WilliamSmith wrote: ↑February 27th, 2023, 2:30 am
NO, NO!! YOU'RE WRONG! The irony here in particular is that if it's multiple women in a social circle that know each other, you
MUST be nice to them (as well as "passionate"/masculine/sexually aggressive, etc), or else they'd spread the word fast that you're a user/abuser and they'd all have you on their shit-list fast and very likely even take seriously retaliatory action against you....
!@#$, LOL, some of the girls I like (since I like women with what they call "dominant" personalities") would probably !@#$ing kill you if you mistreated them and/or any of their friends (which I'd never do, but I think you get my point
)...
I see that, amidst the turbulent sea of clueless weakboy simps with their cloying Shakespearean romanticism and the bitter incels who think that everybody should be killed just because women never liked them, finally somebody with a balanced viewpoint has entered the discussion. Yes, it's important to be nice to women. I know this from personal experience. My Peruvian ex-girlfriend told me that she enjoyed being with me and always felt safe because I always showed her respect and made her feel appreciated. However, as you rightfully allude in your post above, being nice comes with a condition.
That condition is sufficient masculinity, dominance and sexual attraction.
If all a guy has is his "niceness" but not enough masculinity or dominance to be perceived as attractive or to command respect and not enough sexual attraction to excite a romantic prospect, then he'll be nothing more than that boring "nice guy" talked about so often in the "Red Pill" literature and in most cases will be confined to the "friendzone". In my case, my Peruvian ex-girlfriend appreciated my gentlemanly demeanor and my effort to always treat her right, but at the same time she loved it when I took charge, acted like a leader, displayed masculine behavior, did masculine activities like martial arts, and aggressively dominated her in the bedroom. At first, I was too nice and not quite dominant enough due to the feminized education I got from my mother about "respecting women" and whatnot and my Peruvian ex-girlfriend didn't appreciate that, but I quickly learned the ropes and brought out my inner masculine instincts which had been suppressed by an overly emasculated society and then everything got much better. My Peruvian ex-girlfriend was much more satisfied than before.
Women like masculinity. They don't want some weakboy pansy who doesn't even act like a man. For most women, that's a major turnoff, the minority of women who get off on cucking their boyfriends/husbands notwithstanding (but those kind of people are fcuked in the head anyway). At the same time, many young men today don't even know how to act like men. They've been biologically feminized by all of the harmful toxins that have massively flooded our everyday environment in recent decades and then psychologically feminized by a sick society which now views masculinity as a problem and encourages boys and young men to act like sissies. It's no wonder that a significant subset of young men are unable to attract a woman, no matter how "nice" they try to be. They simply lack most if not all of the masculine traits which most women find attractive.
So yes, the situation is nuanced, just as
@MarcosZeitola alluded earlier in this discussion. It's best to combine a reasonable level of niceness with rugged masculinity and a natural air of dominance.
There's a reason why I advocate gym and combat sports training for men. Not only do such activities masculinize the body and raise testosterone levels but also allow one to cultivate masculine behavior, reconnect with one's masculine instincts and develop the combat skills necessary to protect a woman and one's loved ones (all in conjunction with the cultivation of discipline and the channeling of one's warlike instincts into something constructive). In order to be truly masculine, a man has to do masculine things. He has to be able to back it up with tangible actions. Otherwise he'll just remain a pathetic posturer LARPing as an "alpha".
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