momopi wrote: ↑August 7th, 2018, 10:00 am
The thread is irreverent if you don’t make it to Europe.
What have you done today toward the goal of going to Europe to find a spouse or LTR?
Whatever our advice, good or bad, Winston will continue to scrape the bottom of the barrel in Angeles City. Whatever we talk or argue about in here, he is too stuck in the molasses-like stickiness of the cheap, fake female attention he can get on those seedy streets an in those girls bars.
The photos he posted on the relevant thread, meant to "prove me wrong" all referred to trips he took and American girls he met 15/20 years ago. Some of them are quite cute (especially the blue-eyed from Oregon) but, as he himself admits, they weren't into him and their "connection" probably lasted for the duration of the trip.
These kinds of encounters are all fine and dandy when you're young. As one grows older, quantity is replaced by quality...or so one usually does. Winston has never been interested in committing. As I pointed out on another thread, he is just not used to giving.
Paying for a skirt or a Jollibee meal is not "giving", by the way. "Giving" means giving time, (genuine) effort, thought, patience, to another person, be it female or male, be it a friend or the Love of your Life.
I already had a strong suspicion but the latest inflamed exchanges proved me beyond any doubt: Winston is one of the most self-centred people I have ever known. Eurobrat blames it on his status as only child of a middle/upper-class. His parents have probably already set up a fund for him to live comfortably for the rest of his life, without working a single day ever again.
Good for him, I don't envy him. But I don't think this is an attitude many ladies (apart from the usual scammers) will like about him.