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If a girl flakes, my rule is ask her once, then if she doesn't reply, move on.marklambo wrote:Well yea it sucks that she flaked on you but to be honest, you should have just forget about her and move on. The way you described the situation, you sounded too desperate and you annoyed the shit out of her. She probably didn't really call the police. She was probably just saying that to get you off her back. It doesn't matter if a girl is from Europe or Asia, etc...you should really tone it down a bit because no girl will like it, regardless of where she's from. If a girl flakes, f**k it, just forget about the bitch and go to the next. There's no reason to fight for an answer as to why she flaked. It's just a complete waste of time and risk, especially if she's a Western c**t. No woman is worth trying to "fight" for or to demand answers for flaking. They're just women....and there's plenty of them around.zacb wrote:God, I just was trying to ask a freggin question via text , albeit aggressively, and now she is going to the police. I kept asking her why she flaked on me, and I kept asking until she said she would call the cops. Prior to that, there was no warning or anything, she just ignored me. I know what I did was rather aggressive, but still, I never threatened her except to continue text her until she would answer. I don't think it will get far, but still, the thought of of this is a bunch of BS.
Maybe I shouldn't have been playing with fire. I just figured I was not being "aggressive enough". I kept asking chicks out, I got one response offline, but even she hasn't really responded after our initial response. This experience and a few others have soured me on women. In between this, my friend's GF being a bitch, and then my Filipino friend deleting her account after I suggested we be friend, I just don't know. I want to believe in the ideal of marriage and all that, but the more I see, the more I see that marriage is perverted to the point that it isn't worth it. Hell, all I wanted from the chicks I was hitting on was a little fling or something. Hell, I would settle for a hoe. I am trying to gain employment so I can travel a bit, but it is hard right now. In closing, I admit that Winston and others are right. But this brings up another interesting question, if a Filipino girls could act like this, in the end, which region is best for traditional women? Poland, Japan, Russia, fricken Iran, or where? I just want a normal wife that won't be a fircken bitch. Thanks.
Just a few to start ...zacb wrote:Hey, teal. Actually, I would be open to milfs, but not quite sure on the approach. I always worry about some guy beating the shit outta me. But there was a {supposedly} lesbo hitting on me. When it stops rainig I might stop by. Any tips for older chicks? I am thinking the Jazz Fest might be a good place to check
. I would have taken up her offer, but at the time, me and my mother lived near her. Otherwise I was rearing to go
. On the topic of the message, that ran through my mind, but better safe than sorry. And yeah, I pushed the issue, but Mr. bobo was having a bad day.
Cougars are easy, man. Find out which bars in your local area have a high turn-out. Then go there. A lot of cougars go out alone and are just looking for a guy to make a move.zacb wrote:Hey, teal. Actually, I would be open to milfs, but not quite sure on the approach. I always worry about some guy beating the shit outta me. But there was a {supposedly} lesbo hitting on me. When it stops rainig I might stop by. Any tips for older chicks? I am thinking the Jazz Fest might be a good place to check
. I would have taken up her offer, but at the time, me and my mother lived near her. Otherwise I was rearing to go
. On the topic of the message, that ran through my mind, but better safe than sorry. And yeah, I pushed the issue, but Mr. bobo was having a bad day.
Yes, it is indeed true what you say. There is a major difference between coming on as aggressive (non desperate) or aggressive (desperate way). Being persistent and trying different angles of pursuing a woman can be done aggressively but not in a desperate way. The moment any WW senses anything that indicates weakness or desperation, it's pretty much over. WW do like men to be aggressive and manly but the guy can't do it to where he seems like she's the only one he has.Cornfed wrote:Yes, the thing to remember is that for men in the West it is a feast/famine situation when it comes to sex. The men getting all the sex don't need to aggressively pursue females because they have sluts throwing themselves at them, so if one isn't interested they can move on to the next. Therefore if you are aggressive you come across as a desperate loser that the females wouldn't want anything to do with. The idea is to let them know you are interested in f***ing them and then back off and let them do the pursuing.marklambo wrote:Well yea it sucks that she flaked on you but to be honest, you should have just forget about her and move on. The way you described the situation, you sounded too desperate and you annoyed the shit out of her.
I definitely agree that it's about the timing. It is hard to time it but by trying multiple options, you eventually get something. The idea is to never stick to one for too long.anamericaninbangkok wrote:If a girl flakes, my rule is ask her once, then if she doesn't reply, move on.marklambo wrote:Well yea it sucks that she flaked on you but to be honest, you should have just forget about her and move on. The way you described the situation, you sounded too desperate and you annoyed the shit out of her. She probably didn't really call the police. She was probably just saying that to get you off her back. It doesn't matter if a girl is from Europe or Asia, etc...you should really tone it down a bit because no girl will like it, regardless of where she's from. If a girl flakes, f**k it, just forget about the bitch and go to the next. There's no reason to fight for an answer as to why she flaked. It's just a complete waste of time and risk, especially if she's a Western c**t. No woman is worth trying to "fight" for or to demand answers for flaking. They're just women....and there's plenty of them around.zacb wrote:God, I just was trying to ask a freggin question via text , albeit aggressively, and now she is going to the police. I kept asking her why she flaked on me, and I kept asking until she said she would call the cops. Prior to that, there was no warning or anything, she just ignored me. I know what I did was rather aggressive, but still, I never threatened her except to continue text her until she would answer. I don't think it will get far, but still, the thought of of this is a bunch of BS.
Maybe I shouldn't have been playing with fire. I just figured I was not being "aggressive enough". I kept asking chicks out, I got one response offline, but even she hasn't really responded after our initial response. This experience and a few others have soured me on women. In between this, my friend's GF being a bitch, and then my Filipino friend deleting her account after I suggested we be friend, I just don't know. I want to believe in the ideal of marriage and all that, but the more I see, the more I see that marriage is perverted to the point that it isn't worth it. Hell, all I wanted from the chicks I was hitting on was a little fling or something. Hell, I would settle for a hoe. I am trying to gain employment so I can travel a bit, but it is hard right now. In closing, I admit that Winston and others are right. But this brings up another interesting question, if a Filipino girls could act like this, in the end, which region is best for traditional women? Poland, Japan, Russia, fricken Iran, or where? I just want a normal wife that won't be a fircken bitch. Thanks.
There is a saying here in Thailand, "NEXT."
Think about something, how many women need a man. They all need one. Some need them for money, some need love, and others need cock. But eventually, the need will win out. The trick is to catch them at the right time. If this chick didn't want to respond, go on to the next. There will be a next, that is a certainty. However, you need to be strong enough to remember this and stress less about one woman. Once you stop desiring them, that's when you have the power and they lose much of theirs.
Damn! This is awesome advice!anamericaninbangkok wrote:If a girl flakes, my rule is ask her once, then if she doesn't reply, move on.marklambo wrote:Well yea it sucks that she flaked on you but to be honest, you should have just forget about her and move on. The way you described the situation, you sounded too desperate and you annoyed the shit out of her. She probably didn't really call the police. She was probably just saying that to get you off her back. It doesn't matter if a girl is from Europe or Asia, etc...you should really tone it down a bit because no girl will like it, regardless of where she's from. If a girl flakes, f**k it, just forget about the bitch and go to the next. There's no reason to fight for an answer as to why she flaked. It's just a complete waste of time and risk, especially if she's a Western c**t. No woman is worth trying to "fight" for or to demand answers for flaking. They're just women....and there's plenty of them around.zacb wrote:God, I just was trying to ask a freggin question via text , albeit aggressively, and now she is going to the police. I kept asking her why she flaked on me, and I kept asking until she said she would call the cops. Prior to that, there was no warning or anything, she just ignored me. I know what I did was rather aggressive, but still, I never threatened her except to continue text her until she would answer. I don't think it will get far, but still, the thought of of this is a bunch of BS.
Maybe I shouldn't have been playing with fire. I just figured I was not being "aggressive enough". I kept asking chicks out, I got one response offline, but even she hasn't really responded after our initial response. This experience and a few others have soured me on women. In between this, my friend's GF being a bitch, and then my Filipino friend deleting her account after I suggested we be friend, I just don't know. I want to believe in the ideal of marriage and all that, but the more I see, the more I see that marriage is perverted to the point that it isn't worth it. Hell, all I wanted from the chicks I was hitting on was a little fling or something. Hell, I would settle for a hoe. I am trying to gain employment so I can travel a bit, but it is hard right now. In closing, I admit that Winston and others are right. But this brings up another interesting question, if a Filipino girls could act like this, in the end, which region is best for traditional women? Poland, Japan, Russia, fricken Iran, or where? I just want a normal wife that won't be a fircken bitch. Thanks.
There is a saying here in Thailand, "NEXT."
Think about something, how many women need a man. They all need one. Some need them for money, some need love, and others need cock. But eventually, the need will win out. The trick is to catch them at the right time. If this chick didn't want to respond, go on to the next. There will be a next, that is a certainty. However, you need to be strong enough to remember this and stress less about one woman. Once you stop desiring them, that's when you have the power and they lose much of theirs.
I agree, don't get involved with women who live in the same town that you do. Because, you might run into her at a grocery store, bookstore, gas station or shopping mall.Teal Lantern wrote:Don't date anyone who lives in your own town. Never ever. Not even for ONS/FWB.
Nope, not even a drink together. No, not even "just" lunch/coffee.
She lives in your town == treat her like she was born with a peen -- or better yet, invisible.
For me, I extend that rule to the greater Boston area, including the border towns in NH. For me, stateside b*inking starts at Hartford CTjamesbond wrote:I agree, don't get involved with women who live in the same town that you do. Because, you might run into her at a grocery store, bookstore, gas station or shopping mall.Teal Lantern wrote:Don't date anyone who lives in your own town. Never ever. Not even for ONS/FWB.
Nope, not even a drink together. No, not even "just" lunch/coffee.
She lives in your town == treat her like she was born with a peen -- or better yet, invisible.
Never date women who live in the same town as you do!
TRUTH! NEVER bring hoes back to your house! That is the worst mistake ever! All my buddies that told me, "Say man you got this huge house all to yourself, you can run hoes in here all the f***ing time man!"jamesbond wrote:I agree, don't get involved with women who live in the same town that you do. Because, you might run into her at a grocery store, bookstore, gas station or shopping mall.Teal Lantern wrote:Don't date anyone who lives in your own town. Never ever. Not even for ONS/FWB.
Nope, not even a drink together. No, not even "just" lunch/coffee.
She lives in your town == treat her like she was born with a peen -- or better yet, invisible.
Never date women who live in the same town as you do!
Also, NEVER bring a woman back to your place if your having a one-nighter, because she then will know where you live and it is easier for her to file a false rape charge against you!![]()
Best thing is to have nothing to do with American women and just wait until you can travel to foreign countries and meet women!
HAHA! Black men around here commonly use "NEXT!" when out trying to pull phone numbers. Most of us get rejected so much in America, that we are used to that mentality.anamericaninbangkok wrote:If a girl flakes, my rule is ask her once, then if she doesn't reply, move on.marklambo wrote:Well yea it sucks that she flaked on you but to be honest, you should have just forget about her and move on. The way you described the situation, you sounded too desperate and you annoyed the shit out of her. She probably didn't really call the police. She was probably just saying that to get you off her back. It doesn't matter if a girl is from Europe or Asia, etc...you should really tone it down a bit because no girl will like it, regardless of where she's from. If a girl flakes, f**k it, just forget about the bitch and go to the next. There's no reason to fight for an answer as to why she flaked. It's just a complete waste of time and risk, especially if she's a Western c**t. No woman is worth trying to "fight" for or to demand answers for flaking. They're just women....and there's plenty of them around.zacb wrote:God, I just was trying to ask a freggin question via text , albeit aggressively, and now she is going to the police. I kept asking her why she flaked on me, and I kept asking until she said she would call the cops. Prior to that, there was no warning or anything, she just ignored me. I know what I did was rather aggressive, but still, I never threatened her except to continue text her until she would answer. I don't think it will get far, but still, the thought of of this is a bunch of BS.
Maybe I shouldn't have been playing with fire. I just figured I was not being "aggressive enough". I kept asking chicks out, I got one response offline, but even she hasn't really responded after our initial response. This experience and a few others have soured me on women. In between this, my friend's GF being a bitch, and then my Filipino friend deleting her account after I suggested we be friend, I just don't know. I want to believe in the ideal of marriage and all that, but the more I see, the more I see that marriage is perverted to the point that it isn't worth it. Hell, all I wanted from the chicks I was hitting on was a little fling or something. Hell, I would settle for a hoe. I am trying to gain employment so I can travel a bit, but it is hard right now. In closing, I admit that Winston and others are right. But this brings up another interesting question, if a Filipino girls could act like this, in the end, which region is best for traditional women? Poland, Japan, Russia, fricken Iran, or where? I just want a normal wife that won't be a fircken bitch. Thanks.
There is a saying here in Thailand, "NEXT."
Think about something, how many women need a man. They all need one. Some need them for money, some need love, and others need cock. But eventually, the need will win out. The trick is to catch them at the right time. If this chick didn't want to respond, go on to the next. There will be a next, that is a certainty. However, you need to be strong enough to remember this and stress less about one woman. Once you stop desiring them, that's when you have the power and they lose much of theirs.