (it needs to not be contradictory within a given morality framework, which is were often miserably fails the mainstream Christian doctrine) but it's also part of the larger main problem of all those who believe in "Loving Almighty God", it's the apparently never ending, never explained, so called "Problem of Evil", which also CS Lewis, novelist of great renown, author of the "Chronicles of Narnia", friend of R. Tolkien, ex atheist, then turned to Christianity with great faith, who had his wife died of cancer four years after their marriage, decided to deal with in his book "Problem of pain".
The problem of pain is a big huge issue that has never been fully addressed by any Christian doctrine and that has caused many bright minds, like well known Prof Bart Ehrman, once a Christian fundamentalist, to lose their faith and turn, not to atheism, but to agnosticism at least.
In other words it's easier to stick to the idea of an all loving and all mighty God only till when life doesn't turn unbearably painful (usually after the suffered loss of a loved one).
Let's make a basic distinction... prayers that requires miracles and prayers that don't.
I'm my belief, which is uniquely and independently developed and don't
rely on any Christian doctrines but may conflict with many of them, God cannot intervene directly in this world because his intervention will cause interference to our free will and therefore will also take away the full responsibility and accountability of someone's actions and choices.
But that "principle" of love and law (mother and father) doesn't turn God in a plain "spectator" of the human lives, (S)He still can "act" to help those who seeks for help through prayers.
God can't intervene directly but can communicate to all those who have a "good heart", no matter if believers or not, even atheists can receive God's words.
God's words appear to us as thoughts, we can't really know such thoughts are from God, and we take such thoughts as they are ours.
An atheist may very well have a thought appearing to his her mind and following that thought without knowing that though is God's words for him her.
But really, for God to be able to send thoughts to our mind we need to be a "heart" tuned on the right "communication frequency", so it's not for everyone and not in every single moment of someone's life.
So, assuming God can send thoughts to billions of people at any time, if someone has a prayer that can be answered by "suggesting" someone else to do something "good", and the suggestions is picked up by the receiver who free willingly follow the suggestion, here we have the the prayer is answered by God acted only as a proxy, as the "action" is from those persons who chose to follow the thoughts that God had been able to send to them.
In that case the "principle of the preservation of free will and own accountability" is not violated, God doesn't intervene directly, God's intervention is indirect, God's intervention is totally based on the "good heart" and free will of those who can receive God's thoughts to them... but ultimately are the men and women that has received God's thoughts who actually make the prayer to be "answered".
That's something similar to what happened to me recently... I've been "playing" God for a moment.
A poor girl, in a hopeless situation, prayed me to let her free car transportation for her travel from province to town.
Me couldn't really fulfil her prayer directly because I don't have a car and also couldn't send her the money for the travel fare, so, what I did? I sent some words to a friend which I have a open always on communication channel (I have his phone number) and asked him if he can do a free service, not as a personal favor to me, but has a act of charity, so totally up to him what to do.
He replied "OK, I'll do it".
So the girl had her prayer fulfilled, she thanked me of course, she also thanked my friend, I thanked my friend too and I'm pretty sure that God is happy of all of us
It's possible that God actually played a role on that little story I've told above.
So that's for the prayers that not require miracles, for the prayers that requires miracles I have another explanation but it's also quite long to be written even if I try to be as concise as possible and it's tiring to write long texts using the phone...
I'll do the effort to write that other explanation only if I'll see enough interest from readers here on what I have to say.
Good things to everyone.
Alex from Venice