Are there any options to increase my SMV quickly?

[vlkmo]

I am not the most good-looking but I am not ugly either. I am a little shorter than average, 5'7. Stuck in the US, living in a rust belt state. By "quick" in the title I am talking in terms of a couple months to two years at most. And I'm starting from zero or close above zero. Want to get it done before collapse happens or it gets so bad to the point where I have to be in survival mode.

• Money - My country is making it harder every year to build up wealth in a short period of time, so I'm looking for some tips or workarounds myself. I haven't had a job anymore for more than 12 months and still looking and it's getting frustrating to have to continue looking. Out of a lot of jobs I applied for (most online), I got only a couple of interviews and no call backs yet. At least I found a few ways to earn a few bucks online once in a while. And on top of that, everything is getting way too expensive on the consumption side.
• Living - My living situation is not optimal right now but I hope to change it very soon. I at least want to move into a tiny home, but I wonder if it is possible to speed up my dream.

So I want some ideas from other people here. I don't want to just rot without a woman or sex and die. If it is any consolation to myself, I had only one girlfriend in my life just shy of 12 months when I was 25.

[The Wily Fox]

I am not the most good-looking but I am not ugly either. I am a little shorter than average, 5'7. Stuck in the US, living in a rust belt state. By "quick" in the title I am talking in terms of a couple months to two years at most. And I'm starting from zero or close above zero. Want to get it done before collapse happens or it gets so bad to the point where I have to be in survival mode.

• Money - My country is making it harder every year to build up wealth in a short period of time, so I'm looking for some tips or workarounds myself. I haven't had a job anymore for more than 12 months and still looking and it's getting frustrating to have to continue looking. Out of a lot of jobs I applied for (most online), I got only a couple of interviews and no call backs yet. At least I found a few ways to earn a few bucks online once in a while. And on top of that, everything is getting way too expensive on the consumption side.
• Living - My living situation is not optimal right now but I hope to change it very soon. I at least want to move into a tiny home, but I wonder if it is possible to speed up my dream.

So I want some ideas from other people here. I don't want to just rot without a woman or sex and die. If it is any consolation to myself, I had only one girlfriend in my life just shy of 12 months when I was 25.

Your lament is the epitome of self-pity and lack of ambition. Stuck in a rust belt state, jobless for over a year, and whining about your height and lack of wealth—it’s pathetic. Instead of wasting time on the internet seeking pity from strangers, why not take a page from the book of LaVeyan Satanism and start taking control of your life?

Your excuses about the country making it harder to build wealth are just that—excuses. If you had any real drive, you’d find ways to create opportunities rather than wallowing in defeat. Get off your ass and start hustling. There are countless ways to earn money if you’re willing to put in the effort. No more whining about failed job applications; go out there and make something happen.

You say your living situation is not optimal, yet you dream of a tiny home. Why not channel that dream into a concrete plan? Start saving, cutting unnecessary expenses, and working towards that goal. Complaining won't get you a home; action will.

Your lack of self-confidence and defeatist attitude are glaringly obvious. Instead of bemoaning your lack of romantic success, focus on improving yourself. Hit the gym, learn new skills, and become the best version of yourself. Confidence and competence attract women, not self-pity and desperation.

Adopting the principles of LaVeyan Satanism means embracing strength, self-determination, and self-respect. Stop seeing yourself as a victim of circumstance and start seeing yourself as a master of your destiny.

So, get your act together. Stop making excuses, stop wallowing in self-pity, and start taking real steps toward improving your life. You have the power to change your situation, but only if you choose to embrace it.

Hope this helps.

[vlkmo]

Your lament is the epitome of self-pity and lack of ambition. Stuck in a rust belt state, jobless for over a year, and whining about your height and lack of wealth—it’s pathetic. Instead of wasting time on the internet seeking pity from strangers, why not take a page from the book of LaVeyan Satanism and start taking control of your life?

I have been searching for a job for several months and didn't attain one yet, even though I submitted my resumes and online applications hundreds of times. Am I missing anything?

Your excuses about the country making it harder to build wealth are just that—excuses. If you had any real drive, you’d find ways to create opportunities rather than wallowing in defeat. Get off your ass and start hustling. There are countless ways to earn money if you’re willing to put in the effort. No more whining about failed job applications; go out there and make something happen.

Your guidance to not make excuses is understandable. But everyone else is pushing economic regulation and all sort of BS that is making it harder and harder to economically thrive. The negative economic trend is probably only going to continue until it gets very bad or collapses. Everyone is also pushing BS like gender stuff onto us.

You say your living situation is not optimal, yet you dream of a tiny home. Why not channel that dream into a concrete plan? Start saving, cutting unnecessary expenses, and working towards that goal. Complaining won't get you a home; action will.

Exactly my plan, but remember what I said before about it being more time-sensitive?

Your lack of self-confidence and defeatist attitude are glaringly obvious. Instead of bemoaning your lack of romantic success, focus on improving yourself. Hit the gym, learn new skills, and become the best version of yourself. Confidence and competence attract women, not self-pity and desperation.

Adopting the principles of LaVeyan Satanism means embracing strength, self-determination, and self-respect. Stop seeing yourself as a victim of circumstance and start seeing yourself as a master of your destiny.

So, get your act together. Stop making excuses, stop wallowing in self-pity, and start taking real steps toward improving your life. You have the power to change your situation, but only if you choose to embrace it.

Hope this helps.

I am not a LaVeyan Satanist, but I sympathize with some of their principles, like saying no to your enemies. Otherwise I think worshipping Satan as an actual being or metaphor is silly or even dangerous.

[dancilley]

@vlkmo

The fastest/best way to improve your SMV is to go to a different country where there are fewer males and more females, more young people (young females) because the people are highly reproductive, where there is less abundance of money/welfare, less economic opportunities, less feminism/misandry, and where most people speak English (such as the Philippines). In such a location, you will be perceived as way higher in value than in the U.S.A., purely by just changing your location.

It seems you are single, so you are free to change your life and move wherever you want at this time in your life. It is much easier for you because you do not have a family of any kind.

If you are skinny and have no muscle, if you exercise every day for about two months, you will make impressive gains that will add SMV if you are in a location where your 5'7" height is perceived as not short, but actually tall. You need to be in a place where the other men are shorter than you, such as the Philippines. If you are perceived as tall, and have impressive musculature, that will definitely dramatically increase people's respect for you.

If you are not perceived as a chad in your present location/market, if you have a very positive, very optimistic, very high-energy, resilient personality, then you can be short and attract women, and people in general, to go out with you in public (I am not sure about actually getting women to have sex with you). I've seen short men with women countless times in my life. Being short is not a death sentence by any means (to attract people and be part of a social circle), if you have a rock-solid personality. You have to be a very tough SOB who doesn't let anyone disrespect you, even in the slightest. You have to be a leader that everyone respects. You have to get into altercations often where it seems that a physical fight will imminently erupt, but most of the time no physical fight will happen, but sometimes it will, and you will have to fight. This is what life will be like for you because other men will try to mock you and belittle you and embarrass you in front of your own people (because these bullies are not afraid of you because of your short stature), and try to communicate with your women and steal them away from you. Because you are short, by default, no one respects you, so you have to provide value above and beyond that which other men provide. You have to be an absolute leader who others are inspired by, so that people won't want to disassociate and disconnect from you because they don't know anyone even close to as inspiring as you. If you have unshakable confidence and positive energy, and a truly never-give-up attitude, then you will be able to attract people easily. You need to have an income that can support you possessing an attractive motor vehicle in which you can transport your entourage, and you need to have the money to pay for restaurants and other forms of entertainment. Doing so is "beta," but only true chads don't have to spend money in order to attract women (chads get women to deliver themselves directly to where the chad lives purely for sex). You need to be the leader and everyone else is the follower. You need to tell everyone what to do, and if they don't follow the rules, you need to drop them. Whenever someone challenges you in the very least, you need to assert yourself and show that you aren't someone to mess with, so that the outcome of the interaction is that the challenger gets intimidated and goes away, or otherwise looks foolish and is kept under control, and that your entourage's respect for you is retained. When you act this way, your entourage will respect you and continue to show allegiance to you. They need to feel proud to know you and be on your team. If you show indecisiveness, weakness, and cowardice, they will not want to hang out with you anymore, because cowardice is common, and there are better looking guys (with average confidence) everywhere.

When you are looking for jobs, applying online has very poor response rates. In my opinion, the only way to look for a job is to look online for the job advertisement, but then go in person and talk to the manager. Anything less doesn't really count.

You need to develop a habit of working. You will feel way better when you are in a habit of working and habitually receiving paychecks and are able to feel financially strong. It will make a big difference confidence-wise.

When you are ready to date females, you need to choose very wisely. Don't engage physically with a female unless you have gotten to know the female extremely well. You should try to date only pure virgin girls, or as virgin a female as possible. It is still legal to marry a biologically developed, pure virgin adolescent girl in California and Mississippi. The competition is insanely high for pure virgin girls though, because their parents and the court system are gatekeepers whom you have to also convince successfully, in addition to the girl herself. Also, women in general, and normies in general, are against dating adolescent girls (or even a woman who is much younger than you), because women perceive that if something affects them personally in a negative way, then objectively it is morally wrong, and normies perceive that everything that the mainstream media says is true, or what they perceive to be popular, is morally right. For example, the mainstream media says that going overseas for a "mail-order bride" is for "desperate men" who desire "youthful women," therefore, older women will declare such behavior morally wrong because when men do it they are declaring that "Older females are not datable due to being too old," or that "Fat (American) women are trash." Because the mainstream media portrays looking for females abroad as odd and "for desperate men," normies adopt that belief as their own without questioning it. So sadly, the masses have been programmed to believe that dating adolescent girls (for legal marriage) is wrong and taboo, even though doing so is the way to create a strong, successful marriage. The truth is that when a female bonds with a male physically, but breaks up with that male, she is destroyed and transforms into a very different person--a person who is no longer marriage material due to her new, non-submissive, independent, masculine personality. She is no longer compatible with a man, but only for brief sexual encounters, or a male who will compromise his own nature and be submissive to her (while he lives under constant stress with "one foot on the brake, and one on the gas"). She hates being submissive anymore because she knows she is not a virgin, and men despise that for a wife, so the female anticipates any relationship with a man will only be short-lived; all the cooking, cleaning, having sex when she doesn't feel like it, following his lead and not being able to do exactly what she wants whenever she wants, etc. will be for naught. So, newly deflowered, single, broken females resolve to be very selfish, and only date men for sex, or date very beta, submissive males for a relationship or marriage. In such a relationship though, the female is not actually sexually attracted to the man, but is only dating him for social status and resource acquisition (the lifestyle of being married and having a house located in a good location with a white picket fence, a good-looking motor vehicle, money for travel and entertainment, etc.).

Life is not easy. You can't always get what you want. But every male should at least be able to attract a decent female somehow, especially if he works for it, and engage in the process of sexual reproduction with her, and if he works really hard, he should be able to attract multiple decent females so that he can at least have all the sex he wants every day with decent quality females and fulfill his reproductive potential.

Good luck. And please update us periodically with progress you have made.

[Traveler]

The quickest way to increase your SMV is to change your location. It certainly worked for Winston: https://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage.htm

But given that you haven't had a job in over a year you may not have enough money to do that. What kind of jobs have you been applying for?

[88jose88]

Become a Feminist is the easiest way to increase your SMV.Feminist men have more sex than non-feminist men according to studies.

Support women's liberation and rights and many women will see you as a catch.

[milevaa]

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