Americans say it's the guy's job to ask the woman out.

[AW Warning]

But when a man does ask a woman out in America, she complains and gets him arrested and thrown in prison. Or at the very minimum she shows disgust and walks away, or says she is either not interested or has a boyfriend. Of course there's also the worst case scenario; her boyfriend/fiancee/husband suddenly comes out of nowhere and flattens the guy asking her out with an AK-47. Even if she does say "yes," she expects him to have a luxury, present year Ferrari or Bentley with all of the latest technology, a huge fat wallet, a giant mansion in a gated community, and too much more. And she expects him to pay every single nickel of the total cost of a date. One slight weakness, and the date is off as surely as a German U-boat would get sunk if even a thousand depth charges were simultaneously detonated within even as close as 3 feet of the pressure hull.

America's entire dating scene is a baited booby trap for all single guys!

[MrMan]

I'd say the OP is exaggerated just a bit.

[Quiet_observer]

Not too far from the truth. Behind every innocent milkmaid of an american woman seems to be a mental, thug willing to violently rise to her honor. An idiot who thinks beating up a man who is flirting with her is somehow impressing her. American men will virtually kill eachother over women while allowing their women to continue flirting with other men all the while lying about her relationship status with them. America is done. The men are not unified and will never be. The american woman is the most spoiled women on the planet and the men are convinced the american women has been treated even worse than those black female slaves and American indian women who were raped endlessly and benefited zilch from the good ol patriarchy. You should hear some of these men talk about this ...Its like they have memorized some script and they spout this "Pity the American woman" garbage like robots. I seriously think its over for American men.... Next up, the American women will convince the men that killing themselves is the only cure and surely enough, like lemmings, they will be aimlessly walking off cliffs.... Just to make HER happy.

[AW Warning]

Next up, the American women will convince the men that killing themselves is the only cure and surely enough, like lemmings, they will be aimlessly walking off cliffs.... Just to make HER happy.

Or maybe, next up the American women will vote and push the Feds to make co-ed mingling a capital felony under Federal law, punishable by even 300 years minimum to life in prison and up to even 100 consecutive life sentences depending on how many women a man interacted with and if personal contact information was exchanged and/or the death penalty for all involved. And then sure enough, armed FBI, military, and Homeland Security officers will be arresting guys left and right for interacting with women, many guys will get unruly and upset only to trigger an immediate barrage of M-16 and RPG fire, followed by a full military lockdown and Martial law covering an entire county, an entire state, or even the entire USA. And then before you know it, a division of America by gender, all men on one side, all women on the other side, and a huge wide military zone in between. And then surely enough, husbands will get forcefully separated from wives and wives separated from husbands, brothers will get forcefully separated from sisters and sisters from brothers, all then carted off to their assigned sides of the country, more fighting and even gunning down of military personnell, only to immediately attract the attention of huge squadrons of loaded F-16 fighter jets sure to make an entire neighborhood look and sound something like this; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NktsxucDvNI

[Taco]

I don't think there's any dating or meeting women in night clubs going on in America anymore. Hook up apps like Tinder have taken care of that problem. In addition, they put the hookers out of business.

[Ghost]

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[Adama]

But when a man does ask a woman out in America, she complains and gets him arrested and thrown in prison.

This is an exaggeration but similar things can happen. I had one girl at work who was flirting with me. She later displayed some disrespectful behavior towards me, and from then on, I stopped flriting with her. Well she remembered every little thing I said and reported me for SH. Unfortunately for little Ms Bimbo, she was a complete whore. When her accusation became known, everyone compared notes about both her and me individually. It was barely known before then that she had had sex with most of my male coworkers already. All while protesting that I was pestering her and making her feel frightened. She then dropped the accusation and resumed her attempts to lure me in.

She tried but she didn't succeed. Her name became infamous for being a whore. Whereas before only a few knew.

Or at the very minimum she shows disgust and walks away

I can remember a girl laughing at me, but I see what I did wrong is I approached her in a very cowardly and pathetic way. And it was a cold approach.

, or says she is either not interested or has a boyfriend.

The strange thing about American women is that they consider flirting to be sport for their egos. They consider it to be "harmless fun". They have no consideration for men's feelings. I take it personally when a woman is flipping her hair and smiling at me over an extended period and then tells me she has a boyfriend and that I was misreading her signals. This is how screwed up many American women are. Fortunately it is most often the ones who are not very pretty at all. You're supposed to overlook all that outer beauty crap, but those lesser attractive looking women are the worst offenders.

Of course there's also the worst case scenario; her boyfriend/fiancee/husband suddenly comes out of nowhere and flattens the guy asking her out with an AK-47.

I hope to never experience anything like that. I think the only way this could happen is if you are screwing over a prostitute with a thug boyfriend for a pimp.

Even if she does say "yes," she expects him to have a luxury, present year Ferrari or Bentley with all of the latest technology, a huge fat wallet, a giant mansion in a gated community, and too much more.

I actually don't mind when women have "requirements" such as this. It tells you what their true love is: Money. Good. Many of these gold diggers will open their mouths outright to tell you they will only go with men who have lots of money. I say that is good that they are so expressive. Cross that particular woman off your list. If wealth was what attracted women to men, then there would be harems around every rich man and there would be no poor. In other words, poor men would be unable to find wives, and we can see with our own eyes that there are many poor men and regular Joes with some banging babes.

And she expects him to pay every single nickel of the total cost of a date.

I for one think that dating comes after the relationship has started. As in, I am jump in with heels first guy. We can go out later. And guess what? She will likely be the one paying. But if I pay, it will only be for me. The only exception is if she is so young that she couldn't have money and she's unemployed, like a broke college student or something. But to me, the goal is not to "date" women. It is to make that particular woman mine. Different goal with different strategy required. Dating is not involved here.

One slight weakness, and the date is off as surely as a German U-boat would get sunk if even a thousand depth charges were simultaneously detonated within even as close as 3 feet of the pressure hull.

You have to be a man. Unfortunately that means you can't cry in front of her, complain about things out of your control, or speak negatively about yourself or your own abilities. Otherwise you should be fine.

America's entire dating scene is a baited booby trap for all single guys!

That's because American men are convinced women are more important than they are. Don't get me wrong. They're important, but their role is not the one society tells us. Society tells us men that women are above us, that we must beg, and that we'd be lucky to get one of them. Well we would be lucky, but each man has far more to offer a woman than what any woman has to offer a man. Men are the prize, not women. But society tells us to get down on one knee and put women on a pedestal. She'll never respect you, and you'll wonder why. It's because you're in the submissive position (feminine) and you've exalted her beyond what your position as the man would be. A properly functioning, feminine woman doesn't want a man to put her on a pedestal. She secretly wants to put him on a pedestal.

It is a night and day difference between a submissive woman who wants to satisfy you and some stuck up B or angry slut who thinks you owe her something for her presence.

[Quiet_observer]

Next up, the American women will convince the men that killing themselves is the only cure and surely enough, like lemmings, they will be aimlessly walking off cliffs.... Just to make HER happy.

Or maybe, next up the American women will vote and push the Feds to make co-ed mingling a capital felony under Federal law, punishable by even 300 years minimum to life in prison and up to even 100 consecutive life sentences depending on how many women a man interacted with and if personal contact information was exchanged and/or the death penalty for all involved. And then sure enough, armed FBI, military, and Homeland Security officers will be arresting guys left and right for interacting with women, many guys will get unruly and upset only to trigger an immediate barrage of M-16 and RPG fire, followed by a full military lockdown and Martial law covering an entire county, an entire state, or even the entire USA. And then before you know it, a division of America by gender, all men on one side, all women on the other side, and a huge wide military zone in between. And then surely enough, husbands will get forcefully separated from wives and wives separated from husbands, brothers will get forcefully separated from sisters and sisters from brothers, all then carted off to their assigned sides of the country, more fighting and even gunning down of military personnell, only to immediately attract the attention of huge squadrons of loaded F-16 fighter jets sure to make an entire neighborhood look and sound something like this; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NktsxucDvNI

AW Warning, I think you might be onto something with that very single line. I mean.... Its already bloody illegal being heterosexual in America.

[nomadphilippines]

you get thrown in jail for asking them out now?

[Kradmelder]

you get thrown in jail for asking them out now?

My experience of america is that a bunch of american men will say, wow, look at that gorgeous chick. I turn to look and they 'Don't look!. You can be charged with harassment'. WTF?? One told me in his drawing office at work they had this fat chick that kept breaking the stools. So they bought her a re-enforced one. She sued the company and won for emphasising her weight. Men are afraid to look at, compliment, or flirt with a woman for fear of some charge.

I was also surprised at how fat they are, and badly dressed. They go out in track suits. They are loud, poor table manners, ill mannered and lack class. The lower classes are even worse; being very obnoxious. A very poor comparison to classy European women.

Besides the women, those warning signs everywhere for the most obvious things are mind boggling. I asked what is up wit that and people say if there is no sign and you have an accident you can sue. Sounds like a jewish lawyer's paradise.

Then you have american negroes.....no thanks. I will take the african darkies any day over that uncultured, disrespectful, obnoxious in your face bunch. Thankfully America took them COD, so now can't send them back

You get the feeling the white male in america is a like hunted species, like a deer. Always a woman or a lawyer looking for something to gun him down. No thanks. I would rather face our darkies. At least you can fight back, although more and more laws come in to prosecute whites that make legitimate racial remarks. Better they come at me with guns than with PC rules and regs.

[Quiet_observer]

you get thrown in jail for asking them out now?

My experience of america is that a bunch of american men will say, wow, look at that gorgeous chick. I turn to look and they 'Don't look!. You can be charged with harassment'. WTF?? One told me in his drawing office at work they had this fat chick that kept breaking the stools. So they bought her a re-enforced one. She sued the company and won for emphasising her weight. Men are afraid to look at, compliment, or flirt with a woman for fear of some charge.

Yep. I've observed this too in America. The women have insane power here.

I was also surprised at how fat they are, and badly dressed. They go out in track suits. They are loud, poor table manners, ill mannered and lack class. The lower classes are even worse; being very obnoxious. A very poor comparison to classy European women.

Exactly! Well said.

Besides the women, those warning signs everywhere for the most obvious things are mind boggling. I asked what is up wit that and people say if there is no sign and you have an accident you can sue. Sounds like a jewish lawyer's paradise.

This is quite possibly true.

Then you have american negroes.....no thanks. I will take the african darkies ( RED FLAG ) any day over that uncultured, disrespectful, obnoxious in your face bunch. Thankfully America took them COD, so now can't send them back

Well, I'm German and based on the recent invasion of African and Syrian immigrants back home, Ill trade them all for African American (Black American) ANYDAY. At least the blacks in america want to assimilate and are willing to speak the language and try playing by the rules. The immigrants back home do not give zero shits about my people who gave them asylum or my language and our customs. In defense of the blacks in America, they are ( And have been ) trying really hard to be accepted by a majority that wont accept them. They have every right to be upset. If the tables were turned, i'm almost certain, the whites would have, long ago, began mass killings in attempt to get their due. Everytime I hear an American trash blacks, I laugh because they dont know how lucky they really are. They could not handle the immigrants going to Germany, Sweden, France and Ireland right now.

You get the feeling the white male in america is a like hunted species, like a deer. Always a woman or a lawyer looking for something to gun him down. No thanks. I would rather face our darkies. At least you can fight back, although more and more laws come in to prosecute whites that make legitimate racial remarks. Better they come at me with guns than with PC rules and regs.

I disagree. The white man in America gets the spoils. The reason why the white male feels hunted is because he gave his women too many rights. Now, shes a lesbian whos reenacted the civil rights against him and now, those women all hate the patriarchal white man and seek to destroy him. If anyone is killing the white man, its the white women. Not the black man or the black woman. Not the Latino man or the Latino woman. An American Indian once said to me "The white mans woman is the white mans problem." Most white men in prison right now are put there by white women. When the prison capacity becomes overwhelmingly white, then grab your pitchfork, but until then, America is still a lilly white paradise. With uncontrollable women who hate all men.

[Nomad]

But when a man does ask a woman out in America, she complains and gets him arrested and thrown in prison. Or at the very minimum she shows disgust and walks away, or says she is either not interested or has a boyfriend. Of course there's also the worst case scenario; her boyfriend/fiancee/husband suddenly comes out of nowhere and flattens the guy asking her out with an AK-47. Even if she does say "yes," she expects him to have a luxury, present year Ferrari or Bentley with all of the latest technology, a huge fat wallet, a giant mansion in a gated community, and too much more. And she expects him to pay every single nickel of the total cost of a date. One slight weakness, and the date is off as surely as a German U-boat would get sunk if even a thousand depth charges were simultaneously detonated within even as close as 3 feet of the pressure hull.

America's entire dating scene is a baited booby trap for all single guys!

I talked to my cousin before I moved to Finland. He has the alpha look, and has shown me numerous girls on his phone. He literally can scroll down his phone, showing girl after girl after girl after girl all wanting either sex or BF/GF relationship.

When I asked him what is the dating scene like? His words without hesitation:

"Its a wasteland".

Then I told him 3 good points about my wife, and he said "heck, I'd settle for just 2 of those qualities".

[Yohan]

But when a man does ask a woman out in America, she complains and gets him arrested and thrown in prison.

This is an exaggeration but similar things can happen. I had one girl at work who was flirting with me.

To look for personal contact with co-workers is risky in Western countries - if something goes wrong, the man will face troubles at his workplace.

While sexual harassment claims are relatively rare (at least outside of the toxic Anglosphere), the man might face a lot of scorn from all co-workers next to him.

In Asia, where men and women often spend long working hours together and like to be together as one group, the dating situation at the workplace is fairly different from Western countries.

[nomadphilippines]

if you know how to ask out a girl, and more importantly how to back off when its obv she isnt interested then you dont need to worry about a harrassment charge

[Adama]

if you know how to ask out a girl, and more importantly how to back off when its obv she isnt interested then you dont need to worry about a harrassment charge

You would think so. I was interested in this girl but she was just too disrespectful for me. We were talking for weeks, and quite frankly, I was tired of waiting for her, and she wasn't showing me the respect I was used to from women (she had poor conversation skills, often ignored me when I walked into a room and wouldn't acknowledge me unless I went to her first, and laughed at me a few times instead of with me, which was the last straw for me), because she thought she was hot stuff. So I put an end to talking to her and I just ignored her, which was my mistake, doing it cold turkey. I ignored her for over a month, and I thought it was over. She had a boyfriend anyway, and she wasn't making the effort to talk to me during that month's time. So I moved on to someone else and literally forgot all about her, except I was talking to this other chick in front of her and she saw that. Next time I came to work all the women already knew what was coming for me, but they didn't say it outright. They were already blaming me without ever having heard my story.

Then about a week later the head person comes to interview me about what happened, along with my supervisor who had obviously been pushing that girl to accuse me.

Anyhow, the girl told her friend who also worked there that I was the only man who wouldn't wait for her. Most men were willing to wait for her to become single. And she was upset about that. She went around telling that story and it got around. That right there tells you it was just her, not me. But also, naturally they had to interview everyone about her conduct and about my conduct. Although I had talked to women there, none of the others said I harassed them. But as for her, she had had sex with multiple men who worked there.

So in the end she came out looking like a total whore who was just jealous and upset I wouldn't kiss her butt (I refuse, and I think the complete opposite, which is why we weren't compatible, she thought she was worth more than me). And within a month after all this transpired, the women who were initially against me were in my corner, and I was more loved at that point by the women than I had been before then.

After that, she got pregnant and openly admitted she has no clue who the father of her son is. That's how busy she was.

So I was saved on two accounts: I didn't get a terrible whore who would have ruined my life, and I was freed from the SH charge. For a woman like that, there are two kinds of men: The men you hold as your boyfriend and whom you cheat on, and then there are the whoremongers she cheats with on the side behind her boyfriend's back. I was going to be the next main guy. She was constantly cheating on her main guy that she already had with tons of random men.

Now I don't bother with women much unless it is in a downtown area.