mattyman wrote: ↑May 10th, 2021, 3:04 pm
@ Tsar
Don't reject someone because they're had a boyfriend or two in the past. Yeah, I can understand not wanting someone who's slept-around.
Also @ Tsar
Don't feed the troll! That guy that's insulting you is a classic troll. Focus on the rest of the discussion the other members are contributing. Best thing to do. Starve the troll of attention they crave. Don't engage with trolls!
Having had a boyfriend and having had sex are two different things. Back in the day, girls in the US would date and have boyfriends, but many of them would remain virgins. There were girls like that in Indonesia. My wife had 'monkey love' boyfriends in middle school. (They say monkey love instead of puppy love over there.) There was another guy she dated as a young adult. Dating and sex aren't necessarily the same thing.
Of course, if Tsar is looking at teens overseas, there might be some teen from a country where girls do not date before 18 out there. Back when I was in South Korea, boys and girls were separated in school and people said only naughty kids had boyfriends or girlfriends in high school. But when they went to college, older students matched the younger students up on 'meetings'-- three person introduction blind dates--- until they found a match to date. That could lead to marriage, or not.