I am open to all races, I do not hate anybody - however I failed in Europe totally to find any reasonable partner and so I was looking around for a foreign woman. - What was not possible in Europe, was possible for me in Asia and it was not even so difficult.publicduende wrote: ↑April 28th, 2024, 6:12 amI think @MrMan is right. There's no reason to be so biased towards any specific ethnicities. I can't scan thousands of past posts now but, over my 13-year presence on this forum, I have seen the Western vs Asian, or Western vs Latino women debate focus on behaviour and attitude, not looks.
While I do rememember a few members who have an evident soft spot for Asians, as there were those obsessed with Latinas or African blacks, I don't remember anyone saying "I am moving to Medellin/Bangkok/Davao because I hate how blonde, blue-eyed American girl with Scandicavian genes look like".
I don't care about race, religion, native language etc. etc. and my only criteria was always that this woman who might fit me must be born as a female and her sexual orientation is straight as I am a straight man, born as a male. - This requirement for me is not negotiable.
About beauty, this is a relative term - over the years looks are changing - however behavior, attitude etc. of women in general do not change easily.
About Western men, most of them who made it up to Asia and live with an Asian wife either failed to find any Western women (like I myself) or they are divorced, disappointed, mistrusting, and want a woman who is acting differently than the woman they had before.
Looks? Most Asian women who are living with Western men are not a beauty, and most husbands are also anything else but something special.
This includes myself and my Japanese wife - living together since more than 40 years....
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What I do not understand why somebody is hating Asian women because of their looks. Nobody is forcing a Western man to date Asian women. Of course if you visit FE Asia or SE Asia you will see them everywhere - so best way to avoid them is likely to stay away from Asian countries.