MrMan wrote:I don't see how you got that out of what I wrote. If you are looking for a woman who jumps on you to have sex because she can't contain herself every time you go into the room where she is, you may be looking for a long time, especially if you aren't looking for an absolute slut who would sleep with anyone, you may be waiting for a long time.I couldn't stand to be with a wife who i had to beg for sex with or was only doing it for my pleasure as a duty. Id rather be single.
Duty sex with a bitter attitude or rolling eyes and sighing would be a drag. Sex with a wife who is sleeping with her husband because she loves him and wants to please him can be a lot of fun. Some wives aren't ready to pounce on their husband at a moments notice, but will warm up quite well after a while and really be into it and really enjoy themselves. They have the potential, but they just need to be warmed up to get there.
I'm not talking about begging for sex. A man shouldn't beg for sex. Even if he's married to a sexually stingy wife, that's not a good way to get it.
i simply ask for sex? if i get denied or a bad attitude response than it becomes unfun and then i have to almost demand it. then a fight ensues or they give in and just takes the whole fun out of it. This can become a very common experience if the girl doesn't enjoy sex that much and it just leads me to just want to forget them altogether and cheat or get rid of them. Thats why im scared of marriage i dont want to fall into this common trap and then be tied down to them financially and legally. From my experience either a girl loves sex or she doesn't. you seem to imply a middle ground but i havent seen it really if a girl doesn't initiate or become into it from the onset rather quickly than she is one of those passive girls that can take it or leave it. not the girl i want.
I guess its hard to describe without actually being there but a woman who really doesn't want it or is just going through the motions all the time gets old. Even if you have to warm her up if you still get the sense she doesn't really actively pursue it or could take it or leave it gets old for me real fast. my gf i could give her pleasure but ultimately she just wasn't into it and im deathly afraid of winding up married to such a girl so im probably gonna stay single forever and pursue other things.