Why Aren't Black females appreciated?

[jamesbond]

White men don't want to date anyone darker than they are most of the time.

Even when they get rejected by their own white women over an over again, they still think they are above dating a brown or dark skinned black woman.

The white men who complain on here would never touch a dark skinned black women as these are the women who would actually treat them better than their own white women.

Non-white women in general would treat white men much better than their own white women.

If African American women aren't your thing, you still have attractive black women in latin america, jamaica, the carribean and africa.

This is so true, I am treated better by black, Hispanic and Asian women MUCH more so than white women.

My friends have noticed this too, they are also treated nicer by women of color than white women.

I have black women flirt with me sometimes and start conversations with me, while white women won't even make eye contact with me most of the time.

It's official, I am going to start pursuing black women and I might never date another white woman again (unless she is from eastern Europe or Russia).

[SilverEnergy]

Hey SilverEnergy, that's CharlyCheer! I'm subscribed to her videos and often post some of them on this forum. She's a like-minded traveler and is a Black American women open to new experiences. She teaches English in Mexico and South Korea. I think she's had several Asian boyfriends in her life...

Winston has tried to get her to post on the Ladies forum, but so far...no luck. She's great and I would love to date someone like her, while overseas.

That's great!

She's had interesting experiences with her travel repertoire.

She is definitely one of a kind.

Many people don't know this but there is a slightly growing trend of black women who are becoming more and more interested in Asian and white men.

[Introvert]

it's been mentioned before, Silver, especially since the media has started pointing out the similarities between black women's and asian men's dating experiences

i for one am all for them getting together as long as they dont mind me dating their daughters

[Repatriate]

All you dudes only want white women.

This isn't true at all, but I never meet any black women. I can't even think of the last time I crossed paths with one. I've met more black men than women. The social circles where there might be black women just hardly ever intersect with mine.

..and the last thing i'm going to do is go on the internet and do online dating in the U.S. f**k that.

[SilverEnergy]

White men don't want to date anyone darker than they are most of the time.

Even when they get rejected by their own white women over an over again, they still think they are above dating a brown or dark skinned black woman.

The white men who complain on here would never touch a dark skinned black women as these are the women who would actually treat them better than their own white women.

Non-white women in general would treat white men much better than their own white women.

If African American women aren't your thing, you still have attractive black women in latin america, jamaica, the carribean and africa.

This is so true, I am treated better by black, Hispanic and Asian women MUCH more so than white women.

My friends have noticed this too, they are also treated nicer by women of color than white women.

I have black women flirt with me sometimes and start conversations with me, while white women won't even make eye contact with me most of the time.

It's official, I am going to start pursuing black women and I might never date another white woman again (unless she is from eastern Europe or Russia).

Great but be careful because they are still AMERICAN black women and I would only date them, not marry them.

The best black women in the world are still overseas.

[kai1275]

Why is it that threads about black women seem to become the longest? Remember that other thread "Just say NO to Black women"? That was one of the longest threads ever. Why are black women such an interesting topic?

Because it is much easier to pick on the weakest group of women, demographic wise. It is human nature to do so, especially for people that are bullies with repressed, unresolved personal/mental/emotional issues.

Humans are not much different than animals. Lions will always pick out the weakest wildebeest on the African plains to chase down because they are slower, often smaller, usually older or younger, weaker, sicker, and easier to catch. Sure they could try chasing a bigger and healthier one down, that would feed more of the pride and result in less fighting while feeding, but that is too much work and they never bother to think that far in advance.

Also there is too much cognitive dissonance with others on HA that cannot for f***s sake discern the difference between "African-American" and "Black-American". They also cannot separate Black American Women from Foreign Black Women either. They constantly lump them together and it irritates others here that fully understand the difference. Also a select few HA members like to use the black women as a stage to demean and make derogatory inferences toward all black men, which causes irritation among other black male HA members.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Why is it that threads about black women seem to become the longest? Remember that other thread "Just say NO to Black women"? That was one of the longest threads ever. Why are black women such an interesting topic?

It is because black women usually escape scrutiny in mainstream media. Moreover, black men are villianized by black women and this forum is a means for the truth to be discussed.

Also, I truly believe black women to be the worst wife and mother material, EVER. The proof is in the poor state of black female raised children and black families.

This forum has its share of black supremacists who make excuse after excuse for vile black women, but the majority of black (and white) posters know very well black female pathology.

[SilverEnergy]

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[SilverEnergy]

Why is it that threads about black women seem to become the longest? Remember that other thread "Just say NO to Black women"? That was one of the longest threads ever. Why are black women such an interesting topic?

Because it is much easier to pick on the weakest group of women, demographic wise. It is human nature to do so, especially for people that are bullies with repressed, unresolved personal/mental/emotional issues.

Humans are not much different than animals. Lions will always pick out the weakest wildebeest on the African plains to chase down because they are slower, often smaller, usually older or younger, weaker, sicker, and easier to catch. Sure they could try chasing a bigger and healthier one down, that would feed more of the pride and result in less fighting while feeding, but that is too much work and they never bother to think that far in advance.

Also there is too much cognitive dissonance with others on HA that cannot for f***s sake discern the difference between "African-American" and "Black-American". They also cannot separate Black American Women from Foreign Black Women either. They constantly lump them together and it irritates others here that fully understand the difference. Also a select few HA members like to use the black women as a stage to demean and make derogatory inferences toward all black men, which causes irritation among other black male HA members.

Yeah, there is a HUGE difference between African American women and foreign black women, especially in terms of mindset and femininity.

I mean there is so much whining and complaining on this website because white women won't give these dudes the time of day.

Then they won't date other races of women and they are to blame for their lack of success with women.

Just look at some of the success stories on this website and you CAN find a quality woman even if it means dating outside of your race.

I do see however that some of the members on here are seeing the light.

I've had white male friends who were doing bad in the dating world with their own white women and they wouldn't be caught dead with a woman of another race be it black, latino or asian.

[SilverEnergy]

The question is if you are striking out with your desired women, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?

Are you willing to make more money, go abroad, lose weight, get more education, get a different career, date outside of your race, dress better get a better hairstyle or are you going to just take the easy way out and bang escort after escort like one of our beloved members?

Let's create SOLUTIONS instead of putting it on the shoulders of what race a woman is.

[skateboardstephen]

Why is it that threads about black women seem to become the longest? Remember that other thread "Just say NO to Black women"? That was one of the longest threads ever. Why are black women such an interesting topic?

It is because black women usually escape scrutiny in mainstream media. Moreover, black men are villianized by black women and this forum is a means for the truth to be discussed.

Also, I truly believe black women to be the worst wife and mother material, EVER. The proof is in the poor state of black female raised children and black families.

This forum has its share of black supremacists who make excuse after excuse for vile black women, but the majority of black (and white) posters know very well black female pathology.

When you say "black women", are you referring to just African American women or all black women around the world?

I hope you're not talking about me because I constantly state that black women are of much better quality overseas.

I won't be called a black supremacist just because I choose not to talk down to every black woman in the world.

As a black man, I am very well aware of the state of African American women.

But IF you want a quality black woman, you CAN find one and if you aren't willing to search and even travel, then it's no one's fault but your own.

But some of you try to make ALL black women look evil.

Besides if your white women hadn't infected black women with the feminist ideology, then black women in America wouldn't be in the state they are today.

cough*Gloria Steinem"cough

If you're not attracted to black women but complain when white women won't give you the time of day, whose fault is it, when you can do as skateboardstephen did and find a quality black chick?

Bravo(hands clapping) Exactly what i have been trying to say.On HA if you are not saying anything other than death to all black women you are labeled a black supremacist or "Afro-Centrist" if you don't disassociate you're self from everything black.I'm not you're Ray Ray or Pookie from da block type Black dude,so i also know the Black American community as a whole along with the women are a hot mess but it is not that way in other countries with Black women.I have dated plenty of white American women and they are no better they only just cover their shit up better than black women,and they many times still have racist family members and racist views while they are dating black men(usually for superficial reasons) and there are stupid Negroes trying to raise children with these women.

Where i am in Brazil..There are black women that are fine as hell and will treat a black man quite well,But it is ridiculous what some black men stoop to just to avoid having to deal with a women who looks like him..even in Brazil i see some ridiculous shit because the culture is white washed here to in a lot of ways..like i saw the Brother from São Paulo who was on vacation with his girl in Salvador,with this white Brazilian women who was so fat she could not fit in the beach chair and he was in shape and not a bad looking guy..yet there where black women every where that looked ten times better that his girl..the dude looked so out of place with this women and would have attracted less attention even if she was the same size but only black. Then i saw another Black Brazilian guy with these Pardo women who looked old enough to be is grand mom yet he is from a country with the most beautiful women in the world.I black American dude i met down here was bitching about light skinned Mestiça/Parda and White Brazilan women fronting on Black Dark skinned men and not really giving him any play in Salvador in Rio he bought Hoes and only really got lucky with one local girl that he wanted..I was like....f**k dude what about all the fine black women that look fine and more approachable with no man in sight.

Most of these dudes don't find black features attractive and feel as though only a white women can validate them as a man and make them feel like they have prestige,which is their prerogative but they try to use Black American women's behavior as a scapegoat when the topic of black women in other countries is mentioned rather than just saying they don't find them attractive.

[Raffie]

Myself I see very few attractive black women in America.

I got invited and went to an Ethiopian engagement party.
Never seen so many drop dead gorgeous black women in my life.

[YaManBT]

White men don't want to date anyone darker than they are most of the time.

Even when they get rejected by their own white women over an over again, they still think they are above dating a brown or dark skinned black woman.

The white men who complain on here would never touch a dark skinned black women as these are the women who would actually treat them better than their own white women.

Non-white women in general would treat white men much better than their own white women.

If African American women aren't your thing, you still have attractive black women in latin america, jamaica, the carribean and africa.

This is so true, I am treated better by black, Hispanic and Asian women MUCH more so than white women.

My friends have noticed this too, they are also treated nicer by women of color than white women.

I have black women flirt with me sometimes and start conversations with me, while white women won't even make eye contact with me most of the time.

It's official, I am going to start pursuing black women and I might never date another white woman again (unless she is from eastern Europe or Russia).

American Black women will behave well with a white man, because they have an inferiority complex.

A Black man, such as myself, catches hell from American Black Women, which is why I don't really mess with them. My current girl is biracial (white mother, black father). Even Tariq Nasheed said in "The Art of Mackin", the best African-American woman to get is a mixed one whose mother is white.

I have never been to Brazil or Ethiopia, but I'd imagine the sistas being much better in those places.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

White men don't want to date anyone darker than they are most of the time.

Even when they get rejected by their own white women over an over again, they still think they are above dating a brown or dark skinned black woman.

The white men who complain on here would never touch a dark skinned black women as these are the women who would actually treat them better than their own white women.

Non-white women in general would treat white men much better than their own white women.

If African American women aren't your thing, you still have attractive black women in latin america, jamaica, the carribean and africa.

This is so true, I am treated better by black, Hispanic and Asian women MUCH more so than white women.

My friends have noticed this too, they are also treated nicer by women of color than white women.

I have black women flirt with me sometimes and start conversations with me, while white women won't even make eye contact with me most of the time.

It's official, I am going to start pursuing black women and I might never date another white woman again (unless she is from eastern Europe or Russia).

American Black women will behave well with a white man, because they have an inferiority complex.

A Black man, such as myself, catches hell from American Black Women, which is why I don't really mess with them. My current girl is biracial (white mother, black father). Even Tariq Nasheed said in "The Art of Mackin", the best African-American woman to get is a mixed one whose mother is white.

I have never been to Brazil or Ethiopia, but I'd imagine the sistas being much better in those places.

The "sistas"....most of the women in Brazil and Ethiopia are not fu.cking "sistas", man. That "sista" sh.it is so Hotep, Nuts & Berries Green Clovers and Blue Diamonds-like. I'm tired of this Afrocentric bullsh.it. Yes, the beginning of civilization was in Africa, and modern day Iraq-Iran. Yes, a lot of Africans invented a lot of things, just not disease and projectile weapons like the Western Europeans had hence why Africa was "unearthed".

If Blacks had any African culture, Blacks won't be so scatterbrain when it comes to culture...it wouldn't be so elusive to most of them. Because Blacks lost so much culture from the African diaspora, it's the overaggressive, "I'm Blacker than Black I'm Black y'all, F*ck cra*kers" pontification.

Why cannot those women just be good women and not all-souled-out-rhodes-neo-soul-rhythmic-lounge dashaki-wearing Erykah Baduizm type of s.hit from guys like you?

All this "brotha" and "sista" talk has idle meaning. The moment a "brotha" and "sista' respectfully are in discordance with a person like you, now you want to come out of your shell and nuke everything within 10 ft around you!

You should want a woman whom is virtuous, upstanding, not a goddamn "sista" with this "Yeah I know my Kemet, Nubian" overcompensating s.hit that most Blacks don't know f.uck-all about.

Go to Africa, learn some tribal dialect. Come back and then speak with some sense. Being a "sista" is being "scwrong" and "inDUHpendent" and most of you Black guys like that bulls.hit instead of liking a woman that is docil, responsible for maintaining the cleaniness and food of the home, and knows how to cater to her man without growing lethargic!

[kai1275]

White men don't want to date anyone darker than they are most of the time.

Even when they get rejected by their own white women over an over again, they still think they are above dating a brown or dark skinned black woman.

The white men who complain on here would never touch a dark skinned black women as these are the women who would actually treat them better than their own white women.

Non-white women in general would treat white men much better than their own white women.

If African American women aren't your thing, you still have attractive black women in latin america, jamaica, the carribean and africa.

This is so true, I am treated better by black, Hispanic and Asian women MUCH more so than white women.

My friends have noticed this too, they are also treated nicer by women of color than white women.

I have black women flirt with me sometimes and start conversations with me, while white women won't even make eye contact with me most of the time.

It's official, I am going to start pursuing black women and I might never date another white woman again (unless she is from eastern Europe or Russia).

American Black women will behave well with a white man, because they have an inferiority complex.

A Black man, such as myself, catches hell from American Black Women, which is why I don't really mess with them. My current girl is biracial (white mother, black father). Even Tariq Nasheed said in "The Art of Mackin", the best African-American woman to get is a mixed one whose mother is white.

I have never been to Brazil or Ethiopia, but I'd imagine the sistas being much better in those places.

The "sistas"....most of the women in Brazil and Ethiopia are not fu.cking "sistas", man. That "sista" sh.it is so Hotep, Nuts & Berries Green Clovers and Blue Diamonds-like. I'm tired of this Afrocentric bullsh.it. Yes, the beginning of civilization was in Africa, and modern day Iraq-Iran. Yes, a lot of Africans invented a lot of things, just not disease and projectile weapons like the Western Europeans had hence why Africa was "unearthed".

If Blacks had any African culture, Blacks won't be so scatterbrain when it comes to culture...it wouldn't be so elusive to most of them. Because Blacks lost so much culture from the African diaspora, it's the overaggressive, "I'm Blacker than Black I'm Black y'all, F*ck cra*kers" pontification.

Why cannot those women just be good women and not all-souled-out-rhodes-neo-soul-rhythmic-lounge dashaki-wearing Erykah Baduizm type of s.hit from guys like you?

All this "brotha" and "sista" talk has idle meaning. The moment a "brotha" and "sista' respectfully are in discordance with a person like you, now you want to come out of your shell and nuke everything within 10 ft around you!

You should want a woman whom is virtuous, upstanding, not a goddamn "sista" with this "Yeah I know my Kemet, Nubian" overcompensating s.hit that most Blacks don't know f.uck-all about.

Go to Africa, learn some tribal dialect. Come back and then speak with some sense. Being a "sista" is being "scwrong" and "inDUHpendent" and most of you Black guys like that bulls.hit instead of liking a woman that is docil, responsible for maintaining the cleaniness and food of the home, and knows how to cater to her man without growing lethargic!

Thanks Irrizarry. I was trying to take a pill with some water while reading that and almost choked to death because I was laughing.
Thanks alot. Then I just wasted 30 mins trying to explain your post to my wife, only for her to not understand any of it, but I found some nice new neo-soul music on Youtube I never heard before.