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I have been talking to this obese girl that I met on DIA:
I messaged her first and she gave me her YM. Yeah I aim low but only because I know my place. She said she talks to three other guys from dateinasia as well. She talked about them a lot so i finally asked her to show me them.
And check out her options!!!!
LOL!! Im sure these guys are poor and live with their parents or something....but still...in a sane world she would not have a chance with these guys. The white guy is the worst.....she says he wants to convert to Islam for her, LOL!!! Thats some serious mangina shit. But if these are her options ....what chance do I have when these guys are WAAAAAAAAAAAY better looking than me...even if they are equally poor as me.
Oh almost forgot to mention she said she gets messages everyday, so those are just the three guys that made her short list, LOL!
If you look at dating sites in the US like yahoo personals, american singles and match.com, the men FAR outnumber the women. I read a statistic that said, in US online dating sites, the men outnumbe the women 4 to 1.
Christ on a bicycle! No wonder why women in America are so picky about who they date, they have a lot of options!
The more options you have, the more picky your going to be. The "pickup artist" Mystery, said women in the US who live in big cities are asked out 300 times a year! This does not include women who use internet dating, this just includes men asking out women at bars and clubs.
Jumpin Jesus, women have it made in the USA! No wonder why you don't hear women complain about the dating scene in America!
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There you go. Women always have options. That's why it is a mistake to aim low. Fat/disgusting women have tons of options (no pun intended, hehehe).
Hey, if your woman is likely to be pulled away regardless, why not at least get a woman that is attractive?
BTW, I think guys like the ones in the photo are really the enemy of other men. It certainly is nice they arent competing for women that are actually attractive. The larger problem (no pun intended once again, hahahaha) is that it inflates the cost of p***y when they aim so low that even the fat girls can start getting picky. Then more and more women will let themselves go obese, cause men will have sex with them anyway. Eventually this leads to the American situation in which most women are just plain old fat.
J.Adama wrote:There you go. Women always have options. That's why it is a mistake to aim low. Fat/disgusting women have tons of options (no pun intended, hehehe).
Hey, if your woman is likely to be pulled away regardless, why not at least get a woman that is attractive?
BTW, I think guys like the ones in the photo are really the enemy of other men. It certainly is nice they arent competing for women that are actually attractive. The larger problem (no pun intended once again, hahahaha) is that it inflates the cost of p***y when they aim so low that even the fat girls can start getting picky. Then more and more women will let themselves go obese, cause men will have sex with them anyway. Eventually this leads to the American situation in which most women are just plain old fat.
Heres the thing....these guys are good looking or in the VERY LEAST are decent.....she's obese. Now think about it....if an obese chick from a 3rd world country has options like THAT....what options does an ugly guy have? NONE! UGLY MEN JUST DIE OFF!!! Every ugly guy I know that isnt rich gets NO women.
Yeah every once in a blue moon an ugly guy that is not wealthy will get a decent looking girl BUT THIS IS EXTREMELY RARE AND ANYONE WHO THINKS OTHERWISE IS A DELUSIONAL RETARD!
J.Adama wrote:There you go. Women always have options. That's why it is a mistake to aim low. Fat/disgusting women have tons of options (no pun intended, hehehe).
Hey, if your woman is likely to be pulled away regardless, why not at least get a woman that is attractive?
BTW, I think guys like the ones in the photo are really the enemy of other men. It certainly is nice they arent competing for women that are actually attractive. The larger problem (no pun intended once again, hahahaha) is that it inflates the cost of p***y when they aim so low that even the fat girls can start getting picky. Then more and more women will let themselves go obese, cause men will have sex with them anyway. Eventually this leads to the American situation in which most women are just plain old fat.
Tom Leykis tells guys to ask out women who are 9's and 10's and to aim high with women. This makes sense because if a woman has a ton of options, (this means not only good looking women but ugly and fat women too) why not aim high and go for the 9's and 10's? Hell, if your afraid of getting rejected by a hot chick, guess what? The ugly and fat chicks can also reject men.
I would rather ask out hot chicks and get rejected, then ask out ugly or fat chicks and get rejected.
When I think about getting romantically involved with an ugly or fat chick, I don't know whether or not if I should laugh .............. or vomit!
J.Adama wrote:There you go. Women always have options. That's why it is a mistake to aim low. Fat/disgusting women have tons of options (no pun intended, hehehe).
Hey, if your woman is likely to be pulled away regardless, why not at least get a woman that is attractive?
BTW, I think guys like the ones in the photo are really the enemy of other men. It certainly is nice they arent competing for women that are actually attractive. The larger problem (no pun intended once again, hahahaha) is that it inflates the cost of p***y when they aim so low that even the fat girls can start getting picky. Then more and more women will let themselves go obese, cause men will have sex with them anyway. Eventually this leads to the American situation in which most women are just plain old fat.
Tom Leykis tells guys to ask out women who are 9's and 10's and to aim high with women. This makes sense because if a woman has a ton of options, (this means not only good looking women but ugly and fat women too) why not aim high and go for the 9's and 10's? Hell, if your afraid of getting rejected by a hot chick, guess what? The ugly and fat chicks can also reject men.
I would rather ask out hot chicks and get rejected, then ask out ugly or fat chicks and get rejected.
When I think about getting romantically involved with an ugly or fat chick, I don't know whether or not if I should laugh .............. or vomit!
Yeah but attractive women have even BETTER options than fat ugly chicks....so you'll have even less of a chance. The best thing for ugly guys to do is simply not try.....or get rich.
yatterman1 wrote: Yeah but attractive women have even BETTER options than fat ugly chicks....so you'll have even less of a chance. The best thing for ugly guys to do is simply not try.....or get rich.
Tom Leykis tells guys to LIE to women and tell them you are rich. For example, go to a bar or club, strike a conversation with a hot chick and casually mention to her that you are self employed and own a vacation home in Malibu or Miami. You can also say something like, "When my uncle passed away, he left me 2 million dollars." or "I am a real estate investor and own real estate in New York, LA and Chicago."
His callers call into his show and SWEAR that this stuff works. For example, a guy called into his show and said he was in a casino in Vegas and met a woman and told her his parents got killed by a Fedex truck. Fedex then paid him 2 million dollars and now he never has to work. (of course the whole story was made up but it worked) An hour after meeting her, she went up to his hotel room and he said he screwed the crap out of her! lol
Perception is reality. If a woman thinks you are rich, she will become more interested in you and she is more likely to sleep with you.
What country is she from? You mentioned that she is muslim so its probably Malaysia, Indonesia, or southern Thailand. There is a smattering of muslims in other SE Asian areas but those are the most likely candidates.
Anyway, she does have a cute, sweet, and young looking face which can still attract many.
Guys like those in the posted photos, especially the second, assuming no hidden issues would find an abundance of attractive girls available to them in many parts of Asia. In Thailand, they would be very popular with many locals and the international backpacker set. Taiwan would be very easy for them. Korea and Japan would be much easier than almost any area in the States. They would also be popular in Shanghai and Beijing with many students and some girls attached to absent Chnese boyfriends/husbands (I personally don't recommend dating the latter though). They might even be offered opportunities to be kept by affluent 30 somethings.
In some other parts of Asia, I reckon they could do well without even being so qualified (young and decent to good looking). That would be Phils, rural China, Vietnam (for marriage), and perhaps Cambodia and Indonesia.
I have a feeling you have convinced yourself that women everywhere are the same - have all the power, call the shots, and demand men who should be out of their league. If that's your belief system, then cool. Enjoy life as a hermit in backwoods of Phils.
Yatterman, I highly doubt you are as ugly as you think you are. I havent seen you, but more than likely you are underestimating yourself.
I have felt the same in my life. When you grow up in a feminist country in which women reject you left and right and consider you to be invisible, eventually you'd start feeling as if you are a worthless person.
Like I said, more than likely you are using the feminist lens on yourself.
If and when you ever visit a non-feminist country, you may find that many of the women find your looks to be average to good looking.
So dont count yourself out just yet!
And I do think ugly men can get good looking women without having lots of money (though money would certainly help). I actually think it is by design that women must be more sexually attractive than the man she is with. The reason why I say this is cause they need that greater relative sexual power in order to wield some amount of leverage over her man.
Go out and take a look. It is usually a woman who is a 7 with a man who is a 5 or 6.
Other things besides a handsome face are way higher on women's list of demands. Things like height (probably #2 after money), muscularity (lack of height can be compensated for with extremely muscularity), social standing, "badassedness" (bad boys) or manliness (depending one feminist or non feminist cultures respectively), overall personality (relatively low requirement in feminist countries, however).
LOL!! Im sure these guys are poor and live with their parents or something....but still...in a sane world she would not have a chance with these guys. The white guy is the worst.....she says he wants to convert to Islam for her, LOL!!! Thats some serious mangina shit. But if these are her options ....what chance do I have when these guys are WAAAAAAAAAAAY better looking than me...even if they are equally poor as me.
Oh almost forgot to mention she said she gets messages everyday, so those are just the three guys that made her short list, LOL!
All the more reason to give up on women forever!
No, don't give up on women or anything. Give up on dating on US based sites. Get your butt over to Asia and you won't have to do it. The US based sites reflect the overall demographic trends and apply them to cyberspace. Date in the Philippines or China or whatever. Forget about the online, US dating even with Asians. Many guys will swoop on these gals because they are still in the US. Not many will come to Asia to live/work. And here is another thing:
I have met Filipinas who got lots of letters and chatted with lots of guys. But how many of these have the passports, the money and the courage to visit these girls? And then follow through with the paperwork to marry the gal, petition her, etc. The number is low.
I visited one gal in Manila and she showed me a stack of letters in 1998. I asked her- well how many of these guys visited you? She said NONE!
Chatting and writing is easy and free. A lot of these guys just fantasize and jack off. But few of them ever visit the gals. Believe you me!
yatterman1 wrote: Yeah but attractive women have even BETTER options than fat ugly chicks....so you'll have even less of a chance. The best thing for ugly guys to do is simply not try.....or get rich.
Tom Leykis tells guys to LIE to women and tell them you are rich. For example, go to a bar or club, strike a conversation with a hot chick and casually mention to her that you are self employed and own a vacation home in Malibu or Miami. You can also say something like, "When my uncle passed away, he left me 2 million dollars." or "I am a real estate investor and own real estate in New York, LA and Chicago."
His callers call into his show and SWEAR that this stuff works. For example, a guy called into his show and said he was in a casino in Vegas and met a woman and told her his parents got killed by a Fedex truck. Fedex then paid him 2 million dollars and now he never has to work. (of course the whole story was made up but it worked) An hour after meeting her, she went up to his hotel room and he said he screwed the crap out of her! lol
Perception is reality. If a woman thinks you are rich, she will become more interested in you and she is more likely to sleep with you.
Yeah this might get you an occasional one time f**k....but it wont get you a long term relationship or anything like that. If you live with your parents or live in a shitty 1 bedroom apartment...and you drive a piece of shit or don't even have a car...they'll find out pretty quick that you are a liar.
Not to mention its a pretty big risk too. Once she figures out she got duped she might try to get revenge by filing a false rape report, and believe me the risk is higher than you think. And the courtroom is going to see her as an angelic rape victim and you as a rapist that's worse than Hitler and Osama Bin Laden combined...then you'll spend the next decade of your life getting raped for real in prison but nobody will care because you are a man....rape only matters when it happens to women...men getting prison raped is A-OK to joke about.
yatterman1 wrote: Yeah but attractive women have even BETTER options than fat ugly chicks....so you'll have even less of a chance. The best thing for ugly guys to do is simply not try.....or get rich.
Tom Leykis tells guys to LIE to women and tell them you are rich. For example, go to a bar or club, strike a conversation with a hot chick and casually mention to her that you are self employed and own a vacation home in Malibu or Miami. You can also say something like, "When my uncle passed away, he left me 2 million dollars." or "I am a real estate investor and own real estate in New York, LA and Chicago."
His callers call into his show and SWEAR that this stuff works. For example, a guy called into his show and said he was in a casino in Vegas and met a woman and told her his parents got killed by a Fedex truck. Fedex then paid him 2 million dollars and now he never has to work. (of course the whole story was made up but it worked) An hour after meeting her, she went up to his hotel room and he said he screwed the crap out of her! lol
Perception is reality. If a woman thinks you are rich, she will become more interested in you and she is more likely to sleep with you.
Yeah this might get you an occasional one time f**k....but it wont get you a long term relationship or anything like that. If you live with your parents or live in a shitty 1 bedroom apartment...and you drive a piece of shit or don't even have a car...they'll find out pretty quick that you are a liar.
Not to mention its a pretty big risk too. Once she figures out she got duped she might try to get revenge by filing a false rape report, and believe me the risk is higher than you think. And the courtroom is going to see her as an angelic rape victim and you as a rapist that's worse than Hitler and Osama Bin Laden combined...then you'll spend the next decade of your life getting raped for real in prison but nobody will care because you are a man....rape only matters when it happens to women...men getting prison raped is A-OK to joke about.
If you want to talk yourself out of any action, you certainly can.
There are a million ways to act and talk so that she won't find out.
The Los Angeles dating scene runs on stories like this - everyone is blowing smoke.
yatterman1 wrote: Yeah but attractive women have even BETTER options than fat ugly chicks....so you'll have even less of a chance. The best thing for ugly guys to do is simply not try.....or get rich.
Tom Leykis tells guys to LIE to women and tell them you are rich. For example, go to a bar or club, strike a conversation with a hot chick and casually mention to her that you are self employed and own a vacation home in Malibu or Miami. You can also say something like, "When my uncle passed away, he left me 2 million dollars." or "I am a real estate investor and own real estate in New York, LA and Chicago."
His callers call into his show and SWEAR that this stuff works. For example, a guy called into his show and said he was in a casino in Vegas and met a woman and told her his parents got killed by a Fedex truck. Fedex then paid him 2 million dollars and now he never has to work. (of course the whole story was made up but it worked) An hour after meeting her, she went up to his hotel room and he said he screwed the crap out of her! lol
Perception is reality. If a woman thinks you are rich, she will become more interested in you and she is more likely to sleep with you.
Yeah this might get you an occasional one time f**k....but it wont get you a long term relationship or anything like that. If you live with your parents or live in a shitty 1 bedroom apartment...and you drive a piece of shit or don't even have a car...they'll find out pretty quick that you are a liar.
Not to mention its a pretty big risk too. Once she figures out she got duped she might try to get revenge by filing a false rape report, and believe me the risk is higher than you think. And the courtroom is going to see her as an angelic rape victim and you as a rapist that's worse than Hitler and Osama Bin Laden combined...then you'll spend the next decade of your life getting raped for real in prison but nobody will care because you are a man....rape only matters when it happens to women...men getting prison raped is A-OK to joke about.
If you want to talk yourself out of any action, you certainly can.
There are a million ways to act and talk so that she won't find out.
Rock, Ladislav and Globetrotter have it right. Why all the whimpering? Take action. Get your passport. obviously, till the present moment
the biggest problem is in the mirror...believe you me, in most of the world it is the fat guy who has the options, not the fat chick.
I'm 53, average looks(but in good shape), and I have more young, slim pretty girls around me than I could possibly manage. The fat Muslim chick on that site is a joke, and if those guys are kissing her ass, they most be total idiots.
Most guys are in love with their own misery...would rather stay put in their rut and bitch. If you want life, TAKE IT!
nate
The Los Angeles dating scene runs on stories like this - everyone is blowing smoke.
