My new approach to dating

[Voyager1]

Maybe I don't get a hot girlfriend but I could definitely get at least one hot FWB and have her pop out some babies.

No slut is going to want to have your baby. A slut is going to make your wear a rubber and if she does happen to get pregnant with your baby she will abort.

No normal girl is going to want to have your child or have a family with you at least until you are more established.

You have to think of these things. If you get a girl pregnant how are you going to support the child? Raising a child is expensive.

My view is you are not living in reality as MarcosZeitola hit on earlier.

[Cornfed]

My view is you are not living in reality as MarcosZeitola hit on earlier.

It's a hard thing though. At what point does one give up hoping for a normal life and accept that you just picked a shitty time to exist?

[mattyman]

Oh FFS! My initial reaction, stop with the 'I'll only date a virgin' nonsense!

It's a myth that the more attractive=the more men. Yes, some may get male attention. No, it doesn't translate into guys who want to get to know her. No, there are good-looking girls who won't sleep with anyone, but guys they can TRUST and get to know as a friend also.

The reason why a lot of pretty girls are single is simple; they do things that turn guys off; such as coming across as narcissists, coming across as judgemental (what makes me click 'next' on dating sites). The only guys who do approach them are either a) the guys who only want their body b) or the grovelling sycophants..

[Cornfed]

No, there are good-looking girls who won't sleep with anyone, but guys they can TRUST and get to know as a friend also.

In general this is the wrong approach to obtaining sex from Western sluts and probably any white sluts. Maybe it works in some places.

[Tsar]

Maybe I don't get a hot girlfriend but I could definitely get at least one hot FWB and have her pop out some babies.

No slut is going to want to have your baby. A slut is going to make your wear a rubber and if she does happen to get pregnant with your baby she will abort.

No normal girl is going to want to have your child or have a family with you at least until you are more established.

You have to think of these things. If you get a girl pregnant how are you going to support the child? Raising a child is expensive.

My view is you are not living in reality as MarcosZeitola hit on earlier.

You are confusing MZ and Yohan.

Second, no one should be established before having children. That is why Whites, Japanese, and certain other ethnic gtoups are dying out but Africans and Indians have quickly riding populations.

Third, the only girls that require rubber are whores. Virgins will be too inexperienced and sluts are sluts.

Certain countries give money to the child so as long as a girl from one of those places gets pregnant, she gets money to help. Her family would help. I could throw in $100 every month and for many countries it is more than enough for one child, maybe two. I might not qualify for free healthcare or benefits but the girl and her child would.

Girls need to have their first child between 16-21 with a guy older than them.

[Tsar]

Oh FFS! My initial reaction, stop with the 'I'll only date a virgin' nonsense!

It is not nonsense. People only seriously date and marry someone they genuinely respect. I never would respect a nonvirgin or fornicator enough to seriously date or marry her.

I would call one a girlfriend and lead her on to bang her if I really liked her but it would not go further than a FWB relationship.

A girl must trade her virginity and enough of her prime years of beauty to be worth seriously dating or marrying. Any hot slut is worth banging or FWB if she's hot enough and has enough of a good personality or compatibility.

[Tsar]

No, there are good-looking girls who won't sleep with anyone, but guys they can TRUST and get to know as a friend also.

In general this is the wrong approach to obtaining sex from Western sluts and probably any white sluts. Maybe it works in some places.

Maybe that happens in Asia but not anywhere else. It definitely doesn't happen in any White nation and probably no Western nation.

I tried to be friends with girls and actually want to respect one before I bang her and want to have a genuine relationship with her.

I just don't really care anymore. I would pound p***y as long as the girl is worth banging.

Better to shoot for the acceptable minimum and then if I get a good girl, I get a good girl. Otherwise, I won't care. I just want to use females at this point since I saw and realized most are just sluts in 2021.

Trying to actually be anything more than banging sluts, having girls pop out babies, and earning just enough to survive and travel and gave leisure is just not worth it in 2021. Besides, most guys who are stable are stuck in low quality, rubbish First World nations with trash sluts and feminazis and simps.

Best advice for guys, do the opposite with almost all girls. Girls say they want a great guy but they actually go for the opposite during the prime of their life. Want any girl in her prime, do the opposite.

Movies that show respectful guys getting a girlfriend and banging her are maybe 1% of girls. 99% want a guy that doesn't care.

20% of the effort gets 80% of the results. Guys need to stop putting in too much effort with life and with girls because 80% results is successful enough to accomplish things and keep a girl.

Back when I actually cared about life and girls, I was more unhappy because I couldn't get what I want because I live in a f***ed world in a f***ed time with degenerate Western culture gone global like a plague of immorality (mainly fornication) and toxic ideologies like feminism.

Why would girls at 16 pop out a baby for a teen guy who can't contribute anything? Why would a middle class blonde slut in her 20s from American suburbs pop out a baby for a poor, deadbeat African American guy around her age from the ghetto which happens a lot? Or maybe a Euro slut or British slut who rides refugee cock or African migrant cock? They can't support a baby.

They don't care.

The point is to not care. Guys have that privilege. Girls don't no matter what degenerate feminism might tell them.

[Cornfed]

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky.

The f**k uggers and work your way up model of scoring skanks doesn't work nearly as well as it used to in the good old days.

[Tsar]

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky.

The f**k uggers and work your way up model of scoring skanks doesn't work nearly as well as it used to in the good old days.

True, bit it might very well work for Tsar; he's shown me his picture and he's young-looking with decent features and a full head of hair. His main problem is social skills and this would probably help him make some gains in that area, which would then ensure better lays further down the line. It's really his only option besides winning the lottery. But I don't think he's entirely hopeless and he has potential as long as he gets busy with it soon. He's already lowered his moral standards, next go the physical requirements and he's good to go.

I am willing to bang any feminine girl that is thin, at least a B cup, is clean (zero STDs), and looks feminine. If I am just banging a girl, I don't really care if she has dyed hair and I can overlook most tattoos and slut piercings if she has any slutty piercings. I think it is easy for 25%-50% of girls to meet my minimum standards depending on her ethnic, racial, and national backgrounds. I just wouldn't bang a single mom even if she did meet my minimum.

I just would never be able to lower my standards to the point I would bang a low quality girl that would do nothing to actually make me feel a sense of achievement. I need to feel like to at least banged a girl that has the minimum to actually be considered a female of average female beauty to feel I accomplished or achieved something. Otherwise, I should just use whores or get an affordable sugar baby.

I would rather not need a girl to wear a ski mask to hide ugliness and I need to take Viagra to get an erection from the very start because I would not be able to become turned on enough to actually perform in the slightest.

[gsjackson]

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky.

The f**k uggers and work your way up model of scoring skanks doesn't work nearly as well as it used to in the good old days.

True, bit it might very well work for Tsar; he's shown me his picture and he's young-looking with decent features and a full head of hair. His main problem is social skills and this would probably help him make some gains in that area, which would then ensure better lays further down the line. It's really his only option besides winning the lottery. But I don't think he's entirely hopeless and he has potential as long as he gets busy with it soon. He's already lowered his moral standards, next go the physical requirements and he's good to go.

Also, when you're getting some, regardless of source, the females can smell (or sense) p***y on you, and it turns them on. It's more than just a confidence thing -- they literally can tell if you've been laying pipe. Far, far better to reek of p***y than of desperation.

[Tsar]

Also, when you're getting some, regardless of source, the females can smell (or sense) p***y on you, and it turns them on. It's more than just a confidence thing -- they literally can tell if you've been laying pipe. Far, far better to reek of p***y than of desperation.

I was actually going to make a post about that.

One of the animalistic instincts of females is that they can smell the pheromones of other females on a guy. Most likely, banging girls is when guys get the most female pheromones. They really want a guy more when they smell the pheromones of other females. Also, having pictures with other girls also makes them more interested.

But I am not desperate. I will probably be pounding a sugar baby or two later this year and getting pictures of me with girls, and maybe I have a threesome with two sugar babies.

I was never really desperate.

[mattyman]

RE "I never would respect a nonvirgin or fornicator enough to seriously date or marry her."
Just because someone's had a previous partner DOES NOT MEAN they're a fornicator!

Previous partner doesn't mean she hasn't had the same experiences of loneliness you've had prior to meeting him. Previous partner doesn't mean he was a cassanova or best in bed. When you meet someone you click with naturally, and they do with you, you won't care about each others previous partners! You'll be enjoying each other!

Honestly, having had a previous partner doesn't mean their a fornicator or have millions of guys. Usually it's that they had a relationship that didn't work out (and in many cases WISHED they were virgins). Hope that helps.

[MrMan]

RE "I never would respect a nonvirgin or fornicator enough to seriously date or marry her."
Just because someone's had a previous partner DOES NOT MEAN they're a fornicator!

One act of fornication makes one a fornicator, just like one act of murder makes one a murderer, one act of theft makes one a thief.

Of course, not all nonvirgins are fornicators. There are married women and widows. There are also girls who have been raped. That's fornication, but not her fault.... not usually. Some women might bear some culpability of the tease and try to come just short of the act, or wear provocative clothes to tempt the guy. (That would get some stir up some trouble on a feminist forum.)

[MrMan]

Oh FFS! My initial reaction, stop with the 'I'll only date a virgin' nonsense!

It is not nonsense. People only seriously date and marry someone they genuinely respect. I never would respect a nonvirgin or fornicator enough to seriously date or marry her.

I would call one a girlfriend and lead her on to bang her if I really liked her but it would not go further than a FWB relationship.

A girl must trade her virginity and enough of her prime years of beauty to be worth seriously dating or marrying. Any hot slut is worth banging or FWB if she's hot enough and has enough of a good personality or compatibility.

Hopefully these worthy girls will be able to pick up on your attitudes toward them and your willingness to sleep around with less worthy girls and avoid you. You don't deserve the nice girls with that attitude.

[Tsar]

RE "I never would respect a nonvirgin or fornicator enough to seriously date or marry her."
Just because someone's had a previous partner DOES NOT MEAN they're a fornicator!

One act of fornication makes one a fornicator, just like one act of murder makes one a murderer, one act of theft makes one a thief.

Of course, not all nonvirgins are fornicators. There are married women and widows. There are also girls who have been raped. That's fornication, but not her fault.... not usually. Some women might bear some culpability of the tease and try to come just short of the act, or wear provocative clothes to tempt the guy. (That would get some stir up some trouble on a feminist forum.)

Actually, most girls that get raped are raped by a boyfriend, ex boyfriend, acquaintance, were drunk at a party, got drugged at a party, date raped, or were pressured into group sex by jocks or a fraternity...so it is most girls fault if they're raped...or they go to a club at night and leave alone. Most girls aren't raped at random.

And most girls that are randomly raped are White European girls and most of those are done by Africans, Arabs, or Pakistanis that are refugees or migrants. Which mainly is their societies fault for having liberal refugee policies and political correctness because most of those rapes happen in Northern Europe, Western Europe, and Germany...and if the girl that was raped was a liberal girl in a liberal nation, then the liberal-liberal combination means it is also her fault.

The truly innocent victims of rape aren't many as a percentage of total rapes.