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Its very hard to live here in Utah (Salt Lake City) if you're a single male in 30's and above. Most people will think either your a loser or gay. Younger men and women tend to get married in such an early stage. I moved here since March because of school, in my class there most students are females in their 20s, 30s and 40s. Even some females in their 20's are married and they already got 3-5 KIDS!
This is why its important to think outside the box, and dating outside of U.S will give you more options. Most women here in U.S have these bitter, insecure and disrespectful look when they found out I'm heading to Amsterdam to bang European hotties (I'm Asian btw) . This country is getting to much negativity day to day, even in the State of Utah which is run by the Mormons do not even know what "Entertainment" is. Folks tend to be either religious fanatics or so far the other way that they are bitter and resentful. It's very hard to make real long-term friends.
I don’t think it’s a good idea to tell people that you want to “bang hotties in Amsterdam.” It sounds degenerate so I’m not surprised they are having negative reactions to that.
Utah sounds socially healthy in some ways… Although Any society that legalizes polygamy is going to have a certain degree of toxicity and I cannot respect any society that allows that. Women having kids in their 20s is perfectly normal though and getting married at a young age is good. Just explain to people that you are from another state, I’m guessing California? Dating and trying to find a wife is a lot harder in California then it is in Utah so I think people would understand.
I don't think you are informed about Utah and Mormonism. The Mormon Church abandoned polygamy long ago, and it is not legal in the whole state of Utah. There is only one small town in Utah that allow polygamy, but it is legal in that town only. They are considered a rogue Mormon community that claims to be authentic because they are following the original teachings of the founder Joseph Smith, who said polygamy was God's will. But they do not represent the official Mormon Church or the state of Utah.
Also, polygamy is not toxic. Islam has polygamy too but it's not toxic and has good moral values and is not degenerate. At least Utah isn't antisocial or degenerate with rotten women and tattoos like Las Vegas is. There's no question which is better. Utah has a much more positive vibe than CA and Vegas, that's for sure. It also has a ton of beautiful national parks and state parks.
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I grew up in places like Florida and Nevada. Nevada is definitely a home for me. At least we do have more personal freedom and still respect each other kinda vibe. In Utah, people are committed with their religion. You always have to conform to their standards, and you are not to question about their religion cuz they will isolate or not help you at all. Most LDS would rather marry their own people (other LDS). The Mormons in general are nice and polite people, but you always hear from them "I'm married", "My husband", "My kids" (even at work). It never ends. They got big families altogether. Utah is nice for married couples or have a family.
I felt at home in Nevada too, in Virginia City (the Old West themed town) and Carson City which was very relaxed and had a lot of old world elderly folks who aren't afraid to talk to strangers and seem like they are from the TV show "The Waltons". But in Vegas I can't find a single friendly person, everyone acts like it's a crime and immoral taboo to talk to strangers and socialize with anyone you don't know. It's very god awful creepy. I don't know why. North and South Nevada are like two different states.
Have you ever asked the Mormons about the Meadows Massacre incident? If so what do they say? I posted about it here:
Hey man! Its good to see you. I was thinking of doing a recorded podcast with you via phone and have a good intellectual conversation. Let me know when you got a time. My name is Rain btw.
Hi sure we can do a podcast sometime. Do you have a radio show or YouTube channel? Or do you mean by channel? You are Asian too? Where did you grow up? How did you get a name like Rain? Usually women like names like that. How did you find this site?
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"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne
I grew up in places like Florida and Nevada. Nevada is definitely a home for me. At least we do have more personal freedom and still respect each other kinda vibe. In Utah, people are committed with their religion. You always have to conform to their standards, and you are not to question about their religion cuz they will isolate or not help you at all. Most LDS would rather marry their own people (other LDS). The Mormons in general are nice and polite people, but you always hear from them "I'm married", "My husband", "My kids" (even at work). It never ends. They got big families altogether. Utah is nice for married couples or have a family.
I felt at home in Nevada too, in Virginia City (the Old West themed town) and Carson City which was very relaxed and had a lot of old world elderly folks who aren't afraid to talk to strangers and seem like they are from the TV show "The Waltons". But in Vegas I can't find a single friendly person, everyone acts like it's a crime and immoral taboo to talk to strangers and socialize with anyone you don't know. It's very god awful creepy. I don't know why. North and South Nevada are like two different states.
Have you ever asked the Mormons about the Meadows Massacre incident? If so what do they say? I posted about it here:
Yes most both North and South Nevada are way different in terms of people and mentality. Because majority of people from LA had moved to Las Vegas and brought their 'Californiacation mentality" lol. I heard about the massacre incident and people still had a trauma from it. The mormon girls are ok but some are fake or hypocrites. They seem like they always watch what I do and where I go (even from work or school). What I like about here in Utah is they tend to be more socialistic. They watch and help each other's back (this is why they call Utah "Beehive State"). If you're a non mormon like me, then it will be another story. They can be nice to you, but mostly its a "Fake nice" vibe you get. Moving from Reno to Salt Lake Shitty is definitely one of the worst experience I have ever done. I do not like the traffic, the reckless drivers, and pollution in this city. But after I finished school and saved up some cash, imma head back home.
I grew up in places like Florida and Nevada. Nevada is definitely a home for me. At least we do have more personal freedom and still respect each other kinda vibe. In Utah, people are committed with their religion. You always have to conform to their standards, and you are not to question about their religion cuz they will isolate or not help you at all. Most LDS would rather marry their own people (other LDS). The Mormons in general are nice and polite people, but you always hear from them "I'm married", "My husband", "My kids" (even at work). It never ends. They got big families altogether. Utah is nice for married couples or have a family.
I felt at home in Nevada too, in Virginia City (the Old West themed town) and Carson City which was very relaxed and had a lot of old world elderly folks who aren't afraid to talk to strangers and seem like they are from the TV show "The Waltons". But in Vegas I can't find a single friendly person, everyone acts like it's a crime and immoral taboo to talk to strangers and socialize with anyone you don't know. It's very god awful creepy. I don't know why. North and South Nevada are like two different states.
Have you ever asked the Mormons about the Meadows Massacre incident? If so what do they say? I posted about it here:
Hey man! Its good to see you. I was thinking of doing a recorded podcast with you via phone and have a good intellectual conversation. Let me know when you got a time. My name is Rain btw.
Hi sure we can do a podcast sometime. Do you have a radio show or YouTube channel? Or do you mean by channel? You are Asian too? Where did you grow up? How did you get a name like Rain? Usually women like names like that. How did you find this site?
I found your site and read most of your article, and most of your observations have more truths, but Man oh man, you are going to trigger some people with this haha. There’s something on here to trigger just about anyone in America. Luckily, I’m not one of them. I get where you’re coming from. Skinny girls in America develop SUCH an ego simply because the rest of the female population is so obese that fit women have become a minority. Always makes me sad when I see a handsome, strapping young fella tied to a whale who has totally let herself go. He probably doesn’t know what he would be worth overseas.
I'm originally from the Philippines, as of now I do not have a youtube channel or radio show but I'm learning how to do a videography as I travel. For now, I'm focusing doing shorts (short videos like tiktok, or instagram), mostly beautiful places and good cuisines.
Islam often is toxic though. The Middle East is a constant embarrassment to traditional values because you have these Saudi guys with a lot of money doing extremely disgusting things with girls. I’ve heard of hotel banning Saudi guys specifically because they hosted sex parties that were so degenerate that the staff refuses to clean the room afterward.
Beyond that though, the Middle East is constantly having giant wars and there is a lot of terrorism. A lot of which is explicitly related to polygamy because the practice makes it literally impossible for a large number of men to find wives. For a bunch of guys who complain so much about the plight of single men in America y’all seem weirdly unsympathetic to the significantly worse plight of men who live in a system where a large portion of the women are actually legally committed to the top 3% of men who have multiple wives and will be killed if they date the single men.
Islam works fine in countries like Indonesia and Kosovo where the polygamy part is taken out. But Islamic run polygamy is a terrible idea, every country that practices polygamy is a shithole and quite frankly I have no respect for anybody who supports it because they are just blatantly being selfish. They are saying that the multiple wives they take are just gonna have to deal with him constantly cheating on her and sleeping with other women while she lies right next door and they are telling the men who will have to be lonely for the rest of their lives now because they just had to take another wife to simply suck it up and deal with it because it’s more important that they get a harem of women to f**k then it is for another guy to have just one female companion who could make him perfectly happy.
I am actually very familiar with what life in Florida looks like because my ex-girlfriend lived down there (I live in Virginia). Its no wonder you're single, finding a wife in Florida is nearly impossible. I would just explain to people in Utah what life in Florida is like and I'm sure they'd understand. Honestly I don't know how you didn't go insane living down there, I couldn't stand just visiting the place so many times. My ex-girlfriend at the time was getting sexually harassed or assaulted practically every day and it drove me insane. Nevada I would imagine is very similar.
Personally, I don't have a problem with people visiting prostitutes because I know how hard sexual frustration can be, but I don't think talking about it among mixed company is a good idea.
Here in Virginia, I see a lot of Asian guys dating White girls. Although I think dating in general is kind of hard here if you don't know anybody. I hear Asian guys are pretty popular amongst Polish girls although I can't confirm.
