Girlfriend Ignoring me (Or Trying to)

[Cornfed]

Does that apply to other Asian countries like Korea, Thailand & Singapore?

Yes, the ideal English teacher according to Asian DOSs is a tall, big boned, blond, blue-eyed, big breasted young North American female, and it goes down from there.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Maybe I am missing the point, but RedMenace, why didn't you plug one plug two her?

Not fu.ck her, but to make to love her.

You should have made love to her at least once in order to leave your dog-territorial print!

[RedMenace]

Maybe I am missing the point, but RedMenace, why didn't you plug one plug two her?

Not fu.ck her, but to make to love her.

You should have made love to her at least once in order to leave your dog-territorial print!

That was my plan on the 3rd date but after sharing a bottle of wine with her, I realised just how precious she was. She was totally pure. I decided it was best to take things slow and teach her well. Unfortunately I only had 2 days left in China which is simply not enough. Why destroy such a gem when you know you will be leaving her country? Men should have consideration for other men because if long distance relationship doesn't work between me and her, then at least the man she ends up marrying marry's a "pure" wife. Also it would not look good for black men if I did that as it only perpetuates the notion that black men impregnate many women and abandon them. I will actually marry this girl, that's how I feel about her. After realising how overrated sex was, I began to see women based on their values rather than a thirst induced mirage of love.

[zboy1]

Maybe I am missing the point, but RedMenace, why didn't you plug one plug two her?

Not fu.ck her, but to make to love her.

You should have made love to her at least once in order to leave your dog-territorial print!

That was my plan on the 3rd data but after sharing a bottle of wine with her, I realised just how precious she was. She was totally pure. I decided it was best to take things slow and teach her well. Unfortunately I only had 2 days left in China which is simply not enough. Why destroy such a gem when you know you will be leaving her country? Men should have consideration for other men because if long distance relationship doesn't work between me and her, then at least the man she ends up marrying marry's a "pure" wife. Also it would not look good for black men if I did that as it only perpetuates the notion that black men impregnate many women and abandon them. I will actually marry this girl, that's how I feel about her. After realising how overrated sex was, I began to see women based on their values rather than a thirst induced mirage of love.

See! We need more stand-up men like Red Menace in the world, and less PUA's and Sexpats like most foreigners these days...

As Red Menace mentioned in his post, f***ing and chucking foreign women in other countries ruin's the reputation of Westerner's in the mind's of most people abroad. We need to be considerate of the 'pureness' of the women in those countries, for the sake of men everywhere...

[***JP***]

Maybe I am missing the point, but RedMenace, why didn't you plug one plug two her?

Not fu.ck her, but to make to love her.

You should have made love to her at least once in order to leave your dog-territorial print!

That was my plan on the 3rd data but after sharing a bottle of wine with her, I realised just how precious she was. She was totally pure. I decided it was best to take things slow and teach her well. Unfortunately I only had 2 days left in China which is simply not enough. Why destroy such a gem when you know you will be leaving her country? Men should have consideration for other men because if long distance relationship doesn't work between me and her, then at least the man she ends up marrying marry's a "pure" wife. Also it would not look good for black men if I did that as it only perpetuates the notion that black men impregnate many women and abandon them. I will actually marry this girl, that's how I feel about her. After realising how overrated sex was, I began to see women based on their values rather than a thirst induced mirage of love.

See! We need more stand-up men like Red Menace in the world, and less PUA's and Sexpats like most foreigners these days...

As Red Menace mentioned in his post, f***ing and chucking foreign women in other countries ruin's the reputation of Westerner's in the mind's of most people abroad. We need to be considerate of the 'pureness' of the women in those countries, for the sake of men everywhere...

I agree we don't need anymore damaged goods like at home. We need to show them we are better than those PUA and sexpat douche bags.

[RedMenace]

Update: Yesterday she asked me what I would say if a guy asked her to be his girlfriend. I told her to tell him she already has a boyfriend(didn't read the question carefully) and stressed how much importance I place on loyalty. Then she said she refused one guy since I left China which was less than a week. wtf? Today we managed to agree on a time to have video chat on qq every week where we would basically keep each other updated. I can basically use this to keep her occupied until I can arrange another meeting. She is very reliable so far. She actually thinks about what I say after we are done talking. I love such a woman who actually makes the effort to sustain a relationship. Most women are just too f***ing entitled and expect the man to do everything. Anyways hopefully I can keep the long distance relationship alive until we meet again.

[polya]

You could have stayed & taught english or something ... btw Japan offers work holiday visas to brits, it's not far from China, you can meet regularly.

I don't think staying in a country such as China illegally to teach English as a black male (Have to work harder to even get a job) 19 years of age for a woman when I have university back home that will enable be to earn descent wage is a good idea. I will try to keep the relationship alive but its okay if it fails because I realised how easy it is to find a good woman in China if you have the aptitude to spot her (Which I find I do). At this point in my life university is the number 1 priority. Everything else comes after. By the age of 24/25 I would have completed my masters in Electrical Electronic Engineering. That's when the real fun begins.

I'm glad you've got your head screwed on & didn't throw your life away to have a few more months with some girl and then get dumped and ignored by her like she did already to you. There's no hurry and you can always go back and find another girl - it's not like you have only one chance for love.