Is International Dating For Losers?

[vlkmo]

Also, some of these major issues like feminism are global. Eventually, there will be no way to escape from it unless people around the world unite in opposition to this stuff.

I watch a lot of YouTube content from Brazil since I'm studying Portuguese and have my location set to that region and I'm seeing a lot of Manosphere-type videos about how feminism has seeped into Brazilian society. I don't even search for that type of content; it's just recommended to me by the algorithm.

Yes, the issues that we're talking about are on their way to becoming global. Therefore, HA might be only a temporary solution. But if his home location is so dry and barren, a man might as well try somewhere else if the opportunity is there and pastures seem greener.

As for the issues at hand, like I mentioned in a previous post, everything is subject to cycles and you simply have to wait for the scale to tip in the opposite direction. This is the Daoist principle of Wu Wei — action of non-action — but it really means acting in accordance with natural cycles and trends rather than futilely forcing action against the current.

This feminism trend simply needs to exhaust itself. People are increasingly getting sick and tired of all the ugly excesses of "progressivism" (nothing really progressive about it) and "wokeism" and anything even remotely associated with them. Society is rapidly veering to the right of the political spectrum in response. Soon feminism will be called into question and repudiated.

All of this stuff is cyclical.

See that? This is my point, HA is only a temporary solution. It's less "artificial" than having an AI robot girlfriend, but if one has to move out of their home country for love or sex, that is not an optimal or ideal status quo. I tend to like the looks of white women, especially blonde white women that have blue or hazel eyes. I am also white. How do you think a black man should feel when they are excluded from black women? How about an Indian, Asian, Brazilian, Latin, etc. man excluded from their own country's women?

[yick]

See that? This is my point, HA is only a temporary solution. It's less "artificial" than having an AI robot girlfriend, but if one has to move out of their home country for love or sex, that is not an optimal or ideal status quo.

Happier Abroad is more than moving to another country for love and sex. Sure, it's a part of it but it's no easier wherever you land up if you have to learn a language, cultural differences etc but there are loads of good reasons to make it somewhere else.

I tend to like the looks of white women, especially blonde white women that have blue or hazel eyes. I am also white. How do you think a black man should feel when they are excluded from black women? How about an Indian, Asian, Brazilian, Latin, etc. man excluded from their own country's women?

You're not 'excluded' from white women. Most white women exclusively date white men.

[Lucas88]

See that? This is my point, HA is only a temporary solution. It's less "artificial" than having an AI robot girlfriend, but if one has to move out of their home country for love or sex, that is not an optimal or ideal status quo. I tend to like the looks of white women, especially blonde white women that have blue or hazel eyes. I am also white. How do you think a black man should feel when they are excluded from black women? How about an Indian, Asian, Brazilian, Latin, etc. man excluded from their own country's women?

The problem is that the kind of social change that we're talking about takes decades to come about. And even then, not everyone who wills such social change is guaranteed to benefit from its results.

What are you going to do? Engage in political activism for the next 10 years and just hope that things get better? If you do that, you'll be middle-aged before you know it and then dating will get a lot harder!

Better to take action now instead of just talking about social change and how things ought to be.

There are White Germanic women outside of the US and Western Europe. You could try Blumenau, Florianópolis, Joinville or Curitiba in the Southeast of Brazil. It would require effort to learn Portuguese and assimilate into another culture though. But anything worth doing requires effort and HA isn't for everyone.

[kangarunner]

There are White Germanic women outside of the US and Western Europe. You could try Blumenau, Florianópolis, Joinville or Curitiba in the Southeast of Brazil. It would require effort to learn Portuguese and assimilate into another culture though. But anything worth doing requires effort and HA isn't for everyone.

There is no white man in this world who will ever be able to successfully integrate into Brazil or Mexico or Colombia. Not a single one. It's a different culture. They have a word in Spanish. It's called gringo. Not sure what the equivalent is in Portuguese.

Eventually, all white men reach the conclusion that Asia is their final destination for love and a good life.

[Lucas88]

Completely agree.

It should be obvious by now that USA-Europe-Israel alliance is losing badly in world war against the China-Russia-Iran alliance. The next shoe to drop is the collapse of the LLM AI bubble, which is unprofitable now and shows no possibility of producing profits in the future (machine intelligence like robots and medical diagnostics is another story). AI bubble collapse plus coming Russian total victory in Ukraine will cause all sorts of economic and political realignments in USA and Europe. Final result will be that western societies will no longer be able to pamper childless women and single mothers like now. Women who want children will be forced to act more pleasant to get a quality husband to help pay for child rearing. Society will start to scorn feminist ideas and feminist women. These change will play out over several decades, no quick reversal of the trend.

These changes will not help men in the bottom 70% by attractiveness, however. First, women are naturally hypergamous and never want low quality men nor does any modern society naturally encourage low quality men to breed, now that idiot level manual labor is no longer necessary. Second, there will still be many feminist women for several decades and they will probably get even nastier as society starts to scorn then, and this reduces supply of desirable women. Third, bottom 20% of women are born hopelessly undesirable, same as bottom 40% of men. So if a man is bottom 40% by birth, he should resign himself to being a bachelor and pay whores occasionally to experience real sex with a woman. If born top 60%, he needs to work on himself to get to top 30%, especially with regards to money and social skills, if he wants to be attractive to desirable women. (Exact percentages are less important than concepts illustrated by these numbers which i just made up.)

This response is spot on too, Shemp.

Some people think that it's just feminism and progressive values that are to blame for the incel epidemic and that all that we need to solve the problem is a right-wing government and a rejection of feminism, when in reality the factors that have given rise to the incel epidemic are far more complex than that.

The most salient factors are:

1. Worsening economy and less opportunities to make good money

House prices and cost of living have gone up to the point where it's become increasingly difficult for average guys to make a life for themselves, while at the same time automation has already begun to exert its effect on the labor market and is set to replace human workers to a much greater extent.

2. Environmental toxins negatively affecting the physical development of males

A much greater percentage of young men today look atrocious, have extremely low testosterone and poor physical development, and suffer from neurodevelopmental disorders and mental health problems due to exposure to toxins and endocrine disruptors going all the way back to pre-natal life. Because of this, far more young men than in previous generations are physically and psychologically undesirable.

3. Inflation of standards due to social media

Women are bombarded with images and videos of attractive males showing off more affluent lifestyles all the time and now the average guy — already of lower quality than in previous generations — becomes even less appealing.

4. Internet and videogame addiction

More people — both males and females — are opting for escapism while neglecting real life and allowing their social skills to atrophy. According to some studies, the percentage of female Zoomers who have no interest in dating is already into double digits.

So obviously the social problems which modern societies are currently facing and which contribute towards the incel epidemic aren't the kind of things that can be solved just by voting in a right-wing government. Feminism and progressive values, while certainly unpleasant, are simply the "cherry on top".

[Lucas88]

There are White Germanic women outside of the US and Western Europe. You could try Blumenau, Florianópolis, Joinville or Curitiba in the Southeast of Brazil. It would require effort to learn Portuguese and assimilate into another culture though. But anything worth doing requires effort and HA isn't for everyone.

There is no white man in this world who will ever be able to successfully integrate into Brazil or Mexico or Colombia. Not a single one. It's a different culture. They have a word in Spanish. It's called gringo. Not sure what the equivalent is in Portuguese.

In Blumenau, Joinville, Florianópolis and Curitiba, a good 75% to 80% of the people are White and many of those are of German descent, with blond hair and blue eyes that would make even the staunchest NSDAP officials jizz in their pants. Lol!

But if you mean that no White foreigner could ever successfully integrate into a Latin American country, I'm sure you can find examples of White American or European men who moved to a Latin American country, married a local girl and have lived there for 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, etc. I sure have known some such men.

In order to integrate into a Latin American country, you need to learn the language to a high level (preferably to the point of fluency and where you don't have a noticeable gringo accent), get involved with groups (sports clubs, religious groups, etc.) where you can meet people with similar interests, and drop the whole tourist mentality. It also helps to choose a city that isn't frequented by foreigners.

The problem with many Americans — and other types of Anglos for that matter — is that they lack adaptability and expect the rest of the world to bend to their ways.

I was engaged to a Peruvian girl and was accepted by her family — actually I was well-liked by them. Had we remained together, I'm sure that I would have integrated without major problems. In Mexico too people were mostly cool with me and I made some meaningful connections.

Individual differences definitely play a role in adaptability to any given foreign culture.

There's so much doom and gloom on this forum — people coming out with sweeping claims that make things seem a lot darker than what they really are.

Eventually, all white men reach the conclusion that Asia is their final destination for love and a good life.

Nah, I feel more comfortable with the Mediterranean lifestyle of Spain or the right place in Latin America.

[kangarunner]

But if you mean that no White foreigner could ever successfully integrate into a Latin American country, I'm sure you can find examples of White American or European men who moved to a Latin American country, married a local girl and have lived there for 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, etc. I sure have known some such men.

There are zero. White foreigners, no matter where they come from, UK, Australia, Canada, US, may visit South America, Central America or Mexico but they all realize that they are the gringo in these countries and that they are not welcome into the locals' social circles no matter how well they speak the language. The people in Colombia do not view white foreigners as one of them and they don't care to include them.

When they realize this fact, they pack up and leave. Go home or go to another part of the world.

The people in those countries are tribal. The gringo will never be one of them.

So to conclude, the answer is that no white foreigner will ever successfully integrate into any country in South America, Central America or Mexico. Period. End of discussion.

And I am right. All roads lead to Asia. Vietnamese women are the most beautiful in the world.

[Lucas88]

There are zero. White foreigners, no matter where they come from, UK, Australia, Canada, US, may visit South America, Central America or Mexico but they all realize that they are the gringo in these countries and that they are not welcome into the locals' social circles no matter how well they speak the language. The people in Colombia do not view white foreigners as one of them and they don't care to include them.

The people in those countries are tribal. The gringo will never be accepted.

So to conclude, the answer is that no white foreigner will ever successfully integrate into any country in South America, Central America or Mexico. Period. End of discussion.

How do you know this? Simply because you went to Medellín and a few other cities in Latin America and nobody included you in their social circle?

Do you speak for every White man who ever relocated to Latin America?

I didn't experience what you describe. Lol!

Do you know where is more difficult to integrate into? East Asia.

[kangarunner]

How do you know this?

I know this because I came out here to kiss Viet fanny. I kiss a lot of it. I first came here in 2017 and I'll be on my knees kissing their asses for a long, long, long time. When a man has kissed a beautiful VN woman's soft white ass, he has reached the pinnacle of his life.

[Lucas88]

How do you know this?

I know this because I came out here to kiss Viet fanny.

Okay, fair enough!

I think that Vietnamese girls are a higher type of Asian woman — more beautiful and more cultured on average than other types of Asians — but I'm just so accustomed to humongous Colombian and Brazilian asses. That's my thing!

[Prince of Cups]

See that? This is my point, HA is only a temporary solution. It's less "artificial" than having an AI robot girlfriend, but if one has to move out of their home country for love or sex, that is not an optimal or ideal status quo. I tend to like the looks of white women, especially blonde white women that have blue or hazel eyes. I am also white. How do you think a black man should feel when they are excluded from black women? How about an Indian, Asian, Brazilian, Latin, etc. man excluded from their own country's women?

The problem is that the kind of social change that we're talking about takes decades to come about. And even then, not everyone who wills such social change is guaranteed to benefit from its results.

What are you going to do? Engage in political activism for the next 10 years and just hope that things get better? If you do that, you'll be middle-aged before you know it and then dating will get a lot harder!

Better to take action now instead of just talking about social change and how things ought to be.

There are White Germanic women outside of the US and Western Europe. You could try Blumenau, Florianópolis, Joinville or Curitiba in the Southeast of Brazil. It would require effort to learn Portuguese and assimilate into another culture though. But anything worth doing requires effort and HA isn't for everyone.

Sound advice.

[Voyager1]

And I am right. All roads lead to Asia. Vietnamese women are the most beautiful in the world.

Asians are for losers

[kangarunner]

Asians are for losers

I hate this shitty forum.

At least I get to kiss soft, white Viet fanny whenever I want here while stupid men in America suck each others dicks in their shitty, little ratshit lives.

[Voyager1]

I hate this shitty forum.

The next time you stick your tongue up into her stink hole just remember what a loser your are

[kangarunner]

I hate this shitty forum.

The next time you stick your tongue up into her stink hole just remember what a loser your are

Honestly, I don't know whether to feel pity for you or to laugh.

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