Are men who seek foreign women losers or control freaks?

DoomHerald · Post by **DoomHerald** » February 13th, 2012, 9:45 pm

What do you guys of this PUA author's opinion? Give one of his articles a read.
http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/ ... ol-freaks/

I think he's a white-knight western-praising retard whose got his head up his ass. At least from what I've read, his ideas are convoluted and empty at most.

Women are pretty much the same wherever I have found them. In my experience, foreign women were, if anything, more demanding and bitchier than American women, but overall no great difference.

I found this statement to be the worst. This guy doesn't even seem to stick with a western woman for longer than a few months and he has loads of money so it wouldn't even be a problem for him (AW are like gnats to the wealthy). Yet he says they are better? I guess if you want one-night stands for the rest of your life

... then whup-dee-do. But there'd be no progeny, unless you got a girl pregnant...

Thatâ€™s not the kind of guy Iâ€™m talking about. Iâ€™m talking about the man who hates American women and luuuuves foreign women. If you want to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s great. If you have to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s bad.

But this one kind of pissed me off too. If the goal were to just have sex (really?) I'd f**k an escort or sex slave or something. Which seems to be what he does, but when quality (even in regards to sex) matters AW tend to be the least desirable, unless you're the masochistic type.

FREEDOM1 · Post by **FREEDOM1** » February 13th, 2012, 9:55 pm

the writer of this article is just stating his opinon
and i dont give a shit about his opinion as i have mine
who cares what he thinks - one less idiot abroad
he can stay in usa forever who cares
we can enjoy the foreign women without having to compete
with know it all douche bags like this

DoomHerald · Post by **DoomHerald** » February 14th, 2012, 7:47 pm

Lol, yeah I guess when you put it that way it makes a lot more sense.
Thanks for the reply!

NorthAmericanguy · February 15th, 2012, 6:52 pm

FREEDOM1 wrote:the writer of this article is just stating his opinon
and i dont give a shit about his opinion as i have mine
who cares what he thinks - one less idiot abroad
he can stay in usa forever who cares
we can enjoy the foreign women without having to compete
with know it all douche bags like this

+1

FreeYourMind · Post by **FreeYourMind** » February 16th, 2012, 12:55 am

"If you want to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s great. If you have to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s bad."

It couldn't possibly be about anything more in his mind apparently. Men are nothing but dogs (or pigs) and have no emotional needs and no desires to connect with a woman at a deep and very fulfilling level. Some are like that, but that is also a common stereotype applied to all by the feminazi U.S. system of mind control. I don't even want to click the link and waste my time reading what he wrote. I think most men who think outside the box enough to look outside the U.S. for women are self-motivated deep thinkers, not typical programmed serfs who only want to "bang chicks."

ladislav · Post by **ladislav** » February 16th, 2012, 4:08 am

According to the nationalist philosophy of most average Americans, that statement is correct, just like according to Islam, Israel is an illegal state.
Based on the dogma that everything is good in the US and no one needs to go anywhere because the US has got it all, it is only a loser that seeks foreign women. Also, because of the principle of self fulfilling prophecy, many losers do go abroad and many hang out on dating sites asking to see boobs and then flaking out on the girls.
According to the reality of how things actually are the statement is totally wrong, though. And it was definitely written by a non traveler/non international person.

The_Adventurer · Post by **The_Adventurer** » February 16th, 2012, 6:40 am

If you got looks and/or money and are only looking for sex, the US can be great. If you want a real life, however, and real companionship, marriage and family, regardless of your looks or wealth, get out at the first available opportunity.

momopi · Post by **momopi** » February 16th, 2012, 7:17 am

Losers are those who know that they're in a bad situation, are able or capable of doing something about it, but simply unwilling or too lazy to make the effort.

There are those restricted by their situation and cannot vote with their feet, i.e. having to stay to care for an elderly parent. They are the exceptions.

davewe · Post by **davewe** » February 16th, 2012, 10:04 am

momopi wrote:Losers are those who know that they're in a bad situation, are able or capable of doing something about it, but simply unwilling or too lazy to make the effort.

+1. Knowing that there is something better out there (better job, better place to live, better women) and being too unmotivated to do anything about it - that is the definition of loser. Defining a better option for you and then pursuing it, no matter what others think - that is a winner!

Jackal · Post by **Jackal** » February 16th, 2012, 11:00 am

FREEDOM1 wrote:the writer of this article is just stating his opinon
and i dont give a shit about his opinion as i have mine
who cares what he thinks - one less idiot abroad
he can stay in usa forever who cares
we can enjoy the foreign women without having to compete
with know it all douche bags like this

I couldn't have said it better! lol

However, I will comment on one quote from that highly ignorant author:

Thatâ€™s not the kind of guy Iâ€™m talking about. Iâ€™m talking about the man who hates American women and luuuuves foreign women. If you want to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s great. If you have to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s bad.

He's basically against valuing foreign women as human beings because I suspect that he has a cruel, imperialistic mindset. He likes the idea of having brief sexual encounters with foreign women and treating them like trash because he's another insecure American asshole who needs to push others down to feel good. It's the bully mentality that Americans always seem to promote. It's like a soldier raping women in his enemy's country: it's an act of hatred.

This author is just another asshole psychopath who deserves to stay in the US forever with all the other psychopaths there! People who actually have real emotions and empathy should go elsewhere!

Furthermore, only a very insecure douchebag announces on his own blog that he's "upper-middle class" (sic). A confident man would let his words speak for themselves!

GuitarGuy996 · Post by **GuitarGuy996** » February 16th, 2012, 11:05 am

As I get older I learn to dissect and overcome this type of shaming language.

"If you want to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s great. If you have to travel to bang chicks, thatâ€™s bad."

The end result is the same right? Having to and wanting to?

This guy is still in ego mode. When you've transcended your ego it doesn't matter whether you "want" to or you "have" to, the end result is the same and that should be all that matters.

navigator · Post by **navigator** » February 16th, 2012, 11:21 am

FREEDOM1 wrote:the writer of this article is just stating his opinon
and i dont give a shit about his opinion as i have mine
who cares what he thinks - one less idiot abroad
he can stay in usa forever who cares
we can enjoy the foreign women without having to compete
with know it all douche bags like this

Yep. Why should I give a damn about his stupid opinion? It means nothing to me. When some hot, foreign woman is bringing me to orgasm, the "Mating Market" guy will be the furthest thing from my mind.

emh · Post by **emh** » February 16th, 2012, 6:35 pm

Jackal wrote: He's basically against valuing foreign women as human beings because I suspect that he has a cruel, imperialistic mindset. He likes the idea of having brief sexual encounters with foreign women and treating them like trash because he's another insecure American asshole who needs to push others down to feel good. It's the bully mentality that Americans always seem to promote. It's like a soldier raping women in his enemy's country: it's an act of hatred.

This author is just another asshole psychopath who deserves to stay in the US forever with all the other psychopaths there! People who actually have real emotions and empathy should go elsewhere!

Furthermore, only a very insecure douchebag announces on his own blog that he's "upper-middle class" (sic). A confident man would let his words speak for themselves!

+1,000!

That's one of the reasons that I stopped visiting the Roosh V forums. There are too many people like that on that forum and it was starting to warp my own perceptions.

ringspun · Post by **ringspun** » February 17th, 2012, 1:54 pm

Unfortunatly some people do think this way, when I have been to Thailand lots, I had major sex there, threesomes, foursomes and I would say about 7 out of 10 girls I asked out even at Malls said a YES!

But then some people back home who are jealous will say "oh he can't get a woman here"

They are right, I can't get a woman in the UK who isn't probably after my cash, a cheating whore, has more baggage than you could ever believe, will try to get pregnant and expects me to put her kids over my own and will stop putting out sex after around 6 - 9 months on a regular basis making you beg like a dog does for a biscuit.

So when people say that shit, I just think to all of the beautiful women in other countries I have made love to and think how sad and unfulfilled their lives really are!

MatureDJ · Post by **MatureDJ** » June 14th, 2014, 5:27 pm

See here:

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/ ... ol-freaks/