MrBlueLight's love diary in Manila

[newlifeinphilippines]

To reiterate chanta id like to see the pictures of these women myself.

Im pretty strict on my standards BUT they are not ridiculous i give a pretty reasonable expectation.


I found 7 or higher very rare on dating sites. The only ones who were willing to talk to me were naive college students who probably would never get around to meeting me and often dissapeared online after awhile or Single mothers or scammers or freelance prostitutes. The only exception was a nurse and she was a gold digger who had already been around the block twice with a vacationing foreigner. The rest were hard to pin down online. I found most women online in the 4 to 6.5 range. 6.5 to me is a ugly face but with a perfect body or average face with some cleavage and charismatic smile and personality or a quite attractive face (but not technically hot yet) but very skinny and no boobs at all. The scammer milf girl i posted in the scam section is what i would rate a "7". I doubt you found a girl off the dating site that was that hot for free that didn't have kids (unless she kept it a secret). I mean you can of course but you seem to have found at least a couple rather fast which is surprising. But maybe cause you were in teh country and are so young and good looking they made an exception. For the average foreigner getting even one to show up that attractive even as a milf or scammer is tough. even the scammers and milfs can flake out.

[droid]

even the scammers and milfs can flake out.

Lol

[MrBlueLight]

To reiterate chanta id like to see the pictures of these women myself.

Im pretty strict on my standards BUT they are not ridiculous i give a pretty reasonable expectation.


I found 7 or higher very rare on dating sites. The only ones who were willing to talk to me were naive college students who probably would never get around to meeting me and often dissapeared online after awhile or Single mothers or scammers or freelance hoes. The only exception was a nurse and she was a gold digger who had already been around the block twice with a vacationing foreigner. The rest were hard to pin down online. I found most women online in the 4 to 6.5 range. 6.5 to me is a ugly face but with a perfect body or average face with some cleavage and charismatic smile and personality or a quite attractive face (but not technically hot yet) but very skinny and no breasts at all. The scammer milf girl i posted in the scam section is what i would rate a "7". I doubt you found a girl off the dating site that was that hot for free that didn't have kids (unless she kept it a secret). I mean you can of course but you seem to have found at least a couple rather fast which is surprising. But maybe cause you were in teh country and are so young and good looking they made an exception. For the average foreigner getting even one to show up that attractive even as a milf or scammer is tough. even the scammers and milfs can flake out.

Like I've posted before, I am a young looking guy, as young looking as most of the girls I date (early 20s), so girls that would respond to me would be different than ones who would respond to a much older looking guy. When I go out with these girls, I legitimately look like their boyfriend rather than like their dad.I do have to filter through a lot of girls online to find somewhat attractive ones. I would say I find one 6+ girl out of every eight profiles that I look at.

I disagree with you on your rating system, the top tier Asian beauties you see on TV and magazines tend to be a girl with a beautiful face but slender with small boobs and butt. Most Asian models would fit this profile, and they are definitely higher than 6.5. The most beautiful girl I've dated here also fits this profile: she has that slender stick figure. But she's won beauty prizes that would put her in the top 1% in looks despite not having much in terms of boobs and ass, but common sense would dictate that she is definitely much higher than a 6.5. On the otherhand, any girl with an ugly face would automatic be a <4 for me no matter what her body looks like. This is Asia after all, the hotter girls I've been with would look like what you see on ASIAN media, and not western media.

[MrBlueLight]

Just looked at the HB7 scammer milf picture you posted. Yeah, I would say half of the girls I've been with would be at that level of looks. Two of them are single moms though, but they are still pretty hot.

Also like what I posted in the other threads, the only money girls I've seen ever asked from me was taxi money. But I am also very good at recognizing scammers before I am even close to meeting them. For example, here is an actual exchange:
Her: "I am out of load. Can you buy me load so I can cancel my other plans to come see you?"
Me: "I have a better idea. How about you buy me a car so I can come pick you up"

Even with taxi money, I never give them money to come to me. The two times that I gave taxi money (to the same girl) were to send her away. Like I said, I look the same age as the girls, so I think they put young guys like me in a different mindframe and do not see me as the provider type. I would say that I could pass as a hip local boy type. Maybe if you can look like a hip local boy too, they could stop seeing you as a provider.

I know this because one of the girls that I slept with last week tried to ask me for money through text at first. It turns out she thought I was another online guy with the same name. When she learned that I wasn't that guy, she rescinded that request and wanted to meet me for a normal date, telling me that "I am not like the other guys online". The only money I ended up spending on her was buying her a cup of coffee, and had sex with her two hours after meeting her. I am definitely not like the other guys online

[pete98146]

I found 7 or higher very rare on dating sites. The only ones who were willing to talk to me were naive college students who probably would never get around to meeting me and often dissapeared online after awhile or Single mothers or scammers or freelance hoes. The only exception was a nurse and she was a gold digger who had already been around the block twice with a vacationing foreigner. The rest were hard to pin down online. I found most women online in the 4 to 6.5 range. 6.5 to me is a ugly face but with a perfect body or average face with some cleavage and charismatic smile and personality or a quite attractive face (but not technically hot yet) but very skinny and no breasts at all. The scammer milf girl i posted in the scam section is what i would rate a "7". I doubt you found a girl off the dating site that was that hot for free that didn't have kids (unless she kept it a secret). I mean you can of course but you seem to have found at least a couple rather fast which is surprising. But maybe cause you were in teh country and are so young and good looking they made an exception. For the average foreigner getting even one to show up that attractive even as a milf or scammer is tough. even the scammers and milfs can flake out.

You bring up an interesting point. A few of us have been able to do exactly what you are doubting here ie find a smart, VERY pretty, unmarried lady online to marry. I often wonder if I could duplicate my success if I had to try again today. My guess is that I could...with relative ease.

How would I do it? Same way I did it before. Best example that I can provide is that I was a sniper. I was extremely patient, looked thru my scope for exactly the target that I was seeking and bagged her. But make no mistake, my target was pinpointed. I was not out interacting with 4, 5 and 6s. I had no interest in approaching average ladies because it's a waste of time and money. Again, I was looking for a wife and I'm convinced many of you on here aren't.

Once I located her in my scope, I chatted everyday for 6 months and then I went to visit only her. Hey maybe I got lucky!!!!! But I'd bet good money I could do it again if I had to.

[MrBlueLight]

I agree with a Sniper method.

Assuming there are 1000 active Filipina in the area on the dating site.
150 of those are going to be 6+, so I only message those.
80 of those will respond.
I get prolonged chat with 40 of these, get their number and whatever
15 would agree to meet
I would have sex with 10 of those I met.

Just a rough estimate. But that's where I am at. Totally doable.

[Ghost]

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[WorldTraveler]

There were SOME models and a beauty queen, the majority were 6-7. The models were 7 too because that is the attractiveness of Filipina models is about a 7. The one beauty queen is the only one who gets an 8. So yes, I stay true to my words: I date mostly 6-7 and some of these are models who made jaws drop. Because you should know that a Filipina 7 would be at the top 5% in looks and a Filipina 8 would be top 1%. Most Filipina would be below 5.

I would agree that a 7 is only about 5% of the girls in the Philippines. I agree 100% that an 8 is only 1% of the girls at the best. What dating site are you using to find these girls? Do you have any male friends or know any expats in the Philippines?

To reiterate chanta id like to see the pictures of these women myself.
Im pretty strict on my standards BUT they are not ridiculous i give a pretty reasonable expectation.
I found 7 or higher very rare on dating sites. The only ones who were willing to talk to me were naive college students who probably would never get around to meeting me and often dissapeared online after awhile or Single mothers or scammers or freelance hoes. The only exception was a nurse and she was a gold digger who had already been around the block twice with a vacationing foreigner. The rest were hard to pin down online. I found most women online in the 4 to 6.5 range. 6.5 to me is a ugly face but with a perfect body or average face with some cleavage and charismatic smile and personality or a quite attractive face (but not technically hot yet) but very skinny and no breasts at all. The scammer milf girl i posted in the scam section is what i would rate a "7". I doubt you found a girl off the dating site that was that hot for free that didn't have kids (unless she kept it a secret). I mean you can of course but you seem to have found at least a couple rather fast which is surprising. But maybe cause you were in teh country and are so young and good looking they made an exception. For the average foreigner getting even one to show up that attractive even as a milf or scammer is tough. even the scammers and milfs can flake out.

Where is the link to the scammer 7?

I've never done any online dating in Phil but did set up an account on Cherry Blossoms to check out the talent. I found that only 1 in 200 was really attractive. I've also heard that many girls don't look as good as their pictures. I believe the most attractive girls don’t have to waste time on dating sites unless they are looking for sponsors. I’d guess that most of real good looking ones that interested in men, have children and they are not telling you.

http://www.loveme.com/mp/info36.htm

Girls that pose like this are “models” or ex-bar girls. I think it is real questionable what kind of modeling they are doing. No nice girl in the Philippines wears a bikini. They swim in shorts and T-shirts. I also don’t believe there are many virgins in the Philippines. If they are having sex with you on first meeting or second date, they are have sex with many other guys too. Their goal is to make you feel you are feel special, but you are not. They tell you they like you because your young, but tell an older guy they like him because he's more mature and not a young player!

[Array9]

I've never done any online dating in Phil but did set up an account on Cherry Blossoms to check out the talent. I found that only 1 in 200 was really attractive. I've also heard that many girls don't look as good as their pictures. I believe the most attractive girls don’t have to waste time on dating sites unless they are looking for sponsors. I’d guess that most of real good looking ones that interested in men, have children and they are not telling you.

http://www.loveme.com/mp/info36.htm

Girls that pose like this are “models” or ex-bar girls. I think it is real questionable what kind of modeling they are doing. No nice girl in the Philippines wears a bikini. They swim in shorts and T-shirts. I also don’t believe there are many virgins in the Philippines. If they are having sex with you on first meeting or second date, they are have sex with many other guys too. Their goal is to make you feel you are feel special, but you are not. They tell you they like you because your young, but tell an older guy they like him because he's more mature and not a young player!

These are very good observations WT. A conservative filipina would never wear a bikini in public. There is also a good chance that if she is covering her lower regions by wearing shorts, then she is a virgin.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I found 7 or higher very rare on dating sites. The only ones who were willing to talk to me were naive college students who probably would never get around to meeting me and often dissapeared online after awhile or Single mothers or scammers or freelance hoes. The only exception was a nurse and she was a gold digger who had already been around the block twice with a vacationing foreigner. The rest were hard to pin down online. I found most women online in the 4 to 6.5 range. 6.5 to me is a ugly face but with a perfect body or average face with some cleavage and charismatic smile and personality or a quite attractive face (but not technically hot yet) but very skinny and no breasts at all. The scammer milf girl i posted in the scam section is what i would rate a "7". I doubt you found a girl off the dating site that was that hot for free that didn't have kids (unless she kept it a secret). I mean you can of course but you seem to have found at least a couple rather fast which is surprising. But maybe cause you were in teh country and are so young and good looking they made an exception. For the average foreigner getting even one to show up that attractive even as a milf or scammer is tough. even the scammers and milfs can flake out.

You bring up an interesting point. A few of us have been able to do exactly what you are doubting here ie find a smart, VERY pretty, unmarried lady online to marry. I often wonder if I could duplicate my success if I had to try again today. My guess is that I could...with relative ease.

How would I do it? Same way I did it before. Best example that I can provide is that I was a sniper. I was extremely patient, looked thru my scope for exactly the target that I was seeking and bagged her. But make no mistake, my target was pinpointed. I was not out interacting with 4, 5 and 6s. I had no interest in approaching average ladies because it's a waste of time and money. Again, I was looking for a wife and I'm convinced many of you on here aren't.

Once I located her in my scope, I chatted everyday for 6 months and then I went to visit only her. Hey maybe I got lucky!!!!! But I'd bet good money I could do it again if I had to.

I agree with you that my approach, will n downds, and most guys is all wrong. Whats going on is were just picking the first girl that is willing to meet us etc.. thats why next time i travel abroad im not even gonna make women my only focus. Im finding out that if you wind up making it a vacation based on plopping in your hotel and having lots of sex with one woman all day well that can set you up for a recipe of disaster. The different approach im starting to think is go to these places for tourism and meet women in a tourist guide aspect with less emphasis on just women only and just have fun seeing places and not stay there for too many months or look for a woman slowly and take your time.

[newlifeinphilippines]

To reiterate chanta id like to see the pictures of these women myself.

Im pretty strict on my standards BUT they are not ridiculous i give a pretty reasonable expectation.


I found 7 or higher very rare on dating sites. The only ones who were willing to talk to me were naive college students who probably would never get around to meeting me and often dissapeared online after awhile or Single mothers or scammers or freelance hoes. The only exception was a nurse and she was a gold digger who had already been around the block twice with a vacationing foreigner. The rest were hard to pin down online. I found most women online in the 4 to 6.5 range. 6.5 to me is a ugly face but with a perfect body or average face with some cleavage and charismatic smile and personality or a quite attractive face (but not technically hot yet) but very skinny and no breasts at all. The scammer milf girl i posted in the scam section is what i would rate a "7". I doubt you found a girl off the dating site that was that hot for free that didn't have kids (unless she kept it a secret). I mean you can of course but you seem to have found at least a couple rather fast which is surprising. But maybe cause you were in teh country and are so young and good looking they made an exception. For the average foreigner getting even one to show up that attractive even as a milf or scammer is tough. even the scammers and milfs can flake out.

Like I've posted before, I am a young looking guy, as young looking as most of the girls I date (early 20s), so girls that would respond to me would be different than ones who would respond to a much older looking guy. When I go out with these girls, I legitimately look like their boyfriend rather than like their dad.I do have to filter through a lot of girls online to find somewhat attractive ones. I would say I find one 6+ girl out of every eight profiles that I look at.

I disagree with you on your rating system, the top tier Asian beauties you see on TV and magazines tend to be a girl with a beautiful face but slender with small breasts and butt. Most Asian models would fit this profile, and they are definitely higher than 6.5. The most beautiful girl I've dated here also fits this profile: she has that slender stick figure. But she's won beauty prizes that would put her in the top 1% in looks despite not having much in terms of breasts and a**, but common sense would dictate that she is definitely much higher than a 6.5. On the otherhand, any girl with an ugly face would automatic be a <4 for me no matter what her body looks like. This is Asia after all, the hotter girls I've been with would look like what you see on ASIAN media, and not western media.

I think since your young AND good looking you have an edge but my point was most girls are flakes and most are ugly online
Im not so sure its your looks that is changing the dynamic to begin with.Im 32 but look 20's (can't grow a beard or even a full goatee so i must have some asian genetics somewhere even though im full white lol) so youth is not the issue. But im ugly also. not even a 5.


From what i could tell there just isn't that many hot girls on the dating site once you get them on cam. a nd often they have an excuse why they can't meet (busy school, work, sto answering texts, too late, etc). and before you come to the country they come and go never really lookign that interested in any. only the ugly ones are persistent.




Im suspecting its location. Your in Manila where alot of the hotter girls go cause they tend to have money and family support. Plus there is just that many more women to choose from cause of sheer population size. I was in a big metro area too but i suspect manila is where all the hotties.

Also i think a lot of foreigners are afraid of manila cause of the crime and cause its so expensive. So i think those 2 combinations may mean manila is the best ofr getting women (that or rinky dink davao). I bet will n dowd would clean up in manila.


Now i know why rock likes manila cause no other foreigners (compared to population) are there and he has them all to himself.




Ive surpassed you in my small dating online experience as far as the full package cause there cause nurse girl who I haven't posted a picture was about a 7 and 21 none were persisten like her that were about a 7 or higher. she was even white skinned and educated which is even higher than your caliber of girl (looks plus youth plus education). i didn't score but i sabatoged it but the point is she met me twice first time i sent her home crying but she still met me again 3 months later.

[newlifeinphilippines]

Just looked at the HB7 scammer milf picture you posted. Yeah, I would say half of the girls I've been with would be at that level of looks. Two of them are single moms though, but they are still pretty hot.

Also like what I posted in the other threads, the only money girls I've seen ever asked from me was taxi money. But I am also very good at recognizing scammers before I am even close to meeting them. For example, here is an actual exchange:
Her: "I am out of load. Can you buy me load so I can cancel my other plans to come see you?"
Me: "I have a better idea. How about you buy me a car so I can come pick you up"

Even with taxi money, I never give them money to come to me. The two times that I gave taxi money (to the same girl) were to send her away. Like I said, I look the same age as the girls, so I think they put young guys like me in a different mindframe and do not see me as the provider type. I would say that I could pass as a hip local boy type. Maybe if you can look like a hip local boy too, they could stop seeing you as a provider.

I know this because one of the girls that I slept with last week tried to ask me for money through text at first. It turns out she thought I was another online guy with the same name. When she learned that I wasn't that guy, she rescinded that request and wanted to meet me for a normal date, telling me that "I am not like the other guys online". The only money I ended up spending on her was buying her a cup of coffee, and had sex with her two hours after meeting her. I am definitely not like the other guys online

Your posts are brutally honest but a reminder to many of us that most filipinas really dont love sex with most of us they just love our money.

[hammanta]

I agree with you that my approach, will n downds, and most guys is all wrong. Whats going on is were just picking the first girl that is willing to meet us etc.. thats why next time i travel abroad im not even gonna make women my only focus. Im finding out that if you wind up making it a vacation based on plopping in your hotel and having lots of sex with one woman all day well that can set you up for a recipe of disaster. The different approach im starting to think is go to these places for tourism and meet women in a tourist guide aspect with less emphasis on just women only and just have fun seeing places and not stay there for too many months or look for a woman slowly and take your time.

This, this is what I've been saying. If you can loosen up some, enjoy the fact that you are abroad, and not put women on some pedestal, you will be amazed by how much differently you see an area. My most disappointed trips have been the one's where I was so strung up on getting laid 24/7. I realize for many sex is pretty much the reason they go abroad. But from my experience, it gets easier when you don't try as hard and just go with things.

[MrBlueLight]

For me, I would rather meet girls all day then spending money going to tourist traps. People are far more interesting than places.

[MrBlueLight]

WorldTraveller: I don't care what these girls tell me because it doesn't affect me. I just assume that they are liars to begin with. All it matters to me is that they are willingly having sex with me without asking anything in return.

Newlife: Surpass me in what? My main girl is a legit HB8 beauty queen, and I have pounded her many time already and will continue to do so until the wheel falls off. I was just referring to that the general attractiveness of the girls that I see are about the same level as that scammer milf, some a little bit more attractive and some a little bit less. The HB8 would be significantly more attractive that that scammer milf. I love going out with her and watch everyone's head turns and guys staring at me with an envious and angry looks, like I stole something from their country.

Ghost: You are pathetic, advocating P4P? Why should I pay girls if I can get it for free, and still have a loaded bank account? I think some of the older guys are just jealous that other guys get for free what they paid for.