Is there an easy way to find a good woman?

rudder · Post by **rudder** » February 22nd, 2014, 9:27 pm

I'll admit it. I need a loyal woman that loves me through the thick and thin in order to be happy in this lifetime.

Is there an easy way to find a good woman that is wife material?

I'm tired of picking up random women only to find out soonafter that they are crap. I'm not even motivated to approach women anymore. And by the way, I've come to this conclusion from the experiences I've had in a foreign country.

Contrarian Expatriate · February 22nd, 2014, 10:02 pm

You need to marry a non-ambitious, village girl. Any career girl will not be there for you in the way you want.

TheLegendSeeker · Post by **TheLegendSeeker** » February 23rd, 2014, 5:23 pm

SilverEnergy · Post by **SilverEnergy** » February 24th, 2014, 9:24 am

Is this a serious question?

There are plenty of quality women overseas.

Grunt · Post by **Grunt** » February 25th, 2014, 1:53 am

Easy? No. Possible? Yes.

Camp38 · Post by **Camp38** » February 25th, 2014, 3:19 pm

Contrarian Expatriate wrote:You need to marry a non-ambitious, village girl. Any career girl will not be there for you in the way you want.

+1 This means avoid at all cost most westernized Anglo-countries, especially those heavily slanted towards embracing a culture of progressive liberalism and feminist ideals.

Hero · Post by **Hero** » February 25th, 2014, 3:36 pm

Hey Rudder, take some consolation in the fact that you're strong enough to live without a woman, rather than cave in and marry one
who isn't up to your standards.

NorthAmericanguy · February 25th, 2014, 6:27 pm

Contrarian Expatriate wrote:You need to marry a non-ambitious, village girl. Any career girl will not be there for you in the way you want.

I agree with Contrarian Expatriate, although, relating to a village girl on a mental level might be a problem in the long run.

Aside from that, as a man, if you want a woman to be there with you though thick and thin, you always need to be in a position where the woman needs you, and you don't need her, and she knows it. Why? Because I really don't believe that women are designed to "be there" for us men just out of pure loyalty like a man would. It just don't work that way with women, and somehow, you need to come to terms with that as women are for the most part loyal in relation to how much they need you.

That said, you need to be able to find happiness regardless if a woman is in your life... Women don't like needy men anyway, so all he more reasons just to get on with your life enjoying yourself (i.e.,p4p, making money, traveling, racing cars).

rudder · Post by **rudder** » February 26th, 2014, 10:20 am

NorthAmericanguy wrote:
Contrarian Expatriate wrote:You need to marry a non-ambitious, village girl. Any career girl will not be there for you in the way you want.

I agree with Contrarian Expatriate, although, relating to a village girl on a mental level might be a problem in the long run.

Aside from that, as a man, if you want a woman to be there with you though thick and thin, you always need to be in a position where the woman needs you, and you don't need her, and she knows it. Why? Because I really don't believe that women are designed to "be there" for us men just out of pure loyalty like a man would. It just don't work that way with women, and somehow, you need to come to terms with that as women are for the most part loyal in relation to how much they need you.

That said, you need to be able to find happiness regardless if a woman is in your life... Women don't like needy men anyway, so all he more reasons just to get on with your life enjoying yourself (i.e.,p4p, making money, traveling, racing cars).

Good post. This is why poor, working, single moms will be more interested in you than a middle class university girl.

Basically, just be the provider.

polya · Post by **polya** » February 27th, 2014, 10:49 am

If you're still on your own you should wait for robot wives to be invented - see: http://www.herthemovie.com/

rudder · Post by **rudder** » February 28th, 2014, 2:37 pm

Check again. I started this thread this week.