What are the future dating prospects for my Eurasian sons?

[Jonny Law]

My Advice!

Hook them up with Asian Girls from the Philippines! Got connections in Asia hook the boys up and help introduce them to women you want for them.

Be a man and find girls you want for your boys. Also American Women are whores and worthless as wives. Ok to be fair they are less than worthless as wives.

Your boys will have no problem basically they will be treated as whites and have the added benefits of Affirmative Action as minorities they will have The Best America Has To Offer

[sea_dragon]

Best to raise those kids Asian.

American women are only good for f***ing, pumping and dumping, the best is probably nsa f***ing but that's about it. But even then you don't know what you get. NSA sounds good at first, but it gets less appealing as time goes on. Ever see why Asian men treat white girls and Asian girls differently? Because they know most white (and Asian) American women are whores while Asian girls tend to be marriage material.

[Zionosis]

On average WMAF Eurasian men tend to look more Asian than AMWF Eurasians. It seems that the perception is that it takes any white man, even a beta one to have an Asian woman, but it takes an alpha Asian man to have a white woman.

You are wrong. Bruce lee was a result of an Asian man with a white woman and Bruce looked very Asian.

At the end of the day it doesn't matter if it's AMWF or WMAF. Genetically it makes little difference. In fact generally fathers influence their sons far more than the mothers genes. That's why Asian men with white women that have sons, The sons look more Asian. If a white man has a kid with an Asian woman and it's a boy then that boy has the white man's Y chromosome and will look a lot more like the white man.
That's why bruce looked pretty Asian because of his Asian dad giving him his Y chromosome and that's also why this Elliot Rogers looks far less Asian that Bruce because Rogers had a white dad.

When it comes to daughters it seems to make little difference. You are basically getting one X chromosome Asian and the other one white. It's nearly always mixes pretty even.

Also sorry but Asian men aren't all lusting and desperately wanting white women. This is just a delusion that white people have. Saying Asian men lust over white women is about as stupid as saying white men lust over black women. Just isn't true.
Generally men don't like women from the more masculine race. That's why white men don't like black women and also why Asian men aren't really into white women either. Most men that date outside their race go for the more feminine race than their own. Like black men going after white women and like white men going after Asian women.

[OutWest]

I am a white man and Asian women are my favorite but I am not delusional thinking that Asian women all worship white men like a lot of white men believe.
Trust me that east Asian women prefer their own race to white men. But if Asian women do date other men then white men is their first option.

As far as your Eurasian children. Eurasian daughters would do reasonably well with normal white men. As far as Eurasian sons they will get by but won't do as good as pure white men with the white women and won't do as good as pure Asian men with the Asian women.

The USA portrays Asian men as ugly losers and they pick ugly a** Asian men to be part of Hollywood like that guy that was in Heroes or that other Asian guy who was in Harold and Kumar.

If you take a visit to Japan you will see many men that look attractive and start to understand why the native women there prefer their own men over white men. But white men still do better than any other non Asian man when it comes to dating Asian women.


I have spent well over 10 years in the Philippines, and there is some Japanese blood here. But keep in mind, the 4 years the Japanese were here in the Philippines, they were not exactly popular with the local population. Perhaps it was the rape camps and mass murder that cooled Filipina's ardor for the Japanese occupiers. And as far as white blood goes, do you really think that 4 years of hostile Japanese presence had more of an impact than 400 years of combined Spanish/American presence? lol

Watch a show called Ninja Warrior and you will soon find out true Asian men aren't how Hollywood portrays them.

Here are some examples of how good looking Asian men can be.

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http://star.koreandrama.org/wp-content/ ... g-Woo5.jpg
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Three out of five of your examples are a single man: Godfrey Gao. A 6'4" Taiwanese model and actor. Hardly representative for the average Asian man the same way Idris Elba is not your average African man and Brad Pitt isn't exactly the average American. Movie stars will always be tall and handsome regardless of where in the world you go, safe for a few Hollywood stars and their lifts.

The average man in the Philippines, and quite a few other Asian nations at that, tends to be a bit on the shorter and stockier side as compared to their Western and African counterparts. There are many exceptions to this general rule as I've encountered very tall men from the Philippines, Japan and Korea alike. In malls in Manila I frequently saw Korean men my height or even taller, and I am six feet myself. I've also seen a Filipino man who stood about 6'6" or 6'7" once when buying groceries with my wife in a metro-Manila store. He was by far the largest Asian I have ever encountered in real life. I can see why many Asian ladies would prefer a large, powerful man of their own ethnic background over one of White ancestry.

However in the Philippines almost every single famous actor or actress has some form of white ancestry, be it Spanish, American or something else. Filipino's worship light skin in much the same way many Koreans do. Many young girls frantically take umbrellas out wherever they go to protect their skin from tanning in the sun and whitening cream ads and special lightening shampoos are all over the TV and billboards. The Philippines definitely has more then a mild obsession with whiteness and light skin. For this reason alone I feel my sons would do well out there, though not every single woman will want the same.

Since they will be only half White and still also half Filipino, I feel they may be more attractive to local women then a pure white man would be in much the same way a naturally born lighter skinned Filipino man or woman would be regarded "more beautiful" by many people there. Exceptions, of course, exist everywhere. It's just something that I have noticed and that I found myself quite intrigued by.

WTF are you serious. 3? what 3. Only the first man is Godfrey Gao.
Second man is tri nguyen,
3rd man is kim_rae-won it even says his name in the link. lol.
4th man is Kwon-Sang-Woo which even says it in the link also.
5th man is some Korean guy from a series called Dong Yi.

Why do you have to BS and make crap up. Or maybe you just think all Asians look the same like most other white people since you obviously claimed that 3 of these are one man and they don't even look similar, lol

If you continue to claim that 3 of these men are Godfrey Gao then I am not even going to reply to you because it's just stupidity.

Also maybe you haven't been to Japan or Korea because they aren't midgets or dark skinned unless you go to Okinawa where they are a tad darker. In areas like Tokyo they are actually very pale and only slightly shorter than whites. I am 5'11'' and still saw many men taller than myself. Also Asians have liked their white skin ever before white man ever reached Japan. The old nobility used to be very pale and stay out of the sun and long ago they even used to put white makeup stuff on themselves long before the Geisha's and even before the Kabuki actors. Mind you this crap dates back to even the Sengoku era which was far before any white man ever knew about Japan.
And the Japanese and others like them still value pale skin. Yet the only difference is now white man claims they are just doing it because they want to look like the white man. lol


Also why are you mentioning the Philippines so much. I didn't post one man from there or even say anything about them. The Filipino people are darker and not of the same stock as the Asians I am talking about. Also the Filipino people probably have more Japanese bred into them than whites considering the Japanese occupied their country in WW2 and bred in a fair bit at that time. A lot of the paler Filipino's are probably from Japanese parents a few generations ago.
In fact I saw many on dating sites that are half Japanese half Filipino.

Look you can believe whatever you want though. I am sure the paler Asians are considered hotter in the Philippines, Just like Thailand. But a lot of the pale ones in the Philippines are probably a result of Japanese interbreeding with them in WW2 and that's why they still look Asian.

Believe it or not but Asian genes breed out pretty quickly. Just look at Bruce Lee's son who was 1/4 Chinese yet could pass as a normal white in a crowd.
http://i95.photobucket.com/albums/l142/ ... e/7454.jpg

He looks like practically a normal white to me. Long face, White eye shape and nose ridge.
White genes are more dominant than Asian genes. A lot of 1/4 Asians with 3/4 white look like normal whites.
Black people have the most dominant genes, Whites are moderately dominant and Asian genes as in east Asian genes are the most recessive. Just about the only thing that is a little dominant is the eye and hair color. The genes for facial shape and skull shape and body type are recessive.

[OutWest]

There is something that has been troubling me ever since the Elliot Rodger shootings and the huge media attention it resulted in... a lot of his issues seem to have been the result of his lack of sex, but his mixed race ancestry also appears to have played a role in the changes to his psyche. His mother was Chinese-Malaysian, his father white British. He was therefore Eurasian, and I have heard a few stories of Eurasians lacking romantic success in the Western world. I tend to take these with a grain of salt naturally as I am sure it cannot be the voice of a majority speaking, but it still raises some points of concern for me.

I am a white European man, six feet tall. My wife's Filipina, relatively dark skinned and at below five feet, quite short even by Filipina standards. We as of now have one child, a daughter who is a newborn. I have heard (and seen with my own eyes) that the daughters born to Asian women and White men tend to be quite attractive. This bodes well for her future potential on the dating and marriage market. Whether she goes to the West or remains in Asia, she will not have trouble attracting a mate I assume. My wife and I, though polar opposites, mix quite well and I am sure we will produce more good looking children.

What worries me a little is our future sons, provided we are blessed to have any (which I truly hope for). They will be half-White, half-Filipino. As a result they will likely be shorter then my height of six feet but hopefully a little taller then the average Filipino man. And if they were to inherit my build, I also assume they'd be more masculine then most Filipino men. If they however choose to study abroad in the West and somehow remain there, they will likely be below average height. I wonder what their prospects will be when it comes to dating the opposite sex.

The last thing I want of course is to have the next ER on our hands. I plan to instill in our sons the values of strength, resilience and masculinity the same way I plan to instill in our daughters the values of femininity, modesty and activity. I just hope that if my sons' eye ever falls on a white lady she will not cruelly reject him somehow. I do not wish see them harmed but I also don't want to go crazy and advice them certain women are somehow "off limits" as that's not the type of household I want to run and I want them to explore life to the fullest of their abilities.

I've heard local Filipina women may be more interested in a man of mixed ancestry. Half-white and half-African or Pakistani men, I have seen during my stays in the Philippines, have had considerably more success with the fairer sex then their local pure Pinoy counterparts. I have seen a man in his twenties who has an African American father from Chicago and a Filipina mother, who is on to his third girlfriend already who has a child with each of the previous ones. I've seen a half-Pakistani guy who graduated top of his class and has a very attractive girlfriend. A half-white guy dated a town's mayors daughter and was about to marry into the "upper class", despite not belonging to it himself. From experience I can therefore deduce that the sons of foreign men and Filipina women do quite well with the local female populace. I wonder if this is also the case for them if they go to the West. In the Philippines they have the advantage of being taller then the local men, often more masculine looking and more robust. They are therefore seen, with their different heights and facial features, as "exotic", with the added bonus of speaking the language fluently and knowing the culture better.

So, my focus here is as much on the future as it is on the here and now... and because of this I ask: what are the future dating prospects of Eurasian sons, those born to western men who went abroad and found love and stability in Asia?

I have two Eurasian children- a 14 year old girl and a 7 year old boy as well as one baby boy in the oven. (First two with my Filipina EX.) Its hard to predict how the height deal will turn out exactly.
My son's mother is 5' 1" and I am only 5' 10", yet my son is tall for his age.(54 inches at age 7)

Im not too worried about their prospects- I am not interested in American notions of dating at any rate, and my kids will be spending most of their time outside the USA . I am more concerned with making sure they have the means to be economically secure and industrious. If they are socially skilled and personally prosperous, a lot of things fall into place.

[pete98146]

Of all my buddies here in Seattle, the one that is no doubt the most handsome by a long shot is half Asian half white. The guy has his pick of ANY women he wishes. His wife is a pretty white gal.

Mixed white/Asian kids can be stunning.

[SilverEnergy]

I'm half White/half Chinese and 5'7". I don't know if it's too much of a problem regarding ladies. As for height, it depends on what state you live in. I'm right outside New York City and I never felt too short until I moved to the South for college. Even then I got tons of girls going for me though. I mean, Bruno Mars is popular, isn't he?

I think it's more important to have a stable, unified family. My parents divorce and I take it as a sign of failed race relations. I'm not against race mixing per se, but I don't think it should be encouraged. Too many people engage in it without thinking f the consequences. By even posting this it shows you're not one of them. That's good.

My biggest piece of advice is this: The family that prays together, stays together.

My family didn't and we were divided. Even without religion, you shouldn't let cultural differences divide you. In fact, you should try to completely eliminate any cultural differences. The Bible says you should be one flesh.

For your sons, this isn't politically correct, but they're the ones who carry the family name, so it's important who they marry. Since I'm mixed, if I marry a White woman, my son would only be a quarter Chinese. If I married a Chinese woman my son would be 75% Chinese. That's a huge difference in how people would see them, how they'd see themselves and how they'd look at the world, what values they'd have and what History they'd feel connected to. It's not a good burden to have to make that sort of choice, so it's much better if you keep your family united. You don't want your son to end up like me because I plan on changing my last name.

Why is race mixing a bad thing?

Come on homie, many people of the same race get divorced.

Of course, cultural differences can create a bad relationship, that's why, it's encouraged that one learns as much about the culture of their SO as much as possible.

Some people regardless of race are just not going to get along.

Some people are incompatible with people of their own race.

Since you are half asian half white and you don't believe in race mixing, what race are you going to end up marrying?

How many of you on HA believe in just dating your own race?

Many of you don't have too much of a choice, given how your own white American women treat you.

[Repatriate]

Here's my experience from interacting with lots of mixed race people. I had a LOT of friends who were half white/half asian and a couple girlfriends who were this category too. I was in the west coast somewhere.

Mixed race kids tend to come from divorced parents. Interracial marriages don't last long so it leaves a lot of single mom or dad mixed kids living in varied conditions. I'm not racist this is just what I personally observed and interacted with. A lot of the kids had severe idetntiy issues and were angry at one race or another. Once again these are just my experiences..yours may be different down in buttfuck, USA but I somehow doubt it.

The mixed daughters were often above average in attractiveness but also had a history of promiscuity. After my former mixed girlfriend "moved on" she had a long string of boyfriends and basically became a whore before hitting the wall. She struggled hard with identity. I don't see why people assume females have it better..unless you want them to be promiscuous and lacking identity. A lot of mixed girls have these issues.

The mixed brother (one of my friends) became a gangbanger and then became a drug addict. He hung out with asians and mexicans because whites never accepted him.


So, that's how I view it. Good luck gents. Because you guys honestly don't have a clue.

[S_Parc]

Mixed race kids tend to come from divorced parents. Interracial marriages don't last long so it leaves a lot of single mom or dad mixed kids living in varied conditions. I'm not racist this is just what I personally observed and interacted with. A lot of the kids had severe idetntiy issues and were angry at one race or another. Once again these are just my experiences..yours may be different down in buttfuck, USA but I somehow doubt it.

The mixed daughters were often above average in attractiveness but also had a history of promiscuity. After my former mixed girlfriend "moved on" she had a long string of boyfriends and basically became a whore before hitting the wall. She struggled hard with identity. I don't see why people assume females have it better..unless you want them to be promiscuous and lacking identity. A lot of mixed girls have these issues.

The mixed brother (one of my friends) became a gangbanger and then became a drug addict. He hung out with asians and mexicans because whites never accepted him.

Well, first of all, typical white-to-white American marriages in the US have a 50%+ divorce rate, so the lackey kid was something even caucasians had to go through, starting from the 70s up through today. If my mother wasn't a depressed zombie, chances are, my parents would have been divorced but she gave up on life, and became a vegetable during my early teens. Thus, I'm among the handful of persons whose parents are still together. Yet, I'd hardly describe 'em as happy

As for identity, the biggest problem is that the White/Asian couples also tend to look down upon the Latin communities, where pretty much, many of the children actually have a lot of Eurasian features. Thus, if they'd actually taught the kids Spanish, from an early age, and didn't play the whole *we're better than those ppl* game, their kids may have had an alternate community to join. I'd say that Brandon Lee, very much looks like a Latin soap opera star, if he took his business to Mexico City, instead of Tinseltown. Others could have followed suit, if they didn't try so hard to be Anglo-American in culture.

[Cornfed]

It is really impossible to say what will be the case that far ahead in the future, because the current world situation is unstable. I would be more worried about whether future children will be alive at all rather than whether they will be popular with Western sluts. In the best case scenario the sluts will probably be so repulsive, psychotic and diseased by then that you would want to avoid them at all costs anyway.

[Repatriate]

As for identity, the biggest problem is that the White/Asian couples also tend to look down upon the Latin communities, where pretty much, many of the children actually have a lot of Eurasian features. Thus, if they'd actually taught the kids Spanish, from an early age, and didn't play the whole *we're better than those ppl* game, their kids may have had an alternate community to join. I'd say that Brandon Lee, very much looks like a atin soap opera star, if he took his business to Mexico City, instead of Tinseltown. Others could have followed suit, if they didn't try so hard to be Anglo-American in culture.

Acceptance is much deeper than basic appearances. If they didn't grow up in a spanish speaking household they will be sussed out fast by the other kids quickly and bashed. Plus what kind of shit future do they have if they grow up only to join some 5th rate latino barrio culture?

Btw, I don't know why people keep thinking their kids will look like Brandon Lee. He was the son of one of the most legendary asian men in the modern era and a movie star to boot. You have a statistically MUCH greater chance of popping out an Elliott Rodger crazy homicidal man or mixed female whore/porn star than a movie star like Brandon Lee. Plus are you _the fat old whining man_ going to teach your kids martial arts or put your kid on the fast track to movie stardom? Please. Some of you guys are sucking hard on the long hallucinogenic peace pipe with two balls dangling beneath it.

Your kids will be below average and maybe mediocre at best. You'll be lucky if they don't get their asses kicked every day at school by the other kids.

[OutWest]

I have two Eurasian children- a 14 year old girl and a 7 year old boy as well as one baby boy in the oven. (First two with my Filipina EX.) Its hard to predict how the height deal will turn out exactly.
My son's mother is 5' 1" and I am only 5' 10", yet my son is tall for his age.(54 inches at age 7)

In that case I am not too worried. The difference in height between my wife and I is a little bigger though, as I am six feet and she is below five feet (about 4'11"). The average would be sort of similar and I heard a good way to determine a son's adult height is by adding ten centimeters to the average of the man's and the woman's height.

It will be a fun development to watch but I am not very worried either way. As of yet I have one infant daughter and plan on having more. Preferably several of each; sons and daughters.

Im not too worried about their prospects- I am not interested in American notions of dating at any rate, and my kids will be spending most of their time outside the USA . I am more concerned with making sure they have the means to be economically secure and industrious. If they are socially skilled and personally prosperous, a lot of things fall into place.

True, true. Viewing it like that makes an awful lot of sense. Social skills and a good job prospect sure helps. I will focus especially on the first as being socially savvy will be a major advantage to them either way. Congratulations on the new arrival BTW. And if I may be so bold to ask... you have an ex, you say? As in, ex-wife? Because I could have sworn there's no divorce laws in the Philippines and its forbidden to divorce. I could be mistaken though. I hear of many people who separate and find new partners whilst still officially married. I am curious how you handled it.

Yes, it was most unfortunate. The marriage and eventual divorce (her idea) took place in the USA.
While there is no divorce in the Philippines, a divorce such as this is still recognized under the Philippines Family Code. As such things go...it was a good divorce...

[S_Parc]

Acceptance is much deeper than basic appearances. If they didn't grow up in a spanish speaking household they will be sussed out fast by the other kids quickly and bashed. Plus what kind of shit future do they have if they grow up only to join some 5th rate latino barrio culture?

Btw, I don't know why people keep thinking their kids will look like Brandon Lee. He was the son of one of the most legendary asian men in the modern era and a movie star to boot. You have a statistically MUCH greater chance of popping out an Elliott Rodger crazy homicidal man or mixed female whore/p**n star than a movie star like Brandon Lee. Plus are you _the fat old whining man_ going to teach your kids martial arts or put your kid on the fast track to movie stardom? Please. Some of you guys are sucking hard on the long hallucinogenic peace pipe with two balls dangling beneath it.

Your kids will be below average and maybe mediocre at best. You'll be lucky if they don't get their asses kicked every day at school by the other kids.

In terms of averages, yes, you're correct.

On the other hand, Spanish speakers are the largest growing demographic in the country. The barrio isn't the final destination down the road, unless the whole nation becomes one big urban slum.

As for parents, I concur, most parents are lazy and don't know how to raise kids.

The Asian/White families I know of, like many white American families, treat the daughters better than the sons and thus, you have a breeding ground for the next Elliot Rodger. At least if the all-white guy gets disposed of, he can join the Oxycontin crowd and have a community of other hobos, now that heroin & other opiates are a white culture thing. The half-Asian guy won't even have a circle of fellow junkies.

With the above said, leave America, if you want to raise a family. I would have done it earlier in Brazil, had my Brazilian ex-GF and I stayed together. But in her mind, my dysfunctional family of birth would have made her future offspring feel unwanted in MA and thus, she opted out. She wanted her future children to be embraced by both sides of her extended families. Plus, she's amendable to homeschooling, had we stayed in Boston, if there was too much bullying in the US K-12 system.

[S_Parc]

Your kids will be below average and maybe mediocre at best. You'll be lucky if they don't get their asses kicked every day at school by the other kids.

Maybe if they went and lived in the West things would be differently. But as I see it they have some mighty good opportunities in the Phillipines. Please don't assume my children will be below average or mediocre. That's like the worlds biggest bullshit my friend.

They also won't have a workaholic Hollywood director father and an absent, actress mother like Elliot Rodger. They will not be too coddled, and they will not be raised too strict with a focus purely on education alone rather then social skills like some Asian children. In the end I am sure they will be perfectly fine, and in no way "mediocre".

I think the gist of his response was that within the US, Asian/White couplings have a greater propensity for failure and for their kids to be misfits because on the whole, parents in the US do not know how to raise kids, and thus, the sectarianism of the mainstream, where ppl stay in cliques, creates a lot of trouble for the offsprings.

[SilverEnergy]

Too many hangups when it comes to dating on this website.

I don't think many of you have too many choices, seeing as how your own western women treat you.

The whole argument on this forum as far as racial mixing is the same philosophy spoken by 1950 racists.

No wonder many of you cant' find quality women because you're too hung up on race.

Then you accuse women are being too picky when you don't believe in dating or marrying someone of another race.

That explains high percentage of HA members that hate Obama and are politically conservative.