Why are the standards of American women so high compared to other women around the world?

[ArchibaultNew]

I would say that 90% of the PUA community is scam and guys fighting others guys. However, there's a 10% which has some truth in it.

However, if we look at that 10% it seems like a full time job to be that "High Value Guy' that American women crave.

Based on analysis the "Top Guys" dating apps profiles. American women want a guy who: Rides Motorcycles, Can play a musical instrument, has a 6 figure job and dresses classy, goes to the gym and is ripped, can work as bartender and prepare shots. We could go as further and say, he can speak multiple languages, has a high sense of humor and wit. On top of that are good in bed.

I can count in two hands the number of guys I've met who actually live up to this standards, its actually very few.

In contrast, I met guys who were regular guys in other countries, the standards where, "Don't be a drunk, have a job, be a decent guy." There's many guys that i know who have girlfriends and are average guys at best.

[Cornfed]

AW are married to the system, so either you have to outbid the system, which is hard, or else you have to offer something the system doesn't. To them sex is a bit like screwing the pool boy. It is not that the pool boy is so great. It is just that he adds something. Most men don't.

[Moretorque]

AW are married to the system, so either you have to outbid the system, which is hard, or else you have to offer something the system doesn't. To them sex is a bit like screwing the pool boy. It is not that the pool boy is so great. It is just that he adds something. Most men don't.

People do not understand the fake world reserve currency did all this. They set a system up at gun point that forces other nations to use our supply of #'s at interest and we haul all their natural resources and finished products off for free. The US does not exist anymore, it's a Crown colony like most of the rest of the world.

The sheople is what makes it go.

[Cornfed]

The US does not exist anymore, it's a Crown colony like most of the rest of the world.

It always was. The revolution was a managerial dispute.

[Yohan]

..... American women want a guy who: Rides Motorcycles, Can play a musical instrument, has a 6 figure job and dresses classy, goes to the gym and is ripped, can work as bartender and prepare shots. We could go as further and say, he can speak multiple languages, has a high sense of humor and wit. On top of that are good in bed.

I can count in two hands the number of guys I've met who actually live up to this standards, its actually very few.

In contrast, I met guys who were regular guys in other countries, the standards where, "Don't be a drunk, have a job, be a decent guy." There's many guys that i know who have girlfriends and are average guys at best.

This is true.

It's not only about local American women, it's also about foreign women who managed to enter USA, UK and some other certain countries and learn quickly how to make use out of the legal situation. All these women are not productive but they are greedy and try to get money from somewhere else, from men, from companies, from the state...

I think it really depends solely on the legal situation. In the USA, and also in some other Western countries for women a marriage followed by a divorce is a huge business and legally supported by rampant feminism. Not to forget the divorce industry is also an easy business for lawyers to fill up their wallets.

So why not? Sleep with as many men as you can, you find some men who has at least a house and some regular income, marry him because you 'love him' so much and after you claim abuse and divorce him - it's all legal... in USA for sure, but not everywhere such a behavior is supported.

It's not everywhere like that and women in many other parts of this world are looking for ordinary modest men who have a regular job and stay with him, divorce is out of question, as they realize they are nothing better off as a woman and feel safe after marriage.

Some Asian countries for example have clear laws about real estate - land ownership with only your name in the land title, fully paid before marriage, will always belong to that person after divorce. China even created a new property law to make clear that such an ownership cannot be transferred because of a divorce. You came into HIS house with nothing, you move out of HIS house even even after 20 years living together.

Many countries do not offer alimony, and not to talk about co-habitation, which is not considered as a marriage like in Western countries.
Japan has not even a child support law, and the situation for a single mom in general is not considered to be a 'proud independent strong woman' - more likely a broken woman who has a serious problem to find enough income for a very basic life-style - and don't ask me about the situation of malicious females in Asian Muslim countries....

[ArchibaultNew]

..... American women want a guy who: Rides Motorcycles, Can play a musical instrument, has a 6 figure job and dresses classy, goes to the gym and is ripped, can work as bartender and prepare shots. We could go as further and say, he can speak multiple languages, has a high sense of humor and wit. On top of that are good in bed.

I can count in two hands the number of guys I've met who actually live up to this standards, its actually very few.

In contrast, I met guys who were regular guys in other countries, the standards where, "Don't be a drunk, have a job, be a decent guy." There's many guys that i know who have girlfriends and are average guys at best.

This is true.

It's not only about local American women, it's also about foreign women who managed to enter USA, UK and some other certain countries and learn quickly how to make use out of the legal situation. All these women are not productive but they are greedy and try to get money from somewhere else, from men, from companies, from the state...

I think it really depends solely on the legal situation. In the USA, and also in some other Western countries for women a marriage followed by a divorce is a huge business and legally supported by rampant feminism. Not to forget the divorce industry is also an easy business for lawyers to fill up their wallets.

So why not? Sleep with as many men as you can, you find some men who has at least a house and some regular income, marry him because you 'love him' so much and after you claim abuse and divorce him - it's all legal... in USA for sure, but not everywhere such a behavior is supported.

It's not everywhere like that and women in many other parts of this world are looking for ordinary modest men who have a regular job and stay with him, divorce is out of question, as they realize they are nothing better off as a woman and feel safe after marriage.

Some Asian countries for example have clear laws about real estate - land ownership with only your name in the land title, fully paid before marriage, will always belong to that person after divorce. China even created a new property law to make clear that such an ownership cannot be transferred because of a divorce. You came into HIS house with nothing, you move out of HIS house even even after 20 years living together.

Many countries do not offer alimony, and not to talk about co-habitation, which is not considered as a marriage like in Western countries.
Japan has not even a child support law, and the situation for a single mom in general is not considered to be a 'proud independent strong woman' - more likely a broken woman who has a serious problem to find enough income for a very basic life-style - and don't ask me about the situation of malicious females in Asian Muslim countries....

Great post, I heard Quebec has a law that prevents women from charging thousands of dollars a months particulary if they were not married and had no children. It seems that alimony is not a thing there. Could you explain the situation of France and Germany?

[jamesbond]

I have often wondered the same thing. Why do Anglo women have ridiculously high standards for men and women from other countries do not have these types of standards for men. I think the media and movies tell women they deserve the best (best looking guys, highest income guys, etc.) women accept these ideas and won't settle for anything less.

Thank God not all women in the world think this way. It seems like only women from Anglo countries (US, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand) have these ridiculous high standards when it comes to men.

[Mercury]

American women won't date a guy unless he can easily afford to live in Beverly Hills, California, especially the gated community of Beverly Park. Forget about just 6 figure jobs, American women only want movie stars and famous Hollywood celebrities.

[ArchibaultNew]

I have often wondered the same thing. Why do Anglo women have ridiculously high standards for men and women from other countries do not have these types of standards for men. I think the media and movies tell women they deserve the best (best looking guys, highest income guys, etc.) women accept these ideas and won't settle for anything less.

Thank God not all women in the world think this way. It seems like only women from Anglo countries (US, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand) have these ridiculous high standards when it comes to men.

100%. It's closely tied to the Anglo-Puritan influence worldview where your work its all that matters. This guy Sandman, many of his videos are hateful, however, some of them have good insights compared Anglo Canadian women with French Canadian women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbsLDPPjktM&t=642s It is a insightful analysis where he says that Anglos lives revolve around work and hence the women do not put as much effort as the French and others in their apperance or "looking good." Instead, they work to achieve materialistic things and one of them being the "top tier guy."

[WilliamSmith]

American women won't date a guy unless he can easily afford to live in Beverly Hills, California, especially the gated community of Beverly Park. Forget about just 6 figure jobs, American women only want movie stars and famous Hollywood celebrities.

You're behind the times, my friend! American women today have such unrelentingly high standards that they won't even consider dating movie stars and celebrities making a lousy 6 figures in Beverly Hills anymore either, and will only jump in the sack with the world's elite masters of intergalactic empires, or physically indestructible Übermensch such as myself who have both looks of steel and inhumanly magnetic sex appeal. (The good news is that it's easy for me to compete with goofballs like Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates, since the real alpha males like the Czar or Emperor Xi of China are too busy warring against NATO and the international ZOG. Elon Musk does give me a little bit of competition, but fortunately he doesn't prefer American women exclusively.)

[jamesbond]

100%. It's closely tied to the Anglo-Puritan influence worldview where your work its all that matters.

Exactly, it does seem as if in Anglo countries your job is the most important thing in your life. It is the Anglo-Puritan work ethic. No wonder why there are so many work alcoholics in the United States and other Anglo countries.

[Moretorque]

o debt attached.
The US does not exist anymore, it's a Crown colony like most of the rest of the world.

It always was. The revolution was a managerial dispute.

Benjamin Franklin stated the prime reason was the colonist starting issueing money with no debt attached.

[jamesbond]

The big reason why women in the US have such high dating standards is that they are being hit on all the time in person (at bars and clubs, at work, at the gym) and they are being hit on if they have social media.

Also, if a woman in the US is using online dating she is getting between 50 and 100 guys a day sending her messages. It's no wonder why women in the United States are so picky about who they date, they have a lot of options.

[Outcast9428]

The big reason why women in the US have such high dating standards is that they are being hit on all the time in person (at bars and clubs, at work, at the gym) and they are being hit on if they have social media.

Also, if a woman in the US is using online dating she is getting between 50 and 100 guys a day sending her messages. It's no wonder why women in the United States are so picky about who they date, they have a lot of options.

I'm sorry but dating apps need to be banned by the state. No human being deserves to have the amount of power that dating apps give women.

[kangarunner]

The big reason why women in the US have such high dating standards is that they are being hit on all the time in person (at bars and clubs, at work, at the gym) and they are being hit on if they have social media.

Also, if a woman in the US is using online dating she is getting between 50 and 100 guys a day sending her messages. It's no wonder why women in the United States are so picky about who they date, they have a lot of options.

"Pick up" courses...all bullshit. The quality of the women is so low in America, yet they rate themselves higher than they actually are. 49ers. I heard a Belgian guy say it perfectly about his thoughts on American women. "Entitlement" mentality. They believe they are entitled to the highest quality men available, the top 20%. What's funny is that even if you are in the top 20%, the women will refuse to approach you and will wait for you to talk to them. They have no clue how to talk to you though or approach you first because they've been trained to wait for the guy to approach them.....

Meanwhile, you go to Asia or Latin America, and the women are better looking and will have a normal human conversation with you.