GoingAwol wrote:No...
I have some new age spiritual beliefs myself and it's been my experience that they are sluttier than the average woman. They are also more likely to be feminists and social justice warriors.
This comment is right in line with my decade of experiences in meeting and dating Spiritual women in the us. Except, I wouldn't say they are sluttier than average women. But they're more likely to hide feminist ideas somewhere near the core of their practice. Every truly spiritual woman Ive ever come across (in the U.S ) always talk in terms of "too much Masculine energy in the ether". Without Fail. This is undoubtedly a "code word" and typically, when I hear that "code word", I know exactly what I'm dealing with. And I'm gone. Like a spirit in the ether.
Now, what happens when I stick around? Well, In at least 7 cases, I've learned where she got the money for that nice yoga studio she built along side the 800k dollar house she lives in. And at some point, I am called upon to Be the very "masculine" energy she loves fighting to remove from the ether. This is not good. This, to me, is the spiritual equivalent of DRAMA. And believe me, I am gentle, I am soft-spoken and I naturally smile and I keep life very simple and try to spend every second in the "Moment". Don't get me wrong, I am NO pushover either. I am also a "communicator". This is very important to me. But with the spiritual types I've come across, I find they dont like critical communication much. They would prefer silence. I'm ok with this, but I'm also aware of the simple fact that "silence" alone will not resolve an issue between two people. Sure, we can let the universe tell us what to do- but in the end, its in our hands, its up to us to communicate in order to reach a resolution.
The Feminist thing: Definitely in the U.S. The spiritual woman needs to be in control. why? Because shes been divorced already. Her polarity will have shifted far to one side.... Especially after a divorce. And more often than not, her spiritual journey will begin right THERE. Sure, shes sweet and gentle, and very feminine - But that divorce from such a horrible man who lives in the material world and makes a lot of money is too much for her. So she ends up with his house ( that she convinced him to buy in the first place) and feeling like shes in control again. And you know something? SHE IS! And this is what Ive noticed much in the U.S with these types of women. They tend to have been divorced and they will say that "the man" kept them down, but when you look at the house and the property she lived with him on, you cant help but think "Jesus christ! No he kept you well-fed while living in a castle". In one case, I actually met her former husband and I must say, he was an incredible man. Of course, Im sure men can be a drag, but hell, if hes making 6 figures a year, he cant be as "in the aire" as she is- for he has to come back down to earth and work that high paying job with other broken souls just so she can continue living in Nirvana. The west coast was full of highly spiritual, yet, divorced women who lived in amazing houses, but played a wicked double-game. And yes, for the record, these spiritual types do love a handsome man. I know 3 very high-resonate, males with great hearts and soul who are not that attractive ( but not ugly either ), all 3 in wheelchairs and they have been single for a looong time. I mean, these guys are surrounded by highly spiritual women too. But none of them see these men in a romantic way. Yet, they turn to them for energy and wisdom. lol. if it was all about energy, resonance and a good heart, soul and connection, these men should be off the market. Right?
Trust me, there are good ones in the U.S - But guys.... its a needle in a haystack. Soon as I went abroad, I met unbelievably spiritual women and I got reacquainted with feminine energy. I mean, REAL feminine energy. Feminine energy is lost in the U.S. And by that, I mean, we men have forgotten what feminine energy is, how it shows itself in the physical world and how to interact with it. True feminine energy is the most amazing thing in the world. You feel it. It embraces you. In the U.S, it has been masculinized. Truth be told... Ive felt more true Feminine energy in Feminist Sweden than in the U.S. Mind-Completely-Blown.
This is really not a dis' of the U.S - Its merely my experience. But I'm glad I got out.