publicduende wrote: ↑October 11th, 2021, 12:25 am
Learning a new language takes quite a bit of effort. If I were you, @Tsar, I would focus on a language that can be useful to your life, and I mean a potential profession as well as social/romantic life.
After English, remaining with European language, I think Spanish is the most useful to learn. 460 million people speak it as their first language, compared to 360 million native English speakers. In terms of native speaking population, it's the second most spoken in the world, after Mandarin.
I think it would also be the best choice in terms of usefulness/difficulty of learning ratio.
Spanish would be useful but it's not as popular outside of the Spanish speaking world.
For love, I'm probably either never being able to get a girl and I refuse to settle for a girl that isn't unattractive. I think the only place I would want to live permanently is Europe. I don't think I could live anywhere else in the world and be able to tolerate the living conditions unless I had a lot more money to get a really nice place.
I think German would be the most useful language for me if I want to live and work in the European Union. Germany, Austria, and Switzerland in the EEA all have German.
The only girls I really like most often are in the Central and East Europe and then beautiful Asian girls with delicate noses like Harbin Chinese, Japanese, Korean, and some Vietnamese girls suit me best with Asian girls. Kyrgyz and other Central Asian Turkic girls are nice. When I go to Europe this time around, I am staying in Europe.
There's too much variation in girls in the Americas and I have a preference for body shapes and body types.
Being able to get love is probably the most impossible thing for me in life. I'm likely never going to be able to get a girl ever. I wasn't able to get any beautiful girl to hold a conversation or even start one and I tried many different times on many different websites.
I'm sort of done even seriously trying with love. I'm too broke to do socializing and I don't get anyone IRL who ever was really outgoing and approached me for friendship.
At my age, I'm probably too old to learn how to get a girl to desire me and the sort of girls I want are getting more impossible to get the more time goes on so it's probably not even worth it for me to even bother trying to get a girl anymore. I'm not even sure most people would want to even get to know me since no one ever really wanted to be my friend when I lived in America, and I haven't the best social skills either. That's why my life is depressing.
If I was born in a nation in the EU, I would probably have a better life, a better degree because money wouldn't have been an issue for people born in Europe, and people are higher quality in Europe and Asia. Americans and Anglos are most often hateful, mean, distant, and don't like anyone that doesn't boost their own social status in their group. America is also paranoid about always talking about how dangerous everywhere is including outside people's own homes, and everyone in America is suspicious of everyone else, and people can't go anywhere without a car in America making it so anyone born in America is by default most socially isolated and then the national government of America isolates Americans from the world by not teaching them a language.
Russian is mainly something I want to learn for girls
Italian is something I want to learn for life in Italy
Croatian is useful for Croatia and Bosnia
German is the most useful for overall employment options in Europe with Germany, Austria, and Switzerland using German as a national language.
There are always many job postings in the Netherlands but I would probably always be too broke to ever go there without a job lined up before I went, and then, I wouldn't actually want to live in Western Europe for all my life.
Slovenia is one of the safest nations in the world and it is likely peaceful.
None of them have overlap. It's either girls or employment. The countries with the most professional opportunities don't have girls that will be virgins or even give most guys a chance. The nations with better quality girls don't have professional opportunities. And I would need to get a new degree in Europe to even be employable.
There's really nowhere else in the world that I would want to live except somewhere in Europe.