The Philippines: Not What It's Cracked Up to Be

[MrBlueLight]

You do know that dating sites are not just used by foreigners, but locals as well, right? In both DIA and Skout, girls get spammed by local guys constantly. Problem is, that there is a shortage of eligible local guys. Hot girls will not want to date poor local guys, so their choices are either middle class local guys (who are limited) or foreigners.

Just looking at the pictures of the girls I've met, it seems that middle to upper class girls are less likely to be dark-skinned. Middle class girls are more likely to be overweight tho, but that number is still small compared to America. If you take personality into account, then I would say middle class girls are hotter than lower class girls. Upper class girls are supposed to be the best looking however, due to having more East-Asian features, which are highly desirable by locals.

By the way, you do know that every woman in the world has at least one of those negative traits you mentioned, right? Hell, the majority of American and East Asian girls have most of the traits you mentioned, lol.

[newlifeinphilippines]

You do know that dating sites are not just used by foreigners, but locals as well, right? In both DIA and Skout, girls get spammed by local guys constantly. Problem is, that there is a shortage of eligible local guys. Hot girls will not want to date poor local guys, so their choices are either middle class local guys (who are limited) or foreigners.

Just looking at the pictures of the girls I've met, it seems that middle to upper class girls are less likely to be dark-skinned. Middle class girls are more likely to be overweight tho, but that number is still small compared to America. If you take personality into account, then I would say middle class girls are hotter than lower class girls. Upper class girls are supposed to be the best looking however, due to having more East-Asian features, which are highly desirable by locals.

By the way, you do know that every woman in the world has at least one of those negative traits you mentioned, right? Hell, the majority of American and East Asian girls have most of the traits you mentioned, lol.

If they dont want poor locals then why are they dating you? I thought you said they dont want your money

Well everyone has negative traits no one expects perfection. Thats why ill settle on the education and intelligence issue if she is pretty and very young compared to me and she is same religion and we click well what more could i ask for with a girl much younger than me. I dont expect conversational skills or education, in fact i would consider that a negative cause i want a girl that has a good attitude and those girls i think are less likely to have it.


yeah but majority of time if a girl has any value she wont be on the dating site to begin with to even search for filipinos or foreigners. Some might hook up with filipinos but plenty on the dating site will ignore them. My gf even said she wont respond to filipinos. Although i seen my bargirls messages and she was chatting with a filipino guy overseas so i guess if they have money then they might consider it even if they claim to not be interested in filipinos anymore after being burned by one.

[MrBlueLight]

Why are they dating me? Being much taller and looking like those guys from Korean drama shows that Filipinas love to watch definitely helped

The girl might have value, but that doesn't meant guys around them have values. They claim not to be interested in Filipinos because most of those guys are dirty poor. I doubt they will pass up a chance to date an upper class Filipino guy, not like they will ever get a chance because I heard upper class Filipinos only date upper class Filipinas.

I don't know about you, but dumb girls bore to tears. I might date them, and if they've got nothing interesting to say, it just makes me want to dump them. How could you possibly live with someone who just says the same damn thing over and over again for the rest of your life? Elegant classy over simply girls any day for me. Imagine I bring her to meet my parents, and she doesn't even know what to talk about with them. Or we hang out with friends and everything we say just flies over her head. Now that is just embarrassing. If only for short-term relationship, sure, she can be a doll and I will still bang her. For marriage? No way. If I am going to live with her for the rest of my life, she better be intellectually stimulating.

[Mr Natural]

I don't know about you, but dumb girls bore to tears. .... If I am going to live with her for the rest of my life, she better be intellectually stimulating.

I hear what you are saying and a lot of guys feel this way, BUT, my experience is that the more intellectually stimulating they are the more dangerous they tend to be. I can find numerous intellectually stimulating women right here in the USA, a lot of feminists fall into this category but no way in hell I would marry one. In my opinion the more intellectual they are the more likely they are to turn out bad. Not necessarily as there are always exceptions to the rule, but be very careful. You roll the dice somewhat when you marry anyone but there are certain traits that are more likely for success or failure than others. For example, the simple nature of most filipinas is a major reason why they tend to make such good wives. With most of them you will have to get that intellectual stimulation somewhere else. There are always tradeoffs, you aren't going to find the perfect woman. Be careful what you wish for here, you might just get it but in ways you didn't expect.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Why are they dating me? Being much taller and looking like those guys from Korean drama shows that Filipinas love to watch definitely helped

The girl might have value, but that doesn't meant guys around them have values. They claim not to be interested in Filipinos because most of those guys are dirty poor. I doubt they will pass up a chance to date an upper class Filipino guy, not like they will ever get a chance because I heard upper class Filipinos only date upper class Filipinas.

I don't know about you, but dumb girls bore to tears. I might date them, and if they've got nothing interesting to say, it just makes me want to dump them. How could you possibly live with someone who just says the same damn thing over and over again for the rest of your life? Elegant classy over simply girls any day for me. Imagine I bring her to meet my parents, and she doesn't even know what to talk about with them. Or we hang out with friends and everything we say just flies over her head. Now that is just embarrassing. If only for short-term relationship, sure, she can be a doll and I will still bang her. For marriage? No way. If I am going to live with her for the rest of my life, she better be intellectually stimulating.

I guess it depends on what kind of simple were talking about. Milf girl was hot but she had zero personality and never talked and i was so uncomfortable and she was so shy. even sex was kind of weird. Now on the other hand my gf was also simple minded and was always on her phone but during sex and when we did things together we would joke a lot and she wasn't quite as shy and we would massage each other and have drama fights. She was simple but with more pizazz. The bargirl was even better where she was interesting and passionate lover but very low intelligence and simple minded. It worked great. She wasn't marriage material for other reasons but at hte end of the day ill take a cute girl who i click with and has a good personality over some independant or highly educated stuck up women or some girl stuck in her head like most taiwanese and japense women are. Frankly japanese and chinese and korean women are the most insane women on this planet but would describe hte asian you seek. They are super hot but thats all they have going for htem.

because simple girls 1) do what they are told 2) Don't expect a lot 3) low drama 4) less likely to want to work outside the home 5) easy to get along 6) less talking and more doing. 7) are more fun

If you want companionship get a friend.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Just look at these poor sad women not being able to enjoy sex I pity them. They are asexual like you. You should go marry them they sound like your ideal partner.

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[MrBlueLight]

So you want a simple traditional woman who enjoys sex too? Yeah, take your cake and eat it. Go to Mars or something. Your delusion is out of this world.

[newlifeinphilippines]

So you want a simple traditional woman who enjoys sex too? Yeah, take your cake and eat it. Go to Mars or something. Your delusion is out of this world.

enjoying sex is genetic and has nothing to do with religious values or culture or tradition either you have it or you dont. Hopefully you get them young before they turn into a slut.


But if thats hard to find a woman who has traditional values who happens to love sex then ill just quit looking for a wife.

[MrBlueLight]

What you are describing sounds more like a servant than a wife. I will find a sweet, caring, AND intelligent girl before you will find a nymph with traditional values, lol.

[newlifeinphilippines]

What you are describing sounds more like a servant than a wife. I will find a sweet, caring, AND intelligent girl before you will find a nymph with traditional values, lol.

yes i want a servant basically LOL I know its not what your supposed to want and I need to get over that but thats the ideal for me.

[newlifeinphilippines]

yes i want a servant basically LOL I know its not what your supposed to want and I need to get over that but thats the ideal for me.

As my Filipino father-in-law puts it: "When an fat old American man wants a nurse in America, it costs him a lot of money and she will be grumpy. But if he gets one from the Philippines it's cheaper plus he gets to f**k her."

I was talking to my parents yesterday about how its better to have a nurse take care of you in philippines than rot away in a convalescent hospital for years and years. Its too expensive to have a nurse take care of you in your house and medicaid doesn't cover it and the nurses in america wont be as good. But alas they told me theyd rather be stuck in a convalescent hospital than have a filipina take care of them in the 3rd world.

[newlifeinphilippines]

yes i want a servant basically LOL I know its not what your supposed to want and I need to get over that but thats the ideal for me.

As my Filipino father-in-law puts it: "When an fat old American man wants a nurse in America, it costs him a lot of money and she will be grumpy. But if he gets one from the Philippines it's cheaper plus he gets to f**k her."

Nurse girl wasn't overrated. Then again you dont see too many on the dating site like she was. I knew something was suspect with her. I bet if i married a girl like that shed divorce me in 2 years. She was a major gold digger. thats why i dont listent o guys here who say go for the educated and well to do girls with class. Ill probably get burned if i try that.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Nurse girl wasn't overrated. Then again you dont see too many on the dating site like she was. I knew something was suspect with her. I bet if i married a girl like that shed divorce me in 2 years. She was a major gold digger. thats why i dont listent o guys here who say go for the educated and well to do girls with class. Ill probably get burned if i try that.

There was an old British guy close to were my wife lived, who moved to the Philippines when he was already in his sixties. He married a hot young thing, who worked as a nurse, and instead of taking her abroad he lived there with her, off his retirement funds. He died a few years back, at eighty. Their daughter is now a regional beauty pageant runner-up. Pretty sure the old guy had a pretty awesome last two decades.

yeah hard to say how it would have turned out if he brought her to britain. Id like to have a wife in the philippines and live there but my parents dont want to move there and im not sure if i really do want to live there either. If my parents have issues down the road i especially can't be living there. But it depends on the girl of course i just hate when everyone labels the poor girls as scammers and the middle class girls as genuine. Ive seen or heard of plenty of middle class and upper class filipinas that are far less trustworthy. This girl was in a hurry to GET OUT. and she had been blown out by some other foreigner before me who she saw again etc and never told me about him coming or that she was still seeing him. I wound up seeing my gf at the airport instead of her cause she was busy with nursing school finishing up at the time and i was skeptical of it working out. actually nurse girl she had some personality issues she kind of came off as cold and unwarm liek an american girl.

[newlifeinphilippines]

yes he stayed in the philippines. This girl was in a hurry to GET OUT. and she had been blown out by some other foreigner before me who she saw again etc and never told me about him coming or that she was still seeing him. I wound up seeing my gf at the airport instead of her cause she was busy with nursing school finishing up at the time and i was skeptical of it working out. actually nurse girl she had some personality issues she kind of came off as cold and unwarm liek an american girl.

If you married her in the Philippines, she would kind of be stuck though. Country has no divorce. But if she came across as cold and calculating, you probably dodged a bullet there. I'm just saying: not all educated girls are bad, per se. That's a silly generalization. And a nurse can still have a gentle and simple mind and a kind and caring personality. But the more career-minded she is, the more issues may arise.

Is your wife reserved or bubbly personality when she first meets someone? Now mind you im sure she was enthusiastic with you at first cause you had a long online dating period but in general is she reserved/introverted to strangers like the typical filipina or the opposite?

Yeah my aunt by marriage is a filipina nurse ironically and it was my uncle that ruined the marriage, but she married my uncle after she already had her green card i think.

nurse girl said she was in a hurry to get out of the country and she wanted marriage and she would do something crazy next year if she was still single (like go to australia or something for a job). that wasn't the only alarming thing she said though.

[Mr Natural]

not all educated girls are bad

No they aren't but harder to find and somewhat riskier. Although as Pete always says, an educated girl can certainly be an asset. And the good ones don't last long before being taken by someone, so you will have better odds if you aim young in that category. But what I was talking about earlier was "intellectual" girls, which isn't the same as educated or smart. In fact I think there is a big difference, but I suppose more education sometimes brings out the intellectual tendencies. Depends on the girl. The intellectual types are very risky though, like I said, be careful what you wish for.

We have gone WAY off topic here guys.