Are you talking about yourself? Honestly?
Isn't that you, who is dating a desperate girl from a third world country? A single mom near her 40s with a 10-year old boy?.... men who are half way good looking can find quality women right there in the west and most likely would not be rejected left and right creating bitter loser men, who have to travel across the globe for a poor desperate girl from third world country who is willing to settle for a loser so she can have a better life.
Is it so? If yes, why are you not living with a Western woman?The notion that all western women are evil feminist is laughable and ridiculous. If you keep getting rejected by women in the west obviously something is wrong with you because all western women are not the same in mentality. But i can bet you i. This forum most are older men in their 40's and up . Younger men usually don't have the finances to go overseas to to go look for love or sex or whatever. Younger men who are confident and not losers are most likely dating young western women and don't have to go to asia to find a woman who looks like a maid.
About myself, I left Europe when I was 22 y/o for Asia, to Malaysia and Japan, and now I am 66 and I never came back to Europe. It was much more difficult at that time, as internet did not exist, no ATM services, very expensive air-tickets etc.
Now it is easy to travel, and int'l flights are cheap.
For your information, Japan is in Asia, but it is surely not a third world country.
By far not all Asian women are poor and desperate...
I am living in Japan and married since more than 40 years (same Japanese wife, never divorced) and why should I look for a Western woman and not for a local woman?
Our two daughters also prefer to continue to live in Japan, after long trips to USA/Canada/France, I also take care of a Filipina fosterdaughter, also have a granddaughter...
Marcos Zeitola is not known to us forum members to tell lies. He is trustworthy.young men would not be fantacizing and making up false claims about young women being attracted to older men, so no offense i have my doubt about you been as young as you claim.
You have no idea obviously what nonsense you are talking. In Asia you will find yourself in very big trouble if you have sex with children. Better do that in Europe or in other Western countries which are known for very lenient sentences.A lot older men also like much younger females and as a result is going to south east asia to have sex with children and not get in trouble. And everyone is raving about how much more likely you'll be to find a good wife in asia, you're also more likely to find yourself with hiv in south east asia as well, these countries are packed with hiv. I heard there is a new super hiv strain in the philippines which is resistant to medication.
About HIV, most infected countries are located in Africa and poor countries near USA, like Haiti and Dominican Republic.
Also USA has a serious HIV problem itself, see link below:
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/over ... lance.html
You were starting this thread asking for advice - of course you will also receive comments from members who do not agree with you and ask you to reconsider.Also...
It is ok if i got negative responses, those are welcomed. People have their own opinions.
Personally I see no problem if you keep a good friendship with a single mom near her 40s in the Philippines and sponsor her financially a little bit, however I see no reason why you should marry her and have a child with her. I also wonder what her boy, 10 y/o is thinking about you and if he accepts you as a father and if his biological father is still showing up to see him.