manly5000 wrote:I always LOL when people say "yeah there's tons of women in their 40s in America who are lonely and desperate to get a guy in their life, the tables have turned, blah blah blah"...
It's complete bullshit. I see absolutely nothing of the kind happening here. Every single 40-something woman I see out and about in my neck of the woods has her head shoved just as far up her own ass as every 20-something girl I see.
It does not become guys like us to pretend that ANY woman of ANY age here in the USA is ever, Ever, EVER hurting for male attention or companionship. There is no magical age where women suddenly start approaching average guys. Their arrogance and prince charming alpha cock fantasies continue all the way to the grave nowadays.
Let's stop kidding ourselves guys.
Are you talking about ALL 40something or attractive 40something? I said 40something, I made no stipulation on looks or weight. Now if you demand a poor man's version of Demi Moore, then its likely you would get the reaction what your saying. But if your a woman posting on Craigslist in her 40's a BBW with a young adult son living at home while attending college, ummm I'm thinking her standards aren't that high.
As long as you don't look like Schleprock... Wait maybe I should say MINIMIZE THE NEGATIVES. IE: if you have a beer belly, LOOSE IT. If look like Saint Nick, shave. I do believe people should accept you for who you are, however understanding our diet and eating habits, I don't let weight management go, its controllable. Most women don't like facial hair, if you wanna keep it, stop bitching and look for women that like that sort of thing, they are out there. Try Seattle or Portland, seems that look is acceptable in certain places.
Look, there is no magic number but I get more attention from women over 35 than I know what to do with. I don't want it, you're welcome to have it, they are looking for a Black Man I should tell you, so if your White you're SOL.
If I wanted to get married to a 35 year old woman I could, easily and by the end of the year for sure. I don't want that....
I don't get laid by choice and it is a choice. If I wanted to get laid I know where to go. Find some 40something slightly overweight woman who works a BS job, that's easy pickings. Or pay $25 to take the bus from Downtown LA to TJ, pay between $20-$70 for a roll. If you look hard enough you can find p***y that cheap in LA, but again I wouldn't recommend it.
If you live in SMTUSA (Small Town United States of America) then I wish you luck, the numbers are not in your favor, you should seriously consider moving.