I also wanted to share my story and insight about who I am and how I came to find Happier Abroad.
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It's a bit of a long story. So, I'll try to keep it as short as possible.
I was apart of a former movement online. My former friend and myself came upon this website of HappierAbroad.com many months ago. Here in the year 2008 of summertime I believe of 08. Mostly my friend and myself thought that Winston Wu and this website was a scam or schill. But the only difference was at the time. I had a intellect for reading, while my former friend had a very hard time with words and reading.
Months later after alot of research and thought into what Winston Wu had explained here in the States when it came tot eh "Dating Scene" and how jaded women are here in America. As well as his 20 years of loneliness story. I took more time to think about this website. I also had some thought and dreams to going abroad to find my own happiness.
I'm now 32 years of age. I'm mulatto or ( black/caucasian ) mixed decent. I've only had ONE real girlfriend in my life and lost my virginity in 2007. It's not that I did not want a girlfriend. It's because I've come to learn on my own from experiences, that women in this country are completely delusional, jaded, and mostly do not know what they want out of a real relationship.
I feel very uncomfortable around a group of ladies here in the states. Due to the fact that most ladies here in the states are "stuck up". Delusional about the type of guys they fantasize off of their daily television shows of "Soap Operas" and consumerism type reality shows for "brainwashing" and "bitchy" attitudes.
Now in learning this all on my own. I started to browse online of ladies abroad in foreign lands. But to recent circumstances and situations. I believe it's just best for me to just go abroad and meet a foreign lady for meet-to-meet relaitonship and see where it goes.
I'm sick of the dating scene here in the states and I've personally had enough of American women and close friends do not even understand what I'm going through. Most friends tell me to "Stay home" or "Don't go abroad" or "Don't give up on American women, there's a girlfriend here for you". But if this was the case. Why the hell am I still so damn depressed, lonely, confident to approach ladies with no problem. But still get "rejected" when after communicating with a lady for awhile. Only to get the cold shoulder or "I'm to good for you" type of attitude from females here?
Even women that are physically un attractive can get a date here no problem.
I do have an overweight problem that I am doing well on in my diet and excercise routines and I'm loosing weight slowly. But why is it that I see obest and full-figured women in this country STILL have a date and have no problem in getting a guy into a relationship?
I'm tired of having to WAIT around to be "CHOSEN" by a female. When I can simply go abroad and find my happiness and feel a helluva lot better and comfortable in approaching ladies overseas. I cannot be comfortable here in asking a lady out. Because a guy like myself that has asked "Countless" of ladies either online or offline for a date here locally or in other states. I'm never good enough to date. I've heard all the excuses to my weight, color of my skin, my being at home with family, to my education, to my disability or combinations of everything to not having a girlfriend.
I believe most of you reading this post can get the picture of where I'm going, Yes? good...
Because I'm not getting ANY younger and I'm tired of spending the Holidays alone with nothing to do or no place to go. I'm by no means "House ridden or House attatched". It's just that mostly. I'm tired of having nothing to do or nobody to go out and share good times with. I believe Winston Wu knows EXACTLY how I feel personally. He's been there and done that.
I'm to the point emotionally, that I've had enough of the dating scene here in American and I'm going abroad to find my happiness. I cannot FIND happiness here in the dating scene by any means.
Cheers to you Winston on making this website for lonely men everywhere that also has dreams and aspirations of going abroad to find their happiness. Like ( yours truly )...
Most people do not understand Winston and I know Winston has enemies that do not want him to succeed in what he's doing.
I'm sick of these people that pick on him all the time online or anybody else ( like myself ) that wishes to help him in his cause to help lonely guys find happiness.
It's perverted and sick that people treat him bad. Just because he wants to help lonely guys in going abroad to find that happiness. He's done more than most P.U.A. leaders out there do. I've bought into the P.U.A. crowd myself and nothing worked for me still.
Even friends tell me that.. "I should loose the weight and women will come FLOCKING to me." well why is it that Winston has shown me actual quotes from guys in America that work out 24/7, have a nice car, have a nice home. And women will still treat such guys like 3rd class rate or a wheel to not date or be with?
Well, I do believe that women do have something to worry about. Because a person like myself in my own mindset and many other lonely guys in this country are NOW starting to LOOK ABROAD for REAL relationships. Instead of the emotional games, excuses, drama and forcement of loneliness out of the dating scene.
People can tell me whatever they want. But in the end. I'm going abroad to find my own happiness to have more choices in the dating scene. To meet new people. See new sites. And to find a lady that seeks a REAL relationship, without the games.
Yes, I've even had a Long-distant relationship with my ex that lives abroad. Due to circumstances. She parted ways with me to move on with her life. I'm more attracted to women abroad, than I am here at home.
I'm sick of family, friends and people that try to give excuses, ideas or anything to keep me emotionally depressed, down and without finding my own happiness. All I hear is drama and B.S. about not going abroad.
"Oh, it's a dangerous and cruel world out there!" type propaganda and mind control to keep me here in chains and unhappy. Any little excuse.
Anyways. I cannot wait to go abroad and I'm working hard online to achieve MY OWN financial independency to go abroad. If people think I love staying at home and living off of disability every month is fun to me. They have another thing coming. I'm not loving it and I pay my way like everyone else and I still have my problems. But I'm not going to let that destroy my life in not finding the happiness that I want and seek.
I do understand that it takes "ACTION" instead of "TALK" for people to understand me. So, I guess I'll do just that. As I am working hard in my online businesses as we speak, in order to go abroad. I maybe on disability. But that does not make me weak to not have my own dreams of becoming my own boss and working hard to achieve financial independency to go where I want and when I please in this world.
I've faced the facts for myself a long time ago. That I either go abroad. Or continue to be here in the states, unhappy, dateless loser, waiting to be chose by a female, and into a grave early ( if the stress doesn't kill me first ) from unhappiness, depression and loneliness.
Thank you all for reading my intro story and the low-down about myself in details, emotions and feelings.
Peace,
Dwayne
