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Post subject: Love and
Adventure in the
"They all want to meet
you"
Hi
guys, I am of foreign descent and I lived in the
I
am a
The
reason I am interested in Asian women is, paradoxically, because of my
school
days in a foreign country
where I lived from age 4-15. There I discovered that I had a thing for
Oriental looking girls.
In
1989 I dated this Filipina-American girl who was a knock out but a
terrible
person and she treated me like dirt. But I still got more and more
hooked on
the SE Asian look. She
eventually dumped me and it was
then that I thought that maybe the problem was not me after all. So, I
got a
job in
In
1991 I finally went to the
I
arrived there a bit jittery- you always hear about how dangerous the
After
I arrived at the hotel where I was to stay, immediately I met a girl, a
floor
manager and she seemed to be interested in me. We talked and I plucked
up my
courage and asked her on a date- Guess what the answer was? "Yes!!!
When
can we go?"Wow! Just
like that! I was not used
to it. None of this- "I am busy, I have an appointment/headache"
stuff you hear in the
I
went out with her and we went to the movies
, then, a
few days later, the beach and then we started swimming under the full
moon and
kissing- that was a total blast- just like a dream...
Then,
the next day I left early to avoid her as I really did not want to get
hooked
on the first girl I met and just stepped out of the hotel and started
walking.
The streets were full of young college girls- all in really cute
uniforms and
every girl was cuter than the next. Some were looking at me. Then one
girl blew
me a kiss. I heard "Wow! Handsome" coming from some...Incredible!
I
was shocked! This was unreal. I was even embarrased.
I got into a jeepney-
it is a vehicle that the
Filipinos use for transporation:
It looks like this:
And
as I sat down, one young guy told me: "Hey, you are new here, watch
out! ". I asked him why
I should watch out. He said:
"Because we are gonna
marry you to a
Filipina." I grunted something and off we went. I went to the beach and
then on the way back, these college girls just flooded into the jeepney. One really cute
creature just like one of those
dream Hawaiian girls from the movie Blue Hawaii just plopped right next
to me
smiling. The driver said: "You like her? Ask her out!" I was blushing.
But since this was not the
This
was just the beginning. Later I got on another jeepney
and it was full of girls, too. One girl stared at me and asked me: "You
got a wife?" I said "No". She pointed at her friends: "Well, choose one!"
And they all roared with laughter.
The
thing was the girls were all so cute and fresh-looking and appearing
very
happy. They were friendly. Modest,
coquettish, feminine yet
aggressive. Real girls.
The
floor manager at the hotel met me again and we went out again but I
told her " Baby, baby
don't get hooked on me..." and just
asked that we'd be just friends. Then the second girl called me and
said these
words:
"Hello,
my name is Inday, we
met in the jeepney.
I told all the girls in college about you and they all want to meet you."
Yup!
They ALL want to meet me.
I
went to a department store and again it was chuck
full
of little miss Universes- sales girls. I approached a counter and they
crowded
me.
" You are so cute. Your face is so
cute". Then on another occasion I
was paying for some stuff that I bought and the cashiers started
whispering
something. I though something was wrong. The answer was: "Very
handsome"." Who, me?" "Yes, you".
"What is so handsome about me?" "I
don't know, maybe it is your tantalizing eyes". And they started
laughing.
I
could go on and on and on. I would sit down and relax and girls would
pass by
and whisper to each other pointing me out. The word I learned was "gwapo"- handsome. Once I was
just crossing the road.
Four young ladies linked their hands and would not let me through.
Sales girls
from stalls would call out- "Hello, Darling!"
After
a few days, I noticed something different about me when I looked in the
mirror.
My eyes were no longer sad as they used to be. I was smiling for real.
Because
this was the way a man should be treated. Appreciated.
Desired. Women should
seek him out and not the other
way around. Rejections and maltreatment by women in the
A
place like that was not planet Earth the way I knew it. At least it
should not
be planet Earth. It was a Shangri-lah.
At
night, my nightlife
would start. I would go to bars
and karaoke establishments and there would be girls everywhere and not
many
guys. The girls would crowd me. They were so gorgeous I was out of
breath.
In
the
Eventually,
I took three girls who were working in the karaoke and we went to a
resort
where we rented a hut on the beach under palm trees. If there is a
heavenly
situation that one can imagine, it would probably be falling alseep in a bamboo house while
listening to the surf and
the wind rustling in the
palm
trees while being hugged by three angelic young ladies from the
That's
living!. No amount of job
satisfaction or professional achievement cannot bring you close to the
sense of
fullfilment that such
experiences can bring.
In
1998 I took $14,000 I saved up and went to the
Anyway,
I have a girlfriend in the
I
invite all guys who are fed up with being lonely to experience what I
have
experienced. The
And
if you are not handsome in the
And
if the society in the
As
that Inday girl said:"
They ALL want to meet
you!"
Posted: Post
subject:?
I
would say that about 30-40% will go all the way with you if you stick
around
long enough and pursue that particular goal. But that happens only
after you
have fully and officialy
become her boyfriend and said :
I love you and I want you to be my girlfriend "
and she accepted.
The
thing is with the money you bring and the things you buy for the girls,
the
activities that you offer-beach parties, dinners, trips to the country
and all
that, you knock them off their feet. No local guy has the money to do
all that.
They are so impressed that they forget caution.
So,
yes, you can get that stuff. Beware afterwards, though. Better make
sure that
is exactly the girl you want because after you did it, she is yours.
And she
thinks you are hers. And she will not let you go. Filipina girls are
very
amorous and romantic. Their man is their whole life. So, if you do it
and then
dump her, she will be in an ocean of pain. All kinds of nasty things
can result
from that not excluding suicide on her part.
Again,
every person is different, but this seems to be the general rule.
Before
I left for
His
answer was : "It's not
'getting them' that's the
problem, it's 'getting rid of them'..."
That
is why many White guys living there visit "ladies of the night" and
bar girls for such purposes. There, no romance and/or pain is
involved.
Comparison of women in Asian
countries
Post
subject: Where in
?
I
have already posted on
I
must begin by saying that everywhere in Asia you will have a better
chance of
finding a girlfriend/wife than in the
You
will also have to get used to the fact that you will never be like them
racially or treated as an equal. You will always stand out like a sore
thumb
and while the people who know you will respect you, there are another
billion
strangers there who do not know you and will treat you in all kinds of
ways,
some with surprise, some with admiration and friendliness and some with
squeamishness and downright hostility. It is a land of contrasts and
you will
never understand it.
Also,
in many Asian countries there is no equality so you will have no choice
but to
try to come off as being superior. Otherwise, they will see you as
inferior.
Some places are exceptions:
OK,
here they are:
1)
2)
3)
Half
of Japanese are wonderful people, kind and generous and very humble.
The other
half are xenophobic and nationalistic. But most are polite, even if
they do not
like you. I had many wonderful friends in
The
thing is,
Most
landlords do not like to rent to foreigners, so getting settled there
is a
problem. You will have to go to agencies that specialize in renting to
foreigners. If you want to bring a Japanese girl to the
If
you get a good job in
Many
Japanese girls have bad teeth, are bow-legged and pale. Some are
pretty,
though. Getting a really pretty one is not easy. Better make sure you
are a top
brass executive and/or look like the above mentioned Master Race
actors. Money
and position are important to the girl because she wants to be proud
she has
someone like yourself.
Here
are some ladies who want to meet Westerners:
http://www.marriage-agency.net/women/photos/thumbs/01.htm
http://4personals.org/japanese.htm
The
above are Chinese- populated and run (
of course) and
if you are there, you better make sure you are successful financially
and that
you live there or visit often in an important capacity. This will
counterbalance the nationalism factor. These are much more into
materialism
than the Japanese. If you want to take the girl to the
The
Chinese are smart and intellectually stimulating.
Here
are some of them:
http://www.chnlove.com/
As
mentioned in my previous posts, it is a good place to release one's
sexual
frustrations but culturally ,
not very compatible with
the West. IMHO, Americans are not very compatible with
Again,
if you are not a CEO type, you will be scraping the bottom of the
barrel.
Please
read my posts below on
Here
is also a very interesting link:
www.stickmanbangkok.com/reader/reader37.html
If
you still want a Thai:
www.thaidarling.com
www.ThaiLoveLinks.com
www.asiansweetheart.net
My
obseravtion was that
Thais generally do not like marrying
Westerners and prefer other Thais or Asians. Thai men get the best
girls first
and then the Farang ( Whities)
get the left-overs.
A cruel statement but so true in many
cases.
In
the
The
level of education is not very high and intellectualism and knowledge
are not
pursued too much unless tied in with money. Hard
to have a
decent conversation. I have met some brainy people there
but money and
status seem to be of more importance than empty intellectualizing.
Not
a bad place as the people are very smart and hard-working and they like
Westerners. Most girls are virgins and are gorgeous. One can stay there
if one
does not mind living in Communist country which allows private
enterprise. It
would be better to take a VNese
girl out:
Here
are some sites:
www.catinasia.com
www.vietnamesebusiness.com/bluedragon
www.loveofasiavietnam.com
www.bluedragon-vn.com
Still
very backward politically and economically with the former being a
communist
country ( sort of). I
have not heard of many going
there for wives but changes are apparently on the way. Wanna
be one of the pioneers?
In
the NE of Thailand most people are ethnically Laotian and IMHO make
better
wives than the straight Thais. If you want to get involved with Thais
go to Isaan- the NE.
There you can marry with less of a problem
as people are very kind and have been marrying Westerners much more
easily.
You
can go to Souther Isaan in
There
are some Lao girls here:
http://www.thai-lao-dating.com/tlh/
Very good people, English-speaking,
classy and polite with an ancient
culture.
Some pretty women. A very bad government but it is possible to go there
and
live if you want to be an investor. Still
not a very popular
destination for love-starved Americans. Very very
cheap. I dated a Burmese girl in
There
is no known form of racism that the Burmese people nurture against a
Westerner
unlike the Northern Asians which do that quite often.
There
are as of now no pen pal sites which make it possible to meet a nice
Burmese
lady through correspondence...Let's wait till Aung
Sang Suu Kiy triumphs with
her new democratic agenda.
These
are Muslim countries. Women are OK but your best bet is to date the
local
ethnic Chinese. Because they are a minority, they are not as xenophobic
and
many speak English and are Christians. But
as with most
overseas Chinese, the want to find educated, successful men.
If
you want to date Malays and native Indonesians, you can, but make sure
you date
the ones in the Christian areas or if you want a Muslim, you will have
to
become one yourself. You can then have more than one wife.
In
some areas of
Check
this site for Indonesian girls with some Filipinas mixed in.
www.asiansmile.com
The
I
have written a lot about the
www.heart-of-asia.com
In
short,
the region abounds in women but one needs
to know
where to go in order to get the best possible deal. Every places
has its advantages and disadvantages. It is important to research and
even
learn from others' mistakes. This way, one can come back ( or
even not come back) and have no regrets.
Ladislav
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Really? Yup, you are right, they are down.
They were there for years. Anyway,
in that case, here are some alternative sites:
www.blossoms.com
You
will need to subscribe/fill in membership info and then use their
search
engine.
Also,
www.anewloveonline.com
They
have search engine and you can pick "
Another
site but I think you also need to fill out some info.
www.indonesiasingles.com
Hope
you find these helpful
If
you need info on other topics which may not be appropraite
to post here, please email me privately at:
neorenartstudio@yahoo.com ?
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Fabian
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Post subject: The Malaysian Option
The
Malaysian Option
http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/reader/reader42.html
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Posted: Post
subject: I've been to
I
met my girl online in a yahoo chatroom.
I had just
gone through a divorce a year ago and I had never dated an asian
women before.
I
had married a very very
attractive white lady 5 years
my junior. We were together for 7 years. I started losing interest in
her when
she went from 125lbs to almost 170lbs. Why is this story so typical?
Why do
white women "go to hell in a handbasket"
once they get their wedding ring?
So
getting back to my girl, she is 19 years younger than me, has her 4
year degree
in biology, is REALLY beautiful and comes from a nice solid family, is
catholic
and yes....a virgin!
After
about 5 months of corresponding with her, I decided to go visit her in
Upon
arrival I checked into the Marriott. This hotel is situated in the
We
did much of the touristy type activities. It was later that I realized,
HEY...she never did take me to the mall or any of the nightclubs. See,
she
being the smart girl that she is, wanted me to stay away from all the
competition, hehe.
However, I was out and about
enough to realize that the place is litterally
crawling with young, polite, pretty, educated and ultra sexy girls any
of whom
would just love to go out with a nice western man. BTW, you do see
quite a few
60 year old western guys walking around with 30 year old filipina.
See
guys, it's all about COMPETITION! The girls in
Ok,
after doing a bit more research on
I
plan to marry my sweetheart, bring her back here for 10 years, work my
&^%$
off and retire in
Thought
I'd share my story....
Vaughn/Seattle
Wa
Posted:
?
Filipinos
are not that poor. They are poor compared to how much cash an average
American
has on hand- and that is considering the "absolute" exchange rate;
not the actual buying capacity of their money within their economy.
Everything ( except
Western electronics) is as much as six times
cheaper than in the
They
all have food and most have a place to live. Even in the slums they
have
karaoke TV. And they do not need to pay rent in a slum.
In
the countryside families live off the land and do not need but minimal
amounts
of cash.
A
poor man can afford a wife and kids- I have seen the poorest (and
ugliest)
Filipino guys and not one was without a woman. Friends help each other
and
there are no lonely people there. Most look happy, especially the poor
ones-
they all have enough.
Tropical fruit and fresh fish. Gorgeous
friendly girls-
enough for everybody.
Poor? I think they are rich.
We
are the ones who are poor.
Ladislav
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Reasons
for dating Filipinas
Ladislav? ?
Posted:
The
main ones are these:
1)
They are either drop-dead gorgeous or at worst, cute.
2)
They have good characters and are modest and family oriented.
3)
They
speak English, are Christian and understand and like Western culture.
4)
Race is not a factor for most of them. They are Asian Latinas. Spanish
colonies
are usually not into racialism. So, most people of most races can
easily fit
into their society and not be treated as "foreign devils". Other
Asian countries are very ethnically fundamentalist and race is big deal.
5)
The
6)
They are just normal people that behave the way a human being is
supposed to
behave.
7)
They appreciate a nice guy who treats them nice and do not treat him
like sh!t
in return.
8)
They are inexpensive to support if you have to. $200 sent to your
girlfriend
every month will go a long way.
9)
When they talk about me, they say "
that
man" instead of "that farang/foreign
devil/outside person, etc.
10)
They make love with great passion.