Many people from all around the world don't get these concepts no matter how hard I try to explain everything.
It's not just a matter of whether the ladies think you can be a good husband or have enough money to raise a family (It's pretty much as simple as that in Africa, Latin America, and most of developing Asia). It's not even about looks or ethnicity. Rather, it's about this kind of social nonsense:
- friend zone
not my type
Ohmigawd (OMG)
like, OMG
my boyfriend (dropping the b-word)
nice guys finish last
bad boys
too nerdy
creep
creepy
awkward
weird
weirdo
he's got a weird vibe
he's so rad
hella cool guy
needs game
confidence
chemistry
we have to click
needs to be funny
my personality type
teamwork
not part of our social circle
hang out
dating my best friend
you need to get out there
proactive
you'll find the right one
wrong approach
we're only friends
friends with benefits but still just friends
casual but not serious
official relationship
going steady
too clingy
too close
personal space
keep swiping
workplace harassment
#MeToo
Yes Means Yes
Azn, Latinx