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droid wrote:Hey newlife, hammanta, taco,
Just so we can gauge all this, please, how do you rate a girl like this. I just want to get an idea of what you're talking about.
Is it realistic to expect seeing these types over there, or am I out to lunch? Or are they the often referenced "unattainable middle class"?
I personally can't give a girl more than a 6 in overall looks unless the girl has halfway decent breasts, not necessarily huge, but at least perky and noticeable. Thus those girls although pretty wouldn't cut it for me as long term dating options.
In regards to finding girls that look like that, yes it's quite easy. The problem is how the average girl dresses cause most don't wear revealing or sexy clothes so its hard to tell if their body is really halfway decent or not. If you see a really sexy dressed girl in the mall usually she is either some kind of working girl that deals with male clients regularly or used to in the past or she is an attention whore. Going to the various beaches is actually a good place to meet girls and chat them up while also sizing up their body and looks. If you are halfway decent looking and in shape guys and girls will come up to you and even invite you to their beach parties or whatever. The key though is to go to the Filipino beaches where the locals go and not the super touristy ones. Back in the early 2000's when Subic was small and still a shithole I used to hook up all the time with girls just swimming at the beach. It's different now cause its all built up with bars and new hotels but it wasn't like that before. Basically the more touristy the beach the less action you get. The more authentic the beach is as mainly for locals, the more likely you can hook up.
You can also see sexy girls who are professionals in the business districts of Manila and to a lesser extent Cebu. Since I commute around Manila regularly and hang around Ayala Ave a lot I see a lot of hot dressy women around there. Another place to look for good looking women are the banks in the business districts, especially the foreign ones. They tend to discriminate in the looks department and usually i see a higher proportion of good looking women tellers. Sometimes hanging around the entrances of the big call centers too is a good way to find good looking chicks, like Convergys. They tend to have their mail call centers in malls now. The coffee and food stores around there are gold mines to be had if you don't mind initiating conversations.
BTW, those girls you posted are not middle class, they are dolled up glam pics of poorer Filipinas. The dating site probably took those pics of them and made them hotter looking than what they normally look like in everyday life. Each class here has a distinctive look and body language so its easy to tell which social strata they come from. Once you've been living here for a while it comes naturally. That's why foreign guys who date bar girls or slutty girls and walk around like an idiot holding hands in the mall or whatever get stared at and talked about behind their back cause every local a mile away knows what kind of girl she is. I laugh at newbies that do this, it's ignorance yes but in a way pathetic as well. However almost all guys on their first trip to Philippines or Thailand do this if they hang out in the bars, its just a matter of whether they break out of their Western stupor or not before its too late and they ruin themselves with bad choices dating the bad girls with deep emotional and psyche baggage.
You really got to visit regularly or live in PI long term to find the decent girls to date. There are too many to go through just on short vacations or internet chatting. You would have to either be really lucky or easily compatible with people to find your match in just a week or two of dating and meeting chicks.
I'd have to agree with this. The girls are cute 6-7.5 but with the makeup, the right pose, perfect lighting, and probably being 4'11" its difficult to say.
1st girl) 6.5
2nd girl) 7.5
3rd girl) 6
And yes girls like these are very realistic. These are all typical average body of filipinas. This is the type of body that living in a hot climate and eating less calories generally produces. Small breast, shapely, not large butt, tan skin, rounded eyes. But like Mr.S said, their bodies wouldn't look anything special if you saw them in street clothes. And the one's that dress overly sexy in public are bar hoes. Even at the beach though you will notice that a lot of conservative filipinas will not wear two piece bathing suits or they wear a cover up until they get comfortable with who is around. But can we at least agree that though these girls are nothing special to the Philippines, they are still quite a good catch for the average western man, in terms of looks. Take these girls and put them in sexy clothing, dolled up makeup, and next to a night club and you have your typical bar hoe.
if that 2nd girl is a 7.5 to you then my barhoe was a 7.5 or higher (NOT) and my current girl next to me right now is like a 8+. Definitely think you inflated that one girls rating lol she doesn't have a special smile or body that makes her stand out to deserve that high.
3rd girl is hotter than a 6 for sure id say maybe 6.5. she has smooth skin and nice smile and eyes. dont care for her nose but her skin is also not too dark. she also doesn't have deep tribal features exept for her nose. she is wearing a lot of makeup though so who knows what she looks like without it.
newlifeinphilippines wrote:to compae to hammantas evaluation
if that 2nd girl is a 7.5 to you then my barhoe was a 7.5 or higher (NOT) and my current girl next to me right now is like a 8+. Definitely think you inflated that one girls rating lol she doesn't have a special smile or body that makes her stand out to deserve that high.
3rd girl is hotter than a 6 for sure id say maybe 6.5. she has smooth skin and nice smile and eyes. dont care for her nose but her skin is also not too dark. she also doesn't have deep tribal features exept for her nose. she is wearing a lot of makeup though so who knows what she looks like without it.
I liked her smile and the curvature of the body with dresses she wore. She also seemed the least short. I prefer 5'3"+ in heights. We simply have different tastes Newlife. Now keep in mind my ratings are based off of the photo and not what they really probably look like.
I think it's simply our different rating levels. Mine is based off of realism and location.
For me a 5-6 is simply average, not ugly, but nothing special either. It has to be and that's the point of medium numbers. A typical petite filipina with a cute face.
7-8 is attractive, with a nice body but isn't absolutely stunning. They are still relatively easy to find. She is usually a little taller with nice breasts and a good butt.
9-10 are the hot model type girls. I've only seen a few, and dated one IMO.
It is also determinant of where exactly you are located. As mentioned my home town is a rural area in the east coast of roughly 5000 people. All of those girls located here would be a 8-9 in terms of looks in relevance to the local population. You take those same girls and put them in the town where I went to college and they are simply average at best (my college was known for very sexy women).
C.J. wrote:Most people either have lots of money or look good. Filipinas are basically the average westerner sow, but uglier and poorer.
I only got a ton of views/likes around different Asian dating sites when I looked better - went from 230 to 185 lb. But the results were mostly the same though.
I don't know why people would argue that they're getting genuine partners from poor 3rd world countries.
As far as the female's concerned, she's getting fed, rested and protected. She's gonna treat you good to keep you feeding her. It doesn't matter what she thinks - she might've killed you and ate you if you didn't meet her needs. But she didn't - why? Because you're providing for her, or giving the hope that you will. You can tell who's got the goods and who doesn't, just by what they wear/how they walk.
One thing I do know about filipinas, is that they're generally pretty stupid. But they're not stupid enough that they'd screw up their meal ticket! You'll do ANYTHING to get your next meal.
ANYTHING. Including faking it as much as possible, telling someone whatever they wanted to hear, laying how they want you to lay.
I know exactly how they think now, because I've had to live with nothing but the shirt on my back for a month, and had to be incredibly deceiving/dishonest/exploiting. If it meant I got to eat, f**k the other person straight to the abyss! I get to eat.
Westerners confuse desire for desperation.
Ha, ha this is quite true in relation to the lower social class of Filipinas. I can attest to this though personal experiences with hundred or perhaps thousands of lower end women here. However, I wouldn't lump middle and above who are educated though, they tend to have a brain and can be quite devious and bossy if their personality inclines them to be so. Smart enough to screw you over if they want but not smart enough to outsmart a Western educated critical thinking man, they can take advantage of men though who don't use logic thoroughly or understand the use of sociopathic manipulation.
"The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane." Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher, 121-180 A.D.
The problem in the Philippines is that the women who are usually attractive to foreigners or considered above average in looks often are not educated properly, come from a large family and low socioeconomic background. Thus, they may be nice but don't have much going on up stairs. Whereas, the majority of smart women are either taken when they are in their teens or early twenties or below average to ugly in looks.
Most Western guys don't want to go for the brainy fugly look cause you can find that easily enough in Western countries. On the other hand, you can find a hot woman of your dreams here but if she is educationally ignorant, she can only be improved so much in the intelligence department after 20 yrs of age. What are you going to do with her once she hits her 30's when her looks start to fade and there is no in depth conversational chemistry? I see so many older dudes running around with young women here who are attractive but I wonder if they are just thinking with their little head and not really caring about finding a true female companion other than to brag to other dudes how young and hot his current GF or wife is.
Like last week I saw some old dude maybe in late 50's or early 60's with a STUNNING Filipina, obviously originally provincial or possible a former BG, who knows? Anyways, serious eye candy. But I highly suspect that both are just using each other and there is no real love bond even though they may speak the words they love each other and all that, outer consciousness words and deep subconscious connections are very different and allude to the real truth of the matter.
If you live in this country and scour the cities and are willing to wait and not rush things you will run into stunner's on occasion. The question is do you want to deal with their family and personal baggage to get a hold of the elusive 8-10 scale girl?
If I wasn't taking care of my young daughter and was still completely single with no commitments I'd know exactly how to find any kind of woman I want if I was interested in a serious relationship with a Filipina; it's not hard if you have experience living here. It's more about being patient and not diving into the first few girls that you think are halfway decent, if you wait it out and let the opportunities present them self, you'll eventually run into the woman of your dreams who meets your minimum qualifications. However you gotta go out and hit the town and make yourself seen in this country. Being a keyboard warrior doesn't really cut it in this culture, this is a physical presence culture, not virtual one.
"The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane." Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher, 121-180 A.D.
Mr S wrote:Ha, ha this is quite true in relation to the lower social class of Filipinas. I can attest to this though personal experiences with hundred or perhaps thousands of lower end women here. However, I wouldn't lump middle and above who are educated though, they tend to have a brain and can be quite devious and bossy if their personality inclines them to be so.
Smart enough to screw you over if they want but not smart enough to outsmart a Western educated critical thinking man, they can take advantage of men though who don't use logic thoroughly or understand the use of sociopathic manipulation.
Asians are... well, humans you don't wanna mess with unless both you and them benefit. But they have to pull their own weight - they're smarter and think further ahead than you realize. Which is why I don't trust them as far as I can throw them.
And trust me, I've talked to some HOT ass Asian women. Unfortunately, ALL of them are cut from the same cloth. I'd rather not trust them, than walk into a trap that I KNOW doesn't look right. That mindset alone has cut me off from craptons of sex with actual women, I bet.
But I don't care WHAT they put at the other end! And they DO try to hook you if they think you'll suit their needs. I've seen more real T and A than I care to admit.
If I wasn't taking care of my young daughter and was still completely single with no commitments I'd know exactly how to find any kind of woman I want if I was interested in a serious relationship with a Filipina; it's not hard if you have experience living here. It's more about being patient and not diving into the first few girls that you think are halfway decent, if you wait it out and let the opportunities present them self, you'll eventually run into the woman of your dreams who meets your minimum qualifications. However you gotta go out and hit the town and make yourself seen in this country. Being a keyboard warrior doesn't really cut it in this culture, this is a physical presence culture, not virtual one.
Exactly! The problem as we all know is that these girls don't do the online thing for long. Every filipina I've spoken to (some upper level girls) have done the online thing at least once, but majority tend to give up after a few weeks or a month. It is unrealistic to them but once in awhile you can be lucky and find one. If guys were in the country and would take advantage of the social benefits, instead of just online game, they would eventually find these elusive women. The problem is a lot of guys simply hate the country, don't wanna try past typing, are social misfits, or are content with what they get now.
Here is a picture of the milf girl im talking about. I give her a 7.5 rating in the face 7 overall cause of her body. maybe ill ge better pics later. She is the hottest or most classiest filipina girl ive seen with a foreigner. even when she has sex with me she is very reserved but slightly moans on top in a classy way like a japanese girl in abyss LOL
I can't be with her for long though cause she has a busy life and can't really care for me or spend time with me and condom sex is not fun at all (have trouble cumming etc and im not ready to risk putting on pills since she dont live with me) and i feel bad about my current girlfriend and all too and she took care of me. Im in a dilemma LOL
Id like to see a guy here with a hotter filipina he layed that has picture proof. I haven't seen anyone yet on this forumt with pictures anyways just talk. Everyone was criticising me before but i guess i put my ass in gear and got some results now LOL
newlifeinphilippines wrote:It seems like all the hot women online are milfs or scammers.
Why do you spend so much time on this website talking about what's wrong with women, particularly Asian women???
You wouldn't be happy anywhere by the way you talk about what's wrong with females.
see next post. Im one of the few guys on this forum who has gotten sex with picture proof of a lighter skin hot classy looking girl that isn't a hoe. Even my bargirl girlfriend before was hotter than 90 percent of bargirls and everyone knows that only ugly bargirls can be girlfriend material usually. Guess maybe i do have some game afterall.
droid wrote:Hey newlife, hammanta, taco,
Just so we can gauge all this, please, how do you rate a girl like this. I just want to get an idea of what you're talking about.
Is it realistic to expect seeing these types over there, or am I out to lunch? Or are they the often referenced "unattainable middle class"?
These women might be sexy but their not stable. Most women that look like this have a new boyfriend every few weeks or months. Some of them are banging several guys at the same time which might explain their lack of enthusiasm in the sack. They'll just take your money and run.
Another good place to meet Filipinas are college campuses which are in every major city. Just stand in front of any college and ask for directions from a coed that catches your attention. If you can't find a college just follow the trail of young women walking down the street dressed the same and they should lead you right to it. Also, make sure the girls your following are not high school students who also wear uniforms. These uniforms are not sexy but the women wearing them are in their prime. They should be dressed something like the official student uniform.
newlifeinphilippines wrote:Here is a picture of the milf girl im talking about. I give her a 7.5 rating in the face 7 overall cause of her body. maybe ill ge better pics later. She is the hottest or most classiest filipina girl ive seen with a foreigner. even when she has sex with me she is very reserved but slightly moans on top in a classy way like a japanese girl in abyss LOL
I can't be with her for long though cause she has a busy life and can't really care for me or spend time with me and condom sex is not fun at all (have trouble cumming etc and im not ready to risk putting on pills since she dont live with me) and i feel bad about my current girlfriend and all too and she took care of me. Im in a dilemma LOL
Id like to see a guy here with a hotter filipina he layed that has picture proof. I haven't seen anyone yet on this forumt with pictures anyways just talk. Everyone was criticising me before but i guess i put my a** in gear and got some results now LOL
This just goes to show how subjective ratings given by one individual are. I reckon many of my 7s-8s would be rated as 4s-5s by you and vice-versa. To a great extent, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
For me, the girl you posted doesn't do much at all. I much prefer the ones I had in my avatars before (last 2 were girls I dated) who by the way appeared to have much lighter skin than your specimen. Very light skin means a color similar to what most Koreans have. Also, and for me this is a sure deal breaker, that girl looks very short unless you're some kind of giant.
It's laughable that you can rate a girl so specifically such as a 7.2 when perceptions between individuals vary so much. The fraction after the whole number is meaningless and even the whole number is of limited use.
Holly smokes thanks for all the feedback guys. It's a lot of good stuff, I can't quote it all.
This thread turned from a bleak picture to a very doable projection.
I'm actually very relieved you guys are way pickier than I am. These girls I posted are pretty hot in my eyes, I was afraid you were all referring to some trolls with bad hair and no waist.
Thing is, I work under a "non-linear curve", where an "8" can make my second-brain "99%" happy LOL. I guess it's part of the desperation of still being in the west.
The lady in your picture is nice newlife. As I've commented before, most of them over there seem to have a nice waistline and legs.
If everything goes well, once I'm established in Guangzhou, I'm planning to take an escapade to the PH for three months, which I think would be enough to get a well-paced, reasonable ASSessment of the place. Heck, If I could replicate only 15% of WnD's action it would be unbelievable, I would stay for much longer.
I'm not really that interested in them being "smart" at this stage, if you know what I mean LOL. Together with looks I mainly focus on manners and humor really.
Thankfully I'm still rather young-looking and in decent shape, with kind of cool hair. Do you really think hanging out in the university with your laptop, like some kind of intern or professor would work out? or would it be "creepy" for them?. Just pondering some ideas, as I don't like visiting malls that much anymore, I find them bland and repetitive.
Mr.S, when you mention joining some of the private social clubs, what are you referring to? Like an engineering association or something like that? sorry if I'm asking a stupid question.
Thanks for all the info again!
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
droid wrote:Holly smokes thanks for all the feedback guys. It's a lot of good stuff, I can't quote it all.
This thread turned from a bleak picture to a very doable projection.
I'm actually very relieved you guys are way pickier than I am. These girls I posted are pretty hot in my eyes, I was afraid you were all referring to some trolls with bad hair and no waist.
Thing is, I work under a "non-linear curve", where an "8" can make my second-brain "99%" happy LOL. I guess it's part of the desperation of still being in the west.
The lady in your picture is nice newlife. As I've commented before, most of them over there seem to have a nice waistline and legs.
If everything goes well, once I'm established in Guangzhou, I'm planning to take an escapade to the PH for three months, which I think would be enough to get a well-paced, reasonable ASSessment of the place. Heck, If I could replicate only 15% of WnD's action it would be unbelievable, I would stay for much longer.
I'm not really that interested in them being "smart" at this stage, if you know what I mean LOL. Together with looks I mainly focus on manners and humor really.
Thankfully I'm still rather young-looking and in decent shape, with kind of cool hair. Do you really think hanging out in the university with your laptop, like some kind of intern or professor would work out? or would it be "creepy" for them?. Just pondering some ideas, as I don't like visiting malls that much anymore, I find them bland and repetitive.
Mr.S, when you mention joining some of the private social clubs, what are you referring to? Like an engineering association or something like that? sorry if I'm asking a stupid question.
Just do key word searches on the internet for clubs, resorts or associations based in Philippines.
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"The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane." Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher, 121-180 A.D.
