Anyone else also into single moms?

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Personally I see no problem if you keep a good friendship with a single mom near her 40s in the Philippines and sponsor her financially a little bit

I also wonder what her boy, 10 y/o is thinking about you and if he accepts you as a father and if his biological father is still showing up to see him.
I get a long fine with her son, and i don't plan to act as his father to him. I won't discipline him for example, he has a father for that,. My girlfriend's son's father however don't give my girlfriend any kind of financial support for his son. I regularly give my girlfriend money to help her out though, she doesn't ask for money but i give her, and at the moment we are kinda in a long distance relationship.

I Fly her to come see me every 5 weeks as i based in china right now, and when she doesn't come here, i go there every 5 week. So i am not actually living full time with her. She has a plot of land and we are just starting the process of constructing a house on it, i'm paying for the construction of the house.

I also bought 20 units in a new apartment complex in the Philippines to start a real estate business, so i can live on that when i retire, and plan to move to the Philippines permanently in 3 years time when my contract is over with this airline, and look for a new pilot job in the Philippines so i can settle down in Philippines with my girlfriend. I also plan to open up a western union franchise in the Philippines with my girlfriend and she is very supportive in everything i do, never met a girl so loving.


A friend of mine tells me of course my girlfriend is being nice to me because i will provide a better future for her son and he never met her but he says he don't think she really loves me, and probably see me as an soft boy who took up an single mom who nobody else wanted to date, so he says secretly she don't respect me. What do you feel about that? Because even my girlfriend admitted that when she was young and single she would never have dated me but now she is old and have a child.


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Splicelo wrote:
April 22nd, 2019, 9:19 am

A friend of mine tells me of course my girlfriend is being nice to me because i will provide a better future for her son and he never met her but he says he don't think she really loves me, and probably see me as an soft boy who took up an single mom who nobody else wanted to date, so he says secretly she don't respect me. What do you feel about that? Because even my girlfriend admitted that when she was young and single she would never have dated me but now she is old and have a child.
In my opinion you've got two options. Lose her or use her. Certainly don't get married to a woman who doesn't respect you. That's just asking for trouble.
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MarcosZeitola wrote:
April 22nd, 2019, 12:02 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 22nd, 2019, 6:15 am
Out of everyone so far Marcos gave me some of the best advice and i really appreciate it as he makes a lot of sense. The only thing i had a problem with is when he started talking bullshit about younger women wanting much older men.
I did not "start talking bullshit", because I am fully aware of women not wanting and desiring old men over young men from an aesthetic point of view. Or even, in general. Usually what a woman wants is a man who is young and good-looking. What I did say, was that the relationship between a young woman and a (much) older man can be, and usually will be, mutually benefitial to both parties.

Do women as a whole prefer older men? Not at all. But I would say from a biological, societal and economic perspective a marriage between a younger woman and an older man will likely be more fruitful than the union of two late-thirties individuals. Besides I have worked for some time with people who have psychiatric issues and what I noticed is that the majority of clients had older mothers, but not necessarily older fathers. There's definitely a correlation there to consider.

Now I'm not going to be delusional and claim it is the ideal situation, far from it. Ideal would be a young couple, close in age when they marry, not a huge age gap, faithful and growing old together... next best thing would be older man, younger woman. After that in my hierarchy I would rank a couple that's a bit older, with both the man and the woman being of a similar age and the woman may or may not be a single mother... lowest of all I would rank relationships where the woman is considerably older than the man, such as France's Macron and his crone... that is the greatest degeneracy of all.

Just because I hold this view does not mean I "lie about my age" or some nonsense like that. Just don't misunderstand what I said; young women usually don't prefer older men, even though for many young women such a union would be a wise and fertile one, but it could still be a very mutually beneficial bond to enter.
Alrite what you are saying now makes perfect sense.
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@Marcus: Macron is a homosexual, so he doesn't count. The legitimate reason for younger men to prefer older women is because then the relationship is all about sex, the man has the sexual power, the man is under no pressure to pay for dates or even have his own car and apartment, no pressure for marriage, little or no possibility of children. It's perfect for hedonists like me when I was young. Of course now that I'm old, I go for women 30 or more years younger rather than 10 or more years older, and these relationships too are all about sex (and money, since I have to pay now). No beautiful Ukrainian woman 30+ years younger wants to marry and have children with me (maybe some average women might want to marry me, but I'm not interested in average women.) All this goes over your head because your simple mind cannot imagine that other people have other desires in life than producing children.
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MarcosZeitola wrote:
April 22nd, 2019, 12:02 pm
Do women as a whole prefer older men? Not at all.
Women, depending on what stage they are in, generally prefer men that give them higher STATUS. According to Rollo Tomassi:

Party Years (16 to 28): At this stage women are testing the limits of their attractiveness and they go for physical attraction almost purely. The men that get them moist on sight are the men they want.

Epiphany Phase (28 - 31): The realization that her SMV has declined and her search for male provisioning begins in earnest. A provider is the catch more than the "hot guy."

The Wall Years (32 and beyond): These are the years women take what they can get. Some become cougars, others become career-inclinded, still others become dog and cat moms if they are not married with children by then.

There can be deviations on the ages depending on the society and the particular needs of the woman. My 25 year old would not likely need me if she did not have an estranged relationship with her family or some help to address some health concerns she was dealing with. My intervention made me become the end all and the be all of her world so she lionizes me as a man in his 50's.

Other women have drug habits, or emotional neediness, legitimate bills to pay, daddy issues or other quirks that attract them to much older men. So they are always out there for us older guys to snatch up.
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Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 23rd, 2019, 9:27 am
MarcosZeitola wrote:
April 22nd, 2019, 12:02 pm
Do women as a whole prefer older men? Not at all.
Women, depending on what stage they are in, generally prefer men that give them higher STATUS. According to Rollo Tomassi:

Party Years (16 to 28): At this stage women are testing the limits of their attractiveness and they go for physical attraction almost purely. The men that get them moist on sight are the men they want.

Epiphany Phase (28 - 31): The realization that her SMV has declined and her search for male provisioning begins in earnest. A provider is the catch more than the "hot guy."

The Wall Years (32 and beyond): These are the years women take what they can get. Some become cougars, others become career-inclinded, still others become dog and cat moms if they are not married with children by then.

There can be deviations on the ages depending on the society and the particular needs of the woman. My 25 year old would not likely need me if she did not have an estranged relationship with her family or some help to address some health concerns she was dealing with. My intervention made me become the end all and the be all of her world so she lionizes me as a man in his 50's.

Other women have drug habits, or emotional neediness, legitimate bills to pay, daddy issues or other quirks that attract them to much older men. So they are always out there for us older guys to snatch up.
16- 28, 28-31,32 and beyond? Who the hell says? seems like you been watching too many MGTow videos :lol:

A woman's appeal to a man is largely also based on her physical attractiveness not just her age. There are lots of women who are in their 30's who are very very sexy and attractive who keep themselves up and are fit. There are many women in their 30's who look better than some women in their 20's and can compete with them. A man (who lets say is 38 and have a great career making lots of money and he is attractive) sees an attractive woman, he don't know her age, she looks good and he finds her very attractive. Then the man learns her age that she is 34, the man is not gonna say to himself "nah i'll pass even though she looks dam good and i like her personality and we have great chemistry, i don't wanna be with her because she is in her 30's"
What you are talking is nothing original just typical mgtow stuff which is not always true. Good looking people in general have it easier and can get dates.
You are saying women 32 and beyond takes whatever she can get. That's not always true. Good looking women in her 30's have a lot of options too and actually has more options than an average looking girl in her 20's. A 38 year old man can be dating two women, one who is 26, the next one 33. Both looks good but he happens to fancy the 33 year old a little more and that's the one he thinks he can spend his life with. He is not gonna say hey i fancy the 33 year old more but i'm not gonna be with her because she is 33 :lol: , i am gonna date the 26 year old because she is younger. I don't know where you come up with these numbers generalizing women to not be worth much based on her age. Men in their late 30's typically date women in their late 20's to early or mid 30's. And Men in their 40's typically date women in their early 30's to mid, to late 30's. The notion that women in their 30's don't have much option is ridiculous. People being able to attract someone is also based on how physically attractive they are. A drop dead gorgeous 34 year old woman has far better options than an ugly or average looking 24 year old woman.
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Splicelo wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 6:07 pm
Anyone else here like single moms? I have a thing for single moms.
So first you try to pump up single moms as somehow desirable, now you try to pump up black American women as the same. :lol:

I am 90% sure you are a black, single mother posing as a male in order to do some reputational damage control. I just can't imagine any healthy man would be pumping up single, black mothers nor claiming to date a 38 year old Filipina. Something would be just terribly amiss mentally if this were truly a man advocating for this.

The men on this forum are far too experienced and sophisticated for that ever to succeed. Therefore....

FAIL!
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Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 1:23 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 6:07 pm
Anyone else here like single moms? I have a thing for single moms.
So first you try to pump up single moms as somehow desirable, now you try to pump up black American women as the same. :lol:

I am 90% sure you are a black, single mother posing as a male in order to do some reputational damage control. I just can't imagine any healthy man would be pumping up single, black mothers nor claiming to date a 38 year old Filipina. Something would be just terribly amiss mentally if this were truly a man advocating for this.

The men on this forum are far too experienced and sophisticated for that ever to succeed. Ther.

FAIL!
And blacky chang is back. You're taking a subject from another post and bringing it here.
I don't think most men desire single moms. And i never stated that once. However i like single moms. I don't advocate men to be with single moms either. It's just my thing. And I am not attracted to black women, i like white and asian women. I am not pumping up black mothers lol. Direct me to the post where i pump up black mothers. You lying monkey :lol:, so i offended you so much that you resort to making up shit to feel you are somehow even, you are nothing but a chimp. I didn't say anything nice about black women, not a thing. i simply said if you are a self proclaim mgtow then why are you boring everyone to tears with constant explanation as to why you don't like black women. You spent 40 pages crying about how terrible black women treated you. Nobody gives a crap, just go your way and don't look back, but instead you bitch and whine like a teenage boy struggling with puberty. Most men don't like single moms that is a fact, and i know that and ok with it. But most non white women also not at all interested in black men, that's also fact which you can't bare to hear. Men not liking single moms doesn't make me wrong regarding black men been the least desired men on the planet. Single moms are least desired women to a lot of men. Black men are also the least desired men. Truth is whether black men or woman, people generally don't find your people desirable, people don't put a distinction on you both as unrelated, they look at you both the same. :wink: You think you are more important than you are and assume too much authority. Seriously you are just the token negro here. None cares about you or your women.
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Splicelo wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 2:57 pm
Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 1:23 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 6:07 pm
Anyone else here like single moms? I have a thing for single moms.
So first you try to pump up single moms as somehow desirable, now you try to pump up black American women as the same. :lol:

I am 90% sure you are a black, single mother posing as a male in order to do some reputational damage control. I just can't imagine any healthy man would be pumping up single, black mothers nor claiming to date a 38 year old Filipina. Something would be just terribly amiss mentally if this were truly a man advocating for this.

The men on this forum are far too experienced and sophisticated for that ever to succeed. Ther.

FAIL!
And blacky chang is back. You're taking a subject from another post and bringing it here.
I don't think most men desire single moms. And i never stated that once. However i like single moms. I don't advocate men to be with single moms either. It's just my thing. And I am not attracted to black women, i like white and asian women. I am not pumping up black mothers lol. Direct me to the post where i pump up black mothers. You lying monkey :lol:, so i offended you so much that you resort to making up shit to feel you are somehow even, you are nothing but a chimp. I didn't say anything nice about black women, not a thing. i simply said if you are a self proclaim mgtow then why are you boring everyone to tears with constant explanation as to why you don't like black women. You spent 40 pages crying about how terrible black women treated you. Nobody gives a crap, just go your way and don't look back, but instead you bitch and whine like a teenage boy struggling with puberty. Most men don't like single moms that is a fact, and i know that and ok with it. But most non white women also not at all interested in black men, that's also fact which you can't bare to hear. Men not liking single moms doesn't make me wrong regarding black men been the least desired men on the planet. Single moms are least desired women to a lot of men. Black men are also the least desired men. Truth is whether black men or woman, people generally don't find your people desirable, people don't put a distinction on you both as unrelated, they look at you both the same. :wink: You think you are more important than you are and assume too much authority. Seriously you are just the token negro here. None cares about you or your women.
I think older single mothers and you are a match made in heaven. I would wish you well as you embark upon your life of a VolCuck (Voluntary Cuckold), but it is ALREADY making you an angry, bitter, and hateful person. Is the anger from the fact that you are being duped to accept a low value partner and raise another man's offspring, or is the anger because you've encountered a black man who succeeds at what you could never dream of doing with gorgeous white girls from Eastern Europe?

It is likely a bit of both, but you are clearly not a very happy person 8)
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Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 11:30 am
Splicelo wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 2:57 pm
Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 1:23 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 6:07 pm
Anyone else here like single moms? I have a thing for single moms.
So first you try to pump up single moms as somehow desirable, now you try to pump up black American women as the same. :lol:

I am 90% sure you are a black, single mother posing as a male in order to do some reputational damage control. I just can't imagine any healthy man would be pumping up single, black mothers nor claiming to date a 38 year old Filipina. Something would be just terribly amiss mentally if this were truly a man advocating for this.

The men on this forum are far too experienced and sophisticated for that ever to succeed. Ther.

FAIL!
And blacky chang is back. You're taking a subject from another post and bringing it here.
I don't think most men desire single moms. And i never stated that once. However i like single moms. I don't advocate men to be with single moms either. It's just my thing. And I am not attracted to black women, i like white and asian women. I am not pumping up black mothers lol. Direct me to the post where i pump up black mothers. You lying monkey :lol:, so i offended you so much that you resort to making up shit to feel you are somehow even, you are nothing but a chimp. I didn't say anything nice about black women, not a thing. i simply said if you are a self proclaim mgtow then why are you boring everyone to tears with constant explanation as to why you don't like black women. You spent 40 pages crying about how terrible black women treated you. Nobody gives a crap, just go your way and don't look back, but instead you bitch and whine like a teenage boy struggling with puberty. Most men don't like single moms that is a fact, and i know that and ok with it. But most non white women also not at all interested in black men, that's also fact which you can't bare to hear. Men not liking single moms doesn't make me wrong regarding black men been the least desired men on the planet. Single moms are least desired women to a lot of men. Black men are also the least desired men. Truth is whether black men or woman, people generally don't find your people desirable, people don't put a distinction on you both as unrelated, they look at you both the same. :wink: You think you are more important than you are and assume too much authority. Seriously you are just the token negro here. None cares about you or your women.
I think older single mothers and you are a match made in heaven. I would wish you well as you embark upon your life of a VolCuck (Voluntary Cuckold), but it is ALREADY making you an angry, bitter, and hateful person. Is the anger from the fact that you are being duped to accept a low value partner and raise another man's offspring, or is the anger because you've encountered a black man who succeeds at what you could never dream of doing with gorgeous white girls from Eastern Europe?

It is likely a bit of both, but you are clearly not a very happy person 8)
Nah i don't think older single mothers are a match made in heaven. I never told other men to like them. I simply asked if any other men like single moms. Look who is alking about angry bitter hateful person. You hate your own black women with a passion and wish they would all die, you spent years on this forum bashing them. You said you wish the world would nuke all jews. But everyone has to love and adore you? Gtoh.😂 you got offended because i said most women are not interested in black men. Ism not calling snyone hateful for not bring interested in single moms. But you the truth that most women are just not that fond of black men and its like your whole world is crashing down.

White women dont like black men anymore thsn most men dont like single moms. Men typically dont like single moms i know that. And non black women typically dont like black men, in your delusionsl world they do.

A 50 year old paedophile like you paying 19 year old eastern european women for sex is not s ann accomplishment. I have no interest in going to eastern Europe to find a girlfri i have one already.

So you can say bad things about your women but when i say that black men have those same bad qualities, all of a sudden its hate? :lol:
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Splicelo wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 12:03 pm
Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 11:30 am
Splicelo wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 2:57 pm
Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 1:23 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 6:07 pm
Anyone else here like single moms? I have a thing for single moms.
So first you try to pump up single moms as somehow desirable, now you try to pump up black American women as the same. :lol:

I am 90% sure you are a black, single mother posing as a male in order to do some reputational damage control. I just can't imagine any healthy man would be pumping up single, black mothers nor claiming to date a 38 year old Filipina. Something would be just terribly amiss mentally if this were truly a man advocating for this.

The men on this forum are far too experienced and sophisticated for that ever to succeed. Ther.

FAIL!
And blacky chang is back. You're taking a subject from another post and bringing it here.
I don't think most men desire single moms. And i never stated that once. However i like single moms. I don't advocate men to be with single moms either. It's just my thing. And I am not attracted to black women, i like white and asian women. I am not pumping up black mothers lol. Direct me to the post where i pump up black mothers. You lying monkey :lol:, so i offended you so much that you resort to making up shit to feel you are somehow even, you are nothing but a chimp. I didn't say anything nice about black women, not a thing. i simply said if you are a self proclaim mgtow then why are you boring everyone to tears with constant explanation as to why you don't like black women. You spent 40 pages crying about how terrible black women treated you. Nobody gives a crap, just go your way and don't look back, but instead you bitch and whine like a teenage boy struggling with puberty. Most men don't like single moms that is a fact, and i know that and ok with it. But most non white women also not at all interested in black men, that's also fact which you can't bare to hear. Men not liking single moms doesn't make me wrong regarding black men been the least desired men on the planet. Single moms are least desired women to a lot of men. Black men are also the least desired men. Truth is whether black men or woman, people generally don't find your people desirable, people don't put a distinction on you both as unrelated, they look at you both the same. :wink: You think you are more important than you are and assume too much authority. Seriously you are just the token negro here. None cares about you or your women.
I think older single mothers and you are a match made in heaven. I would wish you well as you embark upon your life of a VolCuck (Voluntary Cuckold), but it is ALREADY making you an angry, bitter, and hateful person. Is the anger from the fact that you are being duped to accept a low value partner and raise another man's offspring, or is the anger because you've encountered a black man who succeeds at what you could never dream of doing with gorgeous white girls from Eastern Europe?

It is likely a bit of both, but you are clearly not a very happy person 8)
Nah i don't think older single mothers are a match made in heaven. I never told other men to like them. I simply asked if any other men like single moms. Look who is alking about angry bitter hateful person. You hate your own black women with a passion and wish they would all die, you spent years on this forum bashing them. You said you wish the world would nuke all jews. But everyone has to love and adore you? Gtoh.😂 you got offended because i said most women are not interested in black men. Ism not calling snyone hateful for not bring interested in single moms. But you the truth that most women are just not that fond of black men and its like your whole world is crashing down.

White women dont like black men anymore thsn most men dont like single moms. Men typically dont like single moms i know that. And non black women typically dont like black men, in your delusionsl world they do.

A 50 year old paedophile like you paying 19 year old eastern european women for sex is not s ann accomplishment. I have no interest in going to eastern Europe to find a girlfri i have one already.

So you can say bad things about your women but when i say that black men have those same bad qualities, all of a sudden its hate? :lol:
I could care less about your views of black people. You really don't matter in that regard.

But when I say "hate," it means envy in this context and you, young man, are "a hater." Is it my lifestyle, my young Russian dumpling, or my unattainable wealth level that sets you off? I would guess they all play a role, but the thing about the young Russian girl just pushes you over the edge and makes you cry about why I should only be with black American women. Too funny!!!! This is why old, used-up, single moms should be a no go zone for men. It drives men crazy with envy when confronted with other men with young women. But if that is all you could pull into your life, I understand :mrgreen:

Well, like I said, you'll either get over it or you'll stay miserable 8)
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MarcosZeitola wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 12:11 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 12:03 pm
A 50 year old paedophile like you paying 19 year old eastern european women for sex is not s ann accomplishment. I have no interest in going to eastern Europe to find a girlfri i have one already.
This is not my discussion or my debate, but why on earth would you label a fifty year old man a pedophile for sleeping with a nineteen year old woman? Her age is perfectly legal, in fact in plenty of European countries even sleeping with girls as young as sixteen is perfectly legal. It's not pedophilia when you are sleeping with a girl above the local age of consent who willingly engages in sexual intercourse with you. It's not called being a pedo; it's called being a sexually successful man, and I for one applaud any man who gets his rocks off with a younger woman in a consentual situation.

Too many men try to bring each other down, instead of cheering on another man's success. That's a pathetic way to look at the world, and it's even worse if you have to use dishonest accusations and false terms that do not apply in order to drag your opponent down.

A man of any age, having sex with a girl above the legal age of consent, is never a pedophile for doing so. Not even if the man is 70 and the girl just turned 18 a day earlier, he's still just a lucky old mofo but definitely not a pedo.
You are correct and i really don't believe he is a pedo. But i dont see anything a man that age has in common with 19 year old girl. And i'd not want my 18 year old daughter if i had one being invloved with a 50 year old guy. What you call sucess is not what i call sucess, sure i could sleep with 19 year olds but girls that age kinda more child like in my mind.

The age of consent is 15 years old in many countries. So would you be ok with some 50 year old man screwing your 15 year old daughter because according to local laws it's legal. Lol maybe you'll say yes you don't care because you don't mind large age gap. And that's you. But i'm not cheering on something i see as weird rather than accomplishment.
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MarcosZeitola wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 2:36 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 2:19 pm
You are correct and i really don't believe he is a pedo. But i dont see anything a man that age has in common with 19 year old girl. And i'd not want my daughter being invloved with a 50 year old guy. What you call sucess is not what i call sucess, sure i could sleep with 19 year olds but girls that age kinda more child like in my mind.
Even for some young men it's not easy to sleep with an attractive 19 year old girl. Now consider you are a man in your fifties... for you to get a very young and very pretty girl in bed with you, is a pretty decent personal victory, because lets face it, most men in their fifties cannot really get that sort of quality and age of women at their age.

Now is a nineteen year old 'like a child'? Maybe. But then again, there's plenty of women far older and with far more life experience who are still very childish. Whereas you have some teenaged girls with more maturity than a woman twice or thrice her age. It really just depends on the individual girl.

If I was a fifty year old man and single, and I was still fit and interesting and good-looking enough to attract a 19 year old cutie every now and then, I'd consider myself very lucky for that. I would say probably the majority of men, world wide, would prefer to have sex with a 19 year old girl at that age then, say, a 38 year old such as the one you are with. Which is great, for you, because it means there's no competition for your partner, there's no other men trying to "steal" her from you, and you do not get hit with looks of jealousy or disliked by locals for your choice of partner. :wink:
I get what you are saying and lots of truth to it. You are one of the more intelligent members even though you are 10 years younger than i and i enjoy reading your post. But me personally i'd not wanna get involved with a 19 year old at my age. I don't have anything in common with them, they are a bit too immature as far as i am concerned. Sure there are some mature ones. I've always dated younger women. When i was 25 i dated a 19 year old who i was with for a while. But at this age 36 i don't feel a 19 year old is at the stage to settle with. Yes i feel majority men would like to sleep with 19 year old but i'm trying to build a life, not go on hookup with 19 year olds.

I previously dated a 24 year old chinese woman before this filipina, and also dated a 23 year old and they had loose vagina compared to my girl who is older than them. I met my girlfriend when she was 33 and i 32. She has an east asian look with pale skin and doesn't look 38. Men do look at her but men are not to thrilled when they find out that she's a single mom. I get it not everyone gona like single moms.

I get younger filipina in their 20's flirting with me but realistically im looking for more than just hookup.
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Re: Anyone else also into single moms?

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Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 12:20 pm
Splicelo wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 12:03 pm
Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 29th, 2019, 11:30 am
Splicelo wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 2:57 pm
Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
April 28th, 2019, 1:23 pm

So first you try to pump up single moms as somehow desirable, now you try to pump up black American women as the same. :lol:

I am 90% sure you are a black, single mother posing as a male in order to do some reputational damage control. I just can't imagine any healthy man would be pumping up single, black mothers nor claiming to date a 38 year old Filipina. Something would be just terribly amiss mentally if this were truly a man advocating for this.

The men on this forum are far too experienced and sophisticated for that ever to succeed. Ther.

FAIL!
And blacky chang is back. You're taking a subject from another post and bringing it here.
I don't think most men desire single moms. And i never stated that once. However i like single moms. I don't advocate men to be with single moms either. It's just my thing. And I am not attracted to black women, i like white and asian women. I am not pumping up black mothers lol. Direct me to the post where i pump up black mothers. You lying monkey :lol:, so i offended you so much that you resort to making up shit to feel you are somehow even, you are nothing but a chimp. I didn't say anything nice about black women, not a thing. i simply said if you are a self proclaim mgtow then why are you boring everyone to tears with constant explanation as to why you don't like black women. You spent 40 pages crying about how terrible black women treated you. Nobody gives a crap, just go your way and don't look back, but instead you bitch and whine like a teenage boy struggling with puberty. Most men don't like single moms that is a fact, and i know that and ok with it. But most non white women also not at all interested in black men, that's also fact which you can't bare to hear. Men not liking single moms doesn't make me wrong regarding black men been the least desired men on the planet. Single moms are least desired women to a lot of men. Black men are also the least desired men. Truth is whether black men or woman, people generally don't find your people desirable, people don't put a distinction on you both as unrelated, they look at you both the same. :wink: You think you are more important than you are and assume too much authority. Seriously you are just the token negro here. None cares about you or your women.
I think older single mothers and you are a match made in heaven. I would wish you well as you embark upon your life of a VolCuck (Voluntary Cuckold), but it is ALREADY making you an angry, bitter, and hateful person. Is the anger from the fact that you are being duped to accept a low value partner and raise another man's offspring, or is the anger because you've encountered a black man who succeeds at what you could never dream of doing with gorgeous white girls from Eastern Europe?

It is likely a bit of both, but you are clearly not a very happy person 8)
Nah i don't think older single mothers are a match made in heaven. I never told other men to like them. I simply asked if any other men like single moms. Look who is alking about angry bitter hateful person. You hate your own black women with a passion and wish they would all die, you spent years on this forum bashing them. You said you wish the world would nuke all jews. But everyone has to love and adore you? Gtoh.😂 you got offended because i said most women are not interested in black men. Ism not calling snyone hateful for not bring interested in single moms. But you the truth that most women are just not that fond of black men and its like your whole world is crashing down.

White women dont like black men anymore thsn most men dont like single moms. Men typically dont like single moms i know that. And non black women typically dont like black men, in your delusionsl world they do.

A 50 year old paedophile like you paying 19 year old eastern european women for sex is not s ann accomplishment. I have no interest in going to eastern Europe to find a girlfri i have one already.

So you can say bad things about your women but when i say that black men have those same bad qualities, all of a sudden its hate? :lol:
I could care less about your views of black people. You really don't matter in that regard.

But when I say "hate," it means envy in this context and you, young man, are "a hater." Is it my lifestyle, my young Russian dumpling, or my unattainable wealth level that sets you off? I would guess they all play a role, but the thing about the young Russian girl just pushes you over the edge and makes you cry about why I should only be with black American women. Too funny!!!! This is why old, used-up, single moms should be a no go zone for men. It drives men crazy with envy when confronted with other men with young women. But if that is all you could pull into your life, I understand :mrgreen:

Well, like I said, you'll either get over it or you'll stay miserable 8)
Unattainable wealth? I don't know how much money you have to be jealous, neither do i know your lifestyle.
I never said you should be with only african american women. I said if you are gonna date overseas then date overseas and stop going on these long annoying rants about how horrible black women treated you. Nobody is jealous of you, trust me nobody. You came online blasting your own women saying they have the highest stds and worst mothers and most violent women. I simply said the same about black men. Black men have the most stds in the world, and are the most violent men. And thats when you start saying i hate black men. I am just saying black men have a lot of the same things in common as black women. I'm not envious of a 50 year old man trust me, especially not a black man unless you were 'Will Smith' then i'd be jealous. Will Smith rules.
I never once told you to be with african american women. But if women are wise i they should stay away from black men. Most but not all black men are very flaky and that's my reasoning. You also said you wish black women would all die and that men shouldn't date them. So how i'm i not allowed to say the same about you as you say about your women. Just as how you find your women undateable, its the same way i find black men to be the bottom of the barrel.. And that triggers you. In another post you said the only reason your young 25 year old is with you is because she has health problems and has been estranged and rejected by her family and need financial help otherwise she wouldn't need you. You said that. Doesn't sound like something to be envious of.

So as far as that's concerned, you are paying her to be with you. Not an accomplishment. Tell me about your lifestyle, what is a typical day like for you? i wanna get that unttainable wealth too lol. What kinda work you did before you retired to have you travelling the globe, and earning so much money? And how much money do you have? Tell us, so i can be jealous. How much money do you have i wanna be envious. How many millions?
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Re: Anyone else also into single moms?

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I could care less about your views of black people or race in general. If you want to know my views on "race," I did a thread on it. You might find that your attempted provocations were useless once you read it:

viewtopic.php?f=35&t=35909&p=293699&hil ... en#p293699


But when I say "hate," it means envy in this context and you, young man, are "a hater." Is it my lifestyle, my young Russian dumpling, or my unattainable wealth level that sets you off? I would guess they all play a role, but the thing about the young Russian girl just pushes you over the edge and makes you cry about why I should only be with black American women. Too funny!!!! This is why old, used-up, single moms should be a no go zone for men. It drives men crazy with envy when confronted with other men with young women. But if that is all you could pull into your life, I understand :mrgreen: Well, like I said, you'll either get over it or you'll stay miserable 8)
Splicelo wrote: Unattainable wealth? I don't know how much money you have to be jealous, neither do i know your lifestyle.
Sure you are, and you very much know it! It is quite obvious that your triggered insecurities caused you to try to demean and denigrate me personally. Sorry to say, but it did not work 8) I am immune to such tactics. As I mentioned before, it let's me know I am doing things correctly in life when I trigger an envy-hater.
Splicelo wrote: I never said you should be with only african american women.
And denial is more than just a river in Egypt!
Splicelo wrote: I said if you are gonna date overseas then date overseas and stop going on these long annoying rants about how horrible black women treated you. Nobody is jealous of you, trust me nobody. You just got butthurt because came online blasting your own women saying they highest stds and worst mothers and most violent women. I simply said the same about black men. Black men have the most stds in the world, and are the most violent men. And thats when you start saying i hate black men. I am just saying black men have a lot of the same thing in common as black women. I'm not envious of a 50 year old man trust me, especially not a black year old unless you were 'Will Smith' then i'd be jealous.
Oh but you are! The famous quote from Hamlet comes to mind with you, "The lady doth protest too much, methinks!" That means that harping on in denial after denial means that the thing denied is actually very true due to the outsized effort to deny. You are jealous, get over it. It's obvious in you.
Splicelo wrote: I never once told you to be with african american women.
And yet again, "The lady doth protest too much, methinks!" You are quite easy to read; do you know that :lol:
Splicelo wrote: But women are wise if tjey stay away from black men. Most but not all black men are very flaky and that's my reasoning. You also said you wish black women should die and that men shouldn't date them. So how i'm i not allowed to say the same about you as you say about your women. Just as how you find your women undateable, its the same way i find black men to be the bottom of the barrel.. and that triggers you. In another post you said the only reason your young 25 year old is with you is because she has health problems and has been estranged and rejected by her family and need financial help otherwise she wouldn't need you. You said that.
In the case of SOME black men, you're 100% right. I have written about black men at great length on this forum. But in the case of SOME white men, that is true too. After all, more white women are killed, harmed, infected, or otherwise damaged by unstable white men like yourself than by black men. Let's not get it twisted....
Splicelo wrote: So as far as that's concerned, you are paying her to be with you. Not an accomplishment.
That's a typical answer from a guy who has not and cannot tell when a woman truly loves, adores, and idolizes him. Very sad actually. If you offered my girlfriend 10,000 dollars a month, she would reject you, inform me about it, and expect me to see you personally for insulting her like that. So it is not about money, it is about she found someone who she completely trusts and cares about her welfare in the way no one else would. That you can't relate to that is a commentary on what your life clearly lacks.

Splicelo wrote: What kinda work you did before you retired to have you travelling the globe and earning so much money?
There have been numerous spirited discussions on that subject already on the forum where I give financial and wealth-building advice. If you are so interested, look it up. Bringing that up right now will simply trigger you further with childish gaslighting attempts akin to "No you don't," That's impossible!," "Prove it!," "Did you deal drugs at one time?," Statistically black men don't have that!," "The world still sees you as a poor, ghetto thug!," et cetera :lol: I know your type as I said.
Splicelo wrote: And how much money do you have?
Wealth Lesson for you #1: Wealth is not held in money, it is held in assets that produce flows of income.
Splicelo wrote: How much money do you have i wanna be envious.
How good is your math? Let's just say that as an early retiree I qualify under law as an Accredited Investor, I am somewhere within the top 10% in both income and top 10% in wealth. If my math is correct, that puts me in the top 1% in the world for both income and wealth. That being the case, why would I live in America when I can live around the former former Soviet Union as an international oligarch.

But this is Happier Abroad so I am not unique here. There are younger guys on the forum who are more wealthy then I was at their age, and their are guys like Winston, RetiredFrank, Yohan, Rock, Ladyslav, EIrrizary and yet others who are "well-heeled," international bon vivants as well. So if you really want to know my true racial background, it is guys like those, like-minded, international bon vivants who live life to the fullest and on their terms when and where they want.

If I can do it, most guys can if they live MGTOW to the point where they avoid the traps. Since you want to get married so young, to a older single mother of age 38, I'd predict that you simply won't make it. You are:

-Gynocentric in your thinking
-Blue Pill to a fault (Marry a 38 year old, single mother?)
-Race obsessed when better men have more producting things to obsess about.
-A gaslighting personality who uses distortions, lies, and misdirection to make his arguments. (That never ends well for people.)

Marital financial obligations and likely divorce will sap away your financial power and you'll be forced to fly planes till the bitter end.
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