The phrase " The Nice Guy Wins at the End "

well-informed · Post by **well-informed** » June 5th, 2011, 4:24 pm

This is a phrase i hear a lot from women, whenever i read on the never-ending discussions of Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys. It bothers me a bit because it implies that nice men just have to accept the weak mentality that eventually you'll get the girl you want ala to the phrase "Nice Guys Win in the End."

The weak mentality that if she doesn't like you when she's 23, she'll start to like you when she's 35.

The only reason why that same nice guy (whom she rejected years ago) in the IT department looks pretty good for them at age 35, is because her looks are fading and she needs a steady income to pay for her previous mistakes. The mistake of banging bad men when she was younger and hotter. These AW are just hypocrites, absolute hypocrites.

AW should be spending their most fertile years (16-28), with good men that want to start a family so that both she and him can be happy together. The best example i have personally is my female cousin. She dated a good guy that she knew was capable of having a long term relationship with her when she was 25 (she had her suitors.) Today she's 35 has 2 kids, a happy home, she's a stay at home mom, and her husband hasn't changed a bit. He's still the same dependable good guy who works hard to provide for his family. She's happy as f**k as well as humble, and i've never seen these two fight ever. She knows her place and he knows his place within the relationship.

When AW keep wasting their youth with bad men, then nice guys don't win at the end. They're older, uglier, have more baggage, trusts men less because she's been around. So nice men don't win at the end, AW are full of shit.

well-informed · Post by **well-informed** » June 5th, 2011, 4:26 pm

** (ages 16-28) **

odbo · Post by **odbo** » June 5th, 2011, 4:57 pm

ages 16 to 28 everybody. well-informed is a dumbass

well-informed · Post by **well-informed** » June 5th, 2011, 5:03 pm

For some reason it came out like that when i pressed 8. You f***ing piece of shit !!!

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » June 5th, 2011, 6:03 pm

A nice guy wins in the end because a nice ( smart) guy saves his money and goes abroad in the end. The bad boy otoh is too nationalistic, too stupid and too poor/close- minded to go abroad. And his trysts at home won't lead to anything lasting in the end, anyway, and he will be spending his latter days in a bad environment and in a very unhappy state of mind.

odbo · Post by **odbo** » June 5th, 2011, 7:31 pm

Schutzengel · Post by **Schutzengel** » July 14th, 2011, 12:31 am

ladislav wrote:A nice guy wins in the end because a nice ( smart) guy saves his money and goes abroad in the end. The bad boy otoh is too nationalistic, too stupid and too poor/close- minded to go abroad. And his trysts at home won't lead to anything lasting in the end, anyway, and he will be spending his latter days in a bad environment and in a very unhappy state of mind.

This is the truth.

E_Irizarry · Post by **E_Irizarry** » July 14th, 2011, 2:39 pm

Women have shit backwards in America of which years they should spend copulating.

With the advent of neo-feminism, feminists feel highly coveted that burning bras and keeping their legs closed until they have their masters was the way to go. Now most of those types of women want to begin a family, and they end up becoming jumpoffs/friends with benefits.

Adama · Post by **Adama** » July 14th, 2011, 3:05 pm

This may be the case. I remember when I was 18, I knew a man in his late 30s, and he warned me about women having regrets about dating the bad boys in college when they leave college. This was about 15 years ago. So all this has been the cultural trend for over a generation now at least. His mindset was that you should forgive them, then go with them.

I have also been on the askmen forum and men there had the same mentality. That eventually in their 30s men become the prize, or some BS like that.

That may be true, but what are you actually winning in the end? A soulless, heartless, cold creature who has no respect, love or regard for you or anyone else; a being immensely unhappy their sexual power is rapidly diminishing, and who will always hate you because you're far from her first choice.

In the long run women avoiding men like us is a blessing. It truly is when you think about it. For what reason would you want to screw yourself over by having one of them in your life? You want to have a good life, you don't invite one of these creatures into it to ruin any possibility of happiness you could ever have.

It may feel bad not having a woman, but the alternative (actually having one) is much worse because of what 99.99% of North American women actually are.

Take consolation in the fact that AWs are only ~5% of the world female population. Forget about them and focus on the future you will have when you find a decent woman who is feminine, realizes her place in the family, has respect for herself, you and your future children (if any), and isnt full of hatred for everything in the world which doesnt bend to her wishes.

Adama · Post by **Adama** » July 14th, 2011, 3:08 pm

well-informed wrote:** (ages 16-28) **

Put a space between the "8" and the " ) ".

[ 8 ) ] is a smiley function.

ErikHeaven · Post by **ErikHeaven** » July 14th, 2011, 6:29 pm

I am seeing a lot of these New Age reformed former bad boy/thug boy fuckers at 25 with 2-3 kids and now they want a good man. Now after they have found "Jesus". Especially the Black women they have found the "Lord" and now they are looking for a GOOD brother. Good meaning their baby daddy is in jail for 15 years for drug trafficking or murder, now you the GOOD man you have no rap sheet and you have a college degree or good trade job and decent credit, with a house and car. Now they want you.
If any man falls for those New Age so-called reformed sluts he is out of his mind.

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The phrase " The Nice Guy Wins at the End "

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