quito wrote:I am no stranger to online dating but i never tried POF before until today.. I just was curious to see what kind of results I would get compared to yours.. I am a bit older and not nearly as attractive as you so it will be interesting to see how it goes.. I can say that in the last hour that I signed up I received about 11 messages and all of them look like i remember my grandmother looking before she died.. I also received 1 invitation from a filipina to chat live which I accepted. We were not really a good match so that conversation ended after about 10 minutes.
As far as someone referring to how well they did in philippines ... i want to add this because i really want guys to be encouraged.. i go there a lot and usually setup dates ahead of time and have plenty of backups to fill in the hours. Just for the hell of it i recently went there and wanted to see how many good looking girls i could bed without lying or paying. My tally was 15 in 9 days. Ages ranged form 20 - 28. I could have done more but i just was exhausted. I swear to you all that I am not handsome.. im just a shaved head guy in his 50s in average shape that happens to be willing to take risks and talk to girls that might seem unapproachable to most. and im willing to ask (politely and sweetly) for what i want.. if you are calculating that the only way i could have went to bed with 15 in 9 days is to have done more than 1 at a time you would be correct.. contrary to what most think there are a lot of girls there that are quite open minded to having fun even if they seem to be conservative at first. the downside is that probably they never did anything like that before and you will be having to provide instructions every step of the way.. lol
i will say that i totally agree with some of the contributors here that most filipinas range from unattractive to average at best.. but if you take the time to look and to talk you can find true diamonds in that place.. and a real diamond from the philippines is going to be a lot more beautiful than most other women in the world.
That trip was actually a one-off and i dont plan to repeat anything like that again in my life.. as i said i was just curious to see how crazy i could make it and what i am telling you is that the only limits are what you are physically capable of. The truth is I expect to marry someone in the next year or 2 and settle down and i am lining up the best of the best to either meet again or to meet for the first time.. probably my trips now will consist of meeting around 3 or 4 in 10 days or thereabouts to give ample time to see how we get along in a more normal 'un-party' like setting.. this will be very hard to do though coz i have a lot of pretty girls on my facebook page that really are expecting to spend a night with me. it will be hard to have to tell them i wont be meeting them.
so anyways.. i apologize for the long post.. i didnt mean to hijack the OPs thread.. just wanted to mention i was trying POF now.. and give some encouragement to guys that dont think they can do well in philippines. if i can do it i promise you that you can too.. but it does take a little bit of effort..
I never intervene in cases like those - this is my first and probably last - but...the "smell of BS in the morning" was way too strong, sorry
Quito, you're a troll, aren't you? Will N Dowd has impressed everyone here as he is genuinely good looking and he has described his experiences, in the Philippines or back home, to the finest details. He has shared his frustrations and successes, and done so in a way that's honest and credible.
On the other side, you claim to be the average 50-some sex tourist and have bedded 15 girls, all 8s to 10s, in 9 days, including a few threesomes (as you seem to hint at, at least), without paying a centavo. Metro Manila and Cebu are packed with foreigners and too cosmopolitan for girls to even give a glance to a guy like you. In Davao and the other minor cities, the girls are too provincial and traditional and would probably entertain you with a brief verbal exchange out of politeness, then find a quick excuse to go their own way.
I could well understand that you chose to make this story up as a way to encourage people to visit the Philippines and release their sexually frustrated selves, or find true love. I would advise though that you stick to your real experiences, not fictional. Some of the posters here are confused enough, and the last thing they would need to hear is a report that's unfairly skewed either side, positive as well as negative.
Good luck with your real life.
